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Men: the ideal body size for a woman?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Just was wondering do men really like woman that are skinny or do they like woman with some meat on there bones? Whats the ideal body size of a woman that men think is sexy.... (35 words

I had sex with my close friend and now I have feelings for him!

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - long story, cut short. ive been close friends with this boy for around 7 months. we met on the level of liking each other, but just devloped in to close friends becuase he didnt think i liked him and i didnt dare make a move. ive always liked him deep down, and i told ... (252 words

I'm falling hard and I've not been in contact with him, but nothing can come of this, right?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have done something extremely stupid and now I don't really know what to do. A few months ago my mom died and I admit to being depressed, irrational and trying to find a fragment of myself. My friend got tired of me locking myself up in the house and took me out for drinks ... (367 words

I don't know what to do. Would it be selfish to tell him how I feel?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I feel rather daft asking a relationship question to the internet as oppose to my friends. When i was 13 ( I'm no 18) i met a boy at school, we quickly became best friends and couldn't be apart. We stayed out late very afternoon just talking, i could talk to him forever ... (401 words

As I get older I find that sex has changed a bit. Please tell me of your experiences.

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22 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Women please reply… As I get older I find that sex has changed a bit. One thing is that I don’t need to be in a relationship quite as long before considering and having sex. Do you find that to be true as well? How else has the experience of sex changed as you have go... (87 words

I'm very insecure because of my stretch marks since childbirth! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half... we're both definitely in love with eachother. there's just a few things that are really making us fight...Note i'm 18 years old... i have a 2 year old baby (yes i know i'm young) and after i had her i had a massive amount of ... (472 words

Is she real or not?

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22 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - hey, as you see i`m 14, i`v met a girl she also 14, i`v never had this in my life before, i added her on a chat program on my cell an we would chat for 7 hours stright! till 3am,an yeah i really like her, when i`m around her i bite my nails, an she weear sexy stuff, she tel... (225 words

My boyfriend is not demonstrative, should I cool it?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a problem with my boyfriend. We have been dating for two years now. I love him very much, but he does not show that he reciprocates that love. My boyfriend claims not to be very "verbal." I, on the other hand, like to call him and send him messages to let him know tha... (194 words

He is always talking about sex, is that all he wants?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while now and all he ever talks about is sex. Am 15 and he is 17. Yes I know its a pretty large age gap. On msn he always says to me Shona .... would you ever do anal n am like no n he always asks me stuff like that. I mean is it no... (87 words

Fallen for a teacher...

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I guess that as soon as you read the title you’ll think I’m some stupid little girl with a crush on her teacher and perhaps I am - it doesn’t feel like just a crush. It feels like so much more than that but I don’t use the word ‘love’ lightly. I don’t really know how to ... (361 words

Fallen for my math teacher?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey, you have probley heard of thousands of teenage girls saying this, and you are probley tired of it by now. Yet, i think i have fallen for my maths teacher. I'm 15 and I'm a year 11 student at a school in the UK. My maths teacher is 30 (so only 15 years different) and he's ... (719 words

What would guys rather have--babe or library type girl?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - are guys attracted to nice ,quiet ,shy ,innocent ,genuine ,safe,plain looking girls? would guys find girls like this boring because i am like this i am passed over for the babes who are loud,dress sexy and who are party girls. i want to be sexy ,gorgeous looking with g... (129 words

Sister is pregnant and says she always feels dirty bathing so many times a day

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi everyone! My older sister has a question to ask but she does not have the internet so I'm gonna ask for her. She is 5 months pregnant (on her fourth child) and has been having the worst pregnancy symptoms for the first time ever. One of her symptoms is the chronic ache of ... (143 words

Should I tell him I thought I was pregnant just to upset him

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I found out this guy was totally using me. He said all the right things. i believed him. He was my FIRST. he knew this. yet he did it anyway. He only wanted sex - even tho he told me he didn't. I also know that he is chatting with other girls - with one planning hook up... (589 words

What if you can't be together because of circumstance? What are the options?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - If you can't be with someone for the moment due to circumstance, what can you do? Give up? I don't want to go on with life always wondering "what if." But if you're both going your separate ways in just a year, what else can you do? Make a vow to meet up later in life? I doubt ... (61 words

Criteria to be in love with someone

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - What are good criteria to be in love with someone? Is it enough that this person is intelligent, and cares about things that are substantial? Is it enough that you have things in common with this person? What do you think?... (41 words

Ideas for what to make my girl for X-mas

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22 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I need some ideas for what to make the girl in my life something for christmas. I want to make something cuz she likes things like that. I was hoping something a little bigger ad better than a card. Last time i did something i made her a message saying im thinking of u that ... (82 words

Need advice! People tell me I'm doing the wrong thing

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and have just got out a relationship in the past month. Recently, I have been seeing someone new, but he's 10 years older than me and is currently going through a divorce. People keep telling me I'm doing the wrong thing and that I'm just going to end up hurt, but I want ... (75 words

Should I be accepting a gift like this?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I've known this guy for two wks. now. He's a great guy who is showing more and more interest with calls and text throughout the day. Overall, he makes time for me. Anyways, I know X-mas is just around the corner..he asks what I wanted? I said nothing. He asked again..So, I said ... (129 words

How do I get over bad trust issues?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Ok. This is a long one. I am a 20 year old girl, in a 2.5 relationship with my boyfriend. We have lived together for 10 months, and it has been going alright. I have severe trust issues, however I am working very hard on them. My boyfriend kissed another girl a year and a half ... (331 words

I shouldn't stay when he deserves to have someone who is in love with him, right?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay here it is .. basically me and my current boyfriend have been together (for two years on new years day..so comming up) ..around may i told him i wasn't in love with him any more ..after that i left,and did my own thing kinda ..and he said he was workin on change yada yada, ... (522 words

Does this seem like a one-sided relationship?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - is it bad when you were hanging out with someone for about a month or more, and you hung out at least once or twice a week...sometimes more and then you hang out once one week( being last week, monday-tuesday morning) and dont talk until today, which is like 6/7 days when ... (171 words

Christmas present ideas for an 18 year old boyfriend?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Christmas present idea for 18 year-old boyfriend? We've been dating for almost 1 year. I love him with all my heart and we hope to get marry one day after we get our degrees in universty (We are probably going to the same one). It's almost Christmas but I still don't know... (173 words

My boyfriend gets an erection every time we hug

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really often. By the way, we already ... (68 words

My husband wont give up either his mistress or me

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22 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I got married at an early age. We have 5 siblings. My husband is a good provider the only problem with him is he has another woman with kid already. I;m trying to talk to him to settle his problem. I asked him too choose whether I or her. He answered me back in ... (252 words

I miss my Dad and my sibs, but don't want to hurt my Mom by getting back in touch

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I know this has nothing to do with being boyfriend and girlfriend but I dnt knw what to do as I stopped seeing my biological father when I was 11 and am now 15 and I really do miss him. He has also got 2 of my brothers an one of my sisters living with him. I stopped seeing him ... (140 words

Boyfriend spending all his time playing poker!

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. Well about a week ago I had a family emergency and he took me to my families house so I could be with them. Later that night he texted me and said he was going out with a guy friend which I was fine with.Since that nite a ... (221 words

How to pleasure a girl without having sex?

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22 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?... (12 words

I'm in a band and my g/f doesn't approve of my onstage behaivor

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22 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - Hi, I need some help here. I recently broke up with my girlfriend (now ex) (we were together since I was 18 and I am now 20). I was pretty sad about the whole thing for a while and I moved to a large city from the small little town I grew up in. I met a stunning girl and we hit ... (268 words

My ex told me things she did and I'm really torn up about it

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22 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I broke up with a girl in May after dating for 2 years. We were done for 4 months and then things happened that made me think we were getting back together, but it really only lasted for 2 or 3 weeks before she called it off again. It's been about 2 months since that time. I ... (311 words

I think my relationship is ruined and I don't know how to fix it

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - i have a question I'm 23 and my boyfriend is 35 we have one baby(4months boy) together and i have another child(4yrs boy) with another man ... i love him soo much but its like he stop caring loving for me .. i cheated on him with my ex about almost 2yrs ago its like he hasn't ... (277 words

Girlfriend loves me not interest in sex

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22 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - hi my girlfriend loves me but has no interest in sex what can i do to solve it... (18 words

He told he dad we have sex and now the dad doesn't like me so much

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - A few weeks ago me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time (We were both virgins btw). when my period was due, it didn't come and I thought a was pregnant because I also had a few other symptoms. It was a silly thought because we used a condom and it didn't break or ... (143 words

What do skinny girls have over fat girls? Need guys opinion

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello ! Do Guys Actually Pay More Attention to Girls Looks ? 90% of men go for skinny girls with nice looks so guys answer one question what do skinny girls have what big girls dont ??... (37 words

Do I try to explain? Or just let it go?

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22 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - a few months ago started chatting to a lass online, we got on well and chatted for ages, had some problems in my life occur in this time and had too much going on in my head, so i tried to scare her away thinking i was obsessive, it worked she messaged me saying she didnt want ... (622 words

Do I stop all contact with my ex?

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22 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hello, I need some adise on whether or not I should cut contact with my ex, who I left a couple of weeks ago. Her ex wanted to get back together and she still had feelings for him and didn't know who she wanted to be with, so I ended it because I didn't want to be messed around ... (257 words

Counselor's advice professional? or what?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - sorry to bother you i'd like for advice to see is it right or not .maybe this sound i went a male counsllor he was helping with self esteem or so i thought ,i asked how would i get a boyfriend.this advice he gave me "a short skirt ,low cleavage top ,tons of make up, l... (85 words

Did he use me?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hello there i am a 16 year old girl and have been in many traumatic and emotional relationships even at this young age. with struggle i have allowed a new guy into my life which i vowed myself not to until next year so i could recooperate from the previous relationships. e... (323 words

Unprotected sex for just a minute-could I be pregnant?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I'm just a bit worried.. Last night me and my boyfriend had sex, and we were both drunk. At one point the condom split, but we replaced it with another one. And a bit later on, we had sex without protection - only for about a minute, and neither of us came. Was I ... (61 words

I wantto have sex with my cousin

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I am a 17yr old girl.My problem is that i love my cousin very much he is 26 yrs old.I want to make love with him.He is so handsome. He also knows my feelings for him. When ever i get a chance i watch him taking a bath.I really want him. My religon also allows for a marriage ... (93 words

Why are some girls treated like jerks and others like queens?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5137 days ago

22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - why do some guys treated some girls like dirt and others like queens? What's the difference? why do they hurt some girls feelings and not others. boys sensible answers no jerk like remarks needed!... (38 words

My fiance lied about getting a lap dance and now I don't trust him

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22 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Hi just found this site and wanted advice. I'm 35 and engaged and very happy...well until this weekend. The story may sound trivial but I am having a hard time dealing with it. We were at a Wedding my partner and the week before he had gone on a Stag party. He said that the... (504 words

Tired of being sad, how can I move on?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi,my problem is I'm heartbroken,and I want to get on with my life.I'm 15,female and I have feelings for my best friend who is also female.She is bi-sexual and only recently got a girl friend, they've broken up now because the girl was cheating.I told my best friend that I felt ... (289 words

Stop fiance from masturbating!

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - How can i get my fiance to stop masturbating because it affects our sex life. Either he can't finish which makes me feel horrible or he has no desire because he has already satisfied himself. We have talked about it and I don't get mad or angry with him but I let him know ... (99 words

In love with a man who is already married

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Dear friend i need some good advise from you all... I had make up my mind to leave a married man that i fall in love with.. Let me tell you this story. I met someone a year and a half and we get alone so well... After half year dating ,he confress he has one kids. but neve... (416 words

How do I stop my friend from loving this guy?

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22 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - one of my best friends recently told me that she is falling in love with a yr 13 guy at our school. she wants to tell him but she thinks he sorta knows already. their in the same house. the problem is she cant tell many people because there is this one girl whose brother got ... (150 words

Should I just suck it up and forgive him?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been married for 11 years and recently separated from my husband. We have 5 children together, the youngest is under 6 months old and was a total surprise. I already knew I wasn't happy and wasn't planning any more children at that point in our marriage. The pregnancy ... (764 words

I just really need to talk to my ex from 15 years ago.

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a 5 kids and recently split with husband. My ex is from 15 years ago. We were engaged etc. I left him not because I didn't love him or he love me that's for sure. It was because of a bad habit he had that I thought me leaving him might make him wake upto himself. It was ... (607 words

He's nice and all, but I am just not all that into him.

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, first of all i'll point out that I KNOW i've done something stupid, just so nobody else has to point it out. At the beginning of last year I started seeing a guy I really liked. It went on for 8 months, a few bumps along the way. We decided not to see each other anymore ... (224 words

Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i am out with the girls and i ... (150 words

How can I stop myself from letting these people make me feel bad about myself?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I’m a university student and I had a bit of a problem with some of the girls in that they bullied me a bit to get what they wanted because I wasn’t part of their gang. They didn’t get exactly what they wanted as other people stood up for me but they now blame me for the way ... (431 words

Confused - Pregnant wife, in love with another?

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22 December 2008 (? age 51-59 - My wife is pregnant after many years of trying (together over 10 years). We have not been getting on for some time, but tried to work through the issues and kept trying to get pregnant.... This year one of my close female friends and I admitted our feelings towards each other, ... (178 words

Going insane with narcissism?

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22 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Back in highschool I was in an on again off again relationship with a girl who I thought was perfect for me (minus a few social ideological issues) and because of my greater interest in that relationship I eventually was dumped for another guy... now this doesn't cause me great ... (339 words

How to get guys to see I'm not promiscuous.

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22 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - Okay, so I've just started going out on the gay scene a lot. During this time I've made a few observations. Gay clubs are not the best place to find a potential partner. Namely, because many people there are either looking for a hook-up or just out to have fun with friends. I'm ... (231 words

Why is it so unfair? Why do I get treated so badly?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - does any thinks this is unfair?? guys reject me and hate me all the time.The guys who reject me always find a NEW girlfriend and NEW JOB even if a few months! but me i get nothing only yet another broken and cold rejection and only good things happen to nasty people.bad... (136 words

Husband had sex with a stripper!

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - My husband had sex with a stripper. he said it only happened once. he's been going to strip clubs, always getting lap dances from strippers. I am just so disgusted just thinking about him rubbing against other women. i still love him, can i ever forgive him? he is taking a ... (146 words

How to get a girl?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Im 17 and i want to experience sex with a girl. I life in a small town. Any tips on how to get i girl? None of my friends are interested in trying this. Any tips? ... (36 words

Is it better to not communicate since we don't have a future together?

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22 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Since with the man i am dating it is clear that there isn't a possibility of a future together i try to overcome him. I avoid to call him. Sometimes he calls me and i can't really be bad to him. I usually speak to him polite like nothing really has happened. Although he knows ... (142 words

Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you know what I mean. What is the ... (79 words

Why is my friend planning such a thing? is she immature?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Why is my friend planning such a thing? is she immature? my friend was very attached to me (she took me like her sister I felt) and so was i actually. i had other things going on and i distanced myself a bit because of stress in my life(things going on with family). my frie... (283 words

My husband doesn't seem to care about the things I do for him and never compliments me.

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My husband doesn't seem to care about the things I do for him, he never compliments me but tells me bad things about my physical appearance. He's always on everyones side except mine. Every time I try expressing my feelings he walks away, should we separate for some time? ... (56 words

He doesn't show his affection, am I doing something wrong? Just want to feel loved...

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay I've been coming to you guys for advice for time and a half and its always been great, so my predicament now is with.. my bf. Okay, him and I have been dating for about half a year now and I'm head over heels for him, and he says hes the same with me, but(yes the dreded ... (187 words

Ladies: How would you feel if the guy you picked up had only one testicle?

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22 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I only have one testicle. I have had girlfriends in the past; but I was wondering how a girl would react if it were a more casual. If you don't already have an emotional attachment to him, how would you react if you found out a guy that you picked up only had one testicle... (57 words

Is he justified in making my life hell because he 'loves' me?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Well theres this guy I work with hes 30, I'm 19, was 18 at the time. He kinda manipulated me into a 'relationship', making me feel sorry for him, etc. He used to accuse me of sleeping with guys, having AIDs,go through my bag and my phone, he was obsessed with me he thought I ... (551 words

How can I get my mind right and not mess this up? He's the most handsome, charismatic man!

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I just started dating, I believe, the most handsome, charismatic and fun loving guy I've ever met. I think he's wonderful and he says the same thing about myself also. Up until very recently upon realizing what may actually come of us (which is the beginning of something ... (158 words

How can I get him to do things without revealing that I snooped?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi! I need some friendly advice. I've been married for 5 years to a wonderful man. He is, however, a very shy and private man. He isn't aware of it but I know he looks at porn online. I'm ok with it really. He's discreet about it and I'm not the insecure type anyway. The other ... (211 words

Should I ask him out or wait until he asks me?

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22 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - will i like this one dude and i think he likes me and i was talking to his sister one day and she said that he said he liked me but he liked brit a litle more than me but she doesn't like him should i ask him out or wait until he ask me?... (55 words

Threesome Question: will he fall for her?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend wants to have a threesome, and I am completely for the idea- it sounds like fun, and I've always been down for it. I love him, he loves me, and we both want this. The problem is who to have it with. He wants to get a friend of his (another girl, it would be girl ... (168 words

Is he falling out of love with me? The passion is dying...

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend is slowly letting the passion die when we have sex.....He doesnt seem to kiss me like he use to during but he still shows effection everyday....We have been together for awhile and I just dont want to be one of those couples that things get borning....I do spice it ... (87 words

He hasn't told his parents about us. Should I let him do it in his own time?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend wont tell his parents we are dating! We have been dating for 5 months. My boyfriends parents hate me. let me explain about it. About 2 years ago we were engaged to be married. i was going through alot. I had joined the military and was in training. Under ... (364 words

What should I do about this guy I like? It's bugging me.

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22 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Theres a guy i like he knows i like him, he says he likes me too. he act normal when a certain guy isnt around but when that gu is around he doesn't pay much attention to me and its really bugging me and i dont know what to do. when im with him with others he is normal its ju... (81 words

He said he has to 'hook up' with another girl in order to be with me? Is he right?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - okay i am in desperate need of help. I fell madly in love with my current boyfriend almost two years ago in high school. we first became friends, and on my birthday he asked to be his girlfriend. i was the happiest girl alive for months, it was unreal. there was one major ... (326 words

How hard should I try to pursue this? She's younger and I'm still legally married.

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22 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - My situation is quite complicated and the question is at the end. The primary problem is I am head over heels for a young woman at work. I am 17 years her elder. I am a professional Firefighter and Paramedic and she is about to complete her training, but is currently a ... (429 words

Where did I go wrong and why do I feel regret?

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22 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - Anybody, somebody, please provide your input for my situation. I feel stupid, but I need sincere words from someone to tell me where I did wrong or if I am doing the right thing. I met this guy over a chat room, who I felt deeply emotionally. We've dated for 3 years, wonderf... (650 words

Should I ask if he wants to hang out?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - alright well there was this guy that i was seeing and he said he would call me when he was back in town and never did, this was a few weeks ago, i sent him a message asking for a friends info because he was the only one who had it, and he knows it. so he replied with the info... (166 words

Can you tell me if he likes me based on this?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Can anyone give me thier opinion if the guy i like, likes me back or not. I've worked with him for about a year now. We are the youngest people in our department and hes always joking around with everyone else but when he sees me or talks to me he is always serious. I will look ... (176 words

Do I have a future with this guy?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hello and thank you very much in advance for read my letter, my boyfriend, who is everything to me, is giving me mixed signals, we have been together for 10 months, we have had our ups and downs, but we always work it, we really get along really well, he has always tell me that ... (464 words

Can I continue on in a relationship with a guilty conscience?

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I've met my current partner few months ago over the internet. I was far from a happy person at the time, I was shortly after being rejected by someone I was courting and all in all it everything was going just... plain bad. I wasn't even considering getting together with my ... (333 words

No more Mommy Dearest!

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22 December 2008 (M age - I've been in a relationship 19 years. My partner is 11 yrs younger than I am. How important is participating in home activities, ie, know which light switch is which; know in which cabinet the glasses are kept; picking up after yourself and even your partner at times; helping ... (130 words

Is it okay to remain friends with him even though he's married?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Over the past year I have developed strong feelings for a former teacher of mine. We became close during my senior year of high school. By that I mean we would occasionally have lunch together and gossip, joke around and sometimes have some pretty serious deep discussions. We ... (295 words

Why am I always cold and tired?

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22 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - ok so I'm 13 years old and I'm always so very tired and cold. Like every day after school I take a shower, then take an hour and a half nap then go eat and go to bed which is around 9:00 p.m. In the morning I find it to be absolutely freezing with the heater at 70-75 degrees. ... (75 words

My life seems run by his ex's demands!

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22 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have been living with my boyfriend for 6 months now and known him for several years, he has a child with another woman who is now 6 years old. He rarely has contact with him one or two times a month, we have had him to stay twice in the time i have lived here. His ex is a ... (264 words

Why won't he acknowledge me as his girlfriend?

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22 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been going out with this awesome guy for near two years and we adore each other. He constantly tells me he misses me if we don't see each other for a few days, he makes me meals, he takes me to places I've never been before and he's affectionate and constantly thankful ... (231 words

How do I make her come back to me?

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22 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - My girlfriend left me right we have been arguing quite a bit but last night my brother saw her with another dude he said they wasnt talking or even holding hands nothing like that, and we have been talking about giving each other sometime apart until we got our stuff right like ... (284 words

Is he too short for me?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - i know it is kind of snobby to be picky about guys outer appearance, but i cant get over how short he is! i really like his personality and his looks, but he is way shorter than me. WAY. like i am 5'4 and he is 5'. i dont want to sound like a jerk, but i cant date him with how ... (71 words

Do men just view women as sex on legs?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think we are is sex on legs. Why do ... (117 words

Do you think by chance he is doing something deceitful behind my back by acting so disrespectful towards me?

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22 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone. I have a problem. I am in a 2.5 year with my boyfriend, and we both love each other very much. We live together, and have for about 6 or 7 months. But today (and today only) we got in a few arguments, where he told me to "fuck off" and was being quite disr... (165 words

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