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My best friend and her sister have said some things about my mother that have really hurt me!

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8 December 2008 (F age - I had a best friend,whom i met in 1976.She lives in Tennessee with her sister and brother-in law. My mother passed this year in March.About a day later,my good friends'sister started to email me,with harsh statements about my mother.It hurt me even more.This was a very false ... (128 words

I don't want to hurt my gf, so I want to make a decision soon over this to avoid wasting any more of her time and my time thinking it over and over.

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8 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - i really need some advice, i'm in a long term relationship with my gf. a while ago though i kissed a girl who i know but only see infrequently and don't really talk to much but we sometimes e-mail. there's definitely a chemistry between me and this other girl and from what i ... (565 words

How can I control my controlling behavior?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok... i have a bad problem. ok im young like high school young and so is my bf! we have been together for almost 10 months and i really think that i love him and he loves me to! but my problem is that i am verry controlling and i dont like it when he talks to other girls ... (118 words

How can I trust a partner who cheated? I can't get over it.

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8 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - My wife cheated on me.. we broke up, I filed divorce we got back together before it was final. 2-3 years later she was in the same room with a guy that shot himself (her bro in law) and she got into a deep depression left me, I moved out, took kids, filed divorce we got back ... (458 words

Is my lust for a teacher unhealthy and should I talk to someone about it?

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8 December 2008 (F age 13-15 - So I’m kind of anxious because I truly feel that I’m beginning to have an emotional attachment to my English teacher. He was my teacher last year, and he's my AP teacher this year. When I speak to him, I accidentally stare into his eyes, appearing as a fool. He's married, ... (368 words

Does he like me or is it all in my head?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Ok so I have a problem. I like a guy I work with and I don't know but I think he likes me too. He always stares and he smiles and he has made up a nickname for me about something no one ever notices. We are always together and we always play fight to the point were others j... (257 words

Is it normal to fantasise about girls while masturbating?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - ok this is gonna sound really weird, but when I masturbate, or get in the mood to masturbate, I think about girls, and what they'll do to me etc. I have a boyfriend and am extremely happy when we are together and are being sexual. Is this weird?????... (48 words

I'm a 20 year old male virgin and NEED help!

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8 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi, I am a 20 year old male virgin from Alberta, Canada. I seriously need help with this... I've never had a girlfriend, all through junior high, all through high school, and beyond. I still live at home with my parents, and I guess that kinda screws me over a fair bit. May... (193 words

Risk a friendship for a 1% chance of more?

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8 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - HI, I've kinds asked this before but only got one response and things have changed: I was seeing a woman 8 years my senior (I'm 28 she's 36) for 7 months earlier this year. I was in an abusive relationship at the time which I left in August. We got on incredibly well,... (384 words

I feel I'm letting people down whatever I do... Help!

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi - really stuck at the moment feel pretty desperate about my situation. I have a (very) long distance relationship with my boyfriend (3 years total) and we are very much in love. We have only managed to see each other twice in the last 18 months since he moved away and I ... (282 words

Why does sex with my boyfriend always hurt to begin with?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months now. We have had sex together almost every time we hang out. Which is roughly 4/7 days. I am on the pill. Every time we have sex the beginning part always hurts for like 5 minutes. Then after that it doesn't hurt, I ... (102 words

My boyfriend is going to the army, how will I cope?!

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - well, im 17 and my boyfriend has signed up for the army. he has his tests on the 15 of december. hes in england at the moment and im really scared that hes going to get hurt. can anybody tell me when he will most probably get sent away and/or how long it will take? i dont know ... (126 words

Where is that male G-spot that I read so much about?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hi! So here I am, all grown up and feeling so sexually mature. Love to have sex with my bf, and love to try everything I feel like. But I just don't know this really important thing... and never really thought about it...WHERE IS THAT G SPOT I read so much about? I read its on ... (109 words

If I had 2 cycles last month, will I not have my period this month?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I had my period right on time last month and everything was normal. Well about a week after my period ended I started bleeding again. It wasn't as heavy but lasted as long as my normal periods do. But now I'm a week late this month. I started cramping the day i was supposed to ... (79 words

Is it possible to turn gay or is he just confused?

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi, My husband as recently landed the bombshell on me that he is gay. We have been married for 8 years and have two children together. I don't know what to do or think. Is it possible to turn gay? I know as a fact that he dated women before me and had no problem getting ... (81 words

I need to know how to talk to him without him thinking I'm stupid.

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - hi, so here's my problem, im usually not a easy girl and i never thought this would ever happen to me, but at this party, i started talking to this guy i thought was cute, and i was really drunk and so was he and somehow, we started making out, and i gave him a blowjob, i don't ... (154 words

She doesn't talk to me at all since the return of the abusive ex, what is she thinking, I wonder?

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8 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I was seeing a women for about 4 months and feel in love with her, shes in her late 30' and has 2 kids, the trouble is the father of the youngest one was very violent with her during and after the affair, he told her that if she ever meet someone else he would not be happy (its ... (167 words

What if the guy tells that I had sex with him while drunk? I feel so ashamed!

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok here is what happened. This weekend I went to my cousin's family party and in there I got super drunk! I got so drunk I forgot everything. All I know is that I had unprotected sex in the bathroom! I feel so ashamed I want to dissapear and what if that guy tells someone in my ... (177 words

What do I do about my younger guy?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - im 15 years old i really like this guy but he is 3 years younger than me, but i really like him. in school people tell me stuff for liking a guy so young but he is mature and playful at the same time. i need advice, what should i do im going crazy over this? ... (57 words

What does he mean by this?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi if a lad you fooled around with tells you that you wont be single forever because "if you were going to be single forever, it wouldnt have been fun what we did! thats proof" what would you think he means by it? thanks im just a lil confused lol xxx ... (54 words

My marriage is very unhappy and abuse is going on - should I stay or go?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Warning: this is a rather long read, but i need to let it all out, i don't have anyone with whom i can talk about this or as counsel, so this is cathartic and will hopefully give a better picture of what's going on. I have been married for 5 years, have 2 beautiful and healthy ... (1607 words

Is it more important to live up to the commitment I have made to my family or to live my life to the fullest and find true love elsewhere?

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have been with my partner for 20 years. We dated 4 years and have been married 15. We have children... I have a nice life. I love my children, and my husband. But I am not in love with my husband. And honestly, do not know that I ever have been in love with him. I have never ... (276 words

I tell myself he wouldn't invest this much time to cheat on me, but I can't help thinking it.

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8 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hello, I am currently in embarking in my first real relationship, and it was going absolutely swimmingly for the first few months. To start out, I was a closeted gay male when I met this person. He slowly helped me build my confidence, and helped me come out to all of my famil... (319 words

Is my period normal?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - hiiyyaahh ! i am 13 sorry for being so graphic when i am on my period , the blood that comes out is like stringy and sticky is this normal ? thanks x babe xxxxxxxx ... (43 words

I see her everyday at work and it hurts so much, what do I do?

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8 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - i started to hangout with my co worker, and eventually started to like her... she had a boyfriend at the time but broke up with him, so we started to go out more.... i was well aware of possibly being the rebound guy, but it seemed so different with her... we were seeing each ... (164 words

Is this kind of behavior acceptable in a serious relationship?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - my boyfriend went out for his guys night out, but I looked at his tex messages and found out that he invited over one of his female friends an later he tex her again saying that saw her at the bar make him nervous like a little kid, I guess he was flirting, then when i ... (92 words

He lied about being a virgin when he met me!

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - i have a huge problem, i found out my boyfriend of 3months who i love so much lied about being a virgin when he met me. he said he had slept with 3 people before me one of them being a girl who he lives with in his student accommodation which i was really uncomfortable and ... (358 words

Do I tell her now (1 1/2 months later) I accept the breakup or just move on and accept on my own?

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8 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - Hi all. I have a question for everyone. I'm a 36 year old male who is trying to accept the end of a 2 year relationship. At first I tried to hold on to this relationship and did a bit of begging and pleading for her not to go. Then we tried speaking every so often and now ... (240 words

Can a man really be that forgetful and inconsiderate with someones feelings?

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - What should I do? I feel so embarrassed by allowing myself to be taken in by this guy. I am in love with a guy who I know is probably just messing me around. He phones me from time to time (when he wants something), when we meet up - he only ever just gives me a peck on the... (128 words

How do I get over emotional abuse when he blames me for his depression?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I really really need help. I was with my boyfriend for one month when he slipped into a state of depression - for six months. Almost two weeks ago he claimed to have felt like he 'snapped' out of it and I was hesitant to let myself trust that because I have experienced depr... (306 words

Am I bisexual or not?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - i want to know if i am bisexual or not. lately i have been having fantasies about being with women. i am happily married to the father of my children but cant stop thinking about being with a woman.... (41 words

I need help decoding a man!

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok.. So theres this boy, he is 22 and i am 19. We have known each other for about 2 yrs now. I need advice, he is soo confusing. We have been on and off for those 2 yrs. He has told me he really likes me and i have told him too. Once we had like 5 months without talking and ... (222 words

I'm having a hard time not getting upset over his online flirting.

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - theres this guy i have been with for 13 years, and i really love him. We are having problems right now and I really want things to work out with us. He Flirts alot online! and it drives me crazy. He lies about everything, to the girls he flirts with. He tells me it is fun and ... (147 words

I am not the only one who thinks that it is degrading to discuss your sexual experiences with your partner/husband?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello everyone! I've got a question for the ladies here: do you tell your partners that you masturbate? What is their attitude? Is this topic off limits? The reason for me asking is oh my gosh here we come - my mother has gone through my things sometime ago and has found my... (340 words

He didn't tell me he had another child until after I had his!

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I've been engaged to my fiance for 2-3 years and we have a 1 year old son together. After I had our son in 07, a few months later, I found out he had another kid that was 11 years old at the time.I still want know why he hasn't told me anything about it til after I had our son, ... (207 words

Should I forgive and forget and give him another chance?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - well im 16, and i met this guy when i was about 12-13, we really really clicked and we started seeing eachother... since we went to different schools we didnt see as much of eachother as we liked and there was a period when were we didnt see eachother for a bit, we were like ... (257 words

Revenge tips for me to hurt a guy's feelings.

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi I wanted a boyfriend all my life since I was 18 years and now I am 30 and I have never been asked out once and a lot of the guys I liked rejected me for someone who they find more sexually attractive than me. After all the rejection and hurt, I've hurt so many times I hav... (167 words

Off limits???

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Alright, here is my problem. I think i have fallen for this guy. "joe." he is amazing, and seems like everything I've ever wanted in a guy. BUT he has a girlfriend, who is one of my "friends" we arent very close but i've known her for a long time. I don't want to hurt her... (248 words

I don't know how to tell my friend I like him...

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Okay, so there's this guy that I've been friends with for a longgg time. We used to date, but it was one of those like one month deals. Now I think I might have a crush on him again. He seems to be awfully flirty with me, but I'm just not sure if he's like that with every girl ... (88 words

How can I find out if she's cheating on me?

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8 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me she tells me she doesn't want sex as much because we are not all about that, I ask her what she's doing quite a lot and she says "why do you always need to know what I'm doing?" I've asked her quite a few times have you cheated on me, s... (105 words

Why do I keep thinking about him after splitting up 7 months ago?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - It's been about 7 months since me and my bf (who I had been dating for only 2 months) split. He ended up moving away and it pretty much ended there. I still can't stop thinking about him, and it really bothers me because I'm a very attractive girl and I have guys waiting on me ... (174 words

Can Men really change their faults?

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - I have a question for the Men. If you found the right girl for you, could her love and support make you change to live up to your potential? Or should you accept them exactly the way you found them even though you know... and they know they could be and do so much more. Ca... (63 words

We always argue over the silliest things... why?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well, I have been with my boyfriend for a while now and we are sort if a strong couple. The thing is we always argue over silly things, for example. He stood outside his house for 5 mins with his ex so he says, If I dont meet him he will fall out with me, I had to go to th... (225 words

Unsure if I should just put this thing on hold and tell her to sort out her problems...

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8 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Me and a girl have fell in love over the past 8 months my age 22, hers 24. The situation is one she has a baby with this dude and is going thru how best to make sure she can get her child when she leaves his abusing butt, the recent news Im meeting with her again for a week on ... (358 words

WHY do men cheat on women???

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8 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - I want to first say a big thanks to all the house members here, I think my problem is really getting to be solved soon.. My girl is now at the point of forgiving me, but still one more thing to get solved, I sent mail that I cheated on my girl, now she has asked me to, tell her ... (143 words

How can I stop my mom running my life?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been in contact for 3 years. We started dating in our country before he moved to Paris.In our country,he would call me everyday,see me every week because my mom wanted that way.Alhough my mom and my sister let us see each other,we were very close. ... (571 words

How can I undo what I did and get their friendship back?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I liked a guy in college. I got jealous of my best friend and told my other best friend to kinda spy on her because she was talking with that guy. I deeply regret it. They are not talking to me now. Please tell me what to do please.... (53 words

Me and my friend are both pregnant by the same guy and now we're not talking... help!

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - hi me and my friend are both 14 and we both got pregnent by the same person please help, we are loosing are friendship over this the guy is gonna be 17 in 2 weeks and we both love him he bought us both the same ring and me and my friend just figured it out we leaked the name... ... (119 words

Who do I pick: the guy I'm dating and starting to like or the mean ex who apparently has changed??

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hello. I just turned 21 and am stuck between two guys. The first one (A) and i were going out for 3 years. He took me for granted, was mean to me, didnt have a job, etc. We broke up and the day we broke up i found the second guy (B). He was everything i wanted, sooo nice to me, ... (194 words

Is this too big of an age gap?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi everybody, I met a guy who is older than me and we and thinking about getting into a relationship. I am 20 and he is 26. Is this age gap ok or is it too wide? Thanks for all your help. :)... (47 words

Pregnant so soon after getting married???

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm 38 years old. I just got married this month. My husband and I never had sex until a few days before our wedding. I was supposed to have came on my period the week we made love. My last period was October 30th 2008. I haven't been with anyone since the summer. I was ... (73 words

About calories and fat!

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, this isnt a relationship question its about calories and fat! Im so confused! For example if i ate a bagel and it has 215kcal fat 3.2g and saturated fat 0.3g is this fattening or not??? as bread is less in calories but a bit higher in saturated fat. It goes with all ... (74 words

I'm starting to fall for him... what should I do?

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I'm a 36 year old just out of a long-term (13 years) relationship, but it's complicated as we're still living together with our toddler son as I'm at uni for the next year and seeing as we're best friends it is easy to stay in this situation. Actually when I say just out of a ... (333 words

How can I tell my friend I know about the lies she's been spreading?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I have this friend of mine whom we shared our problems together very unfortunately she used my problem as a bridge to make my man notice her. When I told her my problem she promised to have the word with my man. Unfortunately she told my man that I am bad girl, prostitute who ... (178 words

I wish we could be friends again, but how?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - My question is related to a friendship rather than love. My best friend, lets call her "Heartless Bitch" ok, no im kidding.. lets call her "AMY". Her and i have been friends since school (for 7 years) and around 8months ago, we had a huge fight and no longer speak. We were alw... (277 words

She wants to meet up, but I am worried she is too young?

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8 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Ive recently started chatting to a really nice girl online and on webcam and we only live a hour away from eachother and she wants to meet up tonight She's a awesome girl but is she TOO young in your opinion? Im 23 and she is 16... (53 words

My boyfriend is showing me inconsistant affection alternating with abuse

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Im at a dead end, and am so confused on what to do. Im pregnant and am living with my boyfriend who is the father. We both want the baby. The thing is he is being so nasty towards me, he will call me names make me feel like trash and overreacts over stupid things. Its making me ... (148 words

What is my next step for this girl I like?

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8 December 2008 (M age 36-40 - I have been on a few dates with this girl and we have been talking for weeks. We started to get close and very much enjoyed spending our time together. I ended up spending the night last weekend. We did not do anything. The next day she was weird and later informed me that it ... (112 words

I love my fiancee, but found I still have feelings for my ex once we saw each other again

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I need advice... I am currently engaged, and Yes, I do love my fiance very much. me and my fiance has been together for 4 years now and engaged 1 year. The thing is about a year ago i got in contact again with my ex whom I really loved a lot. I still love him a lot. We've been ... (315 words

I am perfectly satisfied being the mistriss and don't want to take him away from his wife.

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am madli in love with a man. But he has family. He is a very responsible husband and a father. He also loves me very much. We have a great sex life.But he told me before starting that he is not powerfull to spoil his wife's life. I also feel the same i don't want him to leave ... (150 words

Why hasn't he responded to my text?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hiya so i met this boy about a few months ago.. and he said i wish i had met you on a night out and i said why and he was like dont worry.. So anyway last week i bumped into him again at a nightclub, a bit later i saw him sitting down and he called me over. I sat down with... (193 words

Why do people moan during sex?

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8 December 2008 (M age 22-25 - Hi...just a question about sex. Do people involuntary moan during sex? Is the thought of being turned on so much that it's completely impossible to resist doing so? And when do people usually moan during it?... (36 words

We have been dating for a year, and still havent kissed!

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for over a year but we still haven't kissed! im ready anytime but i don't think he is. everyone says just wait and he will do it in his own time but i have been waiting for over a year... any ideas?... (54 words

We're still friends and sleeping together. Why wont he get back together with me?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys and girls, a bit of advice please, me and my bf split 2 months ago, we are still in contact and sometimes sleep together he dumped me to get bk with the mother of his child and things havent gone to plan with it shes gone bk to her other ex and not my ex bf., but 2day ... (260 words

He responded to my facebook friend request. Does that mean he is interested in me?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I asked about this situation recently but I went for it and did something about it but I feel stuck again so please help :) I saw this guy on one of my friends' Facebook and I thought he was hot. I sent him a friend request and told him I thought he was gorgeous. I was ... (226 words

Unwanted cold war with a friend... what should I do?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - I am currently in the midst of a cold war between an apartment mate/friend and I don’t even know why. Some history: She (S) was my first real friend in college and the person to introduce to me to the group. We decide to become apartment mates. First quarter is dandy g... (1068 words

I want to meet my online sweetie, but my parents wont let me

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8 December 2008 (F - I think I have fallen in love with a guy who lives far away from me! I met him online and we havent actually met in real life (yet). I am 18 years old and he is 19. He really likes me and is so nice and caring and sensitive, and alot like me, we have similar values. I re... (381 words

He ignores me for several days after a date and then reinitiates contact

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Hi All, Well I have been seeing a "nice" guy for about a month or so now. The problem is we will see each other and then when I initiate contact post date he ignores me! Then a few days later he pops up again. The obvious answer is that I am a convenience etc etc and whi... (309 words

I need advice on how to leave this man

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - hi i have been in a 11 year on and off relationship with the most abusive man alive!!! i did not fall in love with this person i fell in love with a good man. n e ways i had left him so many times in the past and am sick of all the lies cheating and games he has to offer. i... (1149 words

It turns out that my new wife has had a lover for the past 7 years!

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8 December 2008 (M age 41-50 - I have been married for two months now. My wife have her own man and have sex, spend together, enjoy the presence her partner for the last 7 years, of which I have no single idea of her such relationship. She too denied having any relation with any one. Some how I fall in love ... (203 words

While I know it is none of my business, I am upset she slept with someone else when we separted temporarily

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8 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - I have been with my girlfriend for about a year and half and, about two months ago I thought I fell out of love with her after moving to uni. To see if this was true I decided it was best we went on a break. She lives about four miles away in other student halls. After being on ... (466 words

If he cares so much about me, why does he want to date other people?

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - Hi please help me if you can, I am 43 and have been divorced for 3 years. Last year I met a man who was 40 and we were together for 8 months. Things between us ended when he admitted that he was still using the internet to meet other women and had 'had coffee' with a c... (636 words

Have I been lying to myself, thinking he was just a brother figure to me?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I'm really confused at the moment and in need of advice. Sorry it's long. I've known this guy for... less than a year. I sort of knew of him for a while before we were formally introduced. Before then, I kind of had this crush from afar on him. At that time, he was with another ... (214 words

His ex keeps calling me!

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8 December 2008 (F age 36-40 - Have been in a relationship for the past four years. My boyfriend has already introduced me to his family, but for the past two months his ex has been bothering me. Have told my boyfriend concerning this issue and he has told her to keep off but his ex is still calling me. ... (64 words

He has cybersex with women in the Internet! Should I leave him?

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8 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - i've been married for 6yrs and i always knew that my husband was into porn but i didn't know how bad til i look into his computer.wow i thought he's really into this.but at frist i thought it was just a guy thing that all guys do this.is it?then about two weeks ago i was going ... (116 words

It seems my hubby doesn't care to please me in bed! Any advice?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - My husband and I have been married 8 months and we are so in love there is just one thing bothering are realationship our sex lives has change alot I do everything I can to please him when it comes to me he seems like he doesnt care I have talked with him about it..and one ... (129 words

She is extremely depressed, I became emotionally drained due to our problems... HELP.

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8 December 2008 (M age 30-35 - To whom may have advice, Let me begin with some background information I met my girlfriend (who I have been dating for over four years) in college. The first year was amazing (the first time I ever though about marriage) but after that it was a pretty bumpy road. ... (773 words

Should I ask if she's interested in a relationship?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of about 3 years. I'm a freshman in college, and we are both going in different directions. He's in the AFROTC and I plan on spending the next school year in Leipzig. We were really good friends with this one girl- we got to know her the ... (268 words

Annoying boyfriend...

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and I love him to death. However, we tend to get into arguments when I am stressed out and have a lot of schoolwork or family issues. I dont like to confront the issue and just really want to get back to my work. I don't ... (183 words

Should I stay with someone I am not in love with or try to make it work?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - I have been with my very loving boyfriend for a little over 2 years. During that time we have been on-again/off-again several times because I wasn't sure if he was right for me. (We have very good moments together, but his mind seems to be all over the place most of the time, ... (292 words

Should I live my home town to be with my friend from another state?

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8 December 2008 (F - I feel so confused. I am in love with a friend who lives in a different state to me and he feels the same way for me. He keeps saying how he doesnt think he would ever be able to find another girl like me. The thing is though, i dont want to be in a long distance relation... (401 words

He wanted a "loose relationship" but now was a committed one, should I trust him?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Hi All, I have been involved with this guy now for 3 months. He initially didnt want a committed relationship, he said he wanted a "loose relationship" and so we decided to be just friends. Now all of a sudden he wants me to be his girlfriend. He is being totally nice and w... (109 words

Was our date a failure or does he really want to see me again?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hello, please help me read this situation: I was on a date with htis guy saturday night. It was more likea friendly recoinnaissance, nothing sensual or romantic, just pally pally and witha bit of sublte flirting. Before meeting me up i felt deflated cos he texted me he is ... (305 words

Is it possible there is still something between me and my ex, or am I thinking too much into it?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Me and my ex have been broken up for several months but still reamained friends, we had decided that we lost our relationship so why lose a friend as well. Over time we both started seeing other people but at one point we started talking about the good times we had together and ... (107 words

I'm 13 and want to date but parent will not let me. Are they afraid of me growing up?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Im a 13yr old girl...and not allowed to date... I have once but my parents dont know about it. Are they just afraid that im growing up. They freaked out when i started my period... I havent had any contact with guy...close enough to touch.... (45 words

After listening to my manager's confession I'm so depressed, are all men cheaters like him?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey friends! I am unmarried and working in a bank. I have good terms with my manager.He is a big flirt. I have seen many girls pleases him to get hike or promotion.He is married. One day i asked him that why you do all this. How can you touch so many girls. He replied that i d... (302 words

My fiancee showed up when I was flirting a bit with my lesbian friend, what can I do now?

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8 December 2008 (? age 22-25 - I was at work when my friend (shes a lesbian and I also knew her since we both were 5) popped in to say happy brithday and to congardlate me getting merried (in 5 weeks). One thing lead to another and we started flirting a bit. When my fiance showed up randodmly to happy ... (142 words

Never been kissed and the guy I like doesn't want a girlfriend, what should I do?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hey Im 14 and in year 8 and when i was in grade 6 someone started a rumor that i like girls (which i dont) and now im in yr 8 and i have never been kissed or had a boyfriend. A lot of my friends have. I like this boy and he is the Hot guy, a lot of other girls like him, he ... (107 words

Pressurised for sex, how can I avoid ejaculating very fast?

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8 December 2008 (M age 18-21 - im getting pressured to have sex at my age and im afraid that i might cum right off the bat as soon as it starts. is there any way to help me not cum so quick?... (36 words

Boy names that mean miracle or or something along those lines?

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8 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - Hello everyone! So, my wife is pregnant. We are trying to choose a boys name that would mean "miracle" as if this child is born, it truely would be because of the high chances of a misscarriage happening. We have a girl name already, but yeah... anywho, any suggestions would be ... (80 words

First time sex and didn't use a condom, help!

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Ok, so lastnight me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. and we didn't use a condom, he pulled out and everything but he told me theres a slight chance that it could have got inside of me. i still have like a week before i ushualy get my period. and it's only been a... (70 words

Was I too young, was I actually raped?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Well..during the summer this past summer I lost my virginity to who is now my ex boyfriend..But I was only 14 and I wanted to know if that was a little to early...Also my other thing is..I never told him I was ready and i never told him to stop..people say I was raped..and ... (163 words

We are scheduled to get married, do you think we are ready?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - my fiance just got back from iraq. he had been there a year. when he left we had been fighting and had been seperated. he came back 10 days before he left for iraq when our son was born. he is back but now wants to pretend like he never left me when i was pregnant and says it ... (148 words

I can't forget about a guy from where I used to live and had a dream about him!

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Hello everyone! I'm not sure what to do exactly..I'm pretty confused. I know I'm ready to have a boyfriend but I'm just waiting for someone to come to me. Last night, I had a dream.....I visited the state I used to live in until 2006 and a boy I had a slight crush on and I met, ... (190 words

I am scared in case he is too big to suit my petite size! Am I exaggerating?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - I've just started dating a new older guy. Everything is great so far. This weekend we were fooling around (clothes on) and I discovered that he has a really huge penis. I mean it felt really thick and really long, like 10 inches. I didn't think that was even possible. BTW, I ... (214 words

Is my hubby gay?? Why does he want to have sex with another man while I watch?

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8 December 2008 (F age 41-50 - I have a problem...My husband and I have been married for 17 years.. We got married very young. I was 18 he was 23 he is the only man I've ever been with..He tought me everything I know about sex..We have always been very kinky in the bedroom..He has always liked anal sex done ... (200 words

I use a virbrator but I wish I could masturbate ON MY OWN...

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Hey everyone I am a 25 year old female who just realized she was a sexual person maybe about 5 years ago. A late bloomer indeed. Since then I have been doing a lot of research and reading about the female orgasm. On my 21st birthday, my friends got me a vibrator as a g... (279 words

Should I send him a birthday message? Will he think I haven't moved on?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - Should I send him a birthday message? He broke up with me saying he wasn't in love with me. It hasn't been too long and I don't talk to him. I don't want him to think that I didn't move on but I don't want to be rude either. Maybe a late message?... (53 words

Do you think I appeared needy and what are the odds that we have another date?

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8 December 2008 (F age 30-35 - We met last week. He came over to mine and stayed the night and the whole next day and left at 8pm the next night. We talked the next day online. I sent him about 4 messages over the course of a full week. He answered all of them. In one of those messages I asked him to mee... (285 words

He already trashed my reputation! Does he still want to go out?

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - ok, so i just recently found out that a senior at my highschool told people that he slept with me! i already no he likes me and i know that bye telling me and becuase of female intuiton. now when he sees me its like he looks at me but not at my face. im not sure what he wants ... (105 words

I like him but he won't ask me out, do I wait for him or take the other opportunity?

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - Ok I really really like this guy and I'm sure he likes me but he won't ask me out.his friends told me that he's making the transition from player and boy to manhood he also told me to patient. its hard because I'm starting to get to know this really cool guy and I don't know if ... (70 words

I have a relationship with my first cousin, we will have no kids and will not marry, your opinions?

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8 December 2008 (F age 51-59 - I'm 50 now and 3-1/2 years ago I re-met my first cousin. We were around each other when we were very young only a few times because my uncle was in the military. I barely remembered him. When we reconnected, we were immediately best friends, laughing and sharing our lives. ... (131 words

I was beat up and filmed, I don't know what to do as now they plan to humiliate me publicly!

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8 December 2008 (F age 22-25 - i dnt kno what to do with my life sometimes i think is it worth me living! ive been through a lot of stress this pass year and even though ive cut certain people out of my life the ones who cause me to be depressed and hurt they're still gettin to me. i was set up by a bu... (259 words

I just like to flirt and I think its fun being single.

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8 December 2008 (? age 18-21 - I really dont know what to do. Someone please help me. Okay so I have a boyfriend. I met this other guy and have been flirting with him (online) he seems really nice and he wants to hang out. He even told me he wants to hook up. I at least wanna meet him first. I know it is ... (113 words

They constantly talk about me and it's really getting to me.

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - Okay so here's the story. This girl is trying to make my life a living hell. She dated my ex bf and once she found out I was with him and he got stuff for me she acted really wierd. I met her on sunday at her sisters house who is in my grade (9th) when we had to work on a ... (234 words

Question about masturbation?

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8 December 2008 (M age 26-29 - I have been masturbating once a day for about 12 years since I was 11 and I want to know if there is any negative effects of this, any. Also if anyone knows what is the average number a man can have an orgasm in his life?... (49 words

I just want to be happy with a man and not hurt him.

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hey everyone! So I'm 21, ive been with my boyfriend a good 3 and a half years now and love him a lot. I think he is planning to propose me and until now I have wanted it so bad-only when i found out that he wS actually planning it I paniced!! Throughout our relationship I have ... (211 words

Dieting!

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8 December 2008 (F age 18-21 - I just threw up everything I ate today. (i know because I saw what I ate for breakfast) and I'm gonna start being anorexic because I really need to lose weight. I'm 230 lbs and 5'3" I plan on being 200 lbs by my 16 birthday (in a month) any tips to help lose weig... (85 words

Is it really just a ring and a piece of paper?

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months, and we adore eachother completely. He tells me he loves me everyday and I do him, and we talk about our future together and growing old and wrinkly together - he even told me I'm The One. However, he does not believe i... (220 words

I don't know if I want to start a life with him, if she is going to get in the way.

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - My boyrfriend and I have been together now for about five years, I am 24 and he is 25. We are pretty serious about eachother. Since he was 17 my boyfriend has been living with a woman named Claire. Claire, is his ex- girlfriends' mother. At first, I thought that this was we... (391 words

My friend is so gullible!

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8 December 2008 (F age 26-29 - Hi I need help / advice quickly please!!! I am 21 and live in the UK. I have a friend who has recently started hanging around with this guy who works in the local pizza place. He originally comes from Libya and is muslim. My friend is christian they really like each other ... (382 words

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