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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

After asking me out he told others he didn't have a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I wanted to go out with this guy for a long time and I thought he was so perfect for me. He finally asked me out and I was so excited, but a couple days after I agreed to say "yes", he told all of his friends he didn't have a girlfriend. How can I confront him?... (57 words)

How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - How do I give a blow job with a ice cube?... (11 words)

I insulted my girlfriend while drunk! How do I redeem myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently sent a text message to my girlfriend that was taken out of context. She replied and I was drunk and said some really really mean things I wish I didn't say. I hurt her very badly. Is there anyway I can try to redeem myself? I do not want to be without her. ... (56 words)

I don't want another case of the "Inlaws from hell!" What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for 4 years and this past Febuary he asked me to marry him. The problem is that I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore. I have been married before and had the "INLAWS FROM HELL" my fear is that his family will be the same. My marriage was very ... (202 words)

After my ex lied to me so many times, he keeps telling me that I was the problem!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Im in the Uk so off to bed now, but, something has been bugging me about an ex and i wouldn't mind some opinions on it. We split 3 months ago (just over) We argued on and off for the whole yr of our relationship. It was a nightmare and i didnt ever really fall for the guy.... (390 words)

How can I make sex between me and my boyfriend better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whats wrong with my sex life...I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years i was a virgin and just lost it to him...it hurt when i lost it but not as much as i expected and know that i have sex i dont feel that much pleasure...it sucks becuase i love him and i know he ... (139 words)

My ex and I have unresolved issues. Is there anyway I can make things right?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i'm a 20 yr old female who has just come out of a relationship, which lasted about a year and a half. i had lived with my x partner for about a year and a few months ago fell pregnant, my partner wanted me to keep the baby but i didn't as i felt i wasn't ready and would not ... (231 words)

Is her use of sex toys affecting her performance with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend hav had a steady relationship for seven months. I am a virgin and she has only ever used sex toys. we decided to take things further so when we did she told me she had no feeling in her nipples however i put this down to having large breasts. when i gave ... (160 words)

Should risk the friendship to I tell my friend how I feel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm bisexual and my best friend knows this. She is a very nice friend and treats me the same and I trust her. I think I fancy her but I'm not sure if I should tell her because I don"t want our friendship to be ruined. Should I tell her I have feelings for her or not?... (57 words)

How do I know if my friend likes me, and how do I confront her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey all, i recently have become very attracted to a woman. ive known of her for about 6 months, but over the past 3 weeks or so i have gotten to know her. i saw her on a friday night and things seemed good, she put her arm around me when showing me pictures from gay pride a... (384 words)

I'm in love with someone in prison. Please advise!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years of age... my mum and dad found out I have been writing to a lad in young offenders prison. I was going out with him while he was out, but my mum and dad sat me down and said they ask one thing of me, that is to stay away from him. But I carried on meeting him and ... (123 words)

I thought she liked me, but now she is ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6065 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I'm being screwed over, but she won't tell me. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for a few months now, and it started to become more than a friendship, though nothing has happened yet. She liked me originally, but I couldn't be with her at the time, but can no... (270 words)

Could I be a lesbian?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 35 year old woman, in a long term relationship which has just become SO boring! I love my partner, but find my mind drifting away thinking of having sexual fun on the quiet with FEMALES! I am concerned that I may be a secret lesbian, and have only just realized... (63 words)

Is what you see on porn films real or camera trickery????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - In a porn vidio i just watched, this guy put a ping pong ball in this girl's vagina. then he pushed it in so it was out of sight. Then he did something with her ass or something. i saw him put his finger's in her vagina, and fish out the ball.could you actully do that with out ... (64 words)

I met a guy on line. He called loads and we met up but now I haven't heard from him. Should I try and call him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online - -he kept emailing me, I replied then he asked me to call, I said I prefer to be called he called and texct me, we met then he test me and called me everyday. Then he just stopped I calle dhim and he is yet to respond....I really do not want to call again ... (88 words)

I'm 12 and want to have sex! I'm scared but I want to. Should I???

This question has 39 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 12 i want to have sex with my boyfriend. what should i do? i am so scarde but i want to, so should i have sex with him ... (30 words)

Had sex with my twin sister's husband. Not sure if I should tell my sister or wait to see if I'm preganant...

This question has 40 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is Stacy. I need some advice. I have had sex with my twin sister's husband. I do not know if I should tell her or not. I know it is wrong for me to have done that. The first time it was only anal sex just because I was curious and my husband thinks it gross and would ... (131 words)

Could it be that she feels awkward that we innocently met up as it's now dawned on her? (she has a boyfriend)

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Wwhere I used to work I used to exchange occasional emails with a colleague, she was quite quiet and shy in the office but always warm and friendly towards me. She did have a boyfriend with whom she seemed totally loved up and the only time I ever saw her come out ... (309 words)

My older girlfriends daughter is worried I'm only using her mum for sex, even though we haven't even had sex yet!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 34 year old male and am dating a 41 year old woman for two weeks now everything is going great between us. we have not had sex yet as i am prepared to wait till she is ready, but the problem is she has a 21 year old daughter who is worried that i am only using her for ... (83 words)

Our relationship is based on fun and non-commitment but I expect a bit of respect and time from him. Any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been having an affair with a man for 9 months. He is never going to leave his girlfriend for me but I have accepted that. However, in the past few weeks he has become distant. When we do meet it is as good and as fun as always but we are not meeting as often and he ... (158 words)

She wants some time out but I need to know where I stand. How do I ask her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and the girl I've been dating recently decided to take some time off, and while it was more for her sake than mine, I couldn't help but agree that it was necessary. She's a girl who's never really been alone, and she believes she needs to make sure she's happy before letting ... (195 words)

My wedding is coming up soon and my fiancee's parents aren't offering to pay for anything (or even send invitations), while my parents are! Am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My wedding is coming up in a few days. My mom and step dad are having it at their home. They are paying for everything. My real dad bought my wedding gown and wedding cake. My mom's paying for the food, drinks, minister, photophragrapher, decorations, my fiancee's tuxedo, ... (436 words)

My husband is a recovering alcoholic, he said he didn't want to feel like giving explanations to anybody and left again...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age - I was married to my ex-husband for 13 years. He is a "recovering alcoholic" who has trouble recovering. He asked me for a divorce 3 years ago, I didn't see or hear from him for over a year (he had someone new) and then he called me and said he was in Alcoholics Anonymous and ... (156 words)

My mum's assistant manager likes me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I need help, yet again lol. Well, my mum's assistant manager likes me, he's 23 and I'm 18 and I'm thinking, is he too old for me? I know he likes me as everytime I see him, he always says hi to me, and he always looks deep in to my eyes, and I've even noticed him checking ... (178 words)

Can a woman regain physical attraction for someone by taking some time off? If not how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Can a women re-gain physical attraction in a 2 years relationship by taking some time off? If not How?... (19 words)

She went abroad to study; before leaving she said the physical attraction had faded, this is the first time we take a break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Basically I had a relantionship with a girl for 2 years and 3 months. Im really in love and I even wanted to marry her. She went to study to the states for 3 years. Before leaving we found out that she lost the physical attraction of the relantionship so we went to a ... (159 words)

My older txt buddy says he likes me txting him but I txt him twice today and he's not replied. Is he trying to tell me something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and this lad have been txting for some time now, he is much older than me and has a job, i understand that he cant txt me when he is workgin because he has a buisy job, i txt him twice today and i havnt had a reply and i know he gets breaks because he works twelve hour ... (77 words)

I'm 15 and desperately want feelings of love. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear All I’m very innocent and 15; I have never had a ‘ petty girlfriend’ – a relationship tat means nothing. I have never kissed a girl etc. I never intended to have true feelings of love to a female until 16-18+. Last year a girl who I thought was a wonderful person, ... (225 words)

During the holidays in Portugal I fell in love with a native! He mentioned moving here but I doubt there really is a chance...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i just got back from holidays in portugal. whilst i was there i met a man and i felt so close to him i only knew him for a week but we really did fall for each other. Now since i have been home i cant stop crying and i miss him so much. he calls and texts me everyday and he ... (135 words)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

- Hi all, Okay, here's the deal. My ex and I of 5 years broke up 3 mos ago. About 5 weeks ago, she sent me an e-mail saying "change is hard" and "we need to start fresh in all aspects" and "i hope you agree and understand"...this was in response to my e-mail asking her to me... (255 words)

I have a crush on my friend, but our relationship is not moving further

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - ive got a friend but i told him ive got a crush on him. he said hes got a crush on me, but our relationship is not moving further.... (29 words)

My friend has asked me not to go see my holiday romance as she thinks I don't know him well enough and thinks I'm putting myself in a dangerous position...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I met a lovely guy when i went on holiday. I didnt really get to know him that well till towards the end of the holiday. We have since been txting a lot. He was a barman when i met him but he now HAS to serve his time in the army. He wants me to go and spend a week with him ... (178 words)

Is it just my situation, or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - is it just my situation or are American men lazy and want to live off the woman? Not only do I have this problem but some of my girlfriends do too. My father is from Greece and in my family the man has always been the one that carries most of the burden. I thought all ... (108 words)

My boyfriend doesnt buy me presents and ignores important occasions

This question has 107 answers - newest was posted 2901 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, in terms of problems this maybe isnt huge but it is playing on my mind a bit. i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years now...and he just doesnt treat me with the same care and attention he used to. Yesterday was my 23rd birthday....and i got nothing from him. Not a card, ... (315 words)

I work my butt off and he watches tv. I am exhausted and frustrated, but I dont want to destroy my family

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is beyond Lazy. We have been together for 17 years. For 17 years he has hardly made an income or effort to better himself. I am so exhausted i sometimes cry for hours in private. I would have left him many years ago but we have kids and he is a good dad even though ... (570 words)

I cant tell if I'm over my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i cant tell if im over my ex. i was with her for 7 months, split with her 7 months ago. but thinking bout it gets me down a smalllll bit sometimes. i know ive moved on and its much better then it used to be when i thought of her. the thought of her with another guy kinda makes ... (128 words)

My boyfriend calls me nasty names and expects me to do all the household chores

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my bf vry much but he disrespects me by calling me names like bit** and then expects me to do all the chores in the apt just because I don't have a job yet. i've just started to attend languages classes because the language is a barrrier from me working ad or studying. ... (59 words)

We plan on being together in the future, but I want her now, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationships, different colleges. Been together for 5 months. Been having some difficulties lately with school starting up again and not knowing when we are going to see each other next. Also, she is busy b/c she is a mentor of sorts for ... (540 words)

Why would my ex call me for love advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello All, My ex byfriend, also the father of my son, recently called me to get advice. He claims he could not think of anyone else to call. He tells me he is leaving the current girlfriend for a new prospect he recently meet. But the weird thing was he asked if it was ... (96 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend and its eating me alive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6003 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I kissed someone else as a result a baddd judgment moment and 2 many drinks (wich is no excuse), and it’s eating me alive, a love my boyfriend very much and don’t want to hurt him, but I don’t know if I should tell him, and don´t know what to do, I feel terrible. Michelle... (58 words)

I want to spend my life with him, but I need to be able to trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - wen i first started to date my bf i was warned about him and people would say that he's no good, but i liked him so much i carried on going out with him but it always played in the back of my mind. i got told that he was interested in this girl and was texting her but she didnt ... (500 words)

I was going to tell my teacher how much I liked him, but now he is going to have a baby!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5803 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Please please help! I have avoided posting to this site for a while now about my problem because people were gettin a little sick of the situation! But now, things have got a alot worse. I like this teacher, so much! I've had troubles in the the past about the fact that he... (386 words)

I get swollen and bleed when I have sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6070 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and I have had sex 3 times. My first time wasn't painful as the penis wasn't big. My second time was so painful (he was very big) he had to stop and my vagina and clitorus swelled up and i bled a bit. My third time was a tiny bit less painful, we finished. But the same ... (95 words)

My girlfriends daughter thinks I am just using her for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - im a male and have just started dating a woman 7 years older than me but her eldest daughter is worried that im just using her for sex which is not the case how can i prove to the daughter that this is not so ... (45 words)

I just started a long distance relationship. How can I make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've just started a long distance relationship and i'm already finding it really hard. He lives about 4 hours away on the train, and seeing as im still at school, I'm finding it dificult to find the money to go and see him. I really want it to work out between us, but I don't ... (63 words)

My boyfriend makes me so mad that I hit him. I know this is wrong but cant seem to control myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really need some help with me and my BF's relationship. We have been together for 1 year and things have started getting a little violent. When I say that I mean that he will say something to me that will hurt my feelings and make me cry and all I can think about doing is hit ... (388 words)

Why does he say such mean things to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, there evryone, i was wounding if anybody could tell me why my boyfriend thinks it ok to call me stupid and tell me to shut up all i have to do is say something like why dont you cuddle me anymore and he will tell me to shut up. i get very upset. the thing is i know that he ... (73 words)

We have both cheated on each other and I dont feel the same now

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2.5 yrs within these year we have been ok, but over year she had a baby which is mine, and all we do is argue, she slept with someone who I know in her place but I let her off because I had a one night stand while ago, she argue ... (171 words)

I am engaged but having an affair with a married woman who I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I have to break up with a girl that I love, because she is married and I can't settle down with her. I have never told her how I feel about about her, partly to keep a feeling of being in control and self protection. I know that she has considered walking out of her marriage ... (247 words)

If I confront her she will know I violated her trust

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so I posted here b4 about my girlfriend's boss sending her inappropriate text messages at all hours of the night. I've gotten some good feedback but here are a few follow up questions. Almost everyone says to confront her about this right now but I'm not sure if thats the ... (161 words)

I think my boyfriend has a wife back in Haiti!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6063 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together 3 year. i am american and he is haitian. recently, he went to haiti. when he got there he gave me a number to call him. We communicated back and forth for a few days. On one day near to his return i call the number he gave me. a woman ... (155 words)

How could I meet guys? I am at a single sex school and there arent any clubs.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5822 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Dearcupid, i am 14 and i know people will say i am too young and have the rest of my life ahead but no one thinks that way at my age. I am at the age where a lot of my year are starting to get boyfriends, me on the otherhand not. I am really depressed about it and it ... (123 words)

I didnt grow up living with my mum and we are having problems getting on. Have I done something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - HI, Please help. My mother never raised me but now i am grown up she is being sooooo to me, as i know its normal for parents and kids to argue and fight. but with her its differnt she raised my brother and my other two half sibling. but when she fights with them its di... (205 words)

My girlfriend thinks i kissed another girl but I was drunk and it wasn't quite like that. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for almost 7 months. For the first 4 months we spent heaps of time together, however recently she has been really busy with her schooling and has spent little time with me. I have found this hard to believe because she was able to see me before ... (632 words)

My partners son said I hit him. I didn't and his 21 yr old sister lied and said I did to my partner. How can I deal with step children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have reached the end of my tether with my partners children. My partners 9 year old son and his 21 year old step daughter live in Northern Ireland and visit during school holidays and for long weekends. In short they are horrible to me, and my partner always supports ... (270 words)

I'm a lebian and i'm 13. I'm fine with it but how do I tell my mum and dad?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya every1, please can you help me with something. I am 13 and am a lesbian. I am fine with it and don't mind what the outside world thinks of me but I am worrid about how my mum and dad will react if i tell them i'm a lesbian.I would hate to upset them so my question is How d... (78 words)

I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. I feel there is nothing appealing about my personality. Could anyone advise me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! I'm 15 years old and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I'm not bad looking but I don't feel I have much personality. I know guys would rather girls with a big personality and I feel insecure and that I'll never have a boyfriend because there is nothing appealin... (70 words)

I lost my virginity to a guy then he abused me. How do I get over feeling betrayed and used?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

- I had sex with my bf after 10 months of going out with him. He was my first kiss, my first bf. I am 18 years old. However about a month after we had sex for the first time we broke up. I broke it off with him, however the reason why I did was because he became fairly abusive. ... (419 words)

Does masturbation cause mood change?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Does masturbation cause mood change? I haven't had Sex, or in fact any physical contact with a woman for about 4 months now. I feel tempted to masturbate reguarly, but I am hesitant to do so, because I have a lot of feelings for the last girl I was with, and I think that mas... (91 words)

My fiance's job is requiring we move but I dont want to. He says I can freely pack my bags and leave. Is this a sign we aren't meant to be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am really confused with my situation. I have been with my fiancee for 4 yrs, and I love him dearly. He has a job opportunity in which he may take, requiring him to move and he wants us to move just like that, so I feel that I have no opinion to say no. I disagree with th... (108 words)

How can we have a good sex life with children living in the house???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have always had a really active and healthy sex life but at the same time we also have two kids, one at 17yrs old and another at 3 yrs old. We have always felt abit awkward having sex with them there but when it was just our 17yr old as she got older it didn't ... (218 words)

Any tips for oral stimulation of breasts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - What are the tips for oral stimulation of breasts? Having got some good tips on oral sex in my last question, I was wondering -- what tips do the girls out there have for stimulating a womans breasts? I usually just cup or circle with my tongue but I'm sure I could be doing... (64 words)

Ive cheated on my boyfriend for 7 yrs. I love him but feel like i'm in love with 2 people? How can I get the other guy out my mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 27 year old woman who is totally heartbroken. Ive been in love with this guy for 11 years, we met young and started a sexual relationship. We never really dated officially, but our connection was really strong. After a year of hooking up he just ignored me. I then met ... (182 words)

My boyfriends ex is flirting with him. Because of his past should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Before my b/f got together with me, he was seeing the other woman who is something like 26-28. She never bothered me as she is in a long term relationship with 2 children by the same guy. Untill however when I thought about the way she had been acting. When she used to come... (256 words)

I lost my virginity with a lad and I haven't bled. Does that mean there is a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well ive just recently had sex with a lad i met and ive had sex with him 3 times but i did'nt bleed.Is this normal or have i got a problem ? ... (32 words)

Do I stay or do I go? My guy is distant these days.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, me and my guy have been together since Jan this year. And Im his first proper relationship. He has been with other girls before, but none would give them him the time of day. He spent lots of money on them, but I have to pay for my way in the relationship. He wrote a blog ... (219 words)

Does my ex from a year ago still love me even though she has a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6071 days ago

4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to think. I am completley devastated. the situation is this, I dated my girlfriend for 5 years, and have been broken up with her for just over a year now.I am still completley in love with her, but am confused to wether she still loves me? the reason I am ... (255 words)

I lost a bet and now have to dress as a girl for a week! What should I wear?

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4 September 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I lost a bet to some girls and have to dress as a girl for 1 week. skirts make up dress and dat. help what will i wear?... (28 words)

I was date raped a few years ago. I have a date soon and dont know when the right time should be to tell him?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have an awkward question, I was hoping somebody might be able to offer some advice. I'm 24 right now, but when I was 17 I was date-raped. It affected me for years, and I had major self-esteem issues and trust issues. Now though, I've 'found myself' as they say. Been ... (198 words)

We split, she is going to uni 200 miles away and I know it wont work but I hate the thought of her meeting someone else.

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all. My love just DOESN'T DIE!! My girlfriend and I broke up at the end of June, so just over two months ago. We broke up because she didn't want to face being in a relationship with me since we lived so far apart (about 200 miles), and she was going to University this... (349 words)

Why do some men get bored in a relationship and is it possible to love 2 people?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - why do some men get bored in a relationship? and is it possible that you love two persons in different levels?... (21 words)

My boyfriend wants a threesom but I would rather it just be me and another woman! Is this selfish of me?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and we are extremely happy. He always talks about wanting to try new things and I am usually completely up for it. But lately he has talked about having a threesome with another girl. For awhile I turned him down because I ... (151 words)

I've been having an affair for 5 yrs but we argued and now we're not talking. Does she love me or not?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi I am with love with her, we were together for last five years, we bothe were married but some how got into love but it was very difficult to manage this relationship as she wanted me to adject lots of things, because of love I was trying to do all possible things and was ... (92 words)

I'm 13 and fancy my foster sister who is 5 yrs older than me. Should I tell her?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 13 and i really fancy my foster sister, she doesnt live with us anymore, but she is around 5 years older than me, but we get on really well. i cant stop thinking about her. should i tell her my feelings and then if she says no get over her, and go out with her if she ... (65 words)

I live with my fiance but I am having dreams about her 25 yr old married daughter. Do I tell her?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I dont know where to start with this so I guess it will be at the beginning...I live with my fiancee and our 3 year old son and I love them both dearly. My fiancee has two elder daughters one is 23 and the other is 25, just recently I have been having dreams about the elder ... (135 words)

I want my ex back. We slept together but he hasn't said about getting back together yet?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need some help in a confusing situation. Me and my ex broke up about seven months ago because of a stupid misunderstanding, we were both very stubborn about it but hurt feelings got in the way of sorting it out earlier. anyway as time went by we saw each other and i knew ... (286 words)

What are the chances of a relationship working in the long run, if you left someone else for them?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I just wanted to know that if you are in a long term relationship and leave for another person. What are the chances of this working out? What's in it for the long haul?... (34 words)

I went out and cheated on my girl. I want to make it work with her for my daughters sake but my feelings aren't the same anymore..

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi.I need suome advice of wot to do!I have been with my fiancee for 6 and half years and we have an 18 month old girl.Last weekend saw me go out and stay round a mates!I ended up taking a girl with me and we made love!I really dont know what to do as my feelings for my ... (80 words)

Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?... (23 words)

I'm in a relationship and we have a child but I'm in love with someone else! What should I do?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Ok, my question. I'm in love with someone who also feels the same way about me. There is no age problem. We are both adults. One problem is that we live in two different states. The second problem is, is that i'm already involed in a relationship. It is not a happy re... (113 words)

He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we're in love! Everyone tells me to finish it. Help!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im in a relationship with this 15 year old boy. He lives 300 miles away and we've never met but we've fallen in love. Ive tried so hard to say its over but i just cant! Its our 3rd time we've gone out so i think that we've something. Everyone tells me to finish it but i dont ... (65 words)

Our paths keep crossing and I feel we should be together.

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4 September 2007 (F)

age - Is there any chance of getting back together,i was with a guy for 7 months we had a good relationship together,never argued,thing was i fell in love with him and i think it scared him. We was talking about moving in together,but because he had always been on his own he thought ... (220 words)

How do I make him realise he still needs to earn my love?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love him so much, but 9 months now and he knows he has me. he doesnt chase me anymore which makes me mad cause he just gives me this blah attitude. i wanna see him yet he takes forever for that. how do i make him realize he still needs to earn my love without him getting ... (86 words)

I don't want my bf getting sucked into his ex's dramas!!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - An old girlfriend tried to I.M. my b/f tonight while we were on the computer downloading some music. He chose the "do not accept" this person as an I.M. buddy, but I was still upset that she's contacting him. He claims he hasn't talked to her and I'm trying to believe that, ... (267 words)

Now we are back together he never says he loves me!!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(. what do i do?... (53 words)

What seperates loving somebody and being in love with them??

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i have been dating my bf for a little over 10 months now, not to mention 2 years before breaking up for a year. I know i love him but i am confused to whether i am 'in love with him'. I dont love him as just a friend because he means so much more to me than that and i am ... (201 words)

How can I handle the tour of duty?

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4 September 2007 (F)

- Last night I got back with my boyfriend. We went out for a year and broke up because he had some issues he needed to sort out. We found we seemed to pull back together and after a long talk last night to give it another go. He is a soldier and next year will go on tour for 9 ... (88 words)

He never goes out and is possesive!!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have meet a man online whom his business requires him to work at home and always in the computer monitoring it daily. We been together for half a year now and we get along very well and fallen really deeply in love. The thing is I find it bit wierd when he always stay at ... (343 words)

I've tried to move on for 4 years and don't know how to!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i'm new at this so i dont really know what to do ha... i guess i will just type what is going on right now.... me and my old boyfriend.. brian.. dated for a year and 9 months.. he was my first boyfriend ever.. first kiss.. first everything.. i was really .. REALLY inlove... (235 words)

I'm afraid that if I move in with him we'll never get married!

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4 September 2007 (F)

- My bf and I been together for 2 and 1/2 years. Our relaionshop had been like a roller coaster. Our last crazy fight was about a month ago. We haven't had any more disagreement since, but we are in a long distance relationship and we've always manage to make it back into the ... (258 words)

I'm scared to tell her that I got drunk and cheated on her!

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been in a relationship for over 18 months. after 9 months I moved to another country and engaged to her right before coming. our plan is that after 12 months I would bring her with me as the visa paperworks didn't allow me to bring her with me immediately. We've been away ... (206 words)

She's one of my younger brother's friends, and I spend time with them rather than my peers. Opinions?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I just turned 24 and just graduated college and my brother is 18 so I hang out with his friends all the time, more than friends my own age - and I have a better time with them. One of them likes me, but she is 17 (she might be 16 actually, but almost 17). My situation is tha... (257 words)

My online friend lives in another country, we hardly know eachother, and he wants to marry me!

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've seen a man only 4 times... He had texted me, really,we were skyping lots of time... but never asked about any serious question about me or anything! I fell completely in love with him, was love on first sight, somehow. Now he came with idea, that we should marry?? I would ... (75 words)

Where do I fit into his life?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy that I met at work for 6 weeks now and things are going great. We click on every level and have even talked about living together and possibly marriage. My problem is this, we make plans and then he sometimes doesn't follow through. We were supposed to ... (155 words)

Have I just lost my trust or have I got grounds for doubt?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i completely suck the whole thing in. Dont know what to do? Please, any advice. Thnigs has started 1 month and half...Very quickly and uncontrolable, when i look back from now, it was probably because i got my mind not on its place, totaly lost, out of control.... (1365 words)

Many talk about writing a letter to their ex but what about sending it?

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Everyone (my friends, advice columnists on the internet, etc.) seem to think that WRITING a letter to your ex can be an extremely useful exercise to get some of your emotions out and help you to move on. That said, no one seems to think that SENDING such a letter is ever a... (169 words)

Shortly after we built a house together she wanted a break.!

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4 September 2007 (?) age 51-59 - My girlfriend of 8 years and I completed building our dream home about 6 months ago. It was a difficult and stressful experience with some pretty rough arguments but we still loved each other. About a month after we moved in she moved out as she said she wasn't happy and needed ... (450 words)

I have a crush on a shy guy. How should I tell him?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Recently, I've developed a crush on my good friend Kat's older brother, Jay. For those of you who may ask, yes, I have already talked to Kat about my feelings for Jay. That was the first thing I did. I've heard about people getting all territorial of their friend ... (181 words)

My girlfriends boss is flirting with her and sending her innapropriate texts

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new job 10 months ago and I know ... (150 words)

Does feeling up your boobs cause them to grow?

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4 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiia, i recently herd off a friends mum that feeling and playing with your boobs stimulate the cell tissue and makes them grow, is this true? i was just wondering because she always says to my friends who have bf that there boobs have bin man handled, and have grown ... (53 words)

My parents are blaming my bisexuallity on my boyfriend

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4 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey.... ive recently just told my parents i am bisexual, and that i have a boy friend. and i think it is best to say all was n ot taken very well!! im 16 and live in the uk, my b/f is 15 buh turns 16 in february, i no the age of consent over here is 16 but we are not sexually... (182 words)