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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Wow! I hate being a teen. Am I turning gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Wow, I hate being a teen! I'm 17 and well confused about my sexuality, more inclined to straight but I'm addicted to anal stimulation, oh boy, do I love it, SO normal I use the traditional german sausage and use it as a dick basically I get so fucking hot off that it was ... (142 words)

What am I supposed to do?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 25 year old woman who is in love with a married man. We practically live a married life together as we both work away from home in the construction industry and we spend 40 weeks together of the year and he goes home to his wife 12 weeks out of the year. Even when we are ... (322 words)

Should I buy my girlfriend a dildo for Christmas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5259 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My problem is so weird.... and I'm kinda stuck... my girlfriend and I tell each other everything and she told me she had tried a friend's dildo before and it was fun for her and she loved it but it was her friend's moms so she never had a chance to do it again... and we've had ... (104 words)

I try to please everyone but myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - dear ladies, For 7 months now I've been with my girlfriend, I'm very happy with her!!! We are close...... Just lately my attitude has changed towards her and I feel confused and lost as my love is still there for her... I spend three times a week seeing her!! We mostly have ... (181 words)

Is the fact she brings me into the conversation a good sign?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I met a girl a few months back and we really got on well and it seemed we were about to get together properly until she went back to her cheating ex. Anyway to cut a very long story short, she now happens to work with a female friend of mine and the other day my friend told m... (209 words)

Is he only with me because he doesn't want to come out of the closet completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Is my boyfriend gay? He recently told me he would like to try oral sex with a man, then asked me if I would like to watch. I agreed to it and he has been cruising personal ads nonstop for the right person. Then he told me yesterday he would like it to be an occasional thing ... (130 words)

Do you think she'd still be interested even although a lot of her friends are all body builders?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, met a girl this weekend. we'r talking on a networking site now. im not sure if she is into me or not yet but heres the thing..... she was living with her last BF and has a child with him. im in uni and living with my parents. shes a year younger than me tho. all... (251 words)

I really want to be his girlfriend but my anxiety is keeping me from doing it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - well i really like this boy he like me to but all we do is talk on myspace and he ask me all the time to talk to him on the phone but i'm so shy cause of my anxiety he told me he love me and i didn't tell him back because we don't do nothing but talk on the computer but he ... (86 words)

Is something going on behind my back with her and the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have been with my gf for 3 years now, were both young, early twenties. probably like most relationships we have our fair share of ups and downs, recently mostly downs and she has started to doubt our relationship. I know for a fact she has been texting her ex, but... (191 words)

15 years old and never had a boyfriend. Strange???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 years old and I've never had a boyfriend. (trying to keep it simple) I am waiting for the right guy but I want to know what people think about it.... (33 words)

How do I deal with the aftermath of the WEEK FROM HELL

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This week so far my mum tried to kill herself by taking an overdose and crashing into a tree, and is now in a mental institution. I had a massive fight with my dad A good friend had an accident and is now in a coma. I crashed my car (I'm not hurt though just damaged... (160 words)

15 and might be pregnant!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im only 15 and i think i might be pregnant. I'm soooo scared and i had sex (for the first time) about 2 weeks ago. And we started than stopped right away. We didnt use protection (which is soo stupid now), and i missed my period. (My periods arn't regular yet) and my ... (75 words)

I hate his ex and she's coming back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) age 30-35 - Hi. I'm feeling anxious, sad, insecure and jealous for no good reason. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 23. He's been my first boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years and 3 months. In the beginning everything was perfect as we are very, very, very, very much alike. We share ... (787 words)

I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend but I would like to sleep with a girl... is that normal?... (16 words)

Does he have an anger problem or something else going on?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and my boyfriend argue alot but lately we've been pretty good except for the other day we got into a little arguement which was so stupid and he over reacted about the situation and let my house. he didnt even try to work it out or let it go. he does that alot we'll ... (123 words)

He's proposing because I told him to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - This question is maybe strange, but please try to understand me, because it is something that realllllly bothers me! Me (27) and my boyfriend (26) are dating for over 4 years now. I knew he would be the one from the beginning, but it took him until last week to decide whether ... (247 words)

Why did my b/f buy her a sexy short dress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have decided that we were both not ready to buy each other nice Christmas gifts since we are both out of work and are in school. Him and his friends participate in a secret Santa every year and this year the cap was $50... at which point he specifically chose ... (101 words)

He's everywhere! How can I get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

- I have been single for 6 months now, but I havent got over my ex bf! I was realy in love with this guy and we were going to do sooo much together he offered me the world and believed it would all come true. We split in june because he said he didnt want a relationship! H... (249 words)

Should I date my daughter's boyfriend's father?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Help me please! My daughter is 20 and she has been dating this young man for a year and a half. I went to high school with his Dad. Well me and his dad went out this weekend and had an amazing time. I really believe this relationship could go somewhere. Well the problem is that ... (97 words)

Are we meant to be together? And if we are what can we do to make it happen??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i love this girl and she says she loves me more than her own life. We went out before but broke up because she thought i did not love her. She went out with someone else to get over me or so she says. we both want to get back together but she does not want to hurt the ... (124 words)

Been with him for 16 years, he's a gambler, will he ever stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm in a really hard situation,i've been with my fella for 16 yrs and we have 3 kids together the problem is that he's a gambler and he's cleaned out my bank.i could get over that but he just lies to my face promising that he's not taken any money.when i confronted him with it ... (93 words)

I'm 29 and never had a boyfriend, any advice from the male?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they reject me in the coldest of ways... (209 words)

We don't have normal sex anymore, just anal occasionally. My self-esteem is shattered!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for around five months, we began to have sex after dating for around 3 months, we were both virgins. At the beginning, we both seemed to really enjoy sex, and I felt very satisfied and happy and he seemed to as well. One day, he suggested we try a... (267 words)

How can I make my ex want to try again and prove I'm not clingy anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend says he broke up with me because i was emotionally clingy; and i want to start over and maybe try again in the future; but do you think he wouldnt want to try again cause i was "emotionally clingy"? and after we broke up i tryed talking to him 4 days straight. ... (107 words)

How do I tell my parents that I'm dating their friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my dad's friend for a few months, he is quite a bit older than me. How do I tell my mum and dad about it?... (30 words)

She needs time but am I wasting mine? Should I keep trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - i've been textin this girl for nearly 2 months now and i really like her alot. but im not realy sure if she likes me. a few weeks after i was textin her i asked her did i have a chance and she said i would have if it was a while longer, because she had just broken up with her ... (115 words)

Why doesn't he answer my e-mails? Is he trying to forget me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend and I are in love however we can't be together for several reasons, the main one is that he is living in another country at the moment for some time (he is still not sure for how long) due to work. We normally e-mail each other a lot but lately he does not answer m... (162 words)

He asked for my address which I didn't give him, now he's gone and called it quits.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been talking to a guy in Denmark for 4 months, my family are so againist this and tried everything to get me to stop but I have fallen so hard for this man. This was so new to me, never cared much for the computer before. Anyway he was pushing for my cell number ... (117 words)

I am pregnant and scared about giving birth... Is it true that during labour...?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello =] I had quite an embarrasing question. I'm 7 months pregnant and I yes I am scared about giving birth (which is natural) but i have a more embarrasing problem. My fiance and mother are going to be in the room, and there is one thing I have been told and warned abo... (165 words)

A good way to tease guys when they are fingering you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok question mainly for guys but any womens input will help.i have two questions 1-when a guy is fingering you,do they like to hear u moan or not? 2-whats a good way to tease guys when they are fingering you? thankyou! xxx... (46 words)

I don't want to get naked in front of her since she told me penises are dirty and unsightly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My newish girlfriend has told me today she is revolted by penises because they are dirty and unsightly. We are yet to embark on the sexual side of the relationships and i am rather self-conscious about my genitals anyway and this has actually quite upset me. I don't want to get ... (101 words)

He says I'm hot! Does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay well theres this guy nd hes my lab partner and i like him and he knwes i do. But idk how he feels he tells his friend that im "hott" and that he might ask me out but i dont knwe. Me and his ex girlfriend got in to a fight and she said thats her man and blah blah but hes ... (151 words)

She confessed she loved me after 5 months, I can't say it back yet, could this ruin what we have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend told me she loved me today. We've only known each other for 5 months and been going out for one of them. We were lying down and I didn't know what to say and kind of stared at her for a little while. I then sort of mumbled -"i think i feel the same". She obviously ... (162 words)

I'm tired of giving and giving and getting nothing in return, not even respect!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - hey, here's my situation. i'm 30 years old and have been with my husband for 13 years. our relationship has had many downs, he's been abusive at the start of it and i have always stayed with him, he isn't physically abusive anymore but everytime we fight he tells me he hates ... (397 words)

Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing, fool around with me a bit, h... (169 words)

My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I am passive and waited for ... (107 words)

If my boyfriend watched porn, does this mean he is obsessed with sex? Can people change?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my basic question upfront is- can people change? I know it's possible. But I'll ask with my specific situation. If it ends up getting long I apologize but bear with me. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. A couple of months ago I discovered a charge o... (710 words)

Is there any medicine that induces abortion? Can she be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I and my gf had sex on 29 nov. generally Her period happens on 5th of every month. but in this month(dec.), it delayed by 10 days already. Is it showing that she is pregnant?? If yes, Is there any alternative to abortion nw?? What can we do, if we dont want abortion....any ... (54 words)

That's not really a 50/50 friendship, is it? Do you think I let her use me and why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys. For about 4 years now, I've been living it pretty tough... See, I am completely in love with another woman (and that's not even the issue)... My problem is that I don't know what she wants... I don't know if she is a lesbian, but I've a feeling theirs something ... (369 words)

I don't trust this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my guy for 6 months, hes great and lovely and we were best friends b4 for like 3 years. but recently i have gettin real jelous of his friend at college, she is in his class and hes always goin on about oh ***** shes so funny both me and ***** hate our lecturer... (314 words)

I want to be MORE than just a friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey all, I need your advice in this as I don't have that much experience. I like a girl in school and she likes me back, some person asked her said to her that I'm interested in her then after that I saw her interested in me and she said I want to talk to him. The girl... (211 words)

Should I be more cautious with my feelings this time around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's best friend (who was also married) and I had an affair over the summer. This was not supposed to be anything more than a physical thing. It very quickly progressed to a much more emotional relationship than either of us expected. We were talking on the phone all ... (249 words)

Ejaculation problems... is it me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my man for 3 years the sex has been great but recently I have noticed that he has not been able to ejaculate while have intercourse. He will ejaculate while we are having oral sex, is there something wrong with me? For some reason I am not as moist and tight ... (78 words)

He wants to leave town and find a job somewhere else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi.. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. We had many break ups but none of them where over serious issues. But about 2 months ago we broke up and only got back together after one month and a lot of begging from my side. We both love each other very much but... (309 words)

Both married we had affair, now he's single but I'm not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - We're both married and fell in love with each other. He told me he'd never leave his wife and to work on my relationship with my husband which I did. The problem is he has now left his wife and is single. He say's he loves me and wants to be with me and yet he's dating othe... (286 words)

Should I tell my teacher I love him

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a teacher at my school! and I really like him but he isnt good lookin well not really anyway! but he has some kind of sense to him that makes me love him. he is my wallpaper on my fone and i think of him all the time before i go to sleep and when i go to sleep ... (95 words)

Should I put our friendship at risk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem, I really like this boy, but he already has a girlfriend. I knew that he liked me a while ago, but at the time I was going out with someone else and I didnt fancy him. The problem is that he is my friend and we are quite close, so I dont feel I can tell him or ... (81 words)

My girlfriend is abusing me and the police don't help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age - About 16 months ago, I buy a House with my GirlFriend. She have one Girl (18) and a boy (15). The house have 3 Bedroom and 2 rooms. 3 months after moving in to the house, I ask permission (yes. permission) to go to my friends house to visit ( a couple that I live with for 14 ... (776 words)

Advise on dating an older woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M) age 36-40 - I am interested in dating an older woman. Ladies can you give some advice? How should I ask her out? How would an older woman like to do on a date? Should I bring her a gift when we go on the date? What kind of things make good gifts? Any tips for having her enj... (110 words)

Can a married man/married woman be best friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been married to my husband for 16 years. He works with a female and they have become friends over the last 8 years. I found an email that they wrote to each other that really scared me. They were discussing a holiday party that they were at and how they didn't even speak ... (257 words)

Why did she write me this email?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Background- boy meets girl in 2003 at college, fancies her like mad, and she seemed to like me too. I heard through the grapevine that she was, well, a slut.. so this put me off. By late 2004 I was still thinking about her despite having been dating other girls.She m... (809 words)

Can my husband fall back in love with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) age 51-59 - Honest answers please!!! Do you think it's possible for somebody to fall back in love? My husband loves me but is not in love with me. We haven't made love in over a year. I heard his feeling in the past and always put him down sexually. Since then though we've been working on ... (146 words)

Does Adderall affect your period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres the thing, my last period was October 24th and I have still not gotten my period yet. I know the possibility of pregnancy already, but my question is I started taking Adderall December 2nd (doctors orders)and I was wondering if it might affect getting your period or not. ... (158 words)

Girlfriend slept with other guys should I be ok with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age - my girl likes to hang out her guy frends but some of them shes slept with should i be okay with that ... (24 words)

Parents married 36 years, caught dad in bed with another woman!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I caught my dad in bed with another women, he is 60 and been married to my mum for 36 years, should I tell my mum?... (28 words)

Boyfriend broke up with me because his friend lied!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been living with my boyfriend now for the past 4 or so months, everything was going fine, apart from the odd argument, which, every couple has. recently one of his friends tuned around to my boyfriend and told him that we'd fooled around with each other on a drunken night ... (173 words)

Should I ask him to leave his wife of 37 years for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 December 2008 (F) age 51-59 - I'm in love with a married man. We've been seeing each other everyday now for the past 6months sex is great.how can I ask him to leave his wife of 37 yrs. No kids involved,but there is a grand child. How can his wife not expect something? ... (48 words)

I have feelings for my ex's brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hey yes , im still in love with my ex , but i dont know what to do , all my friends say get over him , and i kinda have , but i still have very strong feelings for him , but i have been worried about the feelings im getting for my exs brother . is that weird? i think the on... (207 words)

Wants to say THANK YOU

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Can one ever say THANK YOU enough? WOW what an awesome site! Having vented my frustrations for the first time in writing and spent some time browsing through other people's similar experiences I feel SO much better. My inherent natural instinct to propel myself forward has ... (500 words)

Lumpy and sticky juice after masturbating, an alert?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - urm this is abit embarresing really but recently when i masturbated my juice wasnt really juice was kind of lumpy and sticky and there wansnt much is this cus i have been masturbating more lately or what?... (40 words)

I want him at any cost, what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - I love a boy very much...I want him at any cost...he is my good friend,we have a very good time with each other but I want to have love relationships with him...both his and mine friend tease us by each other name...some of my friends say that he get angry when they tease him ... (109 words)

We barely talk or interact with each other as we are not allowed to date!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - i still love my ex boyfriend so much. we got together because i was getting hints that he liked me and he admitted to my friends that he did like me and at the same time, i was falling for him. we were together for three weeks. everything was fine but one day he didn't talk to ... (239 words)

I'm bisexual - why does my interest for guys last so shortly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me! i am bi and have been attracted to many women, and a few men. recently i found out that the overall attraction i have for any guy would not last more a month. i don't know why this has been happening, but i know those guys who have pursued me were deeply ... (152 words)

I'm missing him a lot but don't want to appear clingy, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I recently started dating a guy - we've been together for about 4 weeks but live really close to each other so have been seeing a lot of each other. I go to his and he makes me dinner and we spend whole days just visiting places and getting lunch together. We've beco... (112 words)

I'm obsessed with my girlfriend, any self-help methods you can recommend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in a relationship with a very charming and beautiful woman who is my classmate in the university and also a ex-colleague in a modelling agency. she's bisexual, and i was straight before i met her.. it wasnt too difficult for us to get together.she made me fell in love ... (464 words)

I want my driving instructor but he doesn't want to cross that line...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (?) age 41-50 - I've been doing driving lesson for a few months .........the problem is I have started to like my instructor in more than just a friendly way. I told him this. He didn't exactly say - Oh no! We had a good chat about it. He is said he found me attractive too. He said that he ... (489 words)

This girl wants me on the rebound but I feel bad as her ex might be in love with her....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl has broke up with her boyfriend , and i talk to her quite alot at school , we tend to flirt but thats what i do with every girl , for fun at school , now she wants to have a snog and do other stuff with ME !! , i dont mind doing it , but i feel a bit bad because this ... (89 words)

Am I pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I started the pill almost 3 weeks ago and I took it correctly (on the first day of my period) so that it was more effective and I've been taking it at the right time everyday. When I'd only been on it for 3 days or something me and my boyfriend of 8 months had sex without a ... (138 words)

How can I save a relationship of 22 months?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my relationship of 22 months has gone down the pan we always argue and he never wants to soend time with me i dont think he loves me anymore beacause of the way he is with me wat can i do to make things work?? ... (45 words)

What should I do with my pubic hair?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how much to shave?? what do most ... (136 words)

Can I get with my brother's girlfriend without hurting him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age - hello i have this freind who is seeing my brouther the other day i was talking with her and she told me she didnt love my brouther and didnt want to be with him anymore and that she had feelings for me which the feeling is the same here with me as well but this is my brouthers ... (70 words)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks... (61 words)

Is she pregnant? She's too scared to buy a test.

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin stupidly had unprotected sex with her boyfriend 2 months ago in October. Before then, her periods were pretty regular arriving on the 12th, and very heavy. However, a month after the sex she's said to have had her period on the 11th of November. It was heavy as usual... (145 words)

What makes a life better?

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15 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - Hello all, Ok, im 19 years old male. Still virgin and never had a gf before. Actually i dont care about virginity, lonelyness hurts alot more. Ive got the worst of everythink u can think of. First of all im pretty short, only 5ft nd 9. I know girls like much more taller guys... (192 words)

Considering leaving my husband - any one in the same boat?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been married 15 years and have a teenage daughter. We got married only after 5 months of courtship. First 3 years of marriage were slightly turbulent as we continued to discover each other better. For the rest of the 12 years, we were focused on raising our daughter, and ... (192 words)

Violent Girlfriend then gets her family to threaten me...

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend is a really heavy drinker and is often violent towards me, her friends and even total strangers when she is drunk, she has promised to do something about her drinking many times but never does, its clear she never will. A few weeks ago she got violent and star... (220 words)

Bestfriend's boyfriend dillema.

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi My best friends boyfrind is flirting with me qiute openy i might addd,,it bothers me i dont want it to get in the way... (27 words)

Isn't what he's done to me cheating?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm writing because my head is so confused I don't know what is right or wrong any more. I've been with a guy now for 4 years living together and he's been fathering my 2 children, don't get me wrong he's a nice guy, good father to them but I've got one big issue with him, ... (222 words)

Her boyfriend doesn't know she has a baby. Should she tell him?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Have a friend of mine, who has been dating a guy for the past one year. My friend has a baby but she is afraid to tell her boyfriend because it might ruin their relationship please give any suggestions to help.... (42 words)

If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any other part of your body oth... (96 words)

Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute?

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15 December 2008 (F)

- Is it appropiate for a guy who has a girlfriend to tell other girls he thinks they are cute and so on? It really hurts my feelings when my bf does this. I know it doesnt mean he is necessarily cheating on me, and in fact i dont think he is at all, but it still hurts beca... (388 words)

I just broke up with my boyfriend and its hurting like hell.

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I just broke up with my boyfriend and its hurting like hell. I was the one who suggested we break up, I really didn't think he would agree. He says we won't get back together coz I'm self centered and wants things to go my way-which is true. I had hurt him by comparin... (117 words)

I'm giving her space but what if I'm putting my life on hold for nothing?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - I first met this girl who I spoken to briefly about 6 months ago. About 6 weeks ago we met again. She said she remembered me as she found it refreshing for someone to come up to her and be decent without trying it on and because of that was looking out for me since that time. ... (296 words)

I ignored this read flag and here I am - having to forget him, but how?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I was happily dating a man for the past 6 weeks. We shared many romantic dinners together, saw each other at least 4 times a week and emailed each other daily. When we first met, he talked alot about his past with women and his problem of having feelings for more than one ... (150 words)

Need guy's advice about bj's

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so most people are so open about questions on here so im ganna try it out. me and my boyfriend have been dateing 13 months, and weve only had sex once. but lately he's been doing down on me alot. and i wanna like return the favor, and hes kinda told me he wanted me to ... (164 words)

How can I stand out to his mother

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend had introduced many of his previous girlfriends to his mother. These were all relationships that ended up badly with a lot of drama, and he told me his mother didn't like them when she met them anyway. His mother is a single working woman and this is her oldest ... (70 words)

Too depressed to care

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i feel there is no point in me trying to change.i am too depressed to hurt to bothar.i feel there is no point in me like any guy because any guy in all my years has rejected.torn my heart out it has been done to many times i don,t think i can another year of the same ... (284 words)

My grandmother insults me

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - help me please!!!! this morning my grandma and aunt asked to go shopping for sandals for my grandma, but i was so tired i refused they kept forcing me to go, but i had 2 refuse my body was so freakin' exhausted, then all of a sudden my grandma starts exaggerating how ... (135 words)

She slept with her ex after spending the night with me

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 9 months and I had accepted her sexual past. Recently I found out that she slept with her ex just before we started dating. The thing is just before this happened we spent the night together as friends and she knew I was very interested. ... (143 words)

He stares at me does he like me?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i like this guy in my coll.His friends use tease me with him and my guy use to get irritated but now days he smiles when they do so.And one of his friend told me that he changed a lot!But the problem here is he acts cool if he sees me.The other day i was sitting and his friend ... (134 words)

Should I leave my wife for other woman with sexy butt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm white 38 yrs. piercing blue eyes my trade mark. My thing is Latinas. I'm married to one now who is 34. for 8 years we have had ups and downs. She has one girl 15 from previous relation and I have 1 girl 14 from previous wife. (previous wife was white redhead) big mis... (633 words)

When can I take the pregnancy test if I don't have periods?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I take a pregnancy test if I am on the pill skipping my period? I had unprotected sex (ie not with a condom) a week ago, and am feeling really sick (headaches, sore joints, fatigue etc) and a little paranoid. I bought myself a home pregnancy test today, and read the ... (108 words)

I can't squirt now!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i have a quick question about female ejaculation. i am 18 and used to be able to 'squirt' and i did it once for my now ex boyfriend and his reaction was that of disgust even tho he said he thought it was hot, he said he didnt expect anywhere near as much fluid and he just ... (154 words)

Struggling with being unemployed and in a boring relationship, help!

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15 December 2008 (F) age 41-50 - i'm 24 years old and I'm struggling with things. I'm pretty well educated but I'm having a hard time finding a job in my field, and i've been unemployed for quite some time now. I also find that I'm really bored in life. I have friends but I only see them once in a while. In ... (194 words)

Is this a foolish thing to do, appropriate, selfish or what?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - About August of last year I developed a crush on a friend in one of my classes. I've kept it quiet. January of this year she asked me if I liked her. I replied that I did. She informed me that she didn't feel the same way and wanted to continue being friends. Fast-forward t... (186 words)

Any tips for experimenting with sex?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Any ideas and tips for experimenting in sex? - Anything to do with costume/roleplay? -New positions? -Any good lubes? -Toys? -Places to do it? Any answers to these or more would be great :) Ta xx ... (47 words)

He tickles me... I'm confused if he likes me or not!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - this guy from my high school visited my school cus he dropped out from his school and wants to transfer. ive never ever thought id have a crush on him when i was in high school. he was sorta immature and was not that attractive. when he visited, he was changedddd. he was more... (530 words)

What do men like their woman to do while on top??

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - what do men like women to do when their woman are on top. or How do you master woman on top... (22 words)

My girlfriend saw her friend trying to kiss me and stormed out, how to get her to listen to me?

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15 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend's friend come up to and tried to me kiss (she was so drunck that she coundnt think straight) at a party that my girlfriend and me went to. Of coruse I didnt let her I stop her she get more then 6 inches. But my gf saw us together and from the angle she was at it ... (160 words)

Help, I'm losing him because of my trust issues!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, in the past ive had my heart broken. I've been in two relationships and got cheated on in both instances. Since ive gotten over them, i've become friends with my ex's and at some point they've both regretted their actions and wanted me back. Although i can safely say i... (237 words)

I have become close to a girl who is in a LDR, I have trouble letting go, any ideas?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - I have trouble letting go. I have become close friends with a girl in my class even though she is dating someone, but they are dating long distance for the first time and they haven't seen each other in 3 months (he doesnt treat how she should be treated, she even tells me ... (145 words)

Why do I fall for men so fast? What can I do to avoid this?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Why is it that I fall for men so fast? For example, after just one or two dates with a guy, I will get bummed out if he doesn't answer a call. Instantly I will assume that he doesn't like me. Or if I liked him, I will want to hang out like the next day. I'm just assumin... (101 words)

Am I thinking too much? Or we are simply over?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all. We haven't meet each other after a fight 3 weeks ago. Few days after the fight, I called her, she said it is over. When we met online, she is there talking to me. It isn't as much as before but from her saying, am still her bf. 2 weeks passed, she doesn't cal... (182 words)

He says he feels inferior to me and that he's jealous of the way my body can react while orgasming!!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i are both each other's first serious relationship. along with that, we are both exploring each other's sexuality with each other. while i find it to be fun and exciting, he has such an issue with the fact that a woman can orgasm more than a man. when i say ... (326 words)

Moved in with boyfriend but strongly attracted to another man - how do I move out of this situation?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - What would you do? I have just moved in with my boyfriend of 3 years - with a lease of one year. I had doubts even before we moved in, but went ahead becuase i wanted to give it a go. He has been lovely to me, but i have come to admit to myself that i really am not ... (151 words)

Should I hold it against her that she neglected to tell me she has kids?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship with a wonderful woman for six months now. I am very much in love with her and want to take the next step in asking her to marry me. We are in a long distance relationship now. We communicate daily and never run out of things to say. We have had ... (171 words)

I like my friend's older brother! How to make him notice me?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - so there's this guy i like but i'm not exactly sure if he also likes me, he's really cool around me like he would always hug me n all that, me n him would always have the "eye contact" but then one of my girlfriends he's always joking around with saying that they're gonna get ... (138 words)

How can I know if he's a great guy, or the type who uses girls, as I am told?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - How can i tell if hes a great, awesome guy, or a perverted jerk? One of my friends, fred, seems to me to be a great guy. Flirty and has a bit of a dirty sense of humor but overall a great guy. But some people think that he is a perverted jerk who uses girls to get what he w... (164 words)

Was it cold hearted of me to tell him no? We're just too young for marriage!

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15 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I say no because I dont think im mature enough for marriage and we're both 19. Dont get me wrong I do love him but and 19 seems insanely young for that kind of commitment. I think might destroy him cause now he's gets mad at me for almost ... (72 words)

Does he like me but not realize it

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Yes, this is the same old story. I really like my guy friend tom. I think we would be great together, but i can't be sure because i don't know everything about him. I'd like the opportunity to find out. However, he has a girlfriend, Sam. Tom doesnt know that i like him. He a... (263 words)

A lot of girls like him....Mixed feelings?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my friend, joe. he doesnt know that i like him though. What i am worried about is if i do tell him and it becomes mutual, there are a lot of girls out there that like him. he's probably the most-liked guy that i know. This worries me because on one hand, its a ... (120 words)

If the Ladies helping here are "Agony Aunts", what are we.. "Agony Uncles"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys, Whole day of Serious Questions and Answers!! Let's make the mood Easy.. !! Everywhere I go in this Website I see, "Ask agony aunt for help" and stuff! Why is it too much into an Agony Aunt? Why has it always gotta be an Agony AUNT... and What are we guys..? "Ago... (61 words)

Inappropriate touching between step mother and step son!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age - I'm a 45 year old step-mother of a 19 year old male, and I've recently made a horrible mistake. For the past few weeks I've been flirting and teasing my step-son. My husband has ignored me for the several months now, and I just wanted some attention, especially from a young ... (134 words)

I know our relationship is strong enough for long distance, so why doesn't she want it?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello to all! So here is my dilemma, I have been dating this girl for about 3 years now. It is true love like I have never felt before...I am 28 and have been around the block so don't ping me. I know my girlfriend feels the same way, we never argue or fight and are always v... (289 words)

Did he really fall in love with me?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - In middle school, I met my best friend. The problem was, I never saw him as just that. We "dated" for like two months when I was 13. Obviously it wasn't serious though because I was so young. Yet when I broke up with him, I realized that I was in love. He refused to take me ... (366 words)

I am DESPERATE for a baby!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My name is Valerie I have been trying to have a baby now for 11 years. I don't know what's going wrong but anyway, if me and my boyfriend come together, can I get pregnant. Is there anything I can take to get pregnant?????... (46 words)

The friend zone... is there a key to get out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay so most of you know me as the guy who tried and tried to get his ex wife back to no prevail. Well I've somewhat moved on and am talking to a friend of mine that I've known my whole life. Now she just broke up with her bf like a couple months ago and we have been texting ... (501 words)

Born again virgin?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a major question... I had a hysterectomy 8 years ago. When I have sex with my husband he says I am snugger then a virgin is.. is it true that the canal is shortened, thus making it snug? or am I wrong? I also found orgasm to be 10 times more intense as I have gotten ... (68 words)

Now I don't know what to think as he says he wants a break...

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together for 4 years.... he was happy with me and we planned on growing old together. We always talked about our wedding and how we would live our lives... this was within a few weeks ago... but a week ago... he decided we needed a break. I need to learn ... (269 words)

He told me that only one other girl has ever made him cum with a condom on. Pressure!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing this guy for about a month now and we arent bf/gf because ive just come out of a 2 year relationship (my first long term one if you can call it long term) and this new guy is amazing. but the problem is that he told me that only 2 girls have ever made him cum ... (255 words)

How can we make anal less painful?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband and I tried anal for the first time about a month ago. He says he has always liked it.. it was my first time and I really didn't. I was told it is very dangerous, and is a no no. I have seen it done in movies and jesus, those people look like it's nothing to it.. ... (87 words)

Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 1 month pregnant and my bf told me to take out my baby because he has more plans and dreams for our relationship. Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby? Anyway, my bf is married to another woman but he told me that they are separated. Do I ... (64 words)

Should I wait for him or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I desperately need advice. Please help :) I'm 20 and about 8 months ago I broke up with my boyfriend after 14 months together, within a month of breaking up with him my brothers friend *Anthony kissed me one night. Initially i didnt think much of it, but then he got my number... (565 words)

The ghost of Christmas past...

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - So...where do I start? I will make this short and sweet. 1st love comes back into my life after 10 years, 2 kids and a soon to be ex husband. She married him because like a lot of girls she got pregnant blah blah blah. So now she decides to tell me she always loved me etc.. ... (175 words)

I think I have a bladder infection or something

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I have a question concerning my health. Lately I've been urinatingvery often, and I mean VERY often! I'm not pregnant and I am in a comitted relationship with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. We don't use protection because we trust one another and I've been tes... (199 words)

Crazy about my colleague!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I started at my new job earlier in the year and over time have become very fond of a colleague. The problem is he's bisexual and currently has a boyfriend (when I first started he was dating a girl). He went home for a few months over the summer (he's currently here for uni)... (322 words)

A baby crazed Christmas!!! Help!

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - OMG!I need help! I have no clue what to do! I dont know whether my hormones have gone insane or my maternal instincts have overtaken me, but I am baby crazed. I have no idea why, I've always wanted kids but now I think I've just gone crazy lol. My boyfriend is 20 and I'm 19 we ... (210 words)

Any role playing ideas?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, Me and my bf love sex and we're really into role play like naughty maid and school girl etc. Does anyone have any other ideas we could try? We are gonna try a drama one where we walk into the room in dfferent roles and act out a wild love affair or something LOL but if ... (79 words)

When should I give him his stuff back?

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15 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boy broke up should i give him his stuff back? its only been like 4 days or should i wait until we get back from christmas break? to show im stronger!! WOOO!... (44 words)

What is she thinking?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago. we have spent alot of time apart now considering that we used 2 live together and spend every second of every day together. we met up again (which isnt the first time since we've broken up) and today went really really well. we ... (288 words)

Should she feel sore?

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15 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - okay well im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. the other nite i fingered her for her first time and she liked it but she said that later on her vagina was a lil sore. is that normal?... (38 words)