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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:hey, im 26 and i know this is going to sound so stupid but im still a virgin ive had no trouble with men its just when the time comes i chicken out and make excuses to get away and then i never ring back, i feel like a teenager still. i want to pleasure my self, (i try anyway) and the dildo just wont go in im so worried it could be something wrong with me please help. xx
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reader, xxmissxx  +, writes (13 September 2007):
 Firstly, this is normal for someone to feel like this about having sex for the first time.Age is but a number.If you have a partner that you are ready to try this with, and fully feel you are ready, here are tips to help you along:always make sure your relaxed, theres nothing wrong with a little dutch courage to help,explore yourself, find what you like, what may turn you on and tell your partner.i also find a little experimentation wont go a miss either.The key is to be relaxed enough so you can enjoy it.The first time may hurt, but after a few more romps, you should start to feel in paradise!Always remember to practise safe sex!Use protection!Hope you enjoy coming into the wonderful world of sex.Best of luck xx
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): hi, im a medical student and yes you should see a OBGYN because you might have a vaginal stenosis, atresia, very likely not serious...or could be a short vagina. i agree with other replies, see a doctor, gain your self confidence and reassurance...as i think this worrying you is why you are afraid to have sex. dont rush it though, find a good partner and enjoy your life!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): GET DRUNK GO TO A CLUB DANCE WITH A GUY TELL HIM YOUWANT TO GO SOMEWHERE BRING CONDOMS AND JUST DO IT DONT THINK ABOUT IT!
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female
reader, AylaJ  +, writes (8 September 2007):
will dildos aren't the answer to pleasuring yourself. More like a vibrator because you can only feel 3 in. into your vagina and only 10-20% of women have vaginal orgasms. So first of all learn how to orgams on your own with your hands watch a video or something. Go online and type "how to masturbate" then women. And TRUST me it'll show you how. It will take a few times before you reach it but it will be a few times of fun.
Once you learn how great this feels when the time comes you'll be so worked up and horny you won't care its your first time. Besides you don't have to have sex ... try oral sex first its more fun and less painful. Then move on from there. Give those guys a call back too its never too late. Let them know you were being silly you'd like to see them again. Guys love when you say you were silly. Have fun!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): i would going to help you if you would love to?? ;)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): It's not stupid at all that you are still a virgin. Having self respect and not sleeping with everyone you go out with is something to be admired. When the time is right you will know...trust me. As far as the dildo goes, buy some lube.
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male
reader, Tommy7 +, writes (7 September 2007):
See a doctor and have him confirm you're O.K.
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female
reader, spanna +, writes (7 September 2007):
 I doub there is anything wrong with you, but the only person who can really tell you this is your doctor. if you are really worried you should go see them, they will be able to tell you for sure if there is a problem
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