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*ngeleyes10
writes:Im old enough to know better but when it comes to love.. common sense goes out the window, I was with my boyfriend for a very intense 6 months, then he went to pakistan for family matters. Whilst out there he wrote text and rang me EVERY DAY telling me how how much he loved me and to wait 4 him. The suddenly contact stopped.I heard his family took his passport and told him he couldnt return to uk until he married. almost 2 months on I hear he is married and as a result his family r allowing him to return bak to uk with his wife.. How do I get closure on this relationship and is it realy over. Its making me ill knowing he could hurt me like this.
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reader, Angeleyes10 +, writes (4 August 2008):
Angeleyes10 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for ur reply...i am trying very very hard to not think about him but its hard. Rumour has it that his family looking to fly them back next month or so. A very big part of me is hoping that he is angry and will end the marriage and want me. After all.. they took his passport and only when he agreed to marriage are they allowing him back in UK. I feel sorry for the "wife" also. She is being uprooted from her country and she is with a man who had no alternative but to marry her. I really love him and cant bear that he's with her
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reader, sappygirl  +, writes (4 August 2008):
 Wow! I'm sorry you are going through this. You must be hurting deeply and what women wouldn't. To find that the guy they love got married to someone else. You are right, you have no closure from this relationship so it is hard to move on.
I think he doesn't mean to hurt you. At least not on purpose. He just can't stand up to his family and tell them no. Whatever the case..if it's true that he is married, you have no choice but to leave him alone. He will find a way to contact you and when he does, then you can get your closure. Until then, try to get your mind off him, and hopefully time can heal your heart. Best of luck.
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