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writes:hi,My question is what to do when your boyfriend:doesnt seem too keen to meet you? doesnt seem to keen to reply or call you? doesnt admire you as much as before? but still says he loves you?Please, really need some advice here. Thank you so much!! Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (5 August 2008):
 He might just be telling you that he still loves you so he can let you down easy. Some people don't realize that breaking up should be a clean and quick procedure. It's hard to be on either end of a break up. But it's obvious that this relationship is dwindling and winding down. Talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi,Thanks for the replies.Yes, we did have a great time together. Last time he wanted to spend every minute with me and couldnt get enough of me. He would call or text me everyday. Now, he says he is not eager to see me everyday, and once a week is more than enough. If we did not talk for a whole day, he wouldnt call.even when i call or text him, he hardly replies.I've told him that I would like to know more about what is happening around him. but he makes me feel like i'm forcing him to meet me or to reply my messages.and yet he says that he still loves me a lot, and he just cant explain why his behaviour had changed.Problem is i really miss those days when we were so happy together..Really afraid to let go.Really do not know what else I should do. HAte to force anyone, especially to force some1to love me.Really appreciate all the advice! ThankS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): it does sound like he is loosing intrest or falling out of love. it is also posible that he may be cheating on you.
you should talk to him about it now befor it gets worse like to the point where he wont talk to you at all. and if you diside to break up just remember everything happens for a reson and life goes on!
hope everything works out!
xoxo,
candy
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 August 2008):
He sounds like he may be losing interest in your relationship. Some relationships just peter out and that really is a good thing because in the end nobody would have been happy. Plus it frees you up to find that Mr. Right. So if I were you I'd break up, at least for awhile and see what happens. I know it's hard but it may be for the best for both of you. You can always get back together if you both decide that's what you want. Keep us posted.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): If you two didn't talk for the whole day, will he call you?
Or he has been calling you and you never call him and now he tries to make you miss him?
Could it be he is having problem?
If you two having great time before, I would suggest you to give him some time. Be there for him yet giving him enough space to do his own stuff.
When you get the chance to talk to him, ask him. Show that you would love to know whats happening around him.
If nothing change, I would suggest you to move on.
Hope it helps.
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