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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Confused about this guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hello when i met my boyfriend five months ago, we both agreed to have fun and see how it goes. i felt though that in the beginning he was unwilling to commit. he is extremely kind to me very thoughtful and very helpful. he never however told me he loved me. i didnt mi... (569 words)

Did offering my girlfriend the world bore her, and make her want to search for a "Challenge" elsewhere???? Do Women really think this way!?!?!?!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I lost my girlfriend after 3 happy years together. I'm the type of guy who would have done anything for her. Moved the stars themselves just to be with her... And yet, I've recently heard that maybe this was why she left me! According to a source, apparently girls don't w... (221 words)

She's 19, married, and wants to give her husband a 2nd chance.. But I want her to be mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Ever have this feeling, if so what'd you do? met a girl, she's everything i'd ever want... our chemistry is amazing, like we were meant for each other... we make each other happy... but she's 19, no kids, married and is gonna give him another chance... she doesn't know ... (195 words)

Been with the guy I love before, but he's dumped me for stupid reasons in the past... 3rd time lucky?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hello, i really want someone to help me plz this is the situation i think i still love this guy i have been out with him twice already but they didn` t last long as he keeps dumping me for stupid reasons e.g. once he dumped me because he had a argument with my best freind how ... (152 words)

I'm not coping with my past abuse and its affecting my relationship. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hello, I am a 29 year old male living with my fiancee. I am really struggling with my past abuse, and while she, too was abused, it did not affect her in so many ways as it has with me. I have come to realize that I do not really know what it means to love someone, nor do I ... (127 words)

I don't know if I should believe her anymore when she keeps blowing me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - my girlfriend asked me out the other day, and i said yes... were happy and talk alot!! but lately ive been coming un stcuk for words... i getvery nervous wen i talk to her and i am alwaiis trying to find reasons to talk/meet her... she keeps blowing these off.. her excuses ... (71 words)

I don't know what to do. My guy keeps dumping me because he doesn't like my mates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - ok here goes its really weired but i think i still love this guy, i have already been out with him twice and both times he has dumped me for the most stupidest reason e.g. he had a argument with my bestfriend then dumped me for it. i really don` t get him cause now he wants to ... (126 words)

Someone has txt me telling me my guy doesn't want me anymore. My guy wont talk to me, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi...i posted questions on here a few times about a boy named "J" well things were going really good. i loved him n i thought he loved me....well we got back together after 1 day of being bronken up. So he was supposed to walk with me like always to school, well he never showd, ... (197 words)

Is it safe to use anything else apart from a vibrator? If so what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 106 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is it safe to anything else other than a vibrator or dildo as a self pleasuring measure - if so what? i haven't got a bf at the mo and am a really horny!! any advice would be great. anonymous... (49 words)

I've liked this guy for 6 years. What do you do when you find out you like a guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, this is a really stupid time to ask this and am stupid for not asking earlier. But hey am still going to ask I've liked a guy for 6years and still think about and might still have some feelings for him, am 14 he's 14 anyways i haven't told him how i feel nor has he said ... (108 words)

Will my partner love our future baby as much as his child from a previous relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Will my partner love our future baby as much as his child from a previous relationship? Hi, me and my wonderful partner are trying for a baby getting married and moving to a bigger place and i couldn't be happier but he has a lovely 5 year old son from a previous relation... (107 words)

I think he likes me but I don't like to make the first move? Help please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hiya everyone cannn u help me out please? I've known this lad for a few week now and he's really really nice. He talks to me looadds over the net but in school it's really awkward!! I really like him and i can't tell if the feeling is mutual, he's really lovely and h... (162 words)

Is something wrong for me to have feelings for someone 12 hours away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - So I originally met this guy on rave-dating.com. I sent him a message telling him that he was cute and such not expecting to get a response back due to fear of rejection. But about a month or so later, he sent me a message back telling me I was cute too. And than I sent him ... (340 words)

My ex sent me a nasty poem. I have so much going on in life at the moment, I struggle to cope with it. Any advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - umm...there's been alot going on in my life lately and its hard for me to keep track of sanity besides still beign in love with my best friend [who claims is not gay] really liking my best friends ex. [he told me he loved me and he kissed me and i went to his job one day ... (390 words)

What shall I do, I don't love him anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i been going out with this boy 4 5 months now but i have relised that i dont love him any more.when i kiss him i dont feel anythink.plus he been tryin to snog me but i dont let him what shall i do?help plz ... (46 words)

What is it I'm doing wrong for girls to get bored and walk away when I start chatting to them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

- I'm in a spot of bother. I'm a confident man, I am friendly, I keep my apperance neat and I'm hygenic, I can be funny, yet whenever I try talking to a girl or ask her out they always get bored and go away. People who read this will probably say it's just one of those things ... (72 words)

My ex assulted me. How do I move on from this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) - hi there my ex partner assulted me 2 weeks ago and when i mean assulted he has been admitted to crown court for abh charges. its just that i feel like he is haunting me, he has already put me on that many sites and filled in profiles on me. im on swinging sites, dating site... (354 words)

Shall I plan a romantic night to mend our rocky relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - if our relationship is a little rocky do you think letting my mom watch my son and planning a romantic night is a bad idea ?? ... (28 words)

Does he like me and how do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey im not great at talking to guys. and completly horrendes in relationships - too inexperienced and nervous. but i recently started at a new 6 form college - its great! and there's this guy i have my eye on. he's really cute! he's fairly quiet too and cos were all strangers ... (108 words)

Does my girlfriends boss fancy her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Help, I need more advice. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know I've seen them and as soon as she reads them she deletes them. For the most part the ... (589 words)

How can I get over this obsession about my famous hero?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Dear Cupid, I am a student who is currently studying hard and I cannot help but feel deeply upset beacuse, I love Martial arts and I am a fan of a hero who is my role model in the arts, I started out to admire him but then my admiration turned to infactuation, wh... (215 words)

Why does my girlfriends mum limit us seeing each other to weekends only?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend's Mom is so over protective but she does give me the chance to date her but every time i speak to my girlfriend she tells me upsetting news about her mother, for example she has been cleaning the house all day and everyone just happens to blame her when everyone ... (167 words)

Do you think it is a good idea to talk to my ex? I told her we cant be together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hey so its been awhile since i have asked for some advice. but anyhow if u read my last few post i was taling about the relationship with my ex of 2.5yrs and how it got bad kus of an ex friend!! anyhow those two ended up dating..omg'sh it was heartbreaking..but its been four ... (328 words)

Will it put off guys to find out I am going to wait till marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) age 13-15 - I am a devoted Christian and I am not going to have sex until I am married and I want to wait. I know I am only young but I was wondering if it would put guy's off me, because I wouldn't have sex with them. When I am older would it affect my boyfriend relationships? x... (57 words)

Can I legally move out of state with my kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am thinking about moving to a different state with my children to "start over". The problem is that my husband and I are only separated, not divorced yet. He is abusive but I have never legally filed a complaint against him. Can I legally leave the state with my children ... (57 words)

I saw my ex and he kissed me and said he missed me, but he has a girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok well my an my boyfriend went out for lik a little for than a year and he seemd to hav a low selfesteem, we were eachothers first love, very attached and wuldnt trust me even though i really cared for him the whole time and i told him that- he would act weird if i was ... (225 words)

I told everyone including my girlfriend that I've had sex - but I'm still a virgin! Any tips for the first time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello. I'm 14 years old(turning 15 soon; freshman). I have already told some of my friends that I had lost my virginity already. I'm starting to think that that was a mistake. I have a girlfriend (we've been going out for about a year and a half), and she's a senior, 17 turning ... (174 words)

He doesn't want to go out with me, but he hardly knows me! How can I get something to happen between us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (?) age 13-15 - I like this boy so much and he knows that I like him. He said that he didn't want to go out with me and that he just wants to be friend. But he doesn't really know me because we don't talk that much and he hasn't known that for that long. I really want something to happen b... (163 words)

She said she was 'in love with me for that while back there.' What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. I'm in a strange relationship situation. I've been friends with this girl for about an year. I always liked her but never thought she felt the same towards me, so I decided to let it go the way it was and remain friends.. I never told her how i felt about her. Anyhow; ... (262 words)

My ex is the dance instructor I met through school. Can she get in trouble? How can I win her back? If I can't, then how do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i was in a production of oklahoma at my 6th form school. Anyway at the after show party the dance insturctor who had been teaching was the moves came to the party and after a few drinks we got talking and one thing led to another and we ended up kissing when every one had gone ... (227 words)

He never makes a sound during sex. Should it bother me, or are guys just not as verbal as girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend is not verbal at all in the bedroom. He never makes a single sound when we are having sex. He always turns his face away from me when he is coming too. Like he doesnt want me to see him (i guess thats why his fave position is doggy sytle)! I know hes a very shy guy ... (81 words)

I can't get enough of the hot sex that my affair gives me! But I feel bad for betraying my bf. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've got a boyfriend, but recently I had sex with another girl. It was so amazing, I had the best orgasim I have ever had, I enjoyed it so much more than I do with my boyfriend. We've been doing it in secret ever since, just for a bit of fun. We don't love each other, were... (168 words)

Do men run to arms of a stranger for the sexual "escape" when they are under stress, instead of being with their partners? Is my bf going to cheat and blame it on the "stress" ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - When my b/f is stressed out about work, he tends to not want sex. Okay, I can understand that, I know stress can affect a person's sex drive sometimes, but recently during one of those stressful phases, my b/f e-mailed a female friend and made a remark about wanting to have ... (269 words)

In love with my soon to be husband, but can't push away the feelings of lust for other men...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - normally i am the one giving the advice but the tables have turned. i love my man and we are getting married next year and i cant wait but i am lusting after other men. i have 2 really close friends who have said that they love me and if anything happened with me and my partner ... (106 words)

He misunderstood what I said, and became rather distant. What should I do so that he will meet me when I travel to B next month?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known a guy since November 2004 during my trip to Michigan through a friend. He texted me everyday. As he stayed in Michigan and I was in New York, we could not see each other but only communicate through sms or he will call me once a week. On Dec 31 2004 he came to New ... (568 words)

My mother was a good person, and I miss her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i need help. im 16 and my mother died 2 yrz ago of cancer of the colon. she didnt smoke, drink or take drugs she didnt deserve 2 die. its soo hard and i cry nearly every day. i have no one to talk to and i feel like nobody else cares. how do i stop the pain i feel? i miss her ... (65 words)

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they were frosty with one another at ... (175 words)

We're on break, but he's still excited to go apartment searching for US! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - So i tried to talk to my boyfriend last night, to have that neutral conversation. So that way he can tell me how he feels annd how i feel. IT backfired! He can never tell me hows hes feeling really. This is what i got from hhim: "I feel rushed with school and work and having ... (252 words)

We're on break but he says we're not postponing the holidays together, already reserved. I'm confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - ok I have a gourgeous boyfriend who I thought adored me. We've been arguing over little and big things for a while- not least having to postpone our 2 week holiday to Thialand due to a washed passport. I'm 27, he's 29 and has a 10 year old son. We are due to go on holdiday i... (193 words)

I am shorter than average, and my sisters upset me by hiding my things in places I can't reach. How do I handle it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a shorter than average person,i am 4'11 tall or not so tall.My problem is that my 2 sisters are very abusive to me and i am the older one.This has always been going on especially while growing up.My 2 sisters are 5'8 and 5'9 tall.When my parents arent around they find ... (176 words)

Is it a good idea when we marry to have our own bank accounts and have a joint account intended for all of our household budgets/emergency purposes?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 214 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - im in a relationship for a year now, my bf is great, he is intelligent and very responsible. One night while we're having dinner in a restaurant by the beach we've talked about bank accounts, anyway were both had a good salary from our works. the issue here is that his plan in ... (137 words)

My abusive, alcoholic husband is making me out to be the bad guy! I'm at a loss, any help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just don't understand him anymore. I've have posted several questions pertaining to my relationship with my husband who is an alcoholic and has become verbally and physically abusive over the past 2 years. I have received some great advice and I have removed my children and ... (346 words)

My bf and I are on break since last week. I've met a new, older man who is a family friend - should I spend the night with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 18, and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (21) for nearly 18 months, i love him very much and i rely on him, as i am not close to anyone in my family, i havent got a job at the moment, as i finished my A-Levels in June and now am looking for a full time job, and ... (173 words)

The man I'm seeing has a fiance and he's confused about his feelings. I don't want to wait, but don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been somewhat involved with a man who is engaged... We work together. I am 21 and he is 34. We started off as good friends.... im not going to get into it as everyone woman seems to have the same old boring story. Anyway, it has always been more of an emotional connec... (269 words)

I don't like how my boyfriend talks dirty! Should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) age 10-12 - my boyfriend talks dirity all the time hes says to ome oh my penis is hurtting do you want to see it i dont know if i should dump him or not cause i like him but i dont want him to say dirty things.... (45 words)

Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Can men tell if you have had sex before or not?... (11 words)

I'm having problems finding a partner who suits me in the bedroom because of my size!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i know you might have heard this so many times,but this is true,i am very big downstairs,i have had a lot of problems trying to find a gal who can take me,or give me a good blow job,i do enjoy lots of foreplay and oral so i have no problem getting her wet,but she can only take ... (81 words)

Should my friend and I have sex the night we get drunk? We're both virgins and I've never had a bf!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - So me and my best friend steven and i are spending the night at our older friends house this saturday night.both of our parents think we're spending the night at someone elses house.We're gonna drink,and get drunk,he's my best friend in the whole world,and we're both virgins,i ... (102 words)

My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying to her. But am I just headed for MORE heartache?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My question is this: My ex has started speaking to me again, and I'm replying. But am I just headed for more heartache? I posted a question just yesterday telling how miserable I was (Because yesterday, I really was miserable over the situation). I was missing my ex ... (266 words)

I'm attracted to my roommate even though I've been straight my whole life! What should I do? Am I gay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 39 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi.. i have been straight all my life.. but lately, i think i'm attracted to my friend, who is also my roommate. i so wanted to kiss her. but then, i know for a fact that she's not gay. i'm scared that she wouldn't kiss me back.. or worse, that i would lose her friendship if i ... (80 words)

The girl I loves told me she likes me back! Should I ask her out this soon or wait until next week?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hey, theres this girl, shes single and she said she liked me.ive always loved her shoulds i ask her out today,friday the 28th or should i do it next week?... (33 words)

Am I still a virgin after oral? Am I a lesbian?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Okay, so i feel pretty stupid for asking this but here it goes. So i decided to go out with my best friend (girl) because since i got into high skool its been really hard to see her. anyway.. i was going to meet at her house and then wee would goo to the movies or somethin. so ... (165 words)

Is this too much of a difference... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just moved away from home to go to university: first year student. I am 18 and have started recently going on dates with a man who is 27.. I have always dated older guys, however, not with this much of a difference. I do not have an issue, but socially I am finding it ... (99 words)

The guy I'm seeing has been gone for a week, but now he's back in town...and he hasn't called me! What should I say and do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - i started seeing this guy i dont know exactly what it is about him that made me like him a lot. But he's great. i dont know what's been wrong with everything lately. like, i've always given the guy space whenever he needed it. i guess i've always been lenient about everythi... (159 words)

I think I love my straight friend! How can I tell if she likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i like my friend but shes straight. i like one of my friends, we have become really close i am bi. but no one knows that im bi i started to have strong feelings for this friend for about a year. i think its love because i cant stop thinking about her i get jealous a lot when... (310 words)

I told my FWB that I'm being tested for cancer and he left! Just how shallow is a FWB situation?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's one for you women in friends with benefits situations - Guys just how shallow is a FWB situation? I recently told my "good friend" of 9 months that I had to be tested for cancer and he emailed me that it was a good time for him to disappear so he would not create emoti... (205 words)

Am I wrong in being disappointed that it's always me spending the $$ and making the effort?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 years while we both finish school in different states. I'm planning on moving out there at the end of this upcoming summer when I graduate. I love him so much, and do truly want to be with him, ... (226 words)

My partner doesn't love me, but I'm hoping his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with a guy who doesn't love me. He cares for me and how I feel, but he is not emotionally attached to me. This is my first relationship in 10 years, I am hoping that in time his feelings will change. Am I being unrealistic? What should I do? ... (53 words)

I was pushed into dating her and want to break up! How can I do that - I'm shy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Well I have been dating this girl who i think is cool for a few days now but i like her friends but i like her to but not like that i was kind of pushed into answering and i dont really know how to break up with her as im shy.... (53 words)

I want to know if my ex and I can have a relationship again; he asked his friend who I had a casual relationship with to stop flirting w/ me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I can't seem to get over my first love, Andy. We split five years ago and one year later we began hanging out again but he would not take me back. Two years ago he moved in with Leigh, a good male friend of mine. Leigh and I had an ongoing flirtation, and Andy asked him to s... (205 words)

Recently my guy hasn't been calling or asking me out, but when I asked he was happy about it! What does this mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ive been going out with someone for a while - he always was the one calling me and asking me out - but recently that hasnt been happening. i thought maybe he isnt interested anymore. but when i asked him out recently he responded really warmly and sets a day, time etc. what... (59 words)

We have plans to move, but I have my doubts b/c of past troubles in our relationship! Should I still go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey i was just asking for help because me and this boy have been going out for a little over 11 months and we planned on moving to Virginia to live there with his brother. But now i have my doubts about going i think i am scared but in away i want to go and in away i dont and ... (87 words)

My boyfriend can't hold down a job... he gets angry and sullen and blames everyone but himself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 51 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help. I really need some advice. My boyfriend can't hold down a job. He'll stay a couple of months at a job at the most. Basically he splits as soon as he has a conflict at work, he gets all upset and angry and instead of talking about it or asking for what he needs he ... (281 words)

He's the best bf I've dated, but I can't get over our 2 year age gap!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid i have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger then me. im not really comfortable with that age gap but he always make sure we don't let that come between us. out of all the guys i'v dated, he tops them all and he always remains me of his love for me. but i can't hel... (73 words)

My long distance bf has totally changed and become vicious - how can I tell if he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - im in a longdistance relationship for 19 months now. my bf completely changed. dnt know if he still loves me. he dnt even take pics of us ,he dnt seem very sad of going away. al he want is being vicous. how can i know if he loves me? ... (49 words)

After we fooled around, he became too busy to do anything! He said it's not me. But is he bullsh*tting me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Alright, here we go. Well, I met this guy a couple months ago...we met through a mutual friend. Anyways, we really hit it off, had a couple dates, fooled around a little bit (a LITTLE bit), and talked all the time. Now, things have changed. Every time I ask him if he wants to... (135 words)

My don't remember cheating, but my gf split w/ me b/c of it! And now there's someone else who likes me! Any advice with both problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey. I am 18; my girlfriend has just broken up with me. She broke up with me because I kissed another girl. I don’t remember cheating on her (I was really drunk), but apparently I did. I understand that I lost her trust but I feel like I didn't disserve to. I know that I have ... (127 words)

I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?

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28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, I cry because I know I can't ... (91 words)

Girls - can anyone give us advice on having sex for the first time together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Hey everyone, but mainly girls! I have two questions, but first, the background. Me and my partner want to be more sexually active, and want to have sex. We have been dating for a long time and know that we love each other very much. SO, two problems arise: One, she has... (113 words)

My friend and I like the same guy, but she never talks w/ him! Should I say hi instead and tell him he's hot?

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28 September 2007 (F)

age 10-12 - im 11 years old and i really like this guy kyle i mean like hes really cute and nice but the problem is that my friend likes him to and im trying to be supportive of her but she just wont say hi to him and i really like him and hes 2 of my friends friends and as i said my ... (83 words)

I want to ask a guy to homecoming, but I hardly talk with him! Any advice?

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28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm a sophomore, and the guy I like is a senior. Our homecoming is in 3 weeks. I don't talk to him often, and we don't have any classes together. I would like to ask him, but I don't know what he'll say. I asked him to prom last year and he said no, but was nice and didn't make ... (76 words)

How can I tell if a guy likes me or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

28 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How can I tell if a guy likes me or not? I think one of my friends, J, likes me. One day he told my friend we were going out. Today, he dropped his pen underneath my chair twice and asked me to get it. Also, he asks me, and only me, about homework. When he does this, it seems ... (79 words)

Is there a way for girls to know when a guy is climaxing from a bj w/out being told?

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28 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Is there a way for girls, performing oral sex, to know a guy is cuming without the guy saying so? ... (20 words)