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writes:my husband is extremely interested in looking at other pretty women even in my presence. . He is very interested to listen anything about them through me.[innocently i used to say about them.] it was so apparent that he would show no interest to know about other women who are not attractive. One day, we had been to a wedding where there was a beautiful unmarried girl. my husband couldn't take his eyes off.he started videotaping us . after a while i realized that he was trying to videotape heralong with us.it hurt me so much.i was very upset.worst of all,we never had intercourse in the last 8 years. the reason he says is that i am fighting too much that he caould't possibly have with me.
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reader, bagsy81 +, writes (5 August 2008):
You need to tell him, not shout it at him what is making you angry.
I suggest writing a letter, email or going to a third person i.e a counsoller to help maintain a calm talking enviroment.
But I do question if after 8 years of no sex and what would appearo fyour self confidence being battered if you still really want to be married to him. Maybe you could both find happiness else where.
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 I cannot believe that you've been married without sex for 8 years. That is mind boggling to me. Sex is VERY important to a marraige. That is when two people connect on an intimate level. The reason why he looks at pretty girls is his needs are not being fullfilled.
I would not doubt that he is getting it from somewhere else. You need to set some boundries with him. What about your needs? You can not change what he does..but you can change what you do and what you'll put up with.
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