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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too much too late?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Have been married 18 yrs and 3 kids 17, 15, 11, last few years Ive been unhappy. I finnaly told husband I wasnt happy and I dont have the same feelings for him. Now he is trying to change over night and do things he has never done, do dished, clean, cook, drive the kids to ... (142 words)

How do I change my resurfaced feelings about a wonderful wife?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (?) age - How do I change my resurfaced feelings about a wonderful wife? I hope I can keep this short, but it is complicated. I would love to hear comments from people like Mandy7 and happytochat. My wife and I were both once divorced. Both of us had had only 1 sexual partner before o... (576 words)

Am I overthinking this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- I really need some prespective on my situation...I'm at a total loss here and I feel like if I don't get this off my chest I'm going to end up causing a fight with my BF He is in Japan for work and I am in the US, so today I called him to chat at our normal time and he was t... (308 words)

We have a great relationship, but lately I feel he's growing further away from me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so i guess i should start by saying that my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 10months now. Things were a bit strange to start off with; we were best friends before. Anyway, we have a great relationship but lately i feel he's growing further and further away... (249 words)

My boyfriend of 3 years have moved away to University. He's getting on better with the girls than the guys. I'm so worried!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and my boyfriend of nearly 3 years has moved away 2 uni. we're each others first love and used to see each other everyday.we were unseperable. now he's moved away im finding it so difficult. everytime i speak to him (which isnt that often) he's telling me how much of a ... (149 words)

He cheated, but he won me back... Now he's had to move 2 hours away! I love him, but I have doubts...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so conflicted. I have been dating a man for about 4 years. Last March I found out he cheated on me with my best friend. I broke it off with him and kicked him out of my house. Afterwards he was very remorseful and fought very hard to win me back. We decided to work on ... (179 words)

Deep feelings for my female best friend! Could we ever have something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my best friend who's a girl have been mates since we were little n we are now both 16. I have had deep feelings for her for ages and by that i mean years you wouldn't believe how in love with her i am. I stop at hers alot of weekends soetimes on my own sometime another ... (372 words)

How can I seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf just broke up with me the other day and said she needed some time along for a while, she says im not convincing when i tell her i trust her, so how can i seem a little more convincing this weekend when she said we'll talk again?... (49 words)

I have a large 'hanging' labia lip... Will this put him off oral which he says he's up for?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5962 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!, me n my boyfrined were talking n he mentioned that he's always like to go down on me and im totally up for it, and tbh i'd like to too! only problem is, that i have large 'hanging' labia lips n im worried he will find this wierd! is this a wierd thing to have? n do guys ... (104 words)

I have issues with self-confidence, and I get jealous when my girlfriend and her friends talk about hot guys. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey - I'm a schoolkid and I think I have serious self confidence issues about the way I look etc. I have a girlfriend who I really love, its just... She talks to her friends and stuff about who in our year is fit/hot etc, and I kind of get the scraps of her conversations at ... (221 words)

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so yeah...he broke up with ... (147 words)

There's no chance of us getting back together, but I can't get her out of my head? How can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Me and my ex have been seperated for almost a year now..... and she has made it crystal clear that the chace of us ever been together is nil...She has moved on with her life and I play no part in it. But I just cant get her outta my head. She is the first thing i think of... (131 words)

Should we have a baby? I'm 19, he's 28

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I want a baby, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we get on well some of the time and we have discussed it before. how do I know if its right or not? Im nearly 19 and he is 28. ... (47 words)

I want him back, but I don't know how to approach him. What should I say?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - IVe got a bf and i still have feeling 4 my ex very large 1s i split up wid him 2months because of my family and friends because they made a rumour abouthim nd now i want him back but i dont no what to say to him and how to tell him x what should i do or say ... (65 words)

He wasn't always a horrible boyfriend, so how can I forget the good times?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- hi, i just split up with my boyfriend because i have had enough. he cheats on me, he spits at me, he punches me, he tells me im the ugliest person he's ever seen and if i made him really mad he would rape me. the relationship is completely 150% over with absolutely no tu... (342 words)

He doesn't want me anymore, but I don't think I can live without him! Please help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I had a relationship of 11 years. During 10 years we were very happy. Two years ago we bought a house. Then I wanted to marry. My boyfriend would not. And we couldn't talk about it so one year ago I left my him. We worked about a year on our relationship. A few months a... (232 words)

I want him to know that I like him, without telling him. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy and have done for a year. My friends call me a flirt so if I flirt with him he'll just think i'm being myself. Sometimes i think he flirts with me but maybe thats how he is. I want him to know i like him without me accualy telling him. Is that possible ... (68 words)

Should I ask her if I'm more than just a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I have this question: should i ask her am i a friend or i'm more and tell her my feelings or not.???? Well i met a girl in bar, with my friend we were talking and i met this girl, the details are not important, the meaning is that, she lives 1000m from me in a other country.... (201 words)

My bf says he wants to rekindle our relationship, but only wants to see me twice a week!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age - after dating someone steady for almost 3 years, breaking up two times, can this relationship be rekindled? once a relationship has gotten very intimate can you really start over like it was when you first started dating the person? my bf says that he wants to rekindle it but ... (122 words)

I'm 40 something, can I successfully date two men?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age - Is it possible for a forty something year old women to successfully date two different men?... (16 words)

My head says leave, my heart says stay, what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6037 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do I go from here after hes messed around again? I've been with my daughters father for nearly four years, in that time we have split up a few times because of his imaturity and due to me finding texts to others girls in his phone. while we were apart he started s... (390 words)

What do I do, this man has other women and a child in his life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - what should i do with a man that i am in love wit who have a woman and a child and another woman in his life and cliams that he want to married me ... (34 words)

Can aids be passed on through my mouth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Stupid question, Can you get aids from kissing and getting blow jobs, and from someone swallowing your cum?... (18 words)

Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age - I'm a 46-year-old Mother of 8 (3 by my first husband, 5 by my current partner) and I've had many affairs. Most of which my partner has known about. But now I've started a relationship with a man who myself and my Fiance both work with. All of the other guys were purely physical ... (151 words)

Do I go back to my abusive, alcoholic husband or stay away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been seeking advise as to how I should handle my situation. My husband is an alcoholic and over the past two years has become verbally and physically abusive, not to mention controlling. The majority of advice I have received is to leave him for good. The other majority ... (305 words)

How do I convince a man to have a baby with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5809 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i convice a man to have a baby with me ?? i really want another baby only i want this one to be his .. ... (28 words)

I'm torn between an older man and my fiance, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my fiance for 5 years but over the last few months ive been seeing a man that is 11 years older than me, he is single but im falling for him or should i say i already have and i dont know what to do. i dont wanna hurt any one but at the min its my heart that is... (84 words)

I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5277 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm still a bit shaky, I dunno what it ... (86 words)

Do you think what I did was cheating?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?... (50 words)

My friend has just had a baby who might not make it. How can I comfort her and tell her I'm here for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- My co-worker friend just had a baby 3 months early and nobody knows if he is going to pull through. I messaged her through our company email (she just moved, so this is the only way I could contact her; don't know her new contact info!) letting her know that I was thinking ... (167 words)

Has she stopped loving me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am new here but hope you can help me! I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years, I am worried that she no longer feels the way I do anymore, I loved from day one and still very much do. Over the past 6 months or so she has become very distant and cold towards me,... (268 words)

How will I know if I am in love or just lust?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - how do you know love is real ?? i have been with my present bf almost 10months and i am starting to question myself and my answers are all the same i do love him but i wanna know how you know its real love opposed to just a lust thing ... (51 words)

Why has my friend changed so much and keeps blocking me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has totally changed and I have no idea what is up. She keeps on ignoring me and I am the one that always says hi to her. She is bitching about a girl that has done somthing very bad to her but she is nicer to her than she is to me. Last year we were such good ... (138 words)

My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend got really agressive after a fight we had beacuse he was jealous and hit me. I couldn't fight back because he was too strong. What should I do now? He has apologised but I'm not convinced!... (40 words)

I don't know how he'd react if I asked him out, or how my friends would react! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My family has been friends with this other family since before I was even born and now they have four kids and my parents have me and my brother. When we were little we used to share a bath and everything. I am like, best friends with the two girls and my brother is good mates ... (149 words)

Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Out of the blue, I am having issues with my wife's past. What now...? I have been married 13 years, three kids. Back when dating my wife and I went over pretty detailed things about our sexual past. Names, places, how it took place and so on. I chalked this curiousity ... (486 words)

Do I try to make my relationship work? I can't stop thinking about this other guy but is that because of the thrill of it that I enjoyed it all so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and over the last year or so things have been becoming very strained. Our sex life is non-existant - due to an unwanted pregnancy which we chose not to go ahead with and since then I have become petrified about becoming pregnant ... (751 words)

I miss him so much and I'm afraid he will meet someone else please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my boyfriend a month ago and when I asked him back he said no he had enough of the fighting and he loves me, I'm his soulmate and hopefully things will be different someday. I didn't trust him and it wasn't his fault, I had some issues from the past but I'm ... (99 words)

How do I get her out of this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 5 and a half months now and we are really really happy together. The problem is that his ex won't leave him alone. They had a very short relationship last December where she only met him three times, ignored him constantly and then ... (238 words)

I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares at me for a little while longer before looking away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like my friend that I have known since nursery but we don't really talk that much anymore because he is in the year below me. Now he has come to my secondary school and sometimes I just see him staring at me and when I look back he stares at me for a little while ... (100 words)

The (flirting) signs a boy fancies you?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - please help, im new to the dating game and i dont know the signs if boys fancy me,im a bit of a tom boy,my mates say there are many flirting signs around but which are the popular with males and females? ... (41 words)

The Turkish guy says he'd leave all behind to be with me and marry, but my family think he'd doing it for a ticket in UK. What to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Somebody help me, i recently went to marmaris in july 2007 i met this turkish guy who worked at the hotel where i was staying, i noticed he was staring at me all the time because i am blonde and i know the turks love blondes but then we got chatting and he seemed really nice ... (324 words)

I see her every Sunday in church, but I'm hesitant in talking to her for fear of rejection. Help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5909 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm nearly 17 and there is this girl I got a crush on. I see her every Sunday in a youth bible group and afterwards in church. She knows me but not personally. I don't know what to do because I'm afraid of rejection. could someone help me with this? Thanks... (53 words)

When is it right to change your "relationship status" on myspace / facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when is the right time to change your status? I met my current man on myspace we have only been dating a few weeks, but I am willing to change my status as "in relationship" and I want him to aswell, would it be best to have a talk over this or just change it to see if he not... (63 words)

Do you think he will ever leave her as they don't see that much of each other or am I just wasting my time hoping he will.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A couple of months ago I met someone who I later found out to be married to a woman in Thailand, he works in England for over half the year and stays with her for the rest, he lives very close to me and we see each other a lot. He said he does love his wife, but has fallen in ... (172 words)

He said the girl beside him in the picture was his cousin, but his step sister told me it's his ex! What's going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a boyfriend and we've been almost a year. I saw his pic. and a girl that makes me confused if who is the girl beside him. He tell me it's his cousin but when i talk with his step sister. She tell me it was his xgf. i confront my boyfriend if its true but he keeps on ... (137 words)

I think my attached friend likes me! I think I like him, too, but I don't know. Arrrgh I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- I have just started college a month ago. My closest friend there is a guy (i'll call him James) and we hit it off straight away when we met. After knowing him for about a month, he keeps calling me his girlfriend's name accidentally. I don't think he notices... It's pretty ... (114 words)

What if I get the reputation of being a slut b/c of boyfriend's joke?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Today I was with my bf and his mate and a couple of my mates in a classroom. I end up getting shoved into a closet with my bf while he makes sounds to basicaly put on a show to anyone outside. When we were finally let out he said something. Not sure exactly what. And when i ... (113 words)

I can't tell if he likes me and it's driving me crazy!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok i know this sounds stupid why would you need to ask if someone likes you – you should know right…but its not that simple…and its driving me crazy!!! I am in a serious long term relationship however I have developed really strong and confused feelings for a close friend. ... (1279 words)

My ex has a new girlfriend - how he's ignoring me! I'm deeply hurt - what should I do?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4876 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My ex is ignoring me! We broke up several years ago but have always remained friends, but for the past year or so, I know he's been seeing another woman. I've never met her but I hear she's beautiful and he's very much in love. The problem is, I can't let go! I still ca... (132 words)

I want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to know how to make my boyfriend fall back in love with me with in a day because he started being friends with this other girl and they went out about three to four times and he said its my fault because we are always fighting so please let me know how to make him love ... (62 words)

Who should I choose: my current bf, my bestmate's ex or the guy who seems to pretend he doesn't like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I'm only 14, but I'm confused in who I want more: my ex who i get on with normally, my mate's ex who i have loads of laughs with, or my ex / ex bestmate who doesnt even like me! The first I am actually going out with now, but I'm not sure i even want to. I like him, ... (191 words)

Should I let my son's father have contact with his child? I fear he'll mess with our baby's head like he's messed with mine!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, so.. my son is nearly 2months old, hes 1month 18 days, and all of a sudden the father has tryed to get in contact.. he put me through complete hell while i was pregnant with riley (my son) we are still very young, but his actions were really immature and made me fee... (353 words)

I'm fighting a battle that is long since lost. What can I do?? I love her so much, and I can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question regarding my feelings after my girlfriend broke up with me, due to her going away to study at University, and didn't think she'd have time for 'us'. She is studying far away, and our realtionship was long distance in the first place, and we me... (253 words)

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I can't get past the fact that ... (392 words)

Is it worth falling in love with her if she is just going to move away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, well my girlfriend will be going to university next year, and I am the year below her at school so I will be going a year after her. I've been with her for just over 6 months and she means the world to me, but to clarify i do not love her yet, but I'm certain I will by ... (114 words)

Women: When I split w/ her, she said she hated me and never loved me! What should I do? Should I try to talk to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok well. I guess this is an update from my previous question. But I did break up with my girlfriend and it didn't go very well.. She basically says she hates me, she never loved me, she was desperate, and basically everything she says to me is hostile. She told me she never ... (172 words)

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He said he met her in a shop and he g... (134 words)

My husband will never give me any kind of foreplay! Most times I wish I could just go back to sleep instead. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- Hi there, i think i need some sexual advice for someone! Thing is me and my husband have sex quite often but i can never get arroused! He will never give ma any kind of foreplay and even if he does it's for about 5 mins, i have spoke to him about this problem but it's... (145 words)

We've split and she won't give me back my things, including sentimenal items that belonged to my deceased grandfather!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - dear all. my girl and i split 8 weeks ago. i ended up having a nervous breakdown, ended up on anti depressants. she has my things still. i've asked for them in every shape or form: letter, text, e mail etc. Nothing. Left it for fw weeks, nothing. These are sentimental items th... (127 words)

He said he wanted to move slower in our sex life, but wants it every night! Does this make sense??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He told me he wanted to slow down on sex! He said he wanted it to mean more and I have not been pressureing him. But now it seems every night he wants to make love to me. Does this make sense?? ... (43 words)

I've started to pull my weight around the house, but I think it's too late! How can I show her I've changed and don't want to split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i don't really know how to start this but here it goes. i've been with my girlfriend for about 2 years now and in the beginning it started out great. we loved been together, everywhere we went it was together. we were always together. we got engaged really quickly a... (203 words)

I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returning on the Saturday I was expecting... (340 words)

I feel I have to choose between my daughters happiness or my life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello... I have been with my partner for almost 4 years...we have a 2 year old daughter together. In August 2006 my partner, his friend Paul and I went out for the night clubbing in Bournemouth. The drinks were flowing and by the end of the night I had told my partners frie... (341 words)

My f*ck buddy mentioned us having an exclusive relationship! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a guys opinion for this one, please. I have this guy, we were fuck buddies or at least thats what we still are meant to be but we dont have sex any more. Ive known him a year but from june-august I didnt see him as I went to austria for a few months and then when I g... (205 words)

I'm the only one who calls and texts in our relationship! Should I stop to see if he'll actually initiate the communication?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (F)

- Okay so i've been seeing a guy for the last 2 months. We get along really well and have alot in common. My problem is he doesn't call, or initiate text msgs... but will always pick up and talk, or text me staright back when i initiate the communication. He alw... (174 words)

She makes me feel bad for bringing up our (lack of) sex life! Suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

26 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am a 28yo Male and I have been in a relationship with a 28yo female for almost 1 year. We have live together by ourselves no kids, standard 9 - 5 jobs. My problem is our sex life was great at the beginning a couple of times a week and now in the past 2 months it is onc... (454 words)

This guy swears he was my first, but I remember my kids' dad being my first! I feel as if I'm going insane!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Iam in touch with a guy i used to date when i was 15 yrs old. Recently, he told me he was my first. I have no memory of this he tells me he started to enter and I stopped him as I was bleeding. But the thing is, I remember my first true experience with my kids dad - I was ... (84 words)

She said the love has faded and she wanted more space...

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26 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I'm 20 and I have just came out of a 7 month relationship. my gf is going to uni this sept is on a gap year. she said that she doestnt love me anymore and that the love has faded. she said problems in the relationship came to a head when we started living together and seeing ... (277 words)

He turned 40, became obsessed with going to the gym then left me for another woman!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with my partner of 15 years,for ten years of the relationship we spent most of our time together and went everywhere together.then when he hit 40 he changed and started looking in the mirror all the time going to the gym and it all became a obession.i was left on my own ... (424 words)

Can a guy be really into me even though he never contacts me during the week?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, My guy of 6 weeks has never... even when we were just dating been a textng/calling guy and he admits that and says hes not a phone type of guy. Hes very face to face and we usually spend most of the weekend together. since we have been officilly together i have ... (271 words)

Could my son be gay or is he just going through a phase?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age - Is my son gay or just "going through a phase"? He is nearly 17 and he says he wants a relationship with a guy but says this doesn't mean he won't ever want a relationship with a girl. He has had a girlfriend, it lasted 6 months when he was 15, it didn't seem very intense and ... (85 words)

My ex and I are friends - and it was really weird hearing him talk about his new girl!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi There! I have a dilema, my ex and I broke up 15months ago as he had a gambling habit and we were losing intimacy. We never sought counselling. We have however remained good friends and speak at least every few weeks, just general chit chat and gossip, we never discus... (575 words)

Condom broke and he didn't ejaculate, any chance that I may be pregnant?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,yesturday i had sex with my boyfriend and the condom broke but he didn't ejaculated, is there any chance that i get pregnant?... (23 words)

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we worked through it. Then... (351 words)

My wife left me for her ex. Now she does drugs and binge drinks! What do you think of this email I sent her?

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26 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - below is a copy of the email i have sent my wife who had come back for a week then left me again for her ex after she did not come home at night.this is hurting me so much sorry if am beening a pain but we have a young kid and all i want is for this to work. You will never... (1357 words)

I've never really made a move on a guy before, so I don't know how I should go about this without feeling stupid!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't have much experience with dating. I've only been with one guy, and that was over a year ago. We lasted for only a few months, but things got serious really fast. He had emotional issues, and a few weeks before I left for college he dumped me out of the blue, even though ... (288 words)

Am I cheap person or have misunderstood his actions? Is he just using me for sex?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Am i cheap person or have misunderstood his actions?dear aunts, here is my problem. Im with this boy for almost 5 months,we have fun and everything.Im not so materialistic girl, but cannot understand why he bought me a cheap present and not even something i like or prefer.Im i ... (140 words)

Feel like having sex all the time. What do I do?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. im not a virgin and me and my boyfriend did it. but now i feel like i want it all the time. its crazy and i cant get it out of my mind. i feel the only cure is to do it, but then i want it even more. what do i do?... (54 words)

He prefers to watch other couples on cam than be with me!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi please help my boyfriend of 19 years would rather watch a pretty couple make love on cam on the internet site he has joined (couples show on cam everything from blow jobs to full on sex) he hasnt touched me for 2 weeks yet he gets excited to watch other people on cam not ... (77 words)

My husband has E.D. and I don't want to divorce just b/c of a bump in the road! Please help me with my marriage.

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26 September 2007 (F)

age - I am a 48 year old women, have been married for 27 years and my husband has never been a romantic type. but since he has been diagnois as a diabectic 7 years ago he has E.D. and are relationship has been strained. I love my husband, but i am not in love with him. and i want to ... (144 words)

How do I get over my crush, for real this time?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've come to a decision. I'm going to try to get over my crush of three years. Yet I've tried so many times. Once I think I'm over him, he shows up out of the blue and it starts all over again. The only signs I've ever gotten to show he likes me back, are the few stares I... (122 words)

Is love at first sight true? Ready to sacrifice everything to be together, though I'm married and know this person for a month.

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26 September 2007 (M)

age - I am a 47 year old male with a professional job and have been married for 16 years. About a month ago I met a 39 year old female hispanic woman who speaks some english and we can hold conversations very well at a conference. She is also married for 14 years. We are both very ... (139 words)

My brother-in-law is in prison for child molestation! Could he have been molested? Does this mean my husband was molested, too?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married 3 months. My husband's brother was just convicted of molesting boys ages 12-14. He started doing this when he was 20. I am really struggling w/this. I am glad he is in prison even though my husband and his family are grieving. I have heard that child... (83 words)

Since he was abusive with me, does that mean he'll be abusive to his next girlfriend?

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26 September 2007 (F) age 41-50 - If my ex boyfriend was kind of abusive with me and emotionaly unavailable Will he be the same way with his next girlfriend or should I blame it on me? Sometimes I feel I taught him things he didn't know before I was his girl, and now those things are going to work on his ... (63 words)

Does my period cycle indicate that the pill is not working for me?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been on the pill for about half a year now and for the last 3months or so my period has been coming the week before it is indicated it should happen. does this mean it isn't working?... (41 words)

Could I catch anything by swallowing sperm?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my name is amy, as of tonight i started to give blojobs to my boyfreind for the first time. as i was sucking him off i swallowed his sperm could i catch anything by doing that?... (37 words)

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in common and had a strong ... (449 words)

He called his ex twice behind my back - how can I trust him again?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 8 1/2 months and i been having trouble trusting him because he called his ex-girlfriend twice behind my back and i found out about it what can i do to trust him again???... (43 words)

I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, especially since we have been ... (100 words)

I don't want to throw our love away because of unsatisfied curiosity, SO would it be wrong to allow her to be with other men, if she tells me beforehand?

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26 September 2007 (M) - My Girlfriend and I have been together for a year, we really love eachother. I am quiet sexually experienced, she on the other hand was a virgin before me. I ask her if she feels like she needs to find out what sex with other ppl is like, she says no. We do plan a future to... (127 words)

I was thinking of explaining why we need to separate in a letter - is that a good idea?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm the original poster of the question about my emotional boyfriend going too fast and that I need to end it. Many seemed confused or to read between the lines and I just wanted to make a few things clear. He isn't a psycho, but perhaps a little needy. He had a broken family g... (156 words)

Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Does wearing two comdoms decrease the risk of getting pregnant?... (10 words)

Has my boyfriend cheated on me?

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Has my boyfriend cheated on me? Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and right at the start of our relationship he cheated on me when i promised him a filthy night that night - he said he had to go home - and i then later found out he had slept with someo... (446 words)

I get physically nauseaous worrying about whether or not he's going to miss me or just be happy I'm out of town!

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26 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I am not sure where to start. About a year and half ago, I met this great guy. He is about 5 and half years older, we have a lot in common, we moved in together about a year ago, have talked about marriage, not so much now. About 6 months into our relationship we ... (314 words)