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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I recently got married to my boyfriend of over eight and half years. I feel that I am ready to be a mom but my husband says that he is not ready and that this is not the right time either. I feel sad and empty inside that I eat to fill the emptiness. At times, I am moody and dont talk to my husband as I feel like why should he be the one to decide when we are ready to have a baby. What do I do when all I want is to get pregnant? Reply to this Question
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 If you rush a man to have a child before he is ready, he will resent you and the relationship will fail even when you do get your baby. All you can do is wait. And also talk to him when the right time will be because you need a definite answer. He might NEVER be ready.
However, you said you just got married. Why not take this time to enjoy each other and really get to know each other before a child comes into the picture.
Sometimes, us women think that a child will fill that void that we are missing, but it doesn't. OR maybe your biological clock is on overdrive. Try to think logically and not emotionally. good luck
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