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writes:hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to pleasure my self, (i try anyway) and the dildo just wont go in im so worried it could be something wrong with me please help. xx
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reader, Captain helper Man  +, writes (19 January 2009):
Ok here is the best answer i can give you, aside from my self being a 26 year old virgin, my excuse being i have no time becuase i help take care of my family and such. Type 26 year old virgin into google. Seriously, youll see tons of post from 26 year old virgins like you and i that are trying to figure out the same thing. Honestly, i sometimes thinkg wtf is wrong with me but what ever. What your looking for isnt how to get laid. If that were the case, thers probably 3 billion people on the earth that would do you in a second. What you want to do is know who you are looking for. Mr.right , handsome joe, big dick jim with the mustang, what ever. I sound like an asshole but this is what i think you may need to hear. I know what its like, im still a virgin to boot. who the hell am i to give advice huh? well im just some guy that can say this; http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20060817201914AAMLG0G
that guy will have sex with you and go on dates with you because he has the same problem as you and i.
What you want though is not what your asking for and to get what you truly need is just some one to step into you life and help pick you up. Im not that guy even though i want some chick to pick me up and get me moving. What ever you like doing, sewing, paint ball, drinking etc... Go join a club to meet people. The situation your in is the key to you success. I want to meet someone that enjoys some things i do for fun, not everything because the only person that likes everything i do is me. Good luck out there and i hope this helps.
for some perspective, type 26 year old virgin into Google as im sure you have. Tell them what they need to hear and apply it to your self and adjust it accordingly.
btw if it helps, i think your pretty. I type that because id like people to type that about me :-). Sex is not what you want, you want a relationship type from a movie youve seen. You might find it or you might now. Im no mind reader nor do i see the future. But what i do know is this, Getting laid is easy and last less than half an hour (i watch porn ;-) ) Find your self a good friend to hang out with and find remotely attractive. Looks are not as important as "fuckability" and looks will fade with time but friendship last for ever if its the right kind.
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reader, xxmissxx  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 Firstly, this is normal for someone to feel like this about having sex for the first time.Age is but a number.If you have a partner that you are ready to try this with, and fully feel you are ready, here are tips to help you along:always make sure your relaxed, theres nothing wrong with a little dutch courage to help,explore yourself, find what you like, what may turn you on and tell your partner.i also find a little experimentation wont go a miss either.The key is to be relaxed enough so you can enjoy it.The first time may hurt, but after a few more romps, you should start to feel in paradise!Always remember to practise safe sex!Use protection!Hope you enjoy coming into the wonderful world of sex.Best of luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): hi, im a medical student and yes you should see a OBGYN because you might have a vaginal stenosis, atresia, very likely not serious...or could be a short vagina. i agree with other replies, see a doctor, gain your self confidence and reassurance...as i think this worrying you is why you are afraid to have sex. dont rush it though, find a good partner and enjoy your life!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): GET DRUNK GO TO A CLUB DANCE WITH A GUY TELL HIM YOUWANT TO GO SOMEWHERE BRING CONDOMS AND JUST DO IT DONT THINK ABOUT IT!
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reader, AylaJ  +, writes (8 September 2007):
will dildos aren't the answer to pleasuring yourself. More like a vibrator because you can only feel 3 in. into your vagina and only 10-20% of women have vaginal orgasms. So first of all learn how to orgams on your own with your hands watch a video or something. Go online and type "how to masturbate" then women. And TRUST me it'll show you how. It will take a few times before you reach it but it will be a few times of fun.
Once you learn how great this feels when the time comes you'll be so worked up and horny you won't care its your first time. Besides you don't have to have sex ... try oral sex first its more fun and less painful. Then move on from there. Give those guys a call back too its never too late. Let them know you were being silly you'd like to see them again. Guys love when you say you were silly. Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): i would going to help you if you would love to?? ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): It's not stupid at all that you are still a virgin. Having self respect and not sleeping with everyone you go out with is something to be admired. When the time is right you will know...trust me. As far as the dildo goes, buy some lube.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 September 2007):
See a doctor and have him confirm you're O.K.
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