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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Was my wife the victim of sexual assualt?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Was my wife a likely victim of sexual assault or rape? Before we got together when she was 18 years old she attended a 4th of July party at which she played a drinking game with somef other college students and got so drunk she blacked out. She ended up hooking up with a guy ... (170 words)

I found a shirt he only wears when he goes out in his car, but we hadn't been out in a while

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My b/f and i were planning on going away for a long weekend. I usually do not see him on wednesdays but since we were leaving thursday morning I saw him straight from work so we can leave in the morning. I get in his car..and i see a plastic bag in the back..we arrive at his ... (557 words)

My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a hindu, he is from india and i ... (471 words)

I like one girl, but I think another girl likes me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - hey I am 12 and I am stuck there are 2 girls at school I am friends with them both there is 1 I want to be more than friends with but I think the other 1 likes me (I have never had a girlfrind before) please I need advice n what I should do! P.S if I do get together with her... (72 words)

I'm 18 and he's 28, am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18, and he's 28. What would you think of dating an 18 year old if you were 28? Im from England and he's from america, so we have a real cultural difference in that we have more freedom at 18 in england than over here. I think he likes me but in all honesty am i wasting my ... (60 words)

Are we playing a dangerous game, here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok an ex question...again.. Been split from a yr long r/s for 4 months now. Alls fine there and we are on friend terms. He pays me to do his ironing and we spcialise because his daughter gets on so well with mine. He knows my ex hubby, used to go abroad with him after we split... (436 words)

My girlfriend overheard me saying I still loved my ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend over heard me telling someone i still love an ex tho i know this must have hurt her feelings i dont know how to tell her i love her in a sisterly way and im not in love with her. i love my girlfriend more than anything and im now scared of loosing her what... (76 words)

He told his ex-girlfriend all about our sex life! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - So, ive been seeing this guy for two months now. Im completely in love with him already, and he feels the same about me. But the other day when he was at work I couldnt help myself and took a peek at him IM messages. I looked at the conversation he had with his ex-girlfriend. ... (141 words)

I'm 16, he's 19, and he says he's wanted to propose to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right! i been wiv my bf for nearly 3months hes 19 n am 16 n we get on really really well as friends and as much much more i'm his longest relationship since he was 13 hes brilliant but last night we were chattin online n he was sayin how much he loves me n how hes nea... (157 words)

Why won't she just break it off completely if this relationship is so bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - So my girlfriend and I starting our relationship a while back. We were together for 18 months, the last 6 of which were very shaky. Not for any terribly wrong reasons, but we had a lot of fights. Finally, she told me that we should break up, but we'll get back together when... (383 words)

A man at a bar poured a drink on me, my boyfriend beat him up, and now I'm torn

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i got a question and its kinda confussion abit i guess! today is my birthday and last night my bf and i went out to the club and he had gotten real jealious over a guy buying me a drink and asking me for my number, but you see i didnt accept the drink even thow the g... (566 words)

My friends hate my wife. Is it bad I don't really feel wrong about cutting each one of my pre-married out of the picture?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I'm 24 and happily married. My wife and some of my friends before her do not get along. She's willing to work anything out, but those friends hate her and never want me to bring her. I used to have a big issue with confrontation and honesty. I'd sound like i was on the ... (360 words)

Is it possible to date your ex's brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in common and had a strong ... (409 words)

My two best friends that I have put even before my family have accidentally sent me an email with nasty things about me. What to do, pretty sure I can't get over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid, I have been greatly hurt by my two best friends. I have been there for them for the past 5 years, at any time and anywhere-no matter what. I have put them before my family and before my boyfriend. Last week i got an email from them by accident which contai... (213 words)

He says we have to get married for money reasons and he shouts when he is drunk!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I just got married the other day. On the way home from the wedding my husband and I got into a argumement about money mostly because I want to buy a house and he doesn't want to wait to find a home to buy to move because he is currently driving far to go to work. He thinks ... (457 words)

Some friends say I have changed because I don't smoke pot anymore. They say my boyfriend is controlling me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have two specific friends who believe that my boyfriend is "controlling" because he told me he doesn't want to be in a relationship with someone who smokes pot. this is fine with me because it is not something that i am attached to so im not doing it, but my friends never ... (303 words)

We had a date and knew each other a while but now he says he wants no strings sex. What did I do wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

- I've been out of the dating game for a while, (long term relationship) and the whole idea of dating scares me. Had date with what I thought was ideal guy (known each other for ages) we had few dates seemed great, then we took it a stage further now he says he doesnt want to ... (82 words)

My partner of 5 yrs has left me. I am 8 weeks pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner of 5 years has left me, I am 8 weeks pregnant. I have a daughter who believes he is her father and he has left. He has backed out of getting married to me and buying a house with me. We have been engaged for 4 years.... (52 words)

How do I ask my sisters boyfriends brother out without them knowing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy that happens to be my sisters boyfriends brother and i don't know if he likes me but i want to ask him out... without my sister or his brother finding out???... (36 words)

How did a girl like me manage to muck things up and get involved with a married guy?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok...so bare with me. I met his guy, a band guy, and fell head over heels in love with him while I was married. After talking to this guy for about three months it comes out he's still married also but that he and his wife have the most Jerry Springer worthy marriage ever and ... (247 words)

My wife of 27 yrs wants us to live apart. Can I reverse this situation? I don't know what to do anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I'v been married for 27 years which has been good but with the normal up and downs you get. My wife told me she does not love me any more and wants to live apart. We have adult children, both live away from home and they do not know of the situation, in fact none of the family ... (118 words)

My boyfriend seems to be drinking more than usual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend seems to be drinking more than usual. While it's not a dangerous amount, I worry. He IS under a lot of stress and I'm trying to understand him.... (30 words)

The attached woman I'm seeing doesn't seem to make any decisions! Should I let her go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello a lil advice needed. I have broke off loads of contact wiv my affair after it started getting to heavy on my part wantin her to leave her fella. I know she does care stacks for me too but has no balls and i wish the sex had been crap cos we could still poss be friends. ... (237 words)

Is it normal that he wants to keep in touch with some of his exes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - hi all - newbie here! just wonder what people think of their partners having contact with their ex's when there's no real need [kids etc] my longterm boyfriend of 3yrs still emails and chats online with a couple of girls he was involved with, he's a flirt anyway and as... (509 words)

He didnt want a future with me so we ended. Its been 4 months but I want him back! Could it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my partner are both 41. We were together for 3 years.After the first year i started to talk about the future but he said he wasn't there yet and liked it the way it was, both having our own homes. After 3 years i asked for committment because i wanted our relationship to ... (263 words)

My best friend is 17 and her guy is 53! Do I support her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - one of my best friends is 17, 18really soon and shes been seeing this guy for about five months, they're havingsex and everything, theyve said "i love you" and when shes told her parents theyre moving in together. He's a really nice guy and hes not that bad looking, but theres ... (89 words)

I really like my deputy manager. Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - my assistantdeputy manager atwork and me get on really well ive been round his house for dinner and everyone thinks there is something going on. i wish there was to be honest, i can talk to him about anything and i trust him so much. when im not with him i think about him and ... (166 words)

I got back with my ex but am I just settling for someting that is just ok?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. Can anyone help? I split with my partner in February this year after 4 years together. It was my decision. We didn't live together but I have a son from a previous marriage and he has 2 sons too. Mine is 12 and his are 14 and 17. Since then he has texted me loads ... (340 words)

I'm due to get married and love him but get cold feet at times, is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I are planning on getting married very shortly. I'm very excited about it! And everytime I look at him, I can't help but think of how much I love him. Sometimes though, when I have a minute to sit down and put the wedding planning aside, I get increadibly ... (183 words)

Am I still a virgin after all these years?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My first bf and i was sexually active for about 4 years, he was the first sexual partner but there was never bleeding after sex even after the first time. Now i have a new bf, not long after i broke off with the first, my second partner, but sex with him the first time cause... (128 words)

Should I ask her out. I'm not very good looking, do you think she will say no?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Im in College and theres this girl who I fancy. Can't say I really like her at the mo. Should I ask her out on a date. Should I cos I've got nothing to lose. Thing is though I'm not particularly good looking. Do you think cos of this she'll say no?... (53 words)

I've told my partner so many lies. I feel really bad about it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ive done so much stuff to the love of my life. i lied to him about things, i even kept secerts and weve been together for 5 years and have 2 childern together, and i dont no what to do i feel so bad, and now that he knows i feel better but he dont.im asking for advise ... (60 words)

I'm begining to think he doesn't find me attractive anymore. He seems to prefer girls on tv!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - please help, i moved in with my boyfriend about one month ago.we have been dating for four years now our sex life has been great.i wen't ot bed the other night and he was still up. well i got up to go to the bathroom and found him masterbating, to a country music video. he does ... (151 words)

I'm in a relationship but I keep having dreams of someone I knew 20 yrs ago! Why is this happening?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a commited relationship. yet i keep having dreams of someone i knew about 20 years ago. At the time i was too young for him. Then we moved away. So i have not seen him in 20 years. why am i having these dreams now?... (48 words)

I feel like I cant compete with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met my b/f 2 yrs. after his g/f broke their engagement and moved away. And judging from all the pictures he still had of her on his computer, and the things he had around his house when he asked me to move in, I knew he wasn't over her even though he claimed he was. Even now ... (609 words)

All the girls in class want to hang out with me but I only want one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - In my class all the girls want to hang around with me but i want one girl only to be my lover.What should i do because i desperately need one to be with me and to have fun with?.I dont need the whole class of girls.... (46 words)

His family don't approve of us and if I had someone else I would be happier! We are in our sixties.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age - Please someone help...........the man that i have been dating 2yrs 9 months is 68 yrs old. i am 64. he broke up with me in july but we have started seeing each other again. he is afraid to tell his selfish family. when i go over to his house in his car i have to lay down in ... (374 words)

I had a gay encounter while my new girlfriend was away. Now she is back I don't know how I move on with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone. I hope you can help me. I'm so depressed at the moment. I've been really confused about my sexuality. For a long time I've been turned on by gay porn and I fantasise about it a lot. One day fives months ago, I made the stupid mistake of acting out my fantasy ... (309 words)

I'm due to go backpacking for four and a half months. I'm giving everything up for this. How will it affect my relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I was wondering if I could have some advice. I am due to backpack round Europe for four and half months and I leave in just under a week. I am 32 years old and I have a great job and a great apartment that I love. I am going to be giving this all up to go. I kne... (216 words)

My girlfriend wants to know my every move and who I've been talking to. Is this normal???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I of 9 months have recently moved in together. She feels as if I am lying to her if I don't tell her EVERYTHING I do. From who I talk to, to emailing an accquaintance to who I had lunch with. Am I in the wrong for feeling as if I don't need to tell EVERY de... (102 words)

A guy in my dorm says his body is mine to explore, no commitments. What does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am in college and just met a guy two weeks ago who lives two doors down from me in my dorm. We have gotten pretty close in the past two weeks with great conversations and I even started giving him back rubs. I have to admit that at I really like him, maybe more than a ... (141 words)

My boyfriends ex is trying to cause trouble. Is he cheating with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I had written a post a few weeks ago about my boyfriends ex.. which was.. She emailed me and told me my boyfriend and her had been talking and that they were sleeping together.. I was furious.. Now I didnt believe her because shes been trying everything she can to get him back... (671 words)

He is being very cautious with me, and I'm holding back.. is it cause he's hurt or cause he still has feelings for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Folks, I need your help.. My head is near away.. and i don't know what to do.. I came out of a relationship about year and a half ago.. so this new man.. is the first in a long time due to the last one being a complete head wrecker.. The problem is i really like th... (211 words)

I recently had unprotected sex, but took the morning after pill. When can I start taking the contraceptive pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i recently had unprotected sex with this lad i have been seeing, it was the first time i had had unprotected sex and i am not on the pill i was waiting for my period to get back on it, i went and got the morning after pill and i am just wundering when i will be able to start ... (66 words)

How can you get the man you love to want sex with you again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - We are a couple in our 30's. Together 4 years. No children, no stress, nice home and nice jobs. Sex life non existent.. well maybe once a month. You would think he was the female of the two of us. There are no sexual issues, not impotent, not having an affair, none of ... (343 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me because I am a virgin. She now wants to have fun with me, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hey people, So me and my ex broke up for summer, she said she needed space and wasn’t ready for the commitment. 3 months later, she has returned back to the uk. When I found out she was back I sent her an email and we got chatting on msn, she asked if she could come and vi... (476 words)

Within days of splitting he was in bed with someone new. But now he wants us to get back together. Can I trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Just need some thoughts..My bf and i have been toegther for 3 yrs, we had a bad break up, and got back together. Anyways we broke up again, I told him I hated him and stay out of my life forever....Anyways 4 days after the break up, he goes to this place and sleeps with this ... (204 words)

I've been married for 17 yrs. Am I in love with a young girl at the church?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 40 and my wife 39 and we have been married for 17 years, about a year ago a 21 year old girl came to my church and i can,t get her out of my head. am i in love with her? it is driving me crazy.... (48 words)

How long does it take to move on from a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - How long does it usually take to move on from a relationship? A little background,was seeing a guy for 2 years,was very intense,everything was good,had sex 3 times a week.Then we ended on a weird note ,just things got hectic in life,he new job ,no time so on. This was 3 month... (258 words)

Is my boyfriend over his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Is my boyfriend over his ex? We've been together over a year, living together for 6 months, but he is still in contact with her through texts, email, and occasionally phone (She lives in another country). Thing that bothers me is he hasn't told her about me and doesn't want to. ... (63 words)

She wants a divorce, but I still love her. And the thought of being a part time father tears me apart!

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My life has just fallen apart. After 9 years of marriage and being together almost 15 years, my wife has told me she no longer wants to be married to me. We have had a tough time over the last 4-5 years after my son was born, my wife has suffered depression ever since, b... (337 words)

Is he just giving excuses not to go to bed with me? I feel unloved...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been married for 3 years now. we have children from previous marriages who live with us. I am very upset as my husband sleeps on the sofa most nights. he gives a variety of reasons for not coming to bed. "cramp, checking something on the net, worried about somethin... (141 words)

Is sex really a part of a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - sex?is that part of relationship?... (5 words)

She's had her period since last time we had sex, but she's late on her next one... Any idea what we should do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi, me and my girlfriend had sex partly without a condom and partly with, the thing is, shes had a period since then, but shes a few days late on her next one, any idea what to do? :)... (42 words)

Married 22 years, 2 children caught in the middle, financial problems, had to give up work due to depression, unsupporting husband, no friend... What on earth am I going to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really don't know what to do? I have been married for 22 years and have two teenage children. We have got financial money problems owing alot of money to alot of people. I have had to give up work due to suffering from depression and am unsure whether i want to work aga... (111 words)

Is it ok to sleep with an ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hay guys is it ok to have sex with an x? right heres my story! we broke up 3 weeks ago and been meeting to hang out as friends eva since as we have kinda been mates before! weve been having a right laugh, a bit of flirting then the other night we slept together a few t... (173 words)

We are meant to be together, but he can't accept what I did before...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I've been with my boyfriend for seven months now, and we both know that we are meant for each other. However, a year and a half ago i ended a relationship with another man because he cheated on me bad and treated me like absolute shit. i was with him for two and a half years... (341 words)

First, he brakes up with me... then, it turns out he's been lying about his age!! This has been the WORST week of my life!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - This could possibly be the worst week of my life. Exactly this time last week I asked for help and advice with my bf and the interference of his ex gf. My last post told how I'd confronted him and he had refused to lay boundaries. The following day of the confrontation he ... (778 words)

In a long distance relationship... But after doing some research, I think this girl may not be who she says she is. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I've been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 months now and I feel like I'm in love with this girl but after searching her phone number on google to try and find her myspace (She said she's forgotten the email/got hacked and she told me she put her contact details on ... (223 words)

Attracted to another girl in my compund...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - hi am leslie osei ,in Ghana.a girl stays with a compound house with me and am sexually attracted to the girl,and my problem is that this girl always report any thing that will happen in the house to her mother,the a week spent in th the house he reported to her mom that i ... (96 words)

How do you love someone that doesn't love you back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Here' s a question that has no answer. How do u love someone that don't love u back?:-(... (19 words)

My family are against mine and my man's age difference... How can I talk to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - how do I talk to my family? I'm 19 (almost 20) and have been seeing a man who is 36 on and off for about a year now. He has an ex-wife and a 5-year-old son who is the most adorable child in the world who both live in another state. About 5 months into the relationship, I ... (209 words)

Terrified of my families reaction... Is there anyway we can get this out in the open, without it being a big deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 32 yaer old woman and for the past year I have been sleeping with my 17 year old step nephew. We both love each other deeply and want to move in together and bring our relationship out into the open. We are afraid of our families reaction. I dont know what to do, please ... (58 words)

Does she like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ok im so confused please answer dis girl in class always looks at me i can I her staring for a long time with the corner of my eye when she is near me i move a little to give space but she gets closer and what confuses me is that she had a boyfriend then they brokeup and when i ... (73 words)

How can I keep our relationship fresh?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

- Hi I dont get to see my bf a lot as he often has a lot of work on. i see him about once a week We talk on the phone and text tho. We went out last week aand i found we didnt have a lot to talk about although i still had fun being with him it sometimes felt a lil alkward ... (91 words)

Girlfriend, Friend, or Babysitter? Which am I???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Girlfriend, Friend or babysitter? I have been seriously dating a dad, he introduced me to his (almost teenage) daughters very quickly. He is seperated and has full custody. Because of the distance, I spend the night (on the couch alone)and spend time with the girls all weekend.... (138 words)

Just friends with benefits?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Just friends with Benefits? I am new to this kind of thing, but I needed a real third party perspective on a questionable situation. Bottom line is, I like my friend. We are both in our early 20’s and have been friends since freshman year of college. When I met him we bot... (542 words)

I was drunk... We got on pretty well, but now I don't remember her name! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I met a girl from my university at a party. I hit on her, wanting to make out with her. I was drunk. After kissing her, we began talking. I am very interested. She gave me her number.... I dont remember her name... what do I do?... (52 words)

How do I talk to my family about mine and my boyfriends age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Age gap relationships - how do I talk to my family? I'm 19 (almost 20) and have been seeing a man who is 36 on and off for about a year now. He has an ex-wife and a 5-year-old son who is the most adorable child in the world who both live in another state. About 5 months i... (215 words)

After what she's done, how can I keep us together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - My wife and I have been happily married for almost 2yrs, last week she meet with a male work friend for coffee. When she got home it had turned into a flight, coffee and a movie. I was ok with the coffee, but when it changed to something more, it didn't feel right to me. It ... (183 words)

I have small bumps around my genital area... Should I be worried??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I have small acne like bumps around my genital area.. they look like normal acne and there are only 3 of them. should i be worried?... (27 words)

His past troubles me and it feels like it's ruining my life and otherwise perfect relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I am a 20 year old woman in a great relationship with a 50 year old man. We love eachother very much and are engaged. The only problem is that he confessed to me that the reason why his past marriage failed is because 5 years ago his ex wife caught him in an adult chat room, ... (199 words)

Could my girlfriend be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - ok...my girlfriend and i are sexually active.i have always worn a condom when we have sex,but her ex boyfriend did not once.she has had her period every month,like she is supposed to since they had unprotected sex,but i was told that a girl can still have her period while ... (72 words)

I'm in love with two men! Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am in love with 2 men. I have 3 children by 2 different men. My daughter's father recently came back into our lives physically as he kept contact via telephone. After seeing him again, I think I am still in love with him. The problem is that I am with my other ... (76 words)

My ex was the jealous type, and it's really hurt me. Can you give your prespective?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I just broke up with my bf. The thing is that throughout our relationship I think he was jealous of me and this makes no sense to me and I need some perspective. Well we had started dating and I could tell that he felt a little insecure about himself around me. Just because he ... (580 words)

She blew it off

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

- Okay, I need help big-time. My ex and I are really done. I know it. I feel it. Here is my dilemma. I broke it off last June 1st. She wasn't sure how she felt about us etc... She had been saying that off and on for the last year. I was tired of it, and she's been treating... (325 words)

My husbands sex drive

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My husbands sex drive and stamina and mine aren't compatible. Before we ever dated I'd had about 30 partners. He has had about 7. While dating, I would come home from working midnights and would try to accommodate him sexually. Little did I know, he wanted to have sex fo... (651 words)

We were expecting different things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Bit of a complicated one this, but please bear with me! Basically, I'm 18 and off to university in 2 weeks. There is this girl with whom I have been sort of 'on off' (in a way) with for the last few months, but she is younger than me and still at school. Anyway, we ... (650 words)

My boyfriend's parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend's parents hate me. I don't know what I did wrong. I ws staying with them for seven weeks in France (where they are from) after we accomodated my boyfriend for two months while he did a work placement here in London. During that stay they made fun of me when I was... (288 words)

My boyfriend just got grounded

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My boyfriend just got grounded for a couple of weeks and hes not allowed to call me but a couple of days ago we had sex and I might be pregnant hes worried over this severly but I dont know if I am or not and when I do find out I have no way of telling him and hes the one ... (100 words)

She dosent even comfort me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I have being going out for 4 months now in the beginning it was crazy love now she treats me like Im just a normal friend I have been so nice to her and now when Im seriously depressed she dosent even comfort me?... (47 words)

I'm starting to feel attracted to other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I need a bit of advice I've been with my first and only girlfriend now for almost three years which is great. but for a long while now our sex life has almost gone. In the last 18 months we have had sex less than around five times,we dont live together and spend 3 nights... (179 words)

Should I still ask him straightforward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've met this guy about a month ago, and we've been hanging out about 10 times. Last week we started holding hands and kissing. When I'm with him I feel that he likes me but he's never said he likes me or any of his feelings. So I remain silent, too. I don't know what he ... (111 words)

How do I attract girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

17 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - How do I attract girls? What is the best way to get them to like me? How can I tell if they like me? What's the best way to flirt? I am not good at any of this, so any help would be appreciated. I am not a bad looking guy, I just need help when it comes to girls.... (60 words)

I'm over 18 but I'm worried about dateing my teacher who's 4 yeasr older. Could he get in trouble?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need some advice please guys. I'm 19 and my math teacher was 21 and straight out of uni when he started at my college when I was 17. He has taught me for all of my four double math lessons most days for the past two years. He is and was single with no children. Over t... (344 words)

My daughter is acting out to be with my ex and I don't know if I should trust him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

17 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Well an update here for my problems with my ex husband that some of you know about. Its been almost 3 months since my divorce and I thought after going through all the drama with my ex, me and my daughters would and could be fine on our own. That was shook hard last thursd... (796 words)