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My longest relationship lasted 2 weeks. How can I make them last longer??

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - I can't have a long relationship with a girl. I'm a 21 yr old guy who dates girls now and then but I just can’t stay with same girl I don’t know why?? My longest relationship has only been 2 weeks I really want to have a long relationship but I just leave as soon as the ... (77 words

Any tips on how I should ask my girlfriend to take things to the next step?

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - I want to ask my girlfriend if she wants to take are relationship a step further wonderin if anybody has any tips ... (25 words


   

Does he still have feelings for me?

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7 September 2007 (F - About three months ago i split up from my first proper bf, we had been together for about a year and generally had a really good relationship. I had to split up with him because i was really depressed at the time because i was being bullied at my school, and simply felt tha... (257 words

There is blood in my stool

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - Right sorry if i gross anyone out but today i have had alot of blood in my excretment and i am bit worried about it. is it anything to worry about?... (31 words

I cheated, and he wants to see me again. What should I do?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - ive been seeing a guy for about 3 months. he's really nice and genuine but im not in love with him. he tells me he loves me. the other night i was out with some male company, people who i have known a while. we weren't particularly sober, we had a bottle of wine each. me and o... (163 words

   

I like this girl, but I'm nervous to talk to her. Any advice?

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7 September 2007 (M age 16-17 - ok this is how it is theres this girl i like at school but i cant seem to talk to her i know she isnt interested in me but i really like her any advice?... (40 words

I used to suffer from depression. Now he has gone off with my friend...

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7 September 2007 (F age 16-17 - i was clinically depressed for five years, i was put on prozac (a medication) and councilling all that. i had a bad family life. then i met my boyfriend. we were realy happy, he helped me so much when i told him about it all and helped me get better. untill a few months after ... (326 words

It's been 4 years, and there's talk of marriage. Should I have Sex with him now??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for 4 years and we haven't had sex yet. We both agreed from the start that we wanted a strong relationship first. Earlier in the year he asked me to marry him but it was like a...oh yeah by the way...type of proposal. Needless to say, I didn't ta... (292 words

I'm married, but I contacted my ex and now I want to see him! What do I do now?

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7 September 2007 (F age 22-25 - I dont know what to do. My marriage was on the rocks for about 5 years, well since the beginning. I was always faithful and stuck through all the drama, but these last 2 months I contacted my ex. Now I really want to see him. He just divorced about 1 year ago too. What do I ... (99 words

I love him, but I know we're young. Can you help me?

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7 September 2007 (F age 16-17 - I am 17, and just starting sixth form. I have been with my boyfriend for just over three years, which is unusual, but we are both very mature for our age. We have been having sex for over a year, and although he doesnt stay over very often, when he does, he is allowd to sta... (247 words

Should I call him or just wait?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Should I call him or just wait? Hi, I met this guy a couple of months ago. He's in the Air Force and left shortly after we met to a base in Japan. We've been in contact since then. Last week he told me he has received orders to move somewhere else but didn't said where or wh... (141 words

Move in with him, or do my own thing?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have been dating this great guy for 10 months now. He is everything I have always dreamed for in a man. when I met him last year he was so busy with coaching hockey and playing hockey and of course playing basbeall in the summer time. He told me then that he is not g... (327 words

What should I look for when a relationship is over?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 1/2yrs. we are both 21. We both love one another dearly. The last few weeks we have been arguing over little things. We both get defensive and emotional. Now he is ready to call it quits. He said he is not sure he can stay in a ... (134 words

He's gone. How can I recover from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - A sad old story realy. I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was just getting over another relationship at the time. We were incredibly attracted to each other and started up a very intense relationship. ,He has a lot of emotional problems and went for therapy, because... (445 words

Should I marry her??

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7 September 2007 (M age - Dear Cupid: I met a girl two and a half years ago at my church. At the time she was 18 and I was 27 and we were both virgins. At first she was shy, but then she got my phone number from a mutual friend and started calling me on a regular basis (I would rarely call her)... (525 words

It's my cousin! What can I do?

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7 September 2007 (M age 26-29 - Please, can somone help me? I am in love with my 1st cousin and she has feelings for me but I don't have a problem with her being my cousin but she has been told she would be cut out of familys life if it ever was to happen so i think she's scared of letting her feelings get ... (107 words

What do I need to know to be a good kisser?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 10-12 - I'm 12 and I have been going out with this boy for about a month now. I really want to kiss him and he really wants to kiss me too but I'm scared that I will be a rubbish kisser and I am afraid he will dump me for it. I am Quite shy around him too but we get on really well and ... (78 words

How do I ease my squeeze?

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7 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - I love, care and respect my fiance to no end. I have so much love to give here yet she feels that I am smothering her. What do I need to do to make her feel more comfortable with me and not feel like I'm smothering her. I want her to be happy for she has made me the happiest I ... (95 words

He said I will forget about the age difference once we give it a chance. Any views?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - I meet a guy a month ago..who's 24 i dont think he realised how old i was ( 17) when he came over started talking to me and asked for my number, i wasnt sure of his age either. A few weeks ago he added me on facebook and he saw how old i was as did i....bit since then he's ... (131 words

How can I start up conversation with a shy guy I like at school?

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7 September 2007 (F age 13-15 - Dear Cupid there is this boy I like at school but he's really shy and sticks to himself alot, and I talked to him and we seemed to get along but then he totally blanked me! I don't know how to start up a conversation again.... (46 words

I think my boyfriend is becoming a little distant from me. What should I do?

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7 September 2007 (F age 22-25 - I've been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now. We're both 23 and we live together. He doesn't want to spend much time with me anymore. He works during the day and when he gets home he just goes to bed. When he's not at work or in bed, he goes to the pub or out with his ... (150 words

Unsure about what I'm hearing about a potential boyfriend. What do you think?

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7 September 2007 (F age 13-15 - ok first off i am dating a boy lets call him "j", well he seems like such a sweet guy, hes a sophmore in high school, i am in my last year of middle school. well my cousin goes to the high school, and she admitted that she wanted a boyfriend and she didnt like that i found ... (159 words

It's only been a week, but I feel like I'm making all the effort. What do you think?

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7 September 2007 (M age 16-17 - hi basically ive been with this girl for only a week which might make you think why is he getting all worried but when i first met her we both just clicked and it was different from everyone else, the stuff she said to me and what i said 2 her it made me feel special and i made ... (151 words

He's 14 years older than me and in a relationship.... But we have feelings for eachother. Any advice?

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7 September 2007 (F age 22-25 - Hi i have fallen for someone who is 14 years older than me,at the time that i started to develop my feelings for him, i didn't know that he had a girlfriend. his girlfriend lives and works away. we have spent nights together, cuddling and kissing, and feel that it could ha... (135 words

What don't guys have that makes them not have kids?

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7 September 2007 (F age 10-12 - Hi, well this is going to sound qiuet like am a dope, and a bimbo but am really wondering this, I was watching a program and they said that the guy can't have kids, and i started wondering that they say a girl can't have kids if she never has had periods but what don't guys ... (63 words

26 year old virgin... Please help me!

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to pleasure my self, (i try anyway) ... (80 words

Scared I will drive him away with my constant nagging!

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7 September 2007 (F - Ive been seein this boy for 2 months, I really really like him, the thing is he is really laid back whereas I am more of a worrier! I know that sometimes my nagging really annoys him but I just cant seem to stop it or sometimes realise that i'm even moaning! Im so scared Im ... (87 words

I want to continue a romance with a friend. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - I have a a female friend which i knew since were kid,but we were never closed during our childhood days, three years ago we got so much attached that she always want me to call her on phone, but i rarely called her.she stopped seeing me or sometime now, But recently we met and ... (98 words

We are getting married but I don't feel good enough!!

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi. I am looking for suggestions, not to be judged or criticised. I am 26, my fiancee is 32. We're getting married next weekend. I am feeling like I'm not good enough and I have been feeling this way for a while now. We have a 4 1/2 month old baby and I am 3 months pregnant... (351 words

How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends??

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7 September 2007 (M age 13-15 - How do I ask a girl out when she spends all her time with her friends? She, that is, they, know I like her, and they say she likes me, but I don't know what to think. Her friends are the gossipy tye, and have a habit of stretching things to get a laugh at someone's expense.... (205 words

He turned me down for sex and now I am paranoid he doesn't like me anymore!

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7 September 2007 (F - My bf of 2 months turned me down for sex last nite and now im paranoid he doesnt like me anymore. I startd kissing him and he said 'no I dont want it' and I turned round and didnt talk to him for the rest of the evening - I was really upset as hes usually up for it so I dont ... (85 words

He never wants to socialise anymore and I don't want to lose a close friend!!

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7 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I have a male friend who I consider to be a close friend. He is is also a family friend. We get on very well and have known each other for a long time. We both care about each others personal lives and try to help each other when we can. To me he is a friend in the same way ... (229 words

I don't know if I can be happy for both of us!

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - My 32 year boyfriend has everything going for him: he's funny, smart, attractive, physically healthy, with a decent job and a girlfriend who loves him. In all rights he should be happy but the problem is he isn't really living, merely going through the motions. We started ... (406 words

Does my boyfriend fancy his brothers girlfriend!?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - Ive been with my boyfriend for about 2 years but for some reason i get the strangest feeling that he fancys his brothers girlfriend. Hes always paying her compliments, sticks up for her and when im at work he always goes around to see her when im not there or his brother. Then ... (80 words

I don't want to go on a trip, but I don't think I can back out...

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi guys, I booked a six month trip with a mate last year, To be honest I was pretty unsure of going, as I like my luxuries and not sure I am going to cope backpacking and staying in hostels round Europe, plus my mate is not a really close friend and a night with her does my... (218 words

Can a Doctor perform a smear test on a woman, even if there is a nurse present?

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7 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - can any one help me answar a question ,regarding a male doctor ?can he perform a smear test on a girl/lady even when there is a nurse present?... (28 words

I can no longer satisfy my wife... Will THIS help?...

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7 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - my wife no longer enjoys intercourse with me because i can no longer satisfy her.i am getting older and started taking medication.my penis is no longer big enough to satisfy her .we both like other forms of sex but she still needs intercourse once in a while.would a life like ... (60 words

2 of my friends like the same girl as me. Should I let them ask her out?

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7 September 2007 (M age 13-15 - Hey, theres this girl shes really nice and i like her bt its not that simple 2 of my friends like her aswel she like me and one of my other mates who likes her.Should i let my mate ask her out or ask her out myself ... (52 words

If a man is exposed to attractive females, will he value his girlfriend less? Answers from men please..

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - If a man is exposed to a lot of attractive females or is exposed to the constant media of actresses, lingerie models, porn stars, etc, will he see his girlfriend as less attractive and/or value her less? The article below seems to say that this is the case. Honest answers... (68 words

My guy said he doesn't love me anymore. What went wrong do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect boyfriend. Up until about three ... (482 words

My 13 yr old son is looking at porn. He doesn't know I know, but should I talk to him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

7 September 2007 (M age 18-21 - My 13 year old son is looking at porn, he doesn't know I know but should I talk to him? What should I do?... (27 words

Condoms turn me off but my new girl insists I wear one. How can I get my erection to last longer with one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - after about six months of dating me and my girl stopped using a condom, we have just stopped dating after about a year and a half. after not using a condom for that long i cant get back in the swing of things and the new girl im interested in insists that i wear one. what can i ... (66 words

How do I know if my lesbian friend fancies me?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - hey all, i recently have become very attracted to a gay woman. im bisexual myself. ive known of her for about 6 months, but over the past 3 weeks or so i have gotten to know her. i saw her on a friday night and things seemed good, she put her arm around me when show... (438 words

I missed the boat on my flatmate.She's met someone else, it's killing me!

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7 September 2007 (M age 26-29 - Hi y'all i'm a 20's male Basically, i've been living with my housemate and a few others in a house share for around a year now. She is without a doubt one of my closest friends, and over the last six months there has been a lot of sexual tension and we have flirted a ... (205 words

How do I aproach a girl I like in college? Any advice please?

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7 September 2007 (M age 18-21 - hi,im atracted to a girl in my college and she is attracted to me too but i dont know how i can approach her and she keeps avoiding me.can you please help me because i want to win her within the shortest time possible.please................ ... (44 words

How do I get my girlfriend to tell her mum about our online relationship?

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7 September 2007 (M age 18-21 - hi i need some advice i have been seeing this girl online for 2 months now and we are planning to meet eachother soon the only problem is that she cant come and see me just yet because her mam hasnt met me yet(she doesnt even know her daughter(17)is seeing anyone yet everytime ... (152 words

Is my mum's doctor coming onto her?? Is this normal??

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7 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - please could i get some very much needed help and advice regarding my mum and her doctor ,for a month now my mum who is a good looking woman for her age 59,has been visiting her doctor,regarding feeling low and down and finding things a bit tough since my dad passed away last ... (198 words

Why am I stressing over him not calling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

7 September 2007 (F - I think Im a mental case.....I have this great guy whom I see every weekend (he lives an hour away) and he has called me every single day since we have been together (3 weeks officially dating).....he is now working 2 jobs for the last week and has been still calling me nightly ... (119 words

How will I know when I'm ready to have Sex with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

7 September 2007 (F - hiya all i have been with my bf for a month now and we have dun pretty much everything apart from have sex.We are both still virgins, and he seys hes ready to have sex and hes being really good about it and is not pressuring me at all, but how will i no when im ready to hve sex ... (71 words

I'm trying to leave him, but he won't let me go. What do I do?

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7 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I AM TRYING TO LEAVE HIM ALONE BUT HE WANT LEAVE ME ALONE WHAT DO I DO?... (17 words

I feel like he isnt commited to me and the children keeping his options open for encase someone new comes along. What should I do?

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7 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hi I really need some advice LONG story sorry. Im with my partner over over 4 years,he is 40 im 37 we have a 2 1/2 year old daughter,I have 2 children from my ex marriage which ended 51/2 years ago I was married to an alcholic I was with him 16 years I left him . My Partne... (438 words

I'm going away for the weekend, and I feel guilty for leaving my sick boyfriend behind. Should I?

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7 September 2007 (F age 22-25 - My bf and I are sophomores in college and attend schools that are only ten miles apart. We don't get to stay together that often because we are both in very demanding programs and have tons of work. Recently my bf got sick with a sinus infection and had a very high temp ... (212 words

Now that he has me, he doesn't try anymore! Help!

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - Hi, I am 18 and I have been dating this new guy for about two months now. I have known him for six years previous and when we were not dating we spent more time together, were more affectionate towards each other ect. But now that I am his girlfriend it seems like he doesnt ... (102 words

I love him, he loves me... But he doesn't really know who I am!

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7 September 2007 (F - ok, i have done something slightly insane - and i know its insane but i want that to end and to become reality now but i think i have gone too far for it to over be what i want it to be. let me start at the start and i apologise in advance for how long this will be! i met a... (732 words

I'm dead nervous around boys and I'm thinking of cancelling this date!

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - I'm going out on a date with a nice lad i met over shop the problem is i'm dead nervous around boys and although i really want to go i'm thiking of cancelling and i dont want to its just my confidence is really low and im really shy and probably won't talk help!! sofie... (56 words

I'm stalking a girl my boyfriend was seeing while we were on a break! Am I a psycho?

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7 September 2007 (F - This will sound strange, but i am 22 and i seem to have really weird emotional issues. i'm stalking a girl my boyfriend was seeing for 2 weeks while we were on a break back in january. she was devastated when he left her to get back with me but shes long over it now but i still ... (209 words

I'm 24 and have been asked out by a 17 year old. Is there too much of an age gap?

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7 September 2007 (F - well i'm 24 years old and i've been asked out by a 17 year old what do i do, he's a good looking, kind harted guy is there too much of an age gap? another thing he is kind off related to my friend who lives next door what do i do ?? ... (59 words

I want to marry her, but she's always breaking my heart. How can I keep her?

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - i have a bab which i love her so much and i want to marry her but she is alway break my heart, what do i do to stay with her?... (31 words

I had genital warts years ago and I'm worried it could come back at any time. Please help me put my mind at rest!

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi. About 9 years ago i had genital warts which were treated and gone. and my mate came around last night and told me she has got clamydia which brought back memories for me, so this morning i went and did some research on the net to read that once u have genital warts there is ... (122 words

How can I rid myself of this jealousy before I kill our relationship?

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7 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I separated from my husband almost 18 months ago but have to remain in the same house due to financial pressures. Just after we separated I became more than friendly with a man I'd known from a distance, he told me he too was separated although I later found out he still lived ... (221 words

We both agreed to stop the relationship since he moved to another city. What would you do?

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7 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - I met this guy at work last year, we went out, had a couple of dates, and both had strong feeling on each other. However things have been changed because he has decided to move to another city, and we stopped our relationship becoz we both thought long distance won't work to ... (129 words

Does this man love me or his ex?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I have a boyfriend, we been seeing each other for 3 years now and he had a relationship before we met. I have 1 child with him and he has 1 child with another girl, they stayed together when we met, 5 months back they were not together because this girl was cheating on him ... (118 words

My 25 year old daughter and mom both say it would do us good to move to another state away from family and give us a fresh start.

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7 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - My husband of 5 months was offered a chance to be a co owner of a company that is very successful but he is afraid of change. Not just that his family is a very meddling family, they have to be in the middle of everything which started after we got married. My 25 year old ... (204 words

My girfriend has a small gap in her front teeth, and when she gives me head, my frenulum gets trapped there and it tugs, and it hurts!

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7 September 2007 (M age 18-21 - This might sound really stupid but it's a serious problem for me. My girfriend has a small gap in her front teeth, and when she gives me head, my frenulum gets trapped there and it tugs, and it hurts! I don't want her to think she's bad at oral sex coz she isn't at all, but ... (71 words

How can I get over his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, I sent you email months ago when I was told my husband was having an affair, I got a lot of help from your answers, but I'm still in doubt... we have decided to try and build our marriage, my husband told me everything, he is not seeing her anymore, he has given up his job ... (183 words

When we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates...

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7 September 2007 (F - Last night was so embarrassing!!! I stayed over my boyfriends (I've been with him a month) and when we were doing it I made a horrible 'windy' noise from my privates - I was so embarrassed and he stopped and didn't really know what to say!! I'm so worried he won't like me ... (68 words

This is the first time I am attempting to hook up with another girl whom I've never met before.

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7 September 2007 (M age 18-21 - I need some pick up help. This is the first time I am attempting to hook up with another girl whom I've never met before.... Ok here's the deal, I've been out of a relationship for sometime now (cause of work) and over the past couple weeks I've been getting lonely, ... (244 words

Is it wrong to date my step cousin?

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - is it wrong for me to date my step-cousin? i have this step cousin of mine that i have had strong deep feeling for and chasing after for more than a year and an a half. the good thing is that she knows about and confronted me about. what she say was it felt weird bec she sees ... (139 words

Is my girlfriend as interested in me as I am in her?

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - Is my girlfriend as interested in me as I am in her? I am a freak when it comes to the bedroom. I imagine my future with to be the same. However, I have been dating my girlfriend for almost a year now and I love her very much. However, I feel as if I want to enjoy her body m... (175 words

Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

7 September 2007 (F age 13-15 - Whenever I masturbate I can never orgasm or cum.... why not...? I tried looking at porn and imagining things but it just won't work... I always lay down and that helps a little from anything else but whenever I feel just a little away from an orgasm I always stop... I don't ... (67 words

Should I be upset or just be happy to spend time with him?

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7 September 2007 (F age 18-21 - The guy i dated all summer and i are now back at different schools. We got very close over the summer and then it was time to leave. We did not say we were seeing each other exclusively because we r at different colleges. He asked me to come down this sat for a big football ... (88 words

My mother said she likes to pick trouble with me so I can do something wrong and she can call the cops!

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7 September 2007 (F age 22-25 - I cant stand it! i am very emothional and people who I "thought that love me" are bringing me down. Like my mom, when i stand up for someone she yells at me like i was the one who to blame, but when she stands up for someone and i disagree she smacks me and yells how i need to ... (140 words

My ex HATES me for no reason while most couples that break up at school act cordial to each other afterwards!!...

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7 September 2007 (F age 13-15 - My ex and I have been broken up for a year. We go to a small school. Most couples that break up at school act cordial to each other afterwards but my ex HATES me for no reason. At the time he was having family problems and broke up with me. I waited for a while for him to come ... (172 words

I can't tell if she is being faithful or if it's just me being paranoid from the first two women I was married to that had no understanding of the word faithful.

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7 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - I have been married for a short time... well this is my third marriage at age 39. Won't go into the first two. My wife is deployed and I am currently out of the service by about 10 plus years. This is her first time being deployed and my first time being the one at home dur... (157 words

I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?

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7 September 2007 (M age 13-15 - Hey, I am 14, and having trouble finding love, I am gay and I haven't opened up to anyone yet, what should I do?... (27 words

I am worried that my boyfriend might be straight!

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7 September 2007 (M - Okay this is a bit of a reversal of the usual concern however I am worried that my boyfriend might be straight. I know 100% that he loves me, and I get plenty of I love yous, hugs, holds and quick kisses. When it comes to sex he has been heavily avoiding it for over 18 months. ... (269 words

Does he miss me? Do we still have a chance?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Does distance really make the heart grow fonder, me and my ex split up due to alot off petty arguemts, we have a baby together i was with him a year and a half we have been split up for about 4months now, he has meet somone new know. We talk we get on ok, have our ups and downs ... (155 words

What do Women think of testicles?

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7 September 2007 (M age 16-17 - Curious question here... Now I think I know the answer already, but I'm wondering what women think of testicles. From what I've gathered ladies seem to think they're repulsive, and I can't disagree, they're far from pretty. But do any women out there actually consider testicle... (90 words

I upset my boyfriend because I told him I'm scarred of where he lives. What should I do?

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7 September 2007 (F - i really upset my bf to the point he cried i was telling him on the phone about something that happened in his area (a girl was killed coz she was a goth) and said im scared to go to his. he then started going on about me toughing up and how i need to look after my self when i ... (153 words

Would you ever stay in a relationship just to keep somebody happy?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Can any guy's tell, would you sleep with a girl once, after that happened tell her you want to be friends, she tells you ok, but she can't be friends at the monment because she don't do one night stands, and says to you lets go our own way before anything else happens and ... (272 words

My Boyfriend hasn't texted all day. Is this normal?

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7 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Is it normal in a relationship for your partner to have the odd day where they don't contact you at all? My boyfriend hasn't texted me at all today you see. I have this romantic ideal where the guy beats a path to your door all the time but I don't know if I am being ... (83 words

Does watching Porn affect a man's future sex urge?

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7 September 2007 (M age 22-25 - does my watching porn affect a man's future sex urge in anyway? and if it does in which way does it?... (21 words

My man keeps having mood swings

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7 September 2007 (F age 13-15 - he loves me just as much as ever and weve been dating a long time but recently he keeps having these horrible mood swings and im worried about him because of family and school i havent seen him in about 2 weeks which is hard for us he doesnt like talking on the phone but he ... (171 words

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