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writes:Im 17 and my EXboyfriend is 25. At first I thought it would never work but we ended up getting really serious. We had been dating for a few months and he started getting mad that I didnt "keep my word" about anything. Like if I said I was gonna clean MY house and I changed my mind then he said I lied. Or one time I called an ex after I said I never wanted to talkto him again. That one I understood why he got mad but he still got mad over little things. I innocently hurt him all the time. I need help with this, I dont know WHY I cant keep my word. I know I can it just seems like he always finds a way to make it my fault that I didnt. NOw he wont talk to me at all! and wants nothing to do with me cuz its a never ending thing.I really need to figure something out.He asked me to marry him and Im still wearing the engagement ring. I want him back and don't know what to tell him or how to show him I can do it. I have said everything before so anything I say now he doesnt believe, and it's not like i intentionally break my word. PLEASE HELP!!
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reader, shandygirl +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Very well stated... "sappygirl."
No one likes it when you get in contact with an EX, especially when you say you won't. I don't intend to sound mean, but he now views you as being unfaithful. Not a good thing. Until it is done to you, you will never know how it feels.
Live and learn... eh? Take this experience as a lesson, and try not to repeat it.
Go to him and apologize. Maybe you can still reconcile with him. Good luck hon.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (4 August 2008):
 when you say you're going to do something, then you don't follow through..it shows that you are untrustworthy. So basically he lost trust in you and doesn't believe anything you say. When you do this, you dissappoint him and let him down, and that hurts him.
ABout cleaning the house, that's kind of minor. It's okay to change your mind. So maybe he's a little overly sensitive about the issue. But the ex..is kind of a biggie. If you want to make it work, ask him for another chance...and think about what you say. The DO IT
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