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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest questions)

Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

We are 14 and in love. I need some xmas present ideas please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Me and my boyfriend are 14 and we love eachother (yeah, you'll probably think I am full of it, but it's real) Well. I know he is getting me a ring for Christmas that is worth about $300, and so I really don't have anything to get him. I just really need help. But, I really ... (66 words)

My girlfriend and I argue all the time, she thinks I'm still in love with my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi,me and gf argue all the time recently,she doesnt trust me even tho i am loyal,she threw her engagement ring away and now we cant find it,she got annoyed cos i said i was goin to pick my mum up and stay the night before she lives 250 miles away,she thinks people dont like her ... (70 words)

My room mate tries to steal attention from guys that are talking to me. How can I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm currently in uni, living with three room-mates (all girls), who I have been friends with since high school. Because we all live in the same all-girls residence, we often do things together- especially residence parties. Recently, my one roommate has started act really ... (455 words)

Anyone know why a guy wouldn't ejaculate through oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i just gave my boyfriend a 20 minute bj and he didn't have an orgasm [cum] he told me it felt really good but he was confused that he didn't and i gave him one before and he didn't have an orgasm that time either so me and him are confused why, anyone know an idea why he isn't?... (59 words)

After 30 years he says he no longer loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do when after 30 years of being married he says he no longer loves me but I still love him? ... (23 words)

How do I get my sex drive back after a baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I Am A New Mom And Am Having Trouble Seeing Myself As Anything But A Mother. It's Been 2yrs Since My Baby's Father And I Have Had Sex And It's Hurting Our Relationship. I Don't Know What To Do. How Do I Get My Sex Drive Back?... (47 words)

I still love him and want to be friends but he says it wouldn't work. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i need help me n my ex was going out for 3years but we broke up 4 month ago because he didn't want a relationship we was still really close,and now he has met someone which i don't like the sound of i still love him and still want to be friends but he doesn't think it ... (70 words)

Is my guy who's 12 yrs younger than me not ready to settle down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) age 30-35 - I feel too jealous and it bothers me. My bf is 12 yrs younger than me, im 33. he has a cute face and there are always girls come to him and he enjoys that feeling being liked by others,he usually doesnt tell them in the first place that he has a gf.and he even agrees go night ... (96 words)

How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 63 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!... (44 words)

I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do.... (35 words)

Should I stay with my wife or go with the woman who has always been there for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a situation that i think if i talked about it maybe it might help. I got married in 96 to a woman i thought was everything to me,she had a child of her own from a previous relationship. i didn't mind that at all. We had our 1st child a year after our marriage. When we ... (311 words)

We broke up and now we're trying again. But I don't know if I really love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, A year and eight months ago I started going out with a boy and after a month we were both in love with each other. We lasted for a year and a four months and we split up because we were arguing. We were both in the middle of exams and to be honest, had taken each other... (256 words)

Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]... (29 words)

If my gf kisses another guy does it mean she's cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hey last time i asked this it got rejected saying it was fake or stupid but it is a real question and i know it does sound stupid but i wanna know, if my gf kisses another guy does it mean shes cheated on me?... (47 words)

I am in love with my best mates girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i do?... (56 words)

Should I send my daughtersto stay with my ex's sister? Teenage daughters need a woman to look after them and I'm physically disabled...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i asked something here a couple of days ago and got some good advice so i thought i'd ask again, following something my collegues said to me... my fiancee left me for her boyfriend like 2 days ago now and she's basically told me to take the kids and get out of her house asap. ... (224 words)

Guys! I don't know what to say in bed - he wants me to talk dirty. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I wanted to ask guys what do they like to hear a girl say in bed. My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him but I feel so shy and couldn't think of anything to say!! Help!!... (38 words)

I lost weight but I'm still not fully happy. How can I gain confidence?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - Hey everybody, i am 17 years old and did weigh 16 stone. i was a size 18/20 clothes and had glasses. i felt fat and ugly. i got bullied all the way through school every day i would get a comment "fat bitch" "errr look its blobby" "haha fatty bum bum" exetra. i really wasn't ... (352 words)

15 years ago we broke up, I don't know why except we were young; he found me and says he is happy with his gf, but why then he contacted me? I never really got over him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my problem is that i am 38 years old, married, but confused. when i was only 17 years old i fell in love with a guy. we were each others first, we loved each other, did everything together. after a year and a half he broke up with me. i was devastated. i remember that after 2 ... (688 words)

I get compliments all the time but not from lads I'm interested in. Why don't I have a bf?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - why am i the only person that is still single!!! all my friends are in relationships of 9/10/11/12/13 monnths n even longer and i am still the one that's never had a bf. all people say is "oh dont worry mr right will come along one day." but hes not here yet and its already ... (126 words)

Tips on what to do when my gf is doing her extra work at home, ways to make her feel more relaxed? I'm 26.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi i'm 26 i just want to know what i can do to help really. My gf has been through a tough time at the moment and has got a bit behind with some work, She seems to be quite stressed, so how do i help her to calm down and unwind a bit, maybe some tips on stuff to do when shes ... (109 words)

She is not over her ex yet, and is uncertain of starting a new relation but she flirts with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really wel.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate i liked this girl. well its obvious it g... (447 words)

My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would split me and my bf up. would ... (99 words)

We like to have sex anywhere that could be fun, bus shelters etc; my bf is 17 and I'm 15, could this be wrong?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - is what im doing ok?? i like to be very passionate in the bedroom. i prefer to use handcuffs or belocked to a bed while a guy takes full advantage of me. i like to have sex in the back of a car, morrisons carpark, in bus shelters. on park benched or anywhere else that could be ... (182 words)

I like him and don't know whether to stay away from him or get to know him a bit more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - right, im going to a party on saturday, well its at my house, a suprise for my mums friends daughters 16th. only it might kind of end up as a joint because another one of my mums friends has a son that turns 16 the day before. i really really like this boy but he has no idea. ... (165 words)

Has anyone had a rebound, realized their ex was who they want, and got back with them and it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Anybody went into a rebound relationship and realized their ex was who they really wanted and gone back to them and had it work??... (24 words)

He wants to meet up... For sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I started seeing a guy back in January. He said that he was divorced and living alone. We talked every day and met up a few times but after I slept with him he then ditched me and said he couldn't get involved. He did try to stay in contact after this but I didn't allow it. ... (237 words)

How will you know when a man is in love with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - How will you know when a man is in love with a woman?... (13 words)

Shall I make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a long term relationship and it is in trouble. i have a passion for another person and from what i notice this other person seems to feel the same way about me. this person becomes animated when i am around but is notoriously sullen when i am not there. I am ... (158 words)

Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other girl. Its been going on for a whil... (262 words)

I regret splitting with him. He isn't into me anymore. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

- Hi, I split up with my boyfriend about 4 months ago; and at the time i was fine and really was glad to be out of the relationship. I was being bullied at school at the time and was in the middle of my exams - 'we're both 17'. he was mean to me and made me upset (he said h... (300 words)

Is he seeing someone behind my back? Why would he lie?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i think my boyfriend is seeing someone behind my back the other night he said he was at home but i knew he was not because his car was not there.when questioned he said it was but i am not blind.he said he loves me more than anything so why lie to me?... (53 words)

Together 18 years. He cheated on me and I can't forgive. What do I do from here?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All I have read loads of question /amswers on this site on affairs and alcholics and agree with every one when advised to get out. Well I did get out,but he left me we were together 18yrs i found out he was cheating tryed to forgivre but coundn't forget and that w... (154 words)

Does he want me back or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hello everyone! i have a question that i need to ask and get off my chest so here it goes...I went out with this boy hes 15 im gonna be 14 in a few days so there wasnt an age gap n all that hard stuff. but anyways things were going really good at first until we broke up for a ... (224 words)

I've been shaving my pubic hair, and it's gotten itchy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey. I've been shaving my pubic hair for a while now, but I always get red and itchy parts when I do. Also I can never seem to completely shave off all the hair, there is always little stubs still visable. I was wondering how to solve this problem without having to spend lo... (68 words)

She didn't reply to my text about meeting up. Is there something about me women don't like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

- I asked a girl out on friday. We seemed to be getting on well so I asked for her number. I sent her a text to say when we should meet up and I haven't got a reply. I sent a second one to remind her who I am. I don't what I've done wrong, I was polite and confident and sh... (90 words)

21, with a fear of intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi there. I am desparate for advice, please help if you can. I'm a 21 year old woman and I think I have a fear of intimacy. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I shy away from having sex with him as I feel it's a dirty act and don't feel sexy. But in ... (254 words)

I'm worried I'll disappoint him in bed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) age 22-25 - Im in a new relationship but scared i'll disappoint him in bed. He is a bit older and has been with lots of women, whereas im not really experienced in this department. I love him so much, we talk openly about sex and he says theres no rush but the worse case would be that he ... (106 words)

It seems like everyone has a partner except me... What's wrong with me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - What is wrong with me? Or is it this stupid town? It seems like everyone has a partner. Even our cat has a boyfriend next door (granted she's a cat). All my friends are with someone, not just sex buddies, but like someone special. And don't get me wrong, I'm not thinking 'Oh... (431 words)

It's good he wants to be more sexually adventurous, but isn't he taking this a bit too far??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now, and our sex life's been good, but last week he suggested we have sex as long as the room we're in has a rancid smell to it. He said the smell of the room has to be really, really, rancid because otherwise the sex won't be any ... (236 words)

Any good sites where I can meet people my age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

- does anyone know of a good website where i could meet people my age and in my area? not only boys but girls just for friendship too?... (27 words)

Can a woman who's gone through the menopause have an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Can a woman who's gone thru menopause have an orgasim?... (10 words)

I like him, but I'm fridged! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I Really really really like this guy who is 2 years older than me. no1 noes about how much i love him nobody noes that i even like him!! we talk all the time, go out nearly every weekend But recently we have been gettin really really close. We Went out the other nig... (182 words)

Do women remember the size of their former lover's penis?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been bombarded with penis enlargement emails lately. Something like 100+ a day. Hopefully I am not the only one. :) Obviously these are SPAM I know, however there are lots of products claiming to work for those less endowed. One of the common emails subject titles ... (183 words)

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

30 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship since it began back in 2005. We trie... (306 words)

How can I spice up our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i would really like to spice up my sex life with my boyfriend, we have tried different positions but it always reverts back to the missionary position ( he seems to like being in control) whilst the sex is amazing, i would like it to be better for him. Please help!... (51 words)

I loved him, but he's moved on. How can I deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi everyone I am heartbroken at the moment, the boy that i loved has moved on and found someone else i dont know how to deal with it. We broke up a while ago but i always believed deep down that we'd find our way back to each other.I think its my own fault because i gave out ... (179 words)

I'm 60, he's 35! Can it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a 60 years old womam (seems much younger than my real age). Six or severn months age, I came across a 35 years old man on a agegap dating site, agelessfriends.com . we are very much in love after one-month's close commnunication. He's a lovely gorgeous man with a great ... (94 words)

I've been backstabbed at work. What can I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't about boyfriends but relationships at work, so i am not sure if it counts. My friends have never had this happen to them though so i dont know who to ask for advice. This is basically my problem... I am finding it hard in my new job. Some people have back stabbed me ... (177 words)

I'm getting married next week, do I tell my fiance I have slept with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

30 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - me and my fiance are getting married next week but i have slept with his best friend, what do i do, ruin there friendship and my wedding or stay quiet... (30 words)