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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too much sex, I'm tired & my fiance doesn't understand!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Me and my fiancé had sex three times a day for 6 months straight (with no breaks)!! Eventually she wore me out and I needed a little break from it. A week later I haven’t even touched her in that time. When we going to bed my fiancé went bathroom brush her teeth. She came back ... (125 words)

Friends afraid I'll put boyfriend before them

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 15 and i've been dating my boyfriend 4 3 months now and he took my virginity about 4 days ago now that is not my problem my problem is now my friends think i am going to change and they say im not going 2 b around them as much they think that i will put my boyfriend ... (106 words)

Is it love actually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - First i would like to say i have been looking at this site and i only chose it because the answers people give are always polite, not like some other sites where people are rude anyway. MY question is, i went on a date with my boyfriend yesterday and he kept kissing my foreh... (81 words)

Why will women not date me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age - why will women not date a leg amputee like me im 49 average looking and financially stable and treat them like a princess? thanks... (24 words)

How should I react if I run into my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! My ex had commitment issues and couldn't handle our relationship. He asked to still be friends but he only wanted a friends with benefits deal, which made me angry. So after that, whenever he called or texted me, I didnt reply.I have given him so many chances in ... (131 words)

Always horny but then feel guilty

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi., ok well im always horny. i masterbate but its never enuf. touching myself anywhere else dusnt help, and it really bugs me. also, it helps when i look at porn but i always feel guilty after doing that. plz help me, thanks.... (46 words)

How to resolve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i just posted the other one, look, anyway, i just told her about it, god i wanna kill myslef, i don't deserve to live. she says she won't break up with me and that i gave her a chance when she hurt me and she said she won't tell her parents. god i hope she doesn't, i don't ... (118 words)

How to get my husband to loosen up and enjoy sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I will soon be getting married to a Ugandan man, and our relationship is wonderful. I sometimes worry that he will be very withheld during sex and will be very conservative. He was raised in Uganda, basically as one of those kids you'd hear about in a "Save the Children" in... (229 words)

My fiance wants a civil partnership and I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 25 and my fiance's 26. We've been engaged for a year now, and everything in our life is pretty much good - we're well-liked, in good jobs and earning a decent amount to live on. We've had arguments like any couple have, and they've resolved themselves usually but... ... (220 words)

My sister is dating my Wife's Ex and its killing me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - WIFE's EX (EXCELLENT) LOVER NOW FUTURE BROTHER IN-in-LAW Sis and I are close; only 2 years apart. Last year, Sis started grad school and met this great guy, she told me. Sis beamed after each date with him, and enthusiastically said he was the absolutely best lover she e... (650 words)

I love my g/f but I'm having phone sex! Do I tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 17 years old and so is my girlfriend. i love her but i kept talking to other girls and saying they're my wife and girlfriend and another i was having phone sex with and my door wasn't closed and i was over the covers. and my mom walked in on me and caught me while i was ... (317 words)

I'm being patient but he's still hesitant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so here is my problem. I hung out with this guy who we both connected on an unbelievable level. I know for absolute fact he is in to me so this is not a question of that. We where so in to each other that even though it was our first time out together we ended up having a ... (266 words)

Resolution Number 1 Equals The End of The Affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Well, I've gone and done it. I've put an end to my affair. Full stop. Thanks for help Dear Cupids. Your advice and guidance have given me strength to resolve my feelings (or, at least, make a start). Resolve not revolve. Finished going round in circles. The new question: W... (458 words)

How can I give him a wake up call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i love m bf we r plannig to get a house together but i see problems we dont get to spend alot of time together i no that he needs to work n he has 2 kids every other day for a couple of hours but now he does basketball after work n talking about going gym n playing rugby again ... (229 words)

How do I get over this guy I've been in love with 5 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - HEy you guys!!!its lotmoney13 Well i have this thought that it would be nice to start off the new year NOT being in a heart-ache! so yeah i'm still in love with HIM, but i'd really like to move on now! So i'm asking for advice on how to get over a guy......that i've bee... (70 words)

Why did he do this terrible things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me list what what my ex did to me 2 months after the break up (he convinced me to start talking to him again after a personal tragedy. For the next two months (4 months after the break up): Txted about how something reminded him of me Txted pictures of him and I fr... (525 words)

I feel used and ignored because he never bothers to call or text...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend that I've known for 7 months. We work together and we play together. He and i (or so i thought) became real close. We practically go out 4-5 times a week. I even met his mom and she loved me. He is going through a painful divorce (no kids) and i know his life ... (280 words)

Am I wasting my time asking this guy over or should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello to everyone and happy new year!! Ok aunts yes it's me again. Heres the situation. The guy that I had talked about before is driving me crazy.Last week he called me quite a few times 4 times christmas eve and yesterday he called 3 we talked about 4 hours total ... (617 words)

Problems with intimacy... has anyone else dealt with this and what did they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello All! Well i'm just looking for advice, but please don't suggest that I end it as that is not an option that I want. Well I have been with my boyfried for just over a year and it hasnt always been plain sailing, when we first met he had just left his wife b... (277 words)

Happy New Year to all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age - Happy New Year to all those who post on here, aunts or otherwise. May this year bring us all love, luck and happiness, and if not then enough alcohol so we don't care :)))))). Love and blessings to you all, Deema.... (43 words)

What sort of physique do girls like in a boyfriend?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, happy new year. I want to know this from girls. Girls, what sort of physique u like in ur bf? Tall, short, fat, skinny, muscular, anything. Feel free to give me ideas on wot u actually look for. Thanks. Pls. ... (41 words)

Should I keep things the way they are?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I am gay asia man. Dating with the white guy and both of us love each other.. One thing is he is not out yet to his family and friend... Several situation between us.. I am still love and be with him... What do I need to do ? just keep that way .?... (67 words)

Why do nice girls fancy jerks?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5262 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do nice girls fancy jerks? why do jerks types guys keeping getting girlfreinds.girls never see thsese guys as freind material,thses guys can have girl as girlfreind whenever they choose girls never say no when asking them out either.then they boost about then for a few m... (202 words)

Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys mind it if their gfs wear padded bras to make their breasts look bigger when going out? Like there are certain bras and tops I can wear that make my boobs look much bigger than they actually are. My bf knows my size of course but I'm just wondering if he would like it ... (71 words)

My friend tells me that guys can tell if you're a virgin, is this true?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - On Saturday I lost my virginity to a guy who is very sexually experienced. I'd heard that going on top was best if it was your first time, so thats what I thought I'd do. Anyway, it kinda really went wrong (an embarassing moment, he musta thought what the hell is she doin... (114 words)

My girlfriend is in love with her ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Alright, here's what's going on... My GF and I have been going out for a while now, and she just told me that shes still in love with one of her ex's and she cant be with him (he lives far away) I asked her this morning if she still loves him and what about me and she says"I ... (108 words)

Help! I'm stuck between 2 guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My problem is very long, I apologise in advance. Basicaly I'm stuck between 2 guys. Guy A I met about a year and a half ago, when I was 14 (and so was he). After a while, about the end of august, we decided to go out. As most couples are at 14, things were a little awkward ... (1222 words)

My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance is scaring me and making me think he might be gay or bi sexual. Here are the reasons: 1. He confessed to me that when he was in middle school he gaved a kiss to a guy because he was curious, confused etc but nothing else happened and he realized he liked girls. ... (386 words)

Candy cane fun and worries.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I have this friend. She wanted to play a harmless joke on some of the teachers at my school. So before christmas break she left different male teachers candy canes in their lockers asking were they naughty or nice? It was funny at first but now as I think of it I really ... (109 words)

How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing my girlfriend for nearly a ... (962 words)

I said I was having nothing more to do with men and now this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Got a bit of a problem and I really don't know what to do so really need advice. I'm originally from Scotland moved down to London about 2 years ago to go to university. I recently started dating a new guy I met at university and we've been going out for about a month - ... (451 words)

Do best friends really have that cheesy happy ending?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm nineteen and I've had my fair-share of boyfriends. Mostly bad, as I've only had one boyfriend that lasted more than a year. The other night, my most recent ex and I broke up and as usual, I went straight to my best friend of seven years (whom is a guy) with all my tears ... (244 words)

My wife will not forgive and forget an event from 22 years ago!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for 20 years and have two kids 11+14. We have been faithful to each other throughout and have worked hard at the ups and downs of marriage. I want more physical stuff My wife wants more emotional stuff We both find it hard to give the other ... (695 words)

Are these red flags in our relationship? Advice please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm a 26 y.o male in a relationship with a 27y.o girl, who I've known since I was 17. We went out for 3 years then met up again 11 months ago (the split was due to me traveling abroad). I was delighted when we ran into each other again and found the passion was still th... (294 words)

Teacher gives me longing glances...does it mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Guys. I just want to say thanks to all of those who answered my previous questions. Some of your answers were harsh and even a little bitchy, but i get why you were trying to show me the real life of my situation. I havent done anything crazy or desperate to try to seduce ... (184 words)

Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help. yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem. I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while I was on myspace a boy added m... (238 words)

She tell me I'm not in her life plan but I love her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - what do i do when the person i love tells me i am not in her life plan. we have not been together for over a year, however, we remain in contact and i saw her very recently. i asked if she still loved me she said in a different way and not in love with me, but i saw in her eyes ... (207 words)

Any way to prevent discharge during sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5008 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My question is a bit of an embarassing one but its something I don't really have the guts to discuss with anyone I know! lol Well..I dont really get much vaginal discharge in day-to-day life but when it comes to having sex, my boyfriends dick gets covered in it and things te... (144 words)

Why do the bad guys always win?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - why do some people who are nasty and cold and who have inflated egos with good looks get every thing? some like who is nice,quiet,hard working get nothing in life only disappointment and rejection and failure. why do do bullies and meanies get every thing right and victim... (500 words)

He wants to see if he misses me will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 6 years decided he needed time apart. He wasn't treating me that well lately an was turning small meaningless arguments into big scandals. We have had problems in our relationship, which is normal for every couple, but I was always the one who acted more calmly, ... (336 words)

I've never had a boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - is 30 years of age, I feel old because i never had any thing.i,ll never get married i never had boyfriend no body would bother with me. I'm really discouraged about all of this!... (34 words)

WHAT am I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I think I'm sick. I like guys, as in I will check out cute, good looking guys and think of how is it like if I have a boyfriend but I get aroused when I see nude girls, or girls making out. Even when I touch my self. And in the past when a guy confessed to me, I will freak out ... (74 words)

He says if I don't have sex he's "outta here!"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - This is kind of long so please bare with me as i really need some advice! im in a sexual relationship with (fred) and we have a child 2gether. i care for him more than anything. we have been in this open relationship for over 4 years. with xmas and looking for a job and money ... (165 words)

I'm not sure if he likes me beyond sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been seeing my next door neighbour for nearly six months now. He stays at mine most nights, and we sometimes have sex however her never kisses me and he really isn't intimate at all outside of the bedroom. Its almost like he doesn't find me attractive. I can't work out ... (104 words)

He acts different to me when his friends are around

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and a bit now and i cant stand to be away from him. As i have been banned from seeing him this makes it all worse. I get to see him only at school and right now its in the holidays and im going through hell. I miss him so ... (112 words)

Everyone tells me I shouldn't be with him...but I love him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are having a really bad time at the moment, we have been together for a year and a half, this has been a rocky relationship from the begining but is getting worse. He is having problems with his ex over his daughter and she has stopped him seeing her, this ... (332 words)

My guy had incident 3 years ago now worried he's infertile but won't go to the doc!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a 24 year old Boyfriend who is forever worried that he is infertile because he was assaulted and hit in the testicles 3 years back. He somehow believes his balls got "crushed" during the whole thing, Apparently one guy took his balls in his hand and squeezed very hard. ... (146 words)

Do I be brave and make the first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I know this sounds weird but I'm shy and need help with this. I like this guy at work and I never told anyone. And I was told that he liked me (and I believe them- just through little things at work- he was my secret santa and i saw him going red when he pulled the name... (149 words)

I don't know about oral sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, I have been with this guy for a few months and he wants to go a bit further with oral stuff etc. the thing is I have never let a guy go down on me before and I don't know what to expect and what do you do once he has finished.... (53 words)

How long should I leave it before telling my ex I have someone new?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to know peoples opinion, especially males on what is a good amount of time to make it known that you are dating someone new, if you broke up with someone and remain friends with them. I don't want to hurt this person, but I want to move on. So what ever your ... (126 words)

We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came out???... (48 words)

Is my cousin in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Im 14years old,and I have a 16year old cousin,a boy.When we were little as a usual bunch of kids he'd tease me,laugh at me,and make me cry.When I grew older,I've noticed he started acting different towards me.He began giving me hugs,and saying how much he missed me,coz I was ... (147 words)

Why do people believe - or not believe - in God?

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im just curious here, I wanna hear from people who are and are not in anyway, religious. To the folk who to believe there's a god, why do you believe so? A personal miracle happened to you, or some sort of experience that has made you believe? Or were you just brought up to ... (94 words)

Could she be lying to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - hey well im a guy and im just here cause im concerned my gf is lying to me and i need help.. theres this guy that was her friend she denies it saying she hated him! and couldnt stand him..i saw her photobucket and she has pictures of him and her eating together at subway..... (120 words)

He didn't text me for 4 hours! Am I wrong to be hurt by this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having a long distance relationship with a guy for just over a year and I felt as if I liked him more than he liked me.... So I asked him and he said that could be true, that was about a week ago and everything's been fine recently. By that I mean we text each other ... (132 words)

Big Social Complex: is there any hope for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it is. I am 19 and I hav a big problem. I have a very big social complex. I have been to everything from therapists to the Bible. I have even been recently saved about three weeks ago, because the pastor says that it may be a fight for my mind with the devil. I ... (225 words)

What do I do with these feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been married for 4.5 years and have a daughter that is almost a year old. My marriage has often been very rocky. We separated once and reconciled then became pregnant. Only recently has my husband truly started to turn into a man worth being married to. I loved him so much ... (358 words)

Should I confront her about my suspicions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girl for a few years and we've had our share of problems. Now just last month before the holiday she went to New York for a week to be with family. Now she's gone back for the holidays again but now I'm noticing she only contacts me during the day but at ... (162 words)

I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been helping me through them for the ... (437 words)

What did she mean by her message?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so i like this girl alot. she's the same age as me and we have a damn near every thing there is in common. but idk if she likes me. ive got a hint i think, i said somthing to her on myspace about how a one of my girlfriends dumped me cus i got drunk a few tinmes. and ... (182 words)

How can I make it up to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend, Sydney (of four years) is mad at me because I forgot her birthday (again I did it to her last year as well). This time she let me gave it and ended sleeping at a friend's house. To matters worse when I called her to apologize and ask her to come home I called her ... (99 words)

I'm so depressed in my marriage, I don't even want to wake up in the morning...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18yrs old and i just got married about 3 months ago. I find myself becoming more and more depressed, i dont even wanna wake up in the morning. I started feeling this way about 2months ago, its makes me wonder if its bc i wasnt ready to get married. I love my husband, but ... (211 words)

Is my penis size big enough?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm not quite a virgin and my penis is about 8 or 9 inches long and about 2 or 3 in girth. I'm just wondering if my penis size is big enough. the girl that I've last slept with was a virgin and when we first had intercourse it was a littlel painful for me and she was sore for ... (107 words)

Is there anything I can say to let our fire to continue to burn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5594 days ago

31 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months.I am 22 and she is nineteen.We have talked about marriage many times and both love the idea. In the beginning, she had no baggage whatsoever, but that changed as we traveled back and forth from school. The first six months ... (257 words)

A bit too close for comfort.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im a sorry that this is so long but it is really urgent and I could do with the help. Please take the time to read! I thought Id ask to see what people on here think I should do. There is this lad at school (lets call him Fred Flinstone) and he has a majour crush on ... (1612 words)

My boyfriend calls me derogatory names during sex. What does this mean?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a wonderful, sweet, caring, thoughtful man and we are planning a future together. We have only been together for a few months. He absolutely adores me and I do him as well. We have an incredible sex life but one thing confuses me... during sex he has on several ... (133 words)

Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after he moved in. I really don't ... (100 words)

Is this friendship in dangerous waters?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman who has been experiencing some turmoils in my relationship. I met this single man through work and we had an instant connection. He has been a wonderful listener of all my problems and I sense a strong interest from his side although he has never ... (88 words)

Trapped in my marriage and tempted to cheat again....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently seperated from my husband. We met when I was 17 years old, I got married to him at the age of twenty. I thought that I was mature enough to handle something like marriage. However three years later I am realizing that we are completely different. I have cheated ... (252 words)

Does he want to work things out or is it just the loneliness of the holidays?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i love my ex boyfriend with all my heart, he was my first love, and we left our relationship in July quite estranged, and abrupt. there wasn't much closure, the reasons for the break up wasn't due to any third party at all, just, circumstantial i think, he gave up a lot of his ... (502 words)

Should I expect a kiss? It's our first real date.

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone. I'm going on my first real date with my boyfriend of one week on thursday, we are going to a movie. should I expect a kiss? I've never been kissed before so I don't really know how. any tips? and I aslo need advice on what to wear and how to do my h... (87 words)

Bleeding after sex/masturbation?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all! Okay so I know I ask this question almost every time it happens, maybe its because I still question exactly why it happens. Anyways it seems everytime I masturbate by stimulating my clit or have sex, after I orgasm, wait a few hours until I have to go number 1, when I ... (215 words)

Can I say we are in a relationship already?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having a long distance friendship with a guy I met 2 years ago in a business delivery I made. He's military so he left soon after that. The weird part is that we met only 2 times but a click happened there. Since that meeting we've been in contact through emails. ... (192 words)

Should I stay with him and work things out?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well were do i start me and my ex was 2gther for seven months. we were also engaged for 5 of those months we have being having a few problems latley and all we seem to do is argue. then on christmas day he broke up with me. he said he didnt love me anymore. i tryed to talk ... (203 words)

Can someone tell me how to get over him?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a crush i hate him but i like everybody in my class thats a girl but ones a gossip and befor everybody ones how can i get over him he's nice but he "thinks" i'm evil but i just tease him and he terases me and he likes a girl i the class maybe if i know how it is ican ... (105 words)

Two 14 year olds + one ripped condom = one possible pregnancy?

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31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I am only 14yrs old me and my girlfriend had sex she is also 14 the condom ripped. So far she hasnt experienced any signs of pregnancy. my question is how long does it take her to start those signs if in fact she is pregnant? can anyone help me out?? ?how can me and her tell ... (76 words)

I'm pregnant, he's distant and I'm not sure if he's cheating!

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - OK, here's the story: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 8 months now and have been in a relationship for just over 5 years (much of which was during college and quite long distance). I've been really happy for the majority of the time - we don't really ... (373 words)

How normal is it for a girl to want sex often?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to know how normal it is for a girl to want sex often. i usually want sex at the very least once a week. but i like to have it once a day or sometimes more. sometimes i feel like i am not normal because of that. so i guess my question is...how many females are just... (64 words)

Considering going to a swingers club for my husband... is it a stupid idea?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused, been with my boyfriend for 3yrs off and on and he's been tryin to get me to meet a girl to have a 3 sum.he said it's his fantasy and that I should try it cuz maybe I will like it. I've never experienced it before and from me hearing it so much from him I actually am ... (129 words)

I don't believe that I love my daughter's father anymore!

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in my early 30’s and I have a one year old baby girl. She is the best thing that ever happened to us. The problem is that when I was eight months pregnant her father called me a spic, and when she was only eight days old I was kick-out of the house. And during the time he ... (231 words)

Do I still love my husband?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 15years. We have a 4 year old son, 12 year old daughter and we raised his stepdaughter wh is now 24 years old with two young boys. Though most of our marriage he has worked a lot and we seldom had a chance to spend much time with each other. Of course ... (538 words)

Does he want nothing more than friendship or...?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my best friend. His friendship means everything to me. We talked about us being together several times however he says he does not want to mess up what we have together. He thinks he is not good at relationships ... I kinda agree with that. We both have ... (109 words)

How old should I be before I have sex?

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31 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - how old do yall think i should be before sex?... (10 words)

I'm in love with my former science teacher...please help!!

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so about 3 years ago I moved from my hometown. It was the start of my eighth grade year. New friends, new achievements, and a new life. I had just lost my grandfather and my life was shattering right beforemy eyes. When I moved I was scared that I wouldn't be happy and my ... (736 words)

After our breakup, I want to return a gift he gave me a year ago - should I?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, my ex broke up with me a second time. He broke up with me because I guess he lost that feeling to care about me anymore. Don't get me wrong but, I gave him everything and gave him space. I treated him like a kind and I was very kind to him. He didn't do crap for me except ... (239 words)

I feel dirty and bad about myself just thinking about sex and oral - is this normal?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel really dirty and bad about myself at the thought of giving a guy head or even having sex. Is this normal and what can I do to stop feeling this way?...... (33 words)

Am I being too clingy after we've broken up?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted before about the problem about my relationship. I had a fight with my boyfriend and texted that I want to end the relationship with him because of anger. Surprisingly, he texted back okay and we haven't texted/talked ever since. But from the advice here, I decided ... (186 words)

Is this stain in my underwear me starting my period?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - its the second day now and i have brownish stains in my underwear and at first i thought it was crap but then it happened again and then i thought that i might be having my period. i do have pubic hair and ive noticed arm pit hair sooo yea.=/ i have been having really bad c... (79 words)

What is he thinking?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks now..met him online. I still haven't met him in person. He's a great guy..but the whole online thing.. hmmm I'm giving it a few days. I guess it all comes down to him asking, when, and when am I going to see you? He's ready for a ... (138 words)

Is this relationship too risky?

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31 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 5 years younger,and his son 10 years older. I'm only 23 and he is 53. Is it going to work on the long run? Can we have plan to have babies ? He has grand children.. Right now ,he can still have sex, but I heard ,man los... (152 words)

How can I get my husband to be more affectionate?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i only been married for 6 months, before we were married we use to cuddle all the time, and have sex alot, now i barley can get him to kiss me or even hold my hand, once in a while we cuddle when we are watching a movie, he at least kisses me goodnite and when ... (99 words)

Thank you for all the advice

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - just like to say a big thank you to all the aunts and uncles who have given me good advice,bad advice,labelled me even accused me in the years i have written my problems.as 2008 draws to a close and its been a horrible year in ever aspect of my life,the worst being rejected by ... (131 words)

Bent penis is it a problem?

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31 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi my penis leans a little to my left when it gets hard and im not circumcised and my skin is not at the centre of my head i have a lil trouble peeing when in hot bt its nt dat bad, so what u all tink... (47 words)

B/f no more sex he's afraid of pregnancy!

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - So, basically, I have been with my boyfriend for five months now, and we've been having sex for about 3 months. We have always been safe and responsible, using condoms as protection. However, recently, I considered going on the conraceptive pill as well to be extra safe. I read ... (220 words)

Worried about my son on drugs..how can I have a life?

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31 December 2008 (F) age - How can I help my drug addict son? What ,if he never going to stop? How can I keep my sanity?He is making bad choices, and brakes my heart,when he is hurting. So every time ,he goes down on the same road, I'm there with him, so my life is never happy , because I can't enjoy it... (111 words)

How can I spend one night with my boyfriend?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! im new to this so sorry if it sounds wired. Iv a small problem.I really love my boyfriend of 7 months now and more than anything in the world I would so love to sleep with him for one night and wake up with him their. Not even for us to do anything just be with each other. ... (107 words)

I don't trust her now

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31 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm Hurrycanger. I'm kind alike you, boy. A bit different : I knew her online. For some months, now I call her "wife" and she calls me "husband". Sound kinda happy. But, I'm jealous everytime, + I can't trust her that much. She said she had a best friend, and she showed me a ... (144 words)

Fiance having sex with other guys won't admit it!

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do if I know my fiance is having sex with other guys but he won't admit it to me???... (22 words)

He's not replying to my texts, am I wasting my time here?

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31 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all , I have been speaking to the same boy on the internet for like 3-4 months but haven't met him. I know he's not a perv or anything as I have spoken to him on the phone and I know his little cousin. I have strong feelings for him and I think I love him but I feel stupid a... (132 words)