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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We talk but don't communicate! How do we manage to reconnect after his affair?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone...i need help.My husband and I are going thru a rough time right now. I have forgivin him for the recent affair, he means everything to me. Since he has been back from Iraq, well he isn't the same. I know it changes a person and i tried to prepare my self for that ... (204 words)

What should I do? Marry him or run and forget the best thing that ever happened to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I am nineteen and I was lonely so I went on an on line dating site just for kicks and I met this amazing guy, he is a bit older than I am, he is 25 and I fell for him. He also has a child. Also is getting a divorce. I have been with him and have tried to help him through and ... (212 words)

What should I do in my situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - I recently confirmed that a girl I know likes me, and I was planning on asking her out on the day I found out, but her friends got in the way and I didn't ask her out. When we got back to the school her friend told me she wanted to get to know me a little more before we g... (111 words)

Does this gesture mean anything?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I was recently out with a friend. All during dinner he kept placing his hands palm down in the middle of the table. I wanted to touch them but we are hjust friends. Does this mean anything?... (37 words)

Should I say goodbye to the boy I like before I leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey Dear Cupiders I'm moving to Scotland! Should I tell the guy that I like good bye. We're not that close... I only see him in theater... It wouldn't matter if I don't... I really don't think he'll notice I'm gone... I'll be back in one semester time... However shou... (132 words)

I can't cope with this hurt while my boyfriend is away! Should I send him this letter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 326 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I have written this letter to my boyfriend who has just gone travelling for 6 months to make me feel better. I am not sending it but want to get some thoughts and feelings off of my chest. I cant cope with feeling this way! Please e-mail me or phone me, please contact me, p... (437 words)

My ex has been ignoring me for teh past month, does he hate me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, I wanted to be friends with him and he did too or so he said. Anyways, he has been ignoring me for the past month and I asked him if he hated me or something. He said he doesn't hate me. So, I asked him if he doesn't like talking to me or if ... (150 words)

Don't I deserve to have a boyfriend? But all I get is rejection!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 339 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i think love and romance is for good looking and cute people,ugly people like me get rejected ,and cute guys would never wnat to be seen with me as i was rejected by a guy 3 years who did that me and i am still suffering the effects of rejection now he found himself new girl... (262 words)

I'm worried she might end up choosing another boy as I'm too shy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - ok I'm 16 but have only been out with someone once. THe problem is that I am very very very shy to girls that i like well one girl. the problem is i can talk to girls normally if i dont have any feelings towards them like non gf stuff but the second i fancy someone i get ... (122 words)

Can anybody tell me if there is any way possible to workout a relationship with someone with a drug problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anybody tell me if there is any way possible to workout a relationship with someone with a drug problem? I've known this peron for over 30 years and always stayed in touch as good friends. He's had a drug problem as long as I could remember but never used around me. We ... (129 words)

In love with my best friend, engaged to my baby's father.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Very long, sorry. I've been in a "relationship" with my boyfriend for 5 years. On and off. Whenever we would break up, it was always him telling me he didn't want to be with me. In vain, I always managed to get him to come back. But for him, it was just for the benefits. Fo... (497 words)

Am I just wasting my time messing with her heart or should I pursue this just to see if something good will come out of it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Recently I was told by a nice gal that she likes me and that she has been thinking of me but the problem is that I have only known her for a little time and I don't know if I feel anything or even the same thing for her at all. I was recently dumped by my last gf and don't know ... (186 words)

Should I call him to appologise or free him and go on with life? I am suffocating without him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 336 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I requested a break for4 some time from my boyfriend by sending an sms to his phone 4 days ago because we quarrel over sex and I am not ready for sex, I am still a virgin and so is he also. I am 20 and he is 26. I found out that I can't cope without him cuz I really miss him ... (99 words)

What movie can win her heart?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I was want to make a special night for a girl I know. She is into acting, and loves movies. Her favorite genre is Romance, and her fantasy is to live a scene from a romance movie. I absolutely don't know what her favorite romance movie, nor would she tell me. So I want to know ... (128 words)

I want to have a long sit down talk with her and air out the past and our diffences, good or bad idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my son's mother have been apart for 2 years, we both have not been with anyone in that time, it was a messy breakup but a necessary one, I've changed 180 degrees in this time, and she has come a long way also, but still carries resentment of when we were together, even ... (173 words)

I want to break up not sure how to do it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I'd appreciate any input about my situation.... I've been with the father of my child for about 4 and a half years... we've had rough times and good times.. we break up to make up.. he's made his mistake and I've made some too... only this time its different...we are ... (178 words)

I love bad boys! WHY??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi! - What is it about "bad lads" that some of us girls cannot resist? I am with a guy who only calls me now and then, expects me to pay for everything when we do meet up, moans alot and also has a criminal record! The fact is I LOVE HIM!! - I know he treats me bad but I j... (87 words)

I'm a virgin unsure of what to do Advice please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 16-17 - hi im a virgin and i have found out that in my girlfriends last relationship she lost her virginity im 16 and she is 15. im still a virgin and i want to have the best connection i can my my girlfriend however i feel that when the time comes for us to have sex wouldn't know what ... (76 words)

I want more action but don't want to come across as sex crazed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm crazy about a guy who I see from time to time! The thing is we are both backwards at coming forwards and all we do at the end of a date is give each other a goodnight kiss! The thing is he seems reluctant to make a move and I'm too shy (yes - even at my age) and so we just ... (108 words)

I'm bored with my man and fantasize about excitement

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 331 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - please help, i don't know what's wrong with me really. my boyfriend of a year is pretty much the perfect boyfriend. he does everything for me, he supports me, he loves me, he makes me coffee in the morning, he respects me carries my bags, doesnt drink or do drugs, i always know ... (463 words)

Father in law claims "fatal attraction" between him and his daughter

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) - I have just found out that my father in law has sexually touched his own daughter when she was 16, he was 40. My father in law left his first wife when his daughter was 5. Through her growing years she always came to visit them. When my father in law did that he had al... (262 words)

Ex-wife is going to bleed us dry!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay I really need help on this one. Currently we(my husband and I) pay his ex $270 per month for child support for his one daughter. He has been making $5000 per month for the last 5 years and for those five years we have had 4 kids, moved into a 5 bedroom home, and pay a good ... (284 words)

Will guys call me or do I always have to call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Should I expect for a boy to call sometimes, not just me calling him all the time?... (17 words)

I'm attracting the wrong kind of man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to be in a relationship, but I just don't attract the right kind of men that i would be interested in, i attract old men, alot older then I am. What should i do or not do?... ... (41 words)

She keeps thinking she's pregnant, even though we use protection. What can I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, Me and my girl started having sex about 3-4 months ago. Its always great but the big problem is her. We ALWAYS use protection and throughout the whole month she keeps thinking she is pregnant! I tell her not to worry, but she refuses to listen and insists on these silly s... (125 words)

We just broke up and I want to tell him to tell him off!!! How should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex (18) and I (almost 19) just broke up a few days ago after exactly two years and one day and I finally feel ready to tell the f*cker off with the perfect amount of rage. But I want to look crazy sexy doing it! Make sure he knows what he just lost. How do you think I should ... (69 words)

Does a man have a higher sex drive if he has hair on his chest??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

11 December 2008 (F) age 36-40 - I heard, man with hairy chest has higher sex drive , than man with no hair on his chest. It seem to work in my relation ship, as my husband lost his drive and has no hair on his chest. But I don't know ,if it is a myth , or real? What do you think?... (57 words)

I think he has moved on! How do I get over this??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Need a little advice. I had a liason with a married man that lasted about a month. There was no sex but close enough and I thought there was a bond. Every part of me new not to do it but I had gone through a terrible break up and felt vulnerable. The liason ende... (244 words)

Had an abortion, almost died, pregnant again w/HIS FRIEND! HELP!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I fell in love with a guy a while back who became like my best friend too we came part of each other i got pregnant and we both panicked coz im achieved my dream of modelling and he was out of work so we decided on abortion but its illegal in our country so we had it done ... (349 words)

Ex boyfriend's brother is controlling him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - my ex , dumped me about 2 months ago , and i still love him with all my heart , he is younger me , hes 12 and im 14 , hes older brother is in my year at school , and he controlles my ex like a puppet , so his brother makes him hate me or love me , his brother , told me to take ... (226 words)

I love my best friend but he's got a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - i've been best friends with a boy for 2 years, but the trouble is i've been in love with him since we first met, and he's had a girlfriend the whole time, and it's very serious. plus, they're both in a band together, and she considers me her friend. i don't know what to do, ... (90 words)

I can't get a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I wrote in a few months ago saying that I couldn't get a girlfriend. There were lots of helpful comments but I still don't have one. I've tried all the usual things like asking if they know anybody who's single but they always say no. And, to be honest with you, they wouldn't ... (188 words)

Her dildos are bigger than I am

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 344 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and i have been living together for about 3 months now.I recently found 2 dildos she had hidden in our closet.She hasn't told me about them.They are both larger than me in size.What should i do?I dont know how i should feel about it.... (46 words)

Too young to buy a dildo- Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 321 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - i masturbate and watch porn, but i want a vibrator or dildo. the thing is, im only fourteen, and i dont think anywhere will sell them to me, or will they? ive looked at some online, but i cant buy them because it will be sent home which will be embarrassing. any tips on mastu... (64 words)

My ex is deliberately trying to hurt me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - I recently joined a political action club and was meeting like minded people. My ex, with whom i split months before because she cheated on me, joined the same club because she is already friends with many people who head the organization, and is now in a leadership position. I ... (84 words)

I don't think I'm normal "down there"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - basically im 16 years old and in a relationship with this guy who is i think pretty much in love with me. i feel like i am ready for sex but have this constant self conscious feeling when doing any sexual related things with any guy as i have always felt un normal down ther... (76 words)

I don't like my wife! I want someone sexy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey ms sweet, This is the 1st time I m going to share my few secrets with a woman coz I read your advices and u r profile which is very nice to me n I like u so much after reading u. I am Arian, Male 25, Live in Bangladesh, Working for a telecom company. And I apply for Austra... (507 words)

Why do I feel like I'm living in an alien world?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - This is a question for the men on here. Where do I find a woman that exude femininity and tenderness, do they exist anymore or is it just my age. I seem to be living in an alien environment. Has the world changed and I've stood still? I just don't seem to be attracted to the ... (68 words)

They're calling my boyfriend a pedophile

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - im 13 and my boyfriend is 16. we have only been going out for a week but we like eachother and have known eachother for a long time. Thing is people at school are calling him a pedophile even though hes not. we hav never had sex but we have kissed and snogged. we are really ... (72 words)

Is it too weird to have sex with my friend's mom?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - I need some help with my situation. Would it be wise to enter into a relationship with someone older. I am 20 and she is 45. The whole thing is kind of complicated. She is my friend's mother. She was kind of like my second mom growing up and I stayed at their house a lot. When ... (253 words)

Should I get back with the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Gutted over recent revelations by my ex-boyfriend. 6 months after my boyfriend split with me, he has contacted me to say he still loves me, I am the one for him, he thinks we could have avoided the split but admitted he was stubborn, he also said that he will always be aroun... (132 words)

Does he want more than just fooling around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - For the past several months i have been fooling around with this guy. we have known each other for a couple years. We go for weeks without talking and months without seeing each other but in the past two months we see each other every saturday. we go out to the bar or to a ... (122 words)

Wife too tired for sex-is an affair the answer?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok, here's the situation. My wife and i are both 27 and been married for 3 years. we have a 1yr. old son and a 2yr. old daughter who has special needs. We are both college graduates, which attracted us to each other in the beginning along with alot of other things. Now all we ... (237 words)

FWB relationship turning into more-do I go with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am falling in love with my friends w/benefits. I picked him as my FWB because I didn't see any future with him because he has 3 kids and 2 exwife at 28years old. We are compatible in every way and have the best of time when we are together. He is single too, and ... (492 words)

Boyfriend going away should I get a new guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - my boyfriend is going abroad for further studies. should i wait for him or should i have another relationship?... (19 words)

I can't stand being around my husband all the time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband has worked abroad for many years and he is now looking at coming back home to work, and although i love him dearly i just cant bear him being around all the time. He never goes out and is checking up on me all the time and I feel like I dont have a life when he is ... (134 words)

Husband confesses to an affair 40 years later

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age - My husband had a nervous breakdown some months ago and is under the care of a psychiatrist.Some days ago he informed me he had something to tell me regarding an affair he had with a work colleague some 40 years ago He said the psychiatrist told him the root of his trouble was ... (147 words)

Town too small for both of us

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I am having a really hard time getting over my boyfriend, as he lives round the corner. I am from a very small town, everyone knows everybody else, his friends are my friends, i know all his family really well. Every advice tells you to move on by having no contact, getting on ... (245 words)

I'm embarrassed to have sex with my boyfriend!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I feel really embarassed about this problem because it is so stupid... Im 18 years old and recently I had sex with someone who ive been with for a long time. until then id said no to having sex with him because I wasnt ready but around 3 monthes ago i started feeling like i ... (501 words)

Parents won't let me see my guy! Should I lie to them

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 337 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - I'm in love w/ an amazing guy in WI. He is making plans to see me this summer but there's one problem: my parents. I'm like 3 yrs. younger than he is so I'm pretty sure my parents won't approve. The way I met him is a totally different story but perfectly reasonable. I want to ... (95 words)

Boyfriend can't stay away from porn!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Im sorry if this is a bit long! I met my bf a just over a year ago, we wasnt expecting to fall in love, it was meant to be a bit of fun every now any again. I was in a care home when we met, he would come over and we would just go and sit in a empty car park. We got talking and ... (468 words)

Sex with his dad to get a baby?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband wants children, and so do I, and we have been trying for a baby, but without success. Nothing we have tried seemed to work. Me and my husband were having a conversation about the issue one night, and trying to think of ways to have children successfully - and then... (237 words)

I'm in med school, should I quit and choose modelling?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 343 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i am 20 years old..n i am in a major delima...i have always wanted to get into the glamour field ever since i realised i had the potential for it,its not only me but everyone around me thought that i deserved to be in the field rather than study..oh i am in med school by ... (226 words)

I only want an affair with him but he hesitates, what do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. I have been married for 3 years but my husband and I are on the verge of splitting. I've come to realise I don't love him anymore and I can't stand him being anywhere near me. We have a son who is almost two. I've recently met someone else. I've become attracte... (198 words)

My older hubby wants kids but I'm not ready for parenting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m 28 and my husband is 46, The problem is that he desperately wants to have kids but I don’t feel ready, I’m not even sure that I want to have kids at all but I’ve decided that if I do choose to get pregnant I’d rather do it when I’m well into my thirties. I feel like he ... (191 words)

He lies about small things, what else does he lie about??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 342 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - MY bf of one year lies to me. Its only small lies like, im going to bed now when he is playing on his playstation and things like im now at work when he isnt. Just silly little things. The other day he lied to my face, even though he knew that i was going to catch him out, he ... (224 words)

I hate French Kissing but my boyfriend tries to choke me with his tongue!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't like French (or 'tongue') kissing. I am almost 30 years old and have never liked it. I don't like wet sloppy kisses and on top of that I have a very small mouth. My boyfriend insists on ramming his tongue into my mouth every time we kiss for more than 3 seconds! I do ... (146 words)

How do I handle a married female calling my boyfriend several times per day and often talking for 20+ minutes at a time??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 345 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

- My boyfriend of almost 2 years always has female friends, more so than male friends and sometimes that can be annoying. He moved in with me about 5 months ago, and since then we have had ongoing problems with a woman (an ex coworker of him) who is fat and going bald, is m... (578 words)

Can we get back the spark we once had?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - ours was a long distance relationship. she is in a high school while i am 22.we were so addicted that we would not even think of a day without talking to each other online. last time when i went to her place, i proposed to her and even she agreed to it. we spent a very ... (356 words)

Is he ashamed of me? He didn't ask me to go!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Right my problem might sound a bit stupid. My bf has a works do next Friday, they are going out for a meal and then on to some clubs. I know that gfs and wives are invited as ive spoke to some of them, and they said that i had been invited but my bf hasnt told me. I dont ... (76 words)

My g/f has lied to me, left me and I still love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - I came across this site while searching something regarding rejection. I came across a lady an year back who were good in talking. I was a guy who got burnt due to broken engagement in 2004. the girl also had a burnt past so naturally we came close to each other as friends. ... (1001 words)

Parents don't approve of my guy! Should I cheat?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - hi, i have a boyfrnd that I have been dating 4 close to 4 yrs and the only problem is a muslim and am a christian and my parent dislike muslims,thou they have never met him cause am scared of introducing him.i like him so much but he hurt me in the past which I have ... (188 words)

Did I really cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - HiIm 21 and ive posted a couple times on here now, about my rocky 3year relationship with boyfriend. We went on a break/space thing-only he didnt give me space. He still kept texting me etc and last night when with the girls he texted me calling me selfish because i hadnt ... (186 words)

Husband spending money we don't have on strip clubs!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i found out that my husband of 11 years has beeing spending thousands of dollars on strip clubs and that he is addicted to xanax. I am devastated, how could he do this to me. We are struggling financially and he is spending money on strippers and being stoned on xanax will ... (90 words)

We're fighting all the time now! Should we break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, we've always been a fiery couple but over the past couple of weeks our bickering has got so much worse, we argue constantly about the smallest little things. It seems to have got to the point where its unfixable but I really love ... (116 words)

My boyfriend is acting weird am I misunderstanding?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 320 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - okay i need help with my 8 months relationship...AGAIN haha. so sorry it's long, id appreciate it if you read - - - - - - I called my bf and asked if i can see him yesterday and he told me to come over at his home on my way from work and yeah i agreed, when i... (510 words)

Will having sex with him affect my future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi Fiends. As there are many elder, mature and wiser people here.Please help me in deciding what will be good for my future.As right now i can just see my present happiness. I love my boy friend very....... much. He also have the same feelings for me. From the beginnin... (118 words)

Should I set her free?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hello, okay, I need some advice on a break up, and what I should do about it. My girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly 3 years now, we started dating when we were 18, and now we are both 21. We've always had an excellent relationship, always making each other happy, ... (365 words)

Ex crossing the line-needs to back off!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 346 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been having some trouble with an ex. We started talking again, though only online, and I try to make it clear that I'm not going to get back together with him. I've asked him not to ask me out again but he keeps crossing the line with his comments. Once, I mentioned that I ... (282 words)

My husband has ED and wants me to have a child with his brother!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 305 days ago

11 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my hubbie suffers from ed and cannot get an erection. he has given me permission to find a lover as long as he knows about. i am 32 years of age and i have not had any children and i am desperate to have a child. my hubbie knows i want a child and has suggested i sleep with his ... (76 words)

I want to leave her, but we live together and I don't want to put her (and her kids) out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 347 days ago

11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Okay question is what do you do with a relationship that you thought was all good , but then find out she is in love with another girl's husband lol, Words right from her mouth are I dont know how to explain it but I do have a kind of love for him . Aha so I talk with him about ... (366 words)

Consider the honeymoon stage- OVER. I need help! Fiance won't speak to me.

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I feel I have messed up very badly. Me and my fiance are past the "honeymoon period". and since then all we've been doing is arguing, well rather him arguing, me listening. I also get very jealous all the time. We love each other to death, and we even made plans in the past t... (345 words)

I actually forget to eat!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - My friends have noticed that I'm becoming increasingly thinner and have started to worry. The trouble is that I actually forget to eat and not just for a day, sometimes I don't even start to think about food until a week or longer has passed and I start to feel the effects of ... (117 words)

Does anyone know some great diets for teens that can eat basically anything just small portions with rarely any sweets?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Does anyone know some great diets for teens that can eat basically anything just small portions with rarely any sweets? I want to lose some weight/gain muscle in some certain spots and I was wondering if anyone would know some great exercising routines or anything. I guess you ... (91 words)

My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend ask me to have sex with him we are only in high school should I or not?... (19 words)

Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend. But he does not loves me. He says he just likes me as a good friend. He wants to have sex with me. Should I give my virginty to him in one sided love?... (39 words)

My GF's self esteem issues are really affecting our sex life.

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11 December 2008 (?) age 18-21 - My girlfriend has issues about her body (mainly her breasts) and it seems to get worse by the day. We been together for a year. For example I never seen her naked (or her boobs) and we only allow make out (with our underwear still on). Once we were making out, she had bou... (154 words)

Married and falling out of love !!! Help!!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I need help!!! I'm 25 I've been married for 3 years, but been with my husband for 8 yrs. I feel like i have fallen out of love with my husband. My husband and i have been through some very rough times. He has been unfaithful and has put me through a lot of emotional ... (220 words)

Could I be pregnant while on my menstrual taking Metformin?

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11 December 2008 (F)

- I've heard it is possible to become pregnant being on your menstrual but I was curious about if there was a higher chance pf becoming pregnant being on your menstrual and taking metformin. ~Extra Info~ *I haven't had a normal menstrual in months * I started Metfor... (142 words)

How do I forget about this guy, and how do I know if he still loves me or not?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to convince myself that I don't love my ex boyfriend anymore. The truth is that I still want him in my life, but he's already got a new girl. I spoke with him a few days ago and asked him if he really did like her and his exact words were "yeah, she's a good person." ... (140 words)

Is our love brotherly or loverly?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - So everyone says that me and my friend are meant for eachother. and that we would be a perfect couple. i know for a fact that i am in love with him. 100 percent. i dont know if he feels the same way. he goes and sees every movie with me, and we have been through so so much. he ... (181 words)

My boyfriends promise to stop watching beastiality porn is broken and I can't stand it.

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hey there. I'm sure that you got many emails including weird sex questions. Here it is mine: My bf and i are together for a year and live together for 8 months. We had a great relationship until the time i found out that he is watching beastiality porn. We use the same comput... (182 words)

I'm ditching the bad boyfriend I have!! But should I give this man a go??

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've gone through a really bad marriage and am now getting divorced. I split with huby about 9 months ago and am now just getting myself back on track. Thing is there's a guy at work. I don't really know how to describe it. He's always had a thing about me and me him. When... (710 words)

He said he couldn't cum after I stopped for a second - what's wrong and is it my fault?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I was giving my boyfriend a hand job and i lost my balance for a second and stopped. he then said he couldn't cum because i'd stopped for a sec, whats wrong and is it my fault this happened??... (40 words)

Can I deduce that he's bisexual from his AdultFriendFinder account?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear friends, I am really shocked as i have discovered that my boyfriend of three years has an adultfriend finder account. I would have never expected such a thing from a guy who is so conventional in sex and so serious. Also, even though his profile denotes that he's straig... (105 words)

How can I win her back into my arms? Is persistance the key?

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11 December 2008 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I met this girl last October (07) at a class party in UCLA and we both have a mutual friend. She was "sort-of" seeing a guy at the time but I was gobsmacked by her beauty. I found out about her and eventually found out her guy-friend relationship deteriorated a few months ... (466 words)

What can I do to relieve all this horniness??

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - I'm 13 years old and I'm sooooooooooo horny all the time. If I ever got caught with a vibrator I'd be dead! What do I do??????!!!!!!!!!... (27 words)

How can I increase the volume of my cum?

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11 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - first of all....new to dear cupid. thank you for allowing me here. BIG ?, I am married.... 15 years.... and I hear that I can cum alot more if i get my prostate massaged... scared to death to ask my wife to do such thing to me.... never had it done... and how can i increase... (65 words)

Should I invite him to my b-day party?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - So a quick recap. We met about 2 weeks ago. Spent the first two days together. Exchanged a few mails. (i.e. I emailed him and he always answered.) Asked him to meet up on last Sunday. He canceled at the very last minute saying that he was just too exhausted. I sent him a... (201 words)

I'm falling in love with my friends-with-benefits!

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11 December 2008 (F)

What are the rules in a traditional dating situation?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - What, if anything is reasonable for a woman to expect when a man is pursuing her [if the guy is on the traditional side]. For example, Is it reasonable to expect him to pay, walk her to her door, meet her in a location that is close to the city she lives in, if distance is ... (81 words)

He wants to have sex with me!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, there's a guy I really like. He's 17 and I've known him for a while. We're really good friends, but he wants to have sex with me. Should I agree to it? I'm kind of nervous, but how can I reject him? I don't want him to hate me as a friend...It's scary because I'm still a ... (123 words)

I'm freaking out-what should I do? HELP ASAP!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and I really like him. He has said he likes me too. But on Thanksgiving, he got back together with his ex to see if he was the reason for the problem in the relationship. This really crushed me. He says I'm "first on his list if ... (105 words)

A cousin sex fantasy I should have grown out of!

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11 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - from the time i was 15 i had the hot's for two of my female cousins one because she is so beautiful and the other because i like her big booty and big boobs i have never thought i was in love with any one of them i just got realy turned on by them i always thought i would out ... (181 words)

Do I keep it a secret?

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 13-15 - ok so when i like people i like to keep it 2 myself or tell a few of my friends. but strangely enough i am starting to get some courage. so should i act on the courage and start letting the guys know that i like them or should i keep it to myself and my friends?... (57 words)

I want to make my boyfriend realize he can lose me!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 10-12 - Me and My boyfriend have been dating around a year. He seems different like he's tired of me or that he just doesn't care anymore. When i ask him he says no he loves me. but thats wat all boys say. What could i do or say to scare make him feel like he's about to loose me? To ... (73 words)

I'm gay and in love with a straight guy!

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11 December 2008 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey Everyone, I am a gay man and all my friends know. I currently am living with a straight mate, but I have recently fallen in love with him and not telling him is driving me crazy. He has a girlfriend who he has been seeing for 3 years and I get along with her too. Last w... (181 words)

She doesn't want me it seems but won't let me go either!

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11 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I were going out for over a year, then I walked out of my job. Because of this she split with me and she said I should have talked to her first if there was a problem at work. I think this was just an excuse for a break. I know there's no one else involved, ... (601 words)

Why did he mess with me like that?? I'm so hurt!

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11 December 2008 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi About a month ago I got in touch with a guy from my old school. We went to the same school system until high school but, we still live local to each other. In fact he lives down my street. Anyway, I was thinking on a friend basis (even though I used to like him)when I ... (579 words)