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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

She says the emails to another man aren't actually from her! Do you think she's cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently me and my girlfriend have been arguing alot, we've been together for a few years and have always gotten along just fine. I've always trusted her 100%, and we shared everything; Myspace, cell phone, car, email, everything. We had access to each other's old E-mail which ... (132 words)

Is there any way to get our relationship back on the map?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

- I think my boyfriend broke up with me last night and cried until 4:00 a.m., and then had to get up at 6:30 for work. I wish I could say our conversation was a bad dream. We had a misunderstanding over the telephone and he needed some space for an important thing for a ca... (177 words)

He says he doesn't like me, but he's acting jealous

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) age 30-35 - There is a guy that I like from work and a couple of my coworkers have been telling me that based on his actions, it seems that he feels the same way I do. I decided to tell him how I feel and I got one of my coworkers to ask him if he felt the same, but he said no... Howeve... (194 words)

Having sex and not losing virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - is there a way to have sex and not losing virginity? What does sex from the back means? is oral sex dangerous? ... (23 words)

I think my husband is involved with his sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I Think my husband is involved with his sister!! She was living with us and caused a lot of arguments between us such as butting in on our finances and everything. my baby son started callin her mama she would get happy! They would always be happy if i went 2 my moms h... (577 words)

I can't get over my ex-girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf broke up with me 2 months ago. I still love her. I have been through this a thousand times. Why does this one hurt so bad. What do i do?... (32 words)

I just don't understand what this guy wants

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I do not understand this guy. I fancy him and am starting to think I should forget about him as it is doing my head in, though I do like him. I have only met him about 4 times through work and he has been throwing these really intense vibes at me, eye contact then loo... (290 words)

Want to be with my ex but he is dating a very rich person now, how do I compete with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I want to be with my ex but he is going out with a very rich person now. How can I compete with this? My ex has always seemed like someone who is looking to be taken cared of but knows the value of work. I'm not poor but I have struggled now and then so it tough to by what eve... (95 words)

I don't want to give him up but everyone is telling me to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boy problem. I really like this guy, Derek, but he likes someone else Eve. Eve is seeing someone, but is tagging Derek and two other guys along. His friend, Louis, a friend of mine too, tells me that I have no chance, that i should give up because this guy is totally ... (145 words)

Problems with my difficult unresponsive friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, here is an update of my problem with my friends. Here is a link to my previous question http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-two-best-friends-that-i-have-put.html They have tried to contact me in the first few days, one by texting and one by email, but on... (223 words)

Thinking of leaving my husband but unsure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

- I separated from my husband after years of feeling emotionally isolated from him because he never talks to me or shares his thoughts and feelings. A few years prior to this, I formed a bond with a male friend I had and now I realize I had an emotional affair with this man ... (171 words)

I'm having trouble getting started with relationships!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Trouble getting started with relationships... I am a 20 year old male. At the age of 20, I have never been involved in a relationship. The farthest I have gone is I kissed a girl (a friend about a month ago), but she's not interested in a relationship and is much older than ... (341 words)

Abusive boyfriend, no support, but I'm scared to act

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years. Last night we had a big fall out because he thinks I've been sending him emails - when I haven't! And basically the argument was just that and picking at things till he finally said 'I don't want to go out with ... (575 words)

Is what my teacher is doing to me OK?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i just wanna know one simple thing - is this inappropriate for a teacher to say or do? Well i went to see him to see what i had got in my test that my clas had done and when i asked him how did i do he said ''ohh i'll mark it just now''. I went away and came bk within 1... (732 words)

Very confused by his mixed messages

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't really know what to do or how to feel. There's this guy at my school who I really like. I think he likes me too, but I am confused because he sends me mixed messages. Sometimes he's really friendly and wants to be close to me a lot, but sometimes he's very quiet and he ... (141 words)

We've been dating for 5 years, has he avoided to tell his parents because he's ashamed of me? We're from different cultures.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a white female who has been dating an asian guy for 5 years since I was 16, we met in college and I love him very much. However he still has not told his parents about me I always ask and he says he will tell them but he still hasnt, and im afraid he is ashamed of me what ... (70 words)

He is treating me awful, should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5896 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I leave my boyfriend? He basically is treating me like crap, he ignores me, he never replies to my messages, he's selfish in everything he does.He wont pull his weight around the house and when i ask him to do anything he says he does enough, he laughs at me when i t... (120 words)

If you lose all respect for a human being which you are to share your life with, is it even conceivable that you can ever respect the person again?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5036 days ago

24 September 2007 (?) age - Hope someone can give advice. Fairly recently my husband was caught redhanded cheating. I have been struggling understandibly with all the emotions involved when this happens. He has also done all the expected things - begging for forgiveness, admitting and discussing how he is ... (449 words)

I know I'm terrible at trusting men, but this time do I have a reason to be concerned?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a terrible time trusting men. Even when I meet a man that seems good on the surface, I'm always looking for the hidden strings. My current b/f has done a few things that were "shady" in my opinion -- he was flirting with a friend of mine on-line and even agreed to meet ... (242 words)

How will I know when I'm in love? And I feel like the guy I just met is my bf and my bf is my bestfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dont quite know how to put this down... i started university last week. i met these really nice guys n from the min i saw this one i was sort of drawn to him. hes not good looking or anything. we went out a couple of times and i feel like ive known him all my life. i trust him ... (224 words)

Since my last question, things have gotten worse! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - The situation has just got a whole lot worse!! Hi some of you may rememeber me i wrote this question about 2 days ago, heres the link: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-not-very-good-at-what-to-say.html anyway read that for more info, basically her cousin died and i wante... (433 words)

How can I figure out if my feelings for my cousin are love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My cousin (18) and I (17) have always had this very strange connection. I don't know if you would call it love, but we just have this amazing relationship. Ever since we were kids, we have always been best buds. Whenever we would get into a fight and then stop talking to each ... (386 words)

Am I a Freak or is this normal?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, im the type of guy who finds it awkward getting close to people and my friends tink im gay coz i dnt react well to hugs off girls nd stuff im not gay i just dnt feel like huging people ..am i a freak or is this normal? ... (64 words)

Now my daughter will not talk to me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age - My wife and I are having trouble and my wife allowed my 20 year old daughter to become aware of the problems in her version - My daughter now won't talk to me and I haven't seen her in 5 months and prior to this incident, we had a good relationship - I tell her I want to talk ... (82 words)

How do I let this guy down gently?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Here's my situation. We've been a couple for one week, and already my boyfriend is planning our marriage! First date, he transitioned from "I'm so dating into the right family" to "I'm so marrying into the right family." At first I thought I heard him wrong, but the second date ... (158 words)

Does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - does the colour of hair have an impact on a girl picking a guy for a boyfriend?. I have ginger hair and iv never had a gf. i know im not as confindent with girls as some of my friends are. ... (42 words)

He says sex feels like a routine, what can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - last night my boyfriend asked if we can slow down on the sex .. we live together how do i just ignore my drive whilei am in bed beside him? he said it feel like routine ... ... (39 words)

I have reason to believe that I cannot trust my man, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have reasons to belive that i cant trust my boyfriend. but i love him too much to let him go. what shall i do?... (25 words)

She had another man's child, I had transexual sex, she won't come near me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - People get curious and try different thing I totally understand that and can accept it. My wife of 10 years just had a baby after the baby was born I found out it was not mine. We are both white and she had a black baby wow what a shocker. She admitted to haing sex with black ... (198 words)

My bf is pushing his child on me and my family. How can I talk to him about this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend of three months is pushing his child on to me and my family. im 24yrs old if i wanted a kid i would have one. i cant talk to him about this because he ALWAYS takes it the wrong way. i do care about him alot... how do i stop this with out hurting his feelings?... (58 words)

I'm getting mixed signals and don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up after 5 years together. We lived together for 2 of the last years. I moved out to california and she was all excited to come out too (we were both gonna college there) Then out of nowhere, she dumps me "cause she needed a change in her life". So ... (532 words)

Dry sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi hope you can answer this but what is dry sex exactlly?... (12 words)

I hit him in the eye and now he's fled. If he loves me, shouldn't he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ive been dating this guy for 1 1/2 and we got engaged about 7 months ago. We have gotten into some bad arguments but four days ago, he was accusing me of something that i had already explained to him so he said oh i misunderstood. and its not the first time he misunder... (249 words)

I'm addicted to shopping! It's so hard not to spend money - what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

- It's really hard for me to save money - *really* hard. All I want to do is buy things! And they're not even things for me - I love to buy *other* people things, just because I like to make people happy. I know that I don't *have* to buy people things to make them happy, but ... (152 words)

He climaxed during the bj...but was it urine?!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want some advice on whether the following is normal. I was performing oral sex on my boyfriend the other day and when he came there was masses of the stuff! His orgasm seemed to last a real long time (which obviously we both enjoyed!), but the fluid that was coming out was ... (156 words)

Me, my boyfriend and my brother - Is there something wrong or am I looking into this too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having a problem with my boyfried we have been together for a year and a half he is dad to my son who is 4 and we have everything a relationship probably most desires. Stability. Any how lately he has neglected me emotionally. I feel like he does not even want me in the ... (250 words)

Does he have real feelings for me, or is he just comfortable in a "friend" sort of way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help ive been mates with this guy for nearly 2years and recently hes calling me swettheart along with many other names,he also keeps punching me very gentely on the arm,im not sure if he has feelings for me or just feels really confortable around me and in a freindship ... (63 words)

I don't know whether I just want closure, or whether I really did screw it up for us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - confused! Dated a wonderful girl for almost 5 years. I was 23-28, she 19-24. It has been over a year since the split (She dumped me). Now I am confused. She didn't give answers other than she fell outta love, and that I wasn't career and goal motivated enough. I have b... (192 words)

My abusive wife and I are splitting - I want to tell my sister-in-law that I love her! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been with my wife for 12 years now married for 5years of that now . she has given me black eyes and more we dont have kids thank god. it been 4years now and iam still in deep love with her sister i have tryed to keep away but all that has done is make me want her more. ... (105 words)

After two years, I still can't talk about things that bother me or else he explodes! I don't know that it's ever going to change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeing this guy for a couple of years, we moved in together last year the only problem is, his temper. When we're working on our house, remodeling etc., he talks to me like I'm stupid and orders me around, yells and acts verbally abusive. He will later apologize but ... (305 words)

How do I get things with my wife back the way that they used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5978 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - hi people . well here it goes ive been married for 13 years now i married at 16 to the girl i love with all my heart. i dont really wana go into it to much right now it will take me all day.but i left my wife a couple of times this is because i felt pressured with daily life ... (181 words)

I couldn't be pregnant because of this, right??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - Hi, a couple of weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were at my friends sixteenth. Me and him went upstairs, and were having dry sex, but my knickers were down and his boxers were off. He didn't go inside me, but his dick was there and came. afterwards he fingered me, i know yo... (80 words)

I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run into him and in fact the first ... (89 words)

I had to move, so my girlfriend said "she loves me, but can't anymore." Please help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I wont bore you with the detail, but 5 months ago I came out of a relationship, or rather, I was thrown out of it by circumstance. I had to move away from this girl who I considered to be the love of my life. That may sound foolish, since she is my first love, but I still can't ... (169 words)

My oldest brother sexually abused me and left scars on my body. I want to tell someone, but I don't know if I could handle it.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - This may end up being rather long so i apologise in advance - its just tht i hav never really spoken about it in detail and i need help before it consumes me I think i was about 11 or so when it happend am not sure but i kno i was still in junior school i'll get to the p... (450 words)

My bf beat me up, now he wants to talk about it and it's making me uncomfortable! Am I reacting how I should?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - a while back my boyfriend beat the crap out of me, like literally. i don't even want to talk about it. and for some silly reason i decided to stay with him. now he's getting into the wanting to talk about it phase and the other night he was like "how did it affect you?" I ... (131 words)

How can I stop thinking about my ex and trying to break up his new relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I broke up with my ex for the 2nd time 3 months ago and recently felt like I really needed to be with him. But I found out he is dating. The person he is dating has more of everything then me and my ex does like to be taken cared of. I can't seem to stay away from him ev... (116 words)

My wife and I have become incredibly attached to each other! We don't want this to cause us problems - what can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Right some of you may say this isn't all that bigger problem but its getting in the way of things. Well me and my wife have been together since we were 16,known each other all throughout school and been married 7 years. Just recently though we have been missing each other a ... (361 words)

She can't have sex b/c of a medical condition and is unwilling to talk about it! I already flirt w/ others, but feel I may crumble altogether!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been living with my girlfriend for a couple of years now. About a year ago she developed a condition which makes it too painful for her to have sex. The doctors can't offer any hope that she'll ever recover. Meanwhile I'm finding myself increasingly frustrated. Goin... (215 words)

My racist grandmother says things just to annoy my latino husband and I! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

- I don't know how to handle my grandmother. She says things just to annoy my husband and I. For example, she knows that it disgusts and annoys us when she says racist things and calls people things such as the "n" word, etc. (She and most of the rest of our family is white.... (517 words)

My guy broke it off w/ me b/c his mate got upset. Now he's seeing someone who's a "safe bet." What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I wonder if anyone can help me, it's a bit complicated. I was seeing a guy, we get on great, have great sex and we are still very fond of one another. The only thing is I went on a few dates with one of his very good friends before we got it together and he got very upset a... (416 words)

Is it weird that I climaxed during my first time? Is it normal to be sore for days afterwards?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i recently lost my virginity and people say you never have an orgasm on the first time. Am i weird because i did?? and Is it natural to be sore for a couple of days afterwards?? ... (38 words)

He broke up with me b/c of his family - now I want to make his weekend as miserable as possible!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - this is the third time that i have been to this site to ask for help in the last two weeks. i am in my sixtes and my so called bf is in his late sixties. it involves a very emeshed and fused together family.we have been dating for almost 3 years and he broke up with me in july ... (493 words)

We can't get it on b/c I just don't fit! We've tried so many things - anymore suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my girlfriend for over a month now. We've yet to have sex because every time we try, and it seems at least 2-3 times a week, I just can't get my penis to fit inside her. I've tried extra lubricated condoms, I go down on her everytime just to make sure she's ... (105 words)

I have lost my daughter and grandchildren forever because the boyfriend controls her! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - my daughter quit talking to me. how can i repair our relationship? it was over her relationship with her boyfriend of ten years. please help! my daughter won't even give me her phone number. i know her boyfriend is behind of all of this. when she was in the hospital he talked ... (136 words)

I kissed my ex and she has a boyfriend. I have a girlfriend too and I feel really guilty!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi right i have been with my girlfriend for about 2/3 week now. I'm working with her at my cafe alongside with my ex as well. My ex told me still loves me, I became a bit shocked at this. But me and my ex have been flirting in work and that and after work I could not resist... (106 words)

Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to have a crush on someone if your married and have kids?... (15 words)

My friend and I ended up in bed together after a night out. Am I a lesbian???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - hi the other evening i went out with my girlfriend and we got drunk, when we came home we ended up playing around which led to a kiss.we then had the most amazing sex i never thought i was a lesbian but she gave me orgasms tht no man has ever done.i cant stop thinking about ... (71 words)

3 times in 9 months my boyfriend's family has had problems, and he backs away from me. Will he be back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This is the 3rd time my b/f has done this to me. We've been together for 9 months. His mother will be telling the whole family that she wants a divorce from his step dad. I know this is worrying him alot. Each time he spends more time on that situation he backs off with me. E... (234 words)

There's a new girl I'm interested in, but she takes ages to reply to my messages. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a new girl I'm interested in. I think she's interested in me as well, and I'd really like us to start seeing eachother, even though we haven't been talking for very long... I'm just not sure how to go about it. She isn't very good at replying to text messages. I feel ... (113 words)

He loves to give me Oral, but I worried I'll squirt on him!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5801 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - hi when i have sex with my boyfriend, he always wants to lick me and kiss me on my vagina. but i get so wet i get embarrased that i will cum on him as sometimes it squirts out. Any advice?... (41 words)

He's seeing a girl who lives over in South Africa... But I don't want him to go because I like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am in love with a guy who is in a realtionship with a girl in south africa! the thing is we have been seeing each other for the past few months and now he is going to see her in october and i dont want him to go! he says he has deep feelings for me but i am scared that i will ... (67 words)

How do you show a man you love them without sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you show a man you love them with out sex ?? and how do you get over the ex - factor when it wont go away ?? ... (34 words)

He cheated on me so I dumped him. Now I need to get over him. How can I do that?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - i found out friday that my partner cheated on me, he stayed away all weekend and when he came back he made the most feeble of excuses, like he stayed at a mates on the saturday and on sunday night walked around till monday morning and then came home, i new he was lying as i ... (165 words)

I like a girl but she likes this other guy. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - hi i have a crush on this girl at skool and she likes this other guy wat do i do??????????... (20 words)

My husband had an affair and we got through it but he still has pictures of her. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know the extent of their ... (249 words)

How do you get someone to slow down that you have recently started seeing? If they are your ex husband from 16 yrs ago..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi How do you get someone to slow down that you have recently started 'seeing'? If they are off on a tangent wanting to tell their children about you, wanting you to meet them. I feel really confused at the moment about it all because i am petrified of us getting into somet... (185 words)

I'm begining to get very anxious about the future with my husband when our daughter leaves home.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - Iam beginning to get very anxious about the future.My husband and I have been married for nearly 30 years are in our early 50s and have been happy apart from the usual niggles people in a long marriage have.For awhile now I have been getting really fed up with the way hubby has ... (232 words)

When I have an orgasm it seems like I am urinating. Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

24 September 2007 (F)

age - when i have sex, when i have an orgasm it seems like i am urinating liquid flows from me is this normal ?... (23 words)

I've been with him 12 yrs and just found out he's had sex at a massage parlour. Is that what those places do?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - ive been with my boyfriend for 12 years he is the only person in my life, i love him loads. i found a text mesage on his phone and he told me it was a girl he had met at work and was just a friend this i didnt believe. after 2 days i just knew it wasnt just that and it all came ... (161 words)

I was so happy when we first met but he is different now?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need major help. I can't help like i am setting myself up for heartbreak all the time with my current bf. i started dating one of my best friends about 9 months after i got out of my first long relationship which lasted 4 years. i was so happy when we first started dating and ... (214 words)

What is a best friend and what is expected of them?

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24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - What is a best friend? What is expected of them? Whats the median between best friends love and passionate love ? How can i befriend someone that I'm in love with when they don't feel the same? How to tell your friend that they are taking advantage of you and its time to... (61 words)

Do you think we are ready for sex yet?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - help i am 14 and me and my boyfrind love each other so much but we do oral things but we dont know if we are too young 4 sex please help and also there is one more thing my bf is poor and he has no money so i land up paying for everything but we realy love each pther but he ... (90 words)

Is it possible this guy likes me?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and i would be too embarassed to face him next time. ... (110 words)

I preformed oral on her but she never wanted to return the favour. Do you think thats fair?

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24 September 2007 (?) age 51-59 - hi im a 39 year old man im very sexual, i used to eat out my ex girlfreind all the time and she enjoyed it. but every time i would ask her for a blojob she would get upset,do you think this is fair of her? were no longer going out.... (51 words)

I'm really insecure about his ex. What can I do?

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24 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - I feel silly for posting this... but, a few months back, my boyfriend was in touch with a girl. I got quite jealous and an instinct told me this girl was something else... well, my boyfriend told me she was just a friend, and I was ok with it, although I thought she was really ... (284 words)

I long to be with her but I cant. She is also a girl. I need tips on how to deal with these feelings?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with a person who will never love me, because we're both girls. I love her very much, with all my heart, and I long to be with her although I know I can't. I would never force her to do anything, or try to convince her. I just need tips on how to deal with these ... (61 words)

I've re connected with someone from 20 yrs ago. He isnt single. The guilt is terrible. What should I do?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am older than probably most people that post here but recently I reconnected with someone from my past that I haven't seen in over 20 years and I feel like I have come home in a sense. I cared for him back then and those feelings have not changed, they have intensified. I ... (159 words)

My boyfriend sent a seductive pic of himself to a woman on line. Should I be worried?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend sent a seductive photo of himself to someone on a personals at Craigslist. It was a woman seeking male. and the subject was " Sunday Night Needs." When my boyfriend responded he asked if he could help with their needs... should I be worried?... (47 words)

Should I play hard to get with him or stay as I am?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy online a 5 months ago, before that we had sent pics back and fourth, we talked about everything..he is in the middle of a divorce right now..He has never said he loved me but he did say he was falling for me..I fell in love way to quick..he says he is not ready ... (338 words)

Since splitting with my girlfriend my relationship with my dad is going south! Help!

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24 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - 8 months ago my girlfriend broke up with me, and since then, the relationship, mainly with my dad, has been going south. i thought it would get better over time, but its not. im now getting so fed up with them that i can barely be home for a few hours before i have to leave ... (112 words)

Will crushing on my boyfriends cousin going to pass soon???

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He's still on my mind! My bf's cousin is on my mind ever since we keep seein each other at my BF's game. friday was mostly what i fell for him. when he actually treated me the way i wanted to be treated other than being treated like a princess by my boyfriend. i can't help it ... (171 words)

I have no success with women. Any advice please?

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24 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I have to resort to these matters, because it has long surpassed what my best friends can do and I don't really think I can hold my mentality for much longer. My problem is, as it's probably common in here, I have no success with women at all. To better il... (888 words)

I'm 14 and have very little pubic hair, should I be concerned?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am fourteen and i have very little pubic hair should i be concerned?... (14 words)

He went off with my cousin but says we might have a futue. Whats he doing?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was with my boyfriend for a year up until he broke up with me more than a month ago. Before we broke up we were very much in love and were even making plans to get married one day. However he gave me some silly excuse about his mother not wanting us to be togethe... (601 words)

Do I try and get back with my ex boyfriend?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been single for 2 months now and ive thought about getting back with an ex boyfriend from 4 years ago so i got in touch with him and all he said was he didnt know what he wanted but my friend told me to say to him why not just give it a go and see how it goes but every time ... (91 words)

She wouldnt have sex with me for 2 years yet now we have split she has had sex with someone new.She tells me to go have fun. Is she manipulating me?

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24 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, about 2 months ago my girlfriend broke up with my after 2 years. I'm 18 and she is 20, and it was both of our first serious relationship. We only argued in the last few months, and it was over worthless things. We never had sex, because she wanted to wait until she got ... (276 words)

How do I tell her I have fallen in love with her?

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24 September 2007 (M)

age - how do i tell the person that i have fallen in love with that i am in love with her??? how do i tell her that i love everything about her. i can't stop, nor do i want to stop thinking about her. i love and am in love with her.... (51 words)

The guy I lost it to broke up with his girlfriend. What should I do?

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24 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Theyy broke upp!! the guyy I lost it to and his girl friend broke up Im soo happy!! what should I do!?? will you please read ALL of myy questions then answer this one!? ... (39 words)