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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm heavy and worried it will affect my chances of asking out a girl

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Help! I think I might be interested in a girl and I want to know what to do. The problem is I am very overweight and I get a feeling that being overweight and asking someone out may get a really negative reaction...you know sort of people being grossed out by the thought of t... (130 words)

My brother let me go in a foster home! Does he care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - I (I'm 15) recently loss both of my parents. My brother (he's 19) had make a choice let live with him or go live with a foster home. And you know what he picked over me HIS GIRLFRIEND (also 19). I'm in foster care now. Its like doesnt my brother cares about me anymore. Why ... (176 words)

How can I masturbate better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - How can i masturbate better? i mean i cant look on anyother websites to find new ways to because my mum will look on the history and see it. I was hoping you could tell me some ways to masturbate without sending any links. thanks for the help. xxx... (49 words)

After 4 years my boyfriend doesn't seem to care anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5135 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello! My boyfriend and I have been together for four years. I love him so incredibly much and I know he loves me also; however, he has admitted to me that he loses interest in me(both sexually and I guess relationship wise), he nevers wants to be with me alone still and ... (365 words)

How do I make myself attractive to my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what to do. My husband (only been married 18 months) and I hit a rough patch. Basically since i met him ive had bulmia and serious eating issues. he has helped me through them and ive got loads better, im really proud of myself,(that's the very short version,... (310 words)

How do I let go of my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently Left my boyfriend of 3+years. I told it it would be a "break". Things between us have been bad for over a year now. He drinks too much and seems to never be there when i need him. He says he loves me, and all that junk. But in my mind actions speak louder than words, ... (143 words)

What are at home methods to get rid of spots?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok im 12 and ive got liek 5 spots on my forehead and blackheads on my chin and nose HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM What products do you reccomend Or What Methods Like At Home Methods Etc... (46 words)

How can I attract an older classy man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - how would a girl attract a sexy ,older,well dressed,educated man with good manners,hansome looking guy,who is real gentleman,the fact i am sick of jerks,shallow guys.and guys who pretend to be gentleman and have manners so they cal score fools girls in to thinking nice guyus ... (79 words)

I can't trust my girlfriend when she starts drinking!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - last night my girlfriend went out drinking in NYC where we live with her best friend. i was out of town. believe it or not, in our 15 month relationship last night was the first time she's gone out to a bar without me. i was worried about what might happen. alcohol totally ... (533 words)

What are the signs of your period starting

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok im 12 and ive not started my periods yet but like 2 of my friends have ok ive developed breasts and got pubic hair and stuff but ive not started my periods. My Mum keeps buying me pads and i get all embarresed Help PS-How do i know when it will start like the signs ?... (63 words)

Could she be pregnant, without missing her period for two months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

- My girlfriend thinks she may be pregnant. She is 11 days late. But she SAYS the last time seh had sex was 2 months ago. Is it possible that she has been pregnant for two months and is just missing her period now? p.s. only been with her one week and haven't slept with her yet... (58 words)

Do I make my teachers nervous

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Lately I've been noticing one of my teachers seems to be acting differently. In the beginning of the year, he would constantly be staring at me when teaching, (which made me feel uncomfortable at times), but now he's looking away if he catches me looking at him. He also does ... (238 words)

Broke up without having sex, I now have thoughts that I was not good enough, any advice on how to stop these thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 and I have a mental dilemma on my head and it has been bothering me for the last 4 months since I broke up with my girlfriend. I had been in a relationship with her for a year and a half when we broke up but we had never had sex. We're both still virgins (well... (190 words)

Have any of you heard from the poster, "Lolita Syndrome", do you think it was bogus???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (?) age - Has Anyone heard from the poster of LOLITA SYNDROME? I'm concerned! I had hoped she'd get back to us. But now, I have to admit that I am wondering if it was a bogus question...I usually don't have a suspicious nature, but something is making me wonder...what do the rest of ... (78 words)

My girlfriend, who I love, has an anxiety disorder, and is ungoing therapy, it's affecting me, should I remain with her?

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13 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - hi, i'm in a long term relationship with my gf and things haven't been great for a while now. the spark has gone out of the relationship for a while and it just seemed to me that because she is a very anxious type of girl that things like our social life and our sex life were ... (440 words)

I am a 19 year old bi-sexual male, with a crush on my boss, he fliirts, what should I do?

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13 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - Help! I have a huge crush on my boss! I am a 19, bisexual male and he is 23 and I cant tell what he is... The problem is I dont know if he is in to me. I know that he was married but no one knows why he got divorced. He flirts with me and I can tell it is flirting so I know I ... (129 words)

We are twins but not treated the same by our parents

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13 December 2008 (?) age 30-35 - hey! i am a twin. we are both girls and it is really hard.im an the younger one by 41 minutes and my parents always ignore me and don't think i have accomplished any thing. i feel like a failer.My twin on the other hand get what ever she wants and my parents make her feel like ... (137 words)

Does he really care, or is it just lust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - If a guy gets hard almost every time he spends time with you and hugs you, does it mean that he's only driven by lust? I have known this guy for over a year, and we have only recently started touching, I haven't kissed him yet, but will soon. He has told me that he will ne... (99 words)

Best friend like me? Or trying to make my b/f jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

13 December 2008 (?) age 26-29 - Hi everyone. My best friend is a guy we always flirt and we know each other inside out. But I think the only reason he flirts is to wind-up my bfs. You see I was in a relationship for 9-10 months . . . with his bro. This was when me and him were only good friends but then we ... (322 words)

Should I divorce my husband, and live with my boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age - I'm a 55 yrs old married woman for 20 years. Recently, my husband diagnosed with prostage cancer. Now he's in therapy and we weren't able to have sex at all. I happened to bump into my ex boyfriend in high school. He's a widowed now and available. I told him about my situati... (161 words)

Married,she's pregnant, not sure of father, he wants to be in delivery room, in case,advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife and I have had a number of issues this last year or so. She left me in August, then told me in September she'd had an affair in April for a couple of weeks but broke it off (right when we started going to counseling). She only told me because she's pregnant and ... (205 words)

Why did he suddenly decide to wipe me out of his life?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked a question on here about a week ago about a FWB relationship that I was in. Everyone was very helpful, but things have now changed and I would really appreciate a blokes point of view. The guy in question is away a lot so only really saw him every couple of weeks.... (451 words)

She's ignoring me so should I forget about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My friend of over 6 months is completely ignoring me. It was a complicated relationship but to get to the point, we both knew we loved each other and she had to clear some things from her past in order for her to move on with me, so I gave her space. She didn't clear those ... (217 words)

Am I pregnant or is my period just disrupted?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am going through the same situation... I am 23 years old. I always get my period 4-5 days earlier than the last one. I had sex 2 weeks after my period for the first time. I did bleed a lot, and we had it again the next day... I started bleeding again, and it la... (111 words)

How should I ask a married woman out on a date?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2772 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I was just wondering what's the best way to ask a married woman at work out on a date. By just asking her whether she wants to go for a drink sounds too casual and disrespectful to me - especially since I've had working relations with her for years. Should I be a little ... (104 words)

Pregnant and had sex with two different people in the same month

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I had got my period in the beginning of the month and it was in the beginning of November and I don't know the exact date. My ex boyfriend had had sex with me around november 13 and he came a lot of times. We broke up and i had sex on the 17th with my friend and it felt like he ... (139 words)

Help, I blame everyone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello DearCupid People, I hope you can help. My problem seems to be that I blame everyone and everything for the fact that I am so unhappy and the worse thing is I blame the people I love. I blame my parents for taking up years of my life and money caring for them and then ... (217 words)

How can I talk to him without being too forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

- Im 25 and came out of a 5 year relationship 6 months ago. I am now ready to start dating again and there is one particular guy Ive got my eye on but I think he is shy and I have no idea how I can let him know that I like him without freaking him out. Ive known him for years and ... (115 words)

Should I stop worrying about his ex?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry in advance if this is long. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months now and its going well, I love spending time with him and can easily see myself falling for him. The trouble is, i'm really insecure about his ex. He broke up with her in April after an 8... (338 words)

Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd been divorced for 4 years ... (189 words)

Short of surgery any suggestions about firming up my tummy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all I am a mother of 2 wonderful and as result of my pregnancies I now have a wrinkled lose belly with stretch marks. Besides surgery, which is totally out of the question for me, is there anything I can do or use to help me with my problem.... (50 words)

Advice needed about job situation

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) - If a manager said that he sent an employee home on suspension pending a misconduct investigation, is there a letter that must be signed by the manager and employee when he orally suspends you or is there some type of letter you are suppose to get in the mail saying that the ... (334 words)

He likes me but he doesn't love me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is a wonderful man who I have been seeing for 10 months now. I know it's not that long but I have really fallen for him but he doesn't love me. I have known him for almost 2 years and we started out as friends. I started to feel like he was more than a friend ab... (442 words)

I'm worried because I'm dating a playboy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 19 yrs of age. I've been liking this guy since 2 n a half years..he was then going out with another girl with whom he was pretty serious due to some reasons they broke off later.. During their relation itself he used to flirt n show interest in me too..now that we both ... (105 words)

Should he be taking drugs?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Whats your opinions on a guy who smokes pot a few times a week? this guy is one of my close friends.. he said he has been smoking it since he was young. its like he needs it to relax after work. sometimes at the weekends he takes "e" tablets. he says he can control ... (94 words)

Went To Uni, Didn't Enjoy The Following Job, Now Where Do I Go? I'm Lost...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - I did my A Levels and went to University after school, thinking I really wanted to go into one industry. I did for a few years, but really didn't enjoy it, Uni did NOT prepare me for the real world. So I left, and felt totally lost for quite some months, not knowing what to ... (153 words)

We Hang out, he's Hot and Cold, Any Flirting Tips?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going shopping soon with a guy ive liked for a long time.. we are best friends but he always blows hot and cold on me..we dnt text, then we do.. he goes with other girls and i go with other guys but he always flirts with me and says im amazing any tips on how to sub... (91 words)

I Can't Be Intimate With Boyfriend, But So Much Going On In My Life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I split up after over a year together. We spent far too much time together and it just got too much for both of u, so we decided it was best to spend some time apart. Now, after 9 months, we have decided to give it another go - we had virtually no contact in ... (283 words)

I Think My Boyfriend Likes My Clothes More Than Me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Since I have an extremely feminine face and body, my boyfriend likes it when I wear girl clothes a lot; things like skirts and dresses. And I'm starting to get the feeling he's more attracted to the GIRL clothes then me. Should I be worried about him going straight on me? Can ... (60 words)

People Are Using Me to Get Ahead at My Work

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya. This is more of a work issue than a relationship one, but still a big one. See, recently I started working as a waitress in my uncles hotel, and word got out to some of the other waiters about the fact that the owner of the hotel is related to me. I only found out toda... (198 words)

My Stepson Films Me Naked

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age - while cleaning my stepsons room recently i accidentally pressed play on his vcr and to my horror it was a video of myself getting undressed in my dressing room, he must have put a hidden camera in the curtains which wasn't there when i checked. I played all of the video an... (147 words)

We are losing our feelings for each other but don't want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there all. I've only recently stumbled upon this site and I find the community very approachable. So, here's my problem.. It's rather lengthy so please bare with me. Here's a background of our relationship. We are dating. It has been 7 months. Our parents know about us be... (496 words)

Do I stay with partner of 6 years or go with old friend for FWB relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 6 years and have 2 children with him, but dont love him and dont have any sexual relationship, i know i should leave him but its hard? Ive recently met a friend i havent seen for 5 years, he wants to have sex but nothing more. What should i do? I ... (76 words)

She's 15, I proposed, she told me to wait..now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M) age 30-35 - I'm a 16 years old boy. I like a girlfriend, whos age is 15. I like her more then my life. But i'm not understanding, she like me or not. Once i also proposed her. But she reject my proposal and told me that her decision is not everything. She also can't take such a big ... (120 words)

7 years, 2 kids and he still isn't quite ready to marry??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for 6 years and we have a 2 year old son and currently Im pregnant with our second child which is due in march. We have been engaged for about 9 months and just recently within the past month started premarital counseling.We have shared our ... (442 words)

I think she only wants me on the weekends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age - I have being in a relationship for the past 4 years with a separated woman that has 2 kids with her. We started as friends and hide our interests from her kids until about a year but I have also noticed that she prefer to spend time with her coworkers male and female after work ... (139 words)

This relationship has me so messed up! HELP!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help im in year 12 and i had a boyfriend for 2 years who im pretty sure was my first love in the first year of our relationship we had so much fun and couldnt get enough of each other and spent all of our time together and he was my best friend, we used ... (973 words)

Is it normal to be so jealous...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - This is kind of long, basically the whole story and then the questions at the end. When school started this year, I met an amazing girl in my art class. Nearing the end of october, we began going out, and everything has been asolutely amazing. But lately, she is hanging out w... (433 words)

I don't get any intimacy!

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13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I have been going out for nine months... we love each other very much... however because of her last relationships she kinda feels uncomfortable being touched, so I only ever really get rare hugs and we've never kissed... unsurprisingly, being intimate with ... (193 words)

Do I send a birthday card?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, It's my Ex Girlfriends birthday next week. We were together 3 years and broke up in September this year, I still think about her every day and deep down I know I still love her, is it right for me to still give her a birthday card and write how I still feel about her and ... (96 words)

Am I really unsuitable for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi! I'm dating this guy whom I've just met. He was so wonderful and humourous. Then, recently, his jokes went a bit far like he'd ask me if I feel horny.. I was offended and he laughed it off and said all his friends joke like that. I have this communication problem that I d... (94 words)

Leave or forgive? He denies we have a problem!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 24 years old woman married to a 48 years old man. the wedding was last august and since then i felt that he changed a lot, he s no more the sweet romantic fiancé i had. well in my society that's normal especially that we are living with his mother at the same house. ... (262 words)

Do I love him or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this boy for 7years now and he asked me out on msn... i was thinking about it When he phoned me i went shy and then my legs went like jelly thursday he was talking to a girl and i went quiet and i felt pissed off with her my best mate says i am always t... (121 words)

Porn is his life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband also did Masturbating when I busy at work. He likes to watch porn every day and like them feel them than me, if one day cannot see them he will go in a mood and make the reason to fight with me, I am very sad because I think he loves other women, loves their image ... (202 words)

Her parents are against our relationship, I don't see why religion is such an issue?

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13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - Anyone out there. Please help me, i will be so very thankful to u. I'm a 19 year old boy from Kenya in love with a 18 year old hindu girl from Malaysia. I met her when i went to study in a college in Malaysia. She is my first love and we've been together for 5 months. My ... (431 words)

Husband is a liar and a cheater, I do believe he loves me but I doubt his ability to do the right thing, any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my husband 6 years ago. We had the most wonderful 2/3 years together and we both felt we had found a love that was very special and rare. He had an affair 1.5 years ago and I threw him out, the pain was almost unbearable, he had become increasingly distant from me ... (534 words)

This long distance guy really confuses me!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Guys help me out, am dating this guy who i really love him but i think he is taking me for a ride, we are in a sort of distance relationship bt during the course of the year we see each other almost every weekend but we wont be seeing each other for 2 months starting this ... (252 words)

I missed him terribly while I was away, why am I suddenly so distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Last week I went away for five days to visit some friends. During those five days, I missed my boyfriend terribly. I cried every night I was away because I missed him so much, and we were always texting or phoning each other. But now i'm back, it feels a bit strange. It's lik... (142 words)

Did I do something? Why does she need space out of the blue?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - In early 2007 my ex wife said she wanted space, and then ended up filing for divorce. 2007 was a bad year and I still carry round the emotional scars. I wasn't convinced that I'd fall in love, or want to let myself fall in love, again. But I did. I've been seeing someone f... (233 words)

How do I persuade my g/f to have a threesome

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 30-35 - I really want my girl to have a threesome with me and another guy. im straight but i think it would be hot to watch her enjoying 2 men. how do i persuade her?... (34 words)

Is there anything wrong with being gay

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - am im gay for being attracted to a girl who is every thing i wish i was. she has somthing special bout her smile and personality help and is there any thing wrong with being gay ... (36 words)

Do I chose tall guy? Or short guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - OK, so I really LIKED this guy. LIKED, not LIKE, LIKED. We used to be best friends, then he asked me out, and it pretty much went flat. We're still going out but we don't even act it. My friend and I were talking, and she asked how long we were dating, and I counted up the ... (587 words)

The FWB relationship has caused us to have feelings for each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey you all i was in FWB relation with my married friend. But now we both have developed feelings for each other.I asked him to stop , but he is getting depressed. He is feeling sick after i asked him to stop. He wants me to continue this relation, even after my marriage./He ... (88 words)

My roommate wants to have a both sexes sleepover! I don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - My roommate wants to have a... sleepover of all things. We're both 20 so it feels kind of weird. It's a small apartment too and she wants to invite a whole bunch of people including guys! I'm not that comfortable around guys in the first place, having a "sleepover" with a bunch ... (160 words)

He says he doesn't feel the same but he acts the same

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - so me and this guy had hit it off very fast. i never thought that i would be that comfortable with anyone that soon. this was in a matter of a week. we spent about two months together and we were so happy. then one day he tells me he doesn't feel the same. but it doesnt make ... (84 words)

Can't find a girl to satify ALL of my needs!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - Oh man, please bear with me here. Ok 2 years ago I met a girl. She was beautiful and loved everything I loved, all the same interests. We went to a movie I asked her to date me she turned me down. No biggy we became best friends. Turns out she was on and off with some guy and I ... (1059 words)

Grandfather died 4 years ago I'm still depressed

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello. It's been almost four years since my Grandfather died and i'm still depressed after that time. And i keep having nightmares that show him bald and corpse pale. (He died of cancer) Is it normal to be this depressed for this long? Does anyone know how i can stop being..... (59 words)

I bleed after sex

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been having sex for i'd say about five years, and if i dont have sex for a while some times i bleed afterwards, not right after wards, kind of like i'm getting my period. it dose not happen everytime, only if i dont have sex for a while. do you think its just because i am ... (60 words)

Does he like me or is it my imagination?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, so i've started my new job about 3 months ago.immediately i noticed the guy that works in a different department than i do, i think he noticed me at first too but i am a very shy person(but only around people i dont know), so he would never really talk to me, but for the ... (261 words)

Cuddling and tickling do all guys do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I have cuddled with lots of guys and they all seem to tickle/rub my arm whilst doing so. Do guys like this or is it just something to do?... (30 words)

My friend is taking a breakup so hard

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

13 December 2008 (M)

age 41-50 - My friends girlfriend of 6 years recently broke up with him. He is taking it really hard. I really dont understand what happened. His ex is acting wierd and im not sure what advice to give him. A little background on them. They have been together 6 years. She is very pretty, ... (341 words)

Are we broken up in name only? I'm confused!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - This fall I moved to Michigan from New England to pursue my doctorate, leaving my boyfriend behind. We were not living together, (I was actually living with my parents, while I tried to get a music career rolling) but had been together for two and a half years. Because of my ... (345 words)

I'm bored with my boyfriend

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I really need some advice. I have been unemployed for nearly 8 months and I'm incredibly restless and bored. I find myself becoming increasingly anti-social, and really depressed about my situation. I also find that I've become less interested in my boyfriend of nearl... (160 words)

I think my married teacher is flirting with me

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i have a question about teachers flirting with students. there is this teacher that i have that seems to be flirting with me. He stares at me all the time when he is giving a lecture, he compliments me a lot and on everything from my hat to whatever I'm drinking at the ... (194 words)

What are the chances of having another miscarriage?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Well now I know I did have a miscarriage but my other question is can I get pregnant right away? And if not I know I supposed to wait til two months so when that happens and I do get pregnant what are my chances to having another miscarriage?... (49 words)

Had sex with big guy for 1st time and now skin is stretched

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex for the first time last week, and lets just say that the guy I did it with was, um, very well equipped. Afterwards, I felt a little sore for the first couple days, not inside of my vagina, but outside from him kind of pounding on me as he was going in and out. (I just ... (204 words)

Will I regret losing my virginity like this forever?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so when I was 15 I had this friend who really presured me to do this I didn't want to and I accidently clicked the wrong age thing I know I'm 16 now. Ok anyway so it was to the point where I did things I never would have done and believed things were ok when they weren't. So ... (234 words)

I don't know how to make out!

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13 December 2008 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok i have a problem... its not a very big problem but it concerns me. my girlfriend knows how to make out she learned from making out with girls but that is not the problem, the problem is that i dont know how to make out and she does and we both soon want to make out after we ... (85 words)

Can someone explain phone sex please?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - My Bf asked me if i wanted to have Phone sex later tonight. I said no politly, not really wanting to ask, and have him laugh. All my friends do, and ugh! what is it?... (35 words)

Do others find oral sex gross?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I find oral sex totally disgusting! Yes, call me weird. My Bf tries to make me give him a blow job, but i refuse. Am i alone on this? Am i like the only girl who thinks that's totaly gross? I just dont like the fact that stuff gets into my mouth, and im pretty sure it doesn't ... (63 words)

Is anyone else anxious about how many mates they have

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I'd just like to ask this question to others... Does anyone sometimes get anxious about how many mates they've got? I don't usually get bothered by this as much since leaving school/college and I spend most of my time with my partner which I love. Plus I do make eff... (127 words)

Paranoid husband having affair with pretty babysitter

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 30 years old and married 4 years to the father of my 2 children.recently, ive become paranoid that he is having an affair with a young woman that works for him. (shes 18) she lives nearby and has babysat for us. shes a nice girl.i think the reason im so paranoid is because ... (101 words)

I don't know if I'm straight or bi?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - The thing is, I am straight, but I often catch myself looking at girls and noticing how pretty they are. I never fantasize over kissing them, or having sex, or anything like that. As i read, some one says we are naturally attracted to one sex or both. I am naturally attracted ... (188 words)

My mom places restrictions on me!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and my mother wont let me live my life. im nearly 17 she wont let me sleep at my boyfriends flat and he's 22 she gives me times when to be in she really does my head in i have tried talking to her but she just doesnt listen i really need help. what can i do??... (59 words)

My nipples have bumps when I get cold is it normal?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Is it normal that when I get cold my nipples start like "popping" these little bumps that I've never seen on any of my friends before.... (26 words)

Weird lump! What is it?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok I'm thirteen and I have this really weird umm...let's say....lump. It goes like in between the two labias and at the end there's a big brownish looking lump. I could pull like 10 cm down without it hurting. It gets uncomfortable sometimes and have to go like ditch my friends ... (78 words)

I put him before my career and now he criticizes me!

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13 December 2008 (F)

- Question: I am in a LDR for 4 years and I had traveled back and forth a lot. Our relationship started right after I graduated, then he moved away. Ever since, I been trying to move in with him and things have not worked out the way I wanna to. The problem is that now my b... (337 words)

I don't know if he cares

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend and i dont know if he really cares about me.he dosent call me like i want to,most times i itch 2 see him but it's not like that for him but he said he loves me.it's just a 2 months old relationship.should i still hope or back off.thanks... (52 words)

I cannot have an orgasm!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid Readers, I am 18 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He is 24 years old and we both have had one previous sex partner. Our relationship has started to spiral downwards because I am unable to orgasm. I actually have no idea what it feels li... (131 words)

How can I get rid of flabby stomach after having kids?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please tell me someway to get rid of a flabby wrinkled belly. I had 2 kids n da 2nd one was so big everyone thought I was carrying twins or triplets. My stomach got stretched out so bad that it is now wrinkled. Please if anyone out there can help I would appreciate ... (56 words)

Teacher drama

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I know, you all are probably completely sick of them by now, and with good reason. But I honestly would not ask this if I didn't feel like there wasn't a legitimate reason for doing so. So with that being said, let me explain my situation to you: Here's a littl... (753 words)

Having flashbacks of another guy but I have a boyfriend

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. Im just wondering. a few months ago i got close to someone and felt comfortable on our own. we kissed one night. then it went wrong and we both moved on , but the other day i was walking home and everywhere i went i got flashback of everything tht happened between... (70 words)

Torn between 2 guys!

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 26-29 - hi everybody... im 13 years old and in need of advice. okay, so i went out with this guy for 2 1/2 months. yesterday i broke up with him for 2 reasons: 1. i decided i didnt like him anymore and 2. theres this other guy that i started to like. now, im hearing from my friends ... (114 words)

He has commitment issues! Is it hopeless?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 41-50 - What should you do if you think the guy you are dating has commitment issues? Is it something that could be resolved on its own? Is therapy needed or is the guy just plain hopeless? Thanks for the replies!!... (42 words)

I want to ask her out but don't want to be too eager

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13 December 2008 (M)

age 36-40 - hi all not been on for a while just need a bit of advice recently split up will my girlfriend again tho this time for good as we just couldnt settle ended in early november but recently started talkin to a friend who i tryed to date before just wonderd weather i s... (100 words)

Why can't people see that he is a jerk?

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13 December 2008 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted on here about my ex bf and me. We were together for nearly three years and he lied and cheated the whole time. We broke up last year and for one year he led me on, ultimately saying he only wanted to be friends. He behaved in a very despicable manner. N I found out ... (157 words)