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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

He's pulled away! Should I give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a great guy online three months ago. First two months were total bliss and we got close very fast. The last month he has pulled away. He still calls me but it's once a week instead of every day. What do I do? We aren't close like we were. Should I give him space ... (76 words)

I want out of this relationship! How can I make him understand it's over and keep it civil until I can get out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16, it's been 4 years now. We've never had a serious break up until last summer, and it lasted for 6 months. Ever since we've been back together things have not been the same. I have no desire to work for a future together, but when I ... (229 words)

Divorced Guys! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell...would you remarry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Divorced Men! If your divorce was terrible and she put you through hell... would you remarry? I am dating a guy who says he would not remarry because of all he went through- but....?!?... (37 words)

Is she waiting for me to contact her or has she realised that she doesn't want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I met this girl almost 3 years ago n when we 1st met it was great..we fell in love and i couldnt be happier..we were together for a few months and because of work i had to move away.. we drifted apart and all the feelings i had were becoming a distant memory. Then outa the blue ... (206 words)

Help me, I haven't bounced back after two years!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- Hoping someone can help here. I was with my boyfriend for eight years and we lived together for six years. He moved out a couple of years ago and want back to his hometown. He kept telling me that I was the nicest person he knew but he was not in love. That was sure true as he ... (154 words)

I love her, but can't trust her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm totally stuck in my relationship. I love my girlfriend so much and she loves me but I can't trust her at all. Things are ok now, but last August/September we went out on three nights out and on each of them we came back seperatly. The first time she got angry and went to ... (516 words)

He's leaving, but I need him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Help! I Love this boy but he's 16, hes going to be leaving my school in a few months, im 14, but i really love him, ive told him how i feel but he didnt take it serious i told him online n he just said ' aww cute lol hehe' please i really need him, im having a shit time at home ... (91 words)

Guilt after two abortions and now I want a baby, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey im a young girl and have been in a relationship just over a year. i got pregnant by my boyfriend in january this year because we werent financially stable and hadnt been seeing each other too long we decided to have a termination. everythin was fine after though i did have ... (214 words)

He's too controlling, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone. I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year, but the past 7 or 8 months he hasnt trusted me 1 bit. I cant even go into town shopping with a friend without him texting asking who im with, what im doing, and accusing me of sleeping with ... (297 words)

He wants me back, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - HELPPPPPPP I went out with this boy for over a year and we got on soo welll! Then we broke up and i fancyed him soo bad! Ovber the summer he wodnt see me n was alwys jellousing me and telling me to get over his.. making me look like a mug.. ect! So i tryed moving on... and an... (184 words)

Never had a girlfriend...how do I go about asking her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - ok well I posted my firt q yesterday and had 2 repplies in less than 24 hrs so here I go again. There is this girl I school I rly like and we are already friends and sometimes walk home together, I rly wana ask her out but even tho I am the class clown somtimes I get rly nervus ... (113 words)

Have I ruined it already?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am just ending an abusive relationship of almost three years and I've spend some time with a coworker of mine. We ended up having sex after only hanging out a couple times, which is isn't like me but I am wondering what he thinks of me for giving it up so soon.I know I am ... (93 words)

Too close to a friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - What do i do if i think im too my close female friend? I'v known this girl for a long time and recently have been getting closer to her and now i think im attracted to her but im not sure if she feels the same way or even if she'd still like me if i told her. How do i... (83 words)

Do birth conrol pills make your breasts bigger or make you gain weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, i dont know if this is true but i've heard a lot of people say the birth control pill makes your breasts bigger? As i also heard they make you sometimes put on weight. ... (35 words)

Do I get back together with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. Can anyone help sort my mind out? I've recently got back with my ex after 6 months apart but some communication etc in the meantime. I feel that since the split in March that I have got on with my life - that doesn't mean looking for someone else - just getting on. ... (304 words)

It's been three months, but I can't shake the feeling...Could she be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and i had been together for 5 months when we started to have sex. Our last time we didnt use a condom but i was only inside of her for like ten seconds and i never came.(it was also during her period) For a long time i was worried about her being pregnant ... (119 words)

How do I get over cold feet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - dear aunt,before i go on to say my problem i must commrnd the good work u are doing on this site.do keep it up.my question is tha i usally develop a cold feet approaching a lady cos i feel i might be rejected.summarilly i dont know how to approach a lady... (51 words)

Whats the best way to get a second chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - What's the best way to get a second chance with an ex? My live-in boyfriend broke up with me 3 1/2 mnths ago. He said he couldn't do it that he wasn't ready, but that he still thought we'd end up together one day. At first we stayed in touch, but that ended in a big, drunken ... (235 words)

Why do I constantly feel inadequate or inferior to other people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- Why do I constantly feel inadequate or inferior to other people? I never think that I am better than them even if I have a nicer personality or am prettier etc. And I really hate it when im with a guy and I know his ex's and they are pretty. I constantly feel 'below' people. ... (66 words)

Is it best to stay friends after a break up or better to sever all ties?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - is it best to stay friends after a break up or is it better to sever all ties? my ex and i were very close and he often said i was his best friend as well as girlfriend! We broke up amicably and he said he wanted us to be like ross and rachel i.e ending up together! However i ... (124 words)

I need help to stop feeling jealous! What can I do???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - help im a 20yr old female, iv always been cheated on in my relationships, and now i have a boyfriend of 1yr and i jus cannot trust him! i never accuse him, i just have the thought in my head he's cheated. we see each other everyday but when he doesnt see me for one or two nigh... (144 words)

My wife is always putting me down. Sometimes I hate her, But I love her, if that makes sense. What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - ok here you go: I am married with children. Love my kids to death. I love my wife, but not as a wife. That may sound confusing, but let me explain. She is not a nice person at all, she constantly downs me and talks to me like I'm meaningless to her. She acts lik... (675 words)

How do I make myself ejaculate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i want to know how to squirt by myself i kinda have but i want to really squirt. How do i do that?... (27 words)

I need to end a relationship but how do I do that without the rest of the semester being horrible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I've come to the point in a relationship where something feels... off. I can't shake off this feeling and I think I need to end the relationship. I have a class with him though, and I don't know how to break it to him without the rest of the semester being horrible. What do I ... (56 words)

Is it normal for your finace to masturbate when you are not with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal for your fiance' to masterbate when you are not with him?... (14 words)

Shouldn't I be over my ex after a year???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hey my boyf of nearly 3 yrs broke up with me over a year ago and i still miss him? he moved on pretty quickly and is now in another relationship. i did really love him (sometimes i still think i do?) but should i not be over him by now?? when will this end?... (55 words)

I'm heartbroken all over again because my ex is engaged to someone. Please help..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Im new to this. Basically i split with my bf of 3 and half yrs at christmas. Yesterday i was thinking of him and guess wat i googled him found out he engaged to an ex of like 5yrs ago that he continually mocked. it was announced on a paper. He rang me on my birthday and has ... (114 words)

Why do I feel so upset after splitting from such a short relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- I just finished seeing a guy who I really liked. We were only together for 2 months but Im actually really upset over it. We got on really well but I felt like it was me who always made the effort and always found myself chasing him, although when were together we woul... (221 words)

I like a guy but my ex best mate will try and cause problems. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I really like this guy at my school. We have been out twice already and it didnt really work out too well. Anyways we were on a video call last night over MSN and he kept saying stuff like your so pretty and sexy. The only problem is my ex bestmate. We really hate eac... (165 words)

Me and my guy have tried foreplay but I'm worried about going further! Any advice please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - help please :| Me and my boyfriend were playing dares. his was "i will do ANYTHING for you when we're together" and well. i said something like "take my top off and kiss starting from the top going down" Because i didnt wnt to tell him to do something he didn't want to.. id ... (284 words)

I'm with someone but my ex from 4 yrs ago is back in my life and is 'the one' but I worry that my weight is an issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - About 4 years ago I had a boyfriend, long story short we were perfect for each other. Matters beyond eithers control we couldn't be together for a minute but before we could get back toegther I had to move and we lost contact. Flash forward 4 years we find each other but I have ... (167 words)

How do I stop feeling so needy and dependant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 233 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I rely too much on being in a relationship with my girlfriend for happiness, which means I'm always trying to make it more secure by being overly affectionate (which in turn means, I interpret a lack of return affection in a negative manner, and ultimately wind up thinking that ... (90 words)

When will the pill take effect? I started it on the 2nd day of my period.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey! I have just gone on the pill this week and i started it on the 2nd day of my period, i was just wondering when it will be effective? As i've heard within 7 days and i've also heard after the first pack...... (44 words)

We live in a really high crime and polluted area b/c my husband doesn't want to quit his job! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- I hate where my husband and I live. I've lived here all my life (I'm 25) and my husband (24) moved here about 6 years ago. It's been fine up until the last several years. Now, for some reason, everything about this place is taking a dive. We bought our first house in t... (491 words)

I think this guy is cheating and feel as though he's using me as a trophy g/f and a slave! What do you think?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dilemma, HUGE!~!~!~!~ I'm kind of on the youngin side at 20 years and never before have I cared to pursue a serious relationship. However some months back, at the start of this year, I met a man who had everything to offer at first glance and wanted an exclusive relati... (271 words)

My friend is unsure about staying w/ her bf. We're going out soon, how should I tell her I like her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Ive met this girl in college ive known for about a month now. We both are really good mates and like doing the same stuff. She is really hot and I am going out with her soon. I fancy her but dont know what to do. She has a bf but shes mentioned she is not sure whether she wants ... (87 words)

I don't know how she'd take it if I tell her how I feel about her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, I have this very good female friend I am seriously attracted to. We find each other beautiful and appreciate each other's friendship. However, I crave some intimacy with this friend. Even though she's said she loves me, I don't know how she'd take it if I tell her... (71 words)

I feel like a babysitter instead of a partner - now I'm crushing on someone from my past! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Im really confused. i have a boyfriend who i have been with for three years, we have three children, 1 which is mine and two that are his, we have none together. the mother of his two sees their children one a week for a couple of hours. all of my time is devoted to the chil... (123 words)

Every girl I have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M) age 16-17 - Hello. I wanted to ask for your advice, i have absoloutley no luck with girls. I have never been with a girl once and i'm 17 next month, it's driving me crazy, every girl i have ever liked has either a boyfriend or isn't interested. Please help me :(... (49 words)

I don't think he cheated, but I'm still insecure b/c of two incidents that occurred w/ him and other women! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The long and the short of it is this... I have been with my husband for over 8 years. In the beginning we were both young and immature and both of us did some things that weren't totally "kosher" but nothing serious or abnormal - harmless flirting etc. I have no evidence that ... (505 words)

He doesn't want to be w/ me because his friend - someone I went on 4 dates with - is refusing to talk w/ him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I am so unhappy. I am 26. I was seeing a guy (Mr A) (24) and we only met up on 4 occasions, we weren't really well suited so it didn't work out and kind of fizzled out. Before this happened tho I met his friend (Mr B)(25) and there was an instant attraction and connection - ... (350 words)

We don't communicate as often, but I'm not too upset about it - what is happening with our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hello. im 14. i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months. he has been sweet and text messages me like really often. even if his just saying, good moring darling. or, darling what are you doing now. he is just really sweet,but definitely not much flattery... (339 words)

My friend is building a relation with my ex, who was awful to me. Thought I'd be rid of him, but he's still trying to ruin my life with bad rumours. Views, please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- Hi, I have a problem that has really disturbed me and I dont know what to do. I recieved a text message last night from one of my friends, basically telling me that she was seeing my ex boyfriend. I do not see this mate very often but she is a really lovely girl. The thing... (316 words)

Separated from my wife, we have a sexual relation; I left a nasty message to a man who she exchanged suspicious texts with, now she won't talk to me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - ive really messed up this time, ive been separated from my wife for nearly three years,i work as a taxi driver and pick her up at weekends and go back to my flat for sex, on saturday she fell asleep and i went through her phone to which there was txt from a guy saying he cant ... (129 words)

My ex is dating my friend. Don't want to lose her as a friend, but this makes me jealous. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I started dating my ex a while back, i introduced him to my best friend, and when we broke up i thought he would not talk to her, but they are still talking, they even going on double dates.. i dont kno what to do cuz i stil have deep feelings for him and i dont want to let him ... (100 words)

Do I leave for a couple weeks, a month, permanetly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 240 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Good day. I am in a committed, generally speaking, good working relationship, going on 3 years-living together for 2 1/2 years. We share a dog, I have 2 cats, he has a bird (we cannot have human children). We are both recovering addicts for 4 years and 7 years. Our ... (440 words)

He said he will move out and I have sold my flat, but he's very aloof about it now (and married.) Do I walk away or give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am in love with a married man... and yes I know that this is wrong and I am not here for judgemet I am here for some advice. We have been together a year, he has been married three. No kids. I know he loves me and that he is not happy at home and wants to le... (192 words)

My gf booked this trip with her best mate before we met! I'm scared she will come back changed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I love my girlfriend dearly but she has left for three months traveling with her best mate. We have been together just under a year and she booked the trip month before we met. She said she will miss me lots and I want to believe her but I am scared that she will come back cha... (98 words)

Can someone please tell me about abortion pills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi I what shall a girl do, if she misses her first period and finds out she is pregnant. If she doesn't want the baby, Can she take abortion pills? What are abortion pills? How does an abortion take place in different stages? thanks... (44 words)

How do you know when a guy is being genuine? I'm afraid I could be "blinded" by impressions.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- How do you know when a guy is being genuine? How do you know when he is truly nice? How do you know when a guy isn't being fake??? I've just met a guy who I'm dating and Im worried although I think hes a pretty good guy, that I may just be to blind to see the truth....... (59 words)

I'm bi - should I tell my best friend that I fancy her? She's got a guy, so I know I'd be rejected.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok this is simular to my other question but with a little more detail. Im bisexual my best friend is the only one who knows that ive only known her for about a year. Shes got a boyfriend. But i fancy her. Im not sure to tell her that i fancy her as I know im going to get ... (74 words)

Do you think that I should tell him that either I go to the reunion or I will get out of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age - I asked a question yesterday about a class reunion that my bf is going to........... we are in our sixties and he will not allow me to go because he will be staying with his sister and brother-in-law and they do not know that we are back together. He broke up with me in j... (313 words)

My gf split with me, as her family was moving away. We tried to talk, but it was awkward, as she sounded angry.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi. My girlfriend split with me because her family was moving house, about 130 miles away from me, and didn't want our relationship to continue. We tried to talk after she moved away, but it was awkward. She sounded angry with me, so I decided that we wouldn't speak a... (226 words)

Why don't I want him anymore? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I married my "best friend" 9 years ago. Well, it's been really old for about the last 5 years, but we hung in there. No kids, didn't want them. He goes to the bar every day after work till about 8pm. I go home, make dinner, clean, ect.... On weekends (99% of... (365 words)

I think my partner is going off me - how can I regain lost confidence and realize I'm not at risk of losing my relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm in a loving relationship with an older woman who has two children. I've never been happier, but I see her turning inwards, sometimes. She says she has issues, with her looks, getting older, etc,. I know she needs me to be strong, confident and more assertive, but I've ... (115 words)

How can I last longer while acting out her fantasy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

18 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Ok... well i've been going out with this girl for 2 years now and we started getting in bed with each other but she usually only gets turned on by watching me wank. The problem with this is i dont know the best way to wank. I cant last long enough and she doesn't get turned on ... (77 words)

I think my bf's ex faked her suicide to get out of the relationship - how can I verfiy that she's dead?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Could her suicide be a lie? Four years ago my boyfriend received a phone call telling him his on/off girlfriend had killed herself. He didn't go to any funeral, the call was from one of her friends, and I have searched the death records there is no mention of anybody with tha... (231 words)

Neither man expects an exclusive relationship w/ me, but I feel filthy and disgusting by dating them both at the same time!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Bit of a mess... I've been seeing a guy as a very casual relationship, it was agreed it wasn't to be serious, and that we weren't limited to just seeing each other, but it kind of didn't end up that way for me because I've never been the type to play the field. Anyway, as the... (291 words)

My partner confimed my belief that all men would be unfaithful if they could! But he said he's different. Why should he be?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- Please, would you give me your view?. It is my suspicion that all men would be unfaithful if they could and were not found out and the person offering sex was attractive enough. My partner told me that I can trust HIM, because he values our relationship too much, but that ... (110 words)

Is it normal for a guy not to let go of the last relationship when he's involved in the next one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Dear Cupids I have been with this guy for four months now. He is wonderful and very appreciating of me. We are very good friends and the relationship is progressing well. When we started he told me he was dating someone who is 1000 miles away and they have not seen each ot... (526 words)

Did I take the pregnancy test too early? Is there a chance I could ge pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - i recently had unprotected sex, i haven't missed a period as such i started bleeding about 4days earlier than my period was due, it started off a brown colour then gradually turned redder, it was really strange, it would go from nothing in the morning to quite a bit, then ... (143 words)

My fiance says his active dating profiles are fake, but I think otherwise! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello there.. i am very tensed and confused. i love one guy and i felt he loves me too well i can say sometimes that he loves me. i just found out his profile in dating sites and talking to other womans for hot chat. i found his pictures n told him n he told me different story ... (154 words)

I left him b/c he told me he had plans to sleep w/ my friend. We split, now they're together! Is something wrong w/ me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I recently left my boyfriend because he was telling me that he is gonna sleep with my friends. One day after I left him, he already started dating my friend... I tried so hard to keep him, I did everything he told me to... What more am I supposed to do.. Is there something ... (58 words)

How do you know when is a safe time to give yourself to someone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- When I finally decided to have sex for the first time, it was with my bf who I had been going with for 6months. The following month he treated me like crap! I finaly broke it off a month later, at the 7month mark. It made me feel like he was puting on mr perfect act until he ... (147 words)

My current bf is a lot like my ex. I don't want to repeat what happened - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- Ive been seeing this guy recently for a couple of weeks and I really like him and he really likes me too. The only thing I have so far seen that may stop this working out in the long run is that he works so much! He works 50, nearly 60 hours a week! On a 'good' week he will ... (375 words)

I cheated on my fiance b/c I felt lonely! Do I tell him? How can I repair the relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I been with the same guy for the past five years. We got engaged a few months ago. He is truely a wonderful man. Two nights ago I cheated on him with a guy I work with. I believe that the reason I cheated was because I was lonely. My fiance has been spending a lot of time ... (130 words)

Should I keep going to my bf's hockey games while he's grounded?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Ok, I need some advice. My boyfriend is grounded, so I can't see him. I went to his hockey game today and his dad saw me hug him, so he got in trouble. I was wondering, I don't wanna abandon my man completely cause he's used to having my constant support. He's kinda on the e... (121 words)

We've split b/c the relationship just didn't feel right, but now I'm confused about my feelings for her!

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18 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I broke up with my girlfriend because something just wasn't feeling right but every since then i still think about her all the time. She wants to be together and I do to but there are times that I feel I just want to be single and free and have some fun but then again I want to ... (109 words)

How can you tell if you're in love or if you're just attached to avoid being alone?

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18 September 2007 (F) - how do you know if you still love your boyfriend or partner? or is it attachment because you dont wanna be alone? i get confused sometimes because i wonder if it's supposed to be like a fairy tale where you get butterflies all the time when you talk, and so on.... or is it ... (85 words)

How can I make sure he'll write to tell me where he is once he's back in the U.S.?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I know if he will write back to me? I'm friend to this guy in the Air Force. We've been keeping in touch since December last year. He's in Aviano Italy, but recently got orders to come back to the U.S. but didn't told me where exactly. I asked him to please write me ... (143 words)

We are a blended family and my husband doesn't treat my daughter like one of his own. Any suggestions or comments???

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a married mother of 4. My husband and I have been together for over 6 years and married for 1 year. We have 3 children together and I have one from a previous relationship. She is 9 years old and has a small handicap / disability if you will. She is also a difficult child ... (293 words)

There's too much drama in my school!

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My whole school is filled with drama and i hate it soo many rumors soo much of everything high school is deffinatley a hand full i'm in grade 9 and the start to this year it all has been hate, everyone hated someone and there was just a fight today i hate school right now. What ... (62 words)

How can I tell her that just b/c I like guys now, I'm still the same person?

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - One of my friends thinks I'm changing, but everyone else thinks I'm the same. She thinks I'm changing cause I'm more into guys now. But, you see, everyone is changing cause everyone is now having sex at this age! Like a lot of my friends already have and she has done a lot ... (121 words)

I don't know which guy to choose! My feelings for them change each day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - okay so, i'm been together with this guy for atleast 8 months and we arn't dating buut we are exactly like a couple he just doesn't want to go out. He just doesn't like relationships but i understand that but then there is another guy that wants to go out with me i want a ... (156 words)

I havnt been able to orgasm with my boyfriend through penetration and its become a problem in our relationship. What can I do to make our sex life better?

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm a 24 years old. Me and my boyfriend are having sex for 5 months once a week at least. I never had vaginal orgasm before, I can have clitoral orgasm on my own or with partner. When my boyfriend learned I can not reach orgasm by only penetration he tried to touch my clit and ... (328 words)

I feel like I am getting into a state of depression over my relationship...

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - PROBLEMS!! Not sure what to think, but I feel like I am getting into a state of depression over my relationship. I have been in plenty of longterm relationships in the past where the man has cheated and I took him back, etc. But this relationship is different!! I have been ... (347 words)

My boyfriend isnt interested in penetration he only wants to masterbate over me. Is this natural?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Seven years with my man and he never wanted sex all he wanted was to stand above me touching me while masturbating. I feel intimidated and unworthy can some one please tell me if this is natural not to penetrate ever?... (41 words)

Attracted to my friend who is a lesbian!

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18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - So i need some advice here. Recently I have been spending more and more time with my friend who is also a lesbian and it seems that everytime we hang out or go out with our friends her and I can crack each other up all night. No matter what mood either one of us is in we ... (345 words)

Has anyone had a good relationship w/ their affair and/or w/ someone who is already attached?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Just wondering, has anyone ever had a happy ending out of having an affair, with a married partner or with someone who is just attatched? I'm just curious.... (29 words)

Is my long distance bf calling me less because he's busy or because he wants to split up?

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18 September 2007 (?) age 18-21 - So the thing is that I'm in a long distance relationship with this guy who I haven't met yet. He lives so far away, like a couple states over. He used to call me so much and now he calls me less. And when I call, it's like 2 mins we talk and he's like "hunn I'll call you back... (99 words)

How can I find out if my guy friend likes me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - I am friends with this guy for about 2 years we hang out all the time just as friends but whenever we go out he pays for me cuz he's such a gentleman but he always tells me about girls he's sleeping with and i tell him about guys im dating.. but recently i think i'm falling for ... (169 words)

I want the man I can't have and don't want the man I married!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

18 September 2007 (F)

- My husband and I have pretty much had problems since day one. In fact, probably since before we were even married. Right now he's off in Iraq (don't worry, his job isn't anything remotely dangerous), and I feel like I like my life better without him around. I don't want to be ... (271 words)