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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I shave for first time sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5960 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to have sex for my first time . But i want to know if i should shave my pubic hair ? Should i shave it all of ?... (33 words)

How do I sort my feelings for the ex or another guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend because I wanted to see other people... But he is still in love with me. He asked me out again, and I'm not sure if I love my ex- anymore! There's also another boy who really likes me, but I don't like him. If I go out with my ex- again I feel like ... (106 words)

At first HE had lower sex drive, now I do, maybe because his not wanting it as frequent in the beginning has affected me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating my bf for 5 years. When we first started dating, I wanted to have sex non stop but he did not feel the same. Now he wants to have sex more often and I don't really feel the same way. I think subconsciously I have taken his not wanting to have sex with me in ... (97 words)

Do I face rejection or cut her out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Please help. I am in love with this girl. We are friends, and have known each other for about three years. I told her i really liked her once, it kinda just slipped out when i was talking to her. SHe rejected me, saying that she didnt feel the same way. I have been a little ... (102 words)

Can someone who is in love cheat on you?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my byf cheated on my but says it was a mistake and he really loves me. I wont take him back. Is it possible that someone who is in love with you could cheat on u? i reckon he's lieing about his feelings cus the other girl didnt want him in the end. what do u think?... (57 words)

Does this boy like me? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I like this boy and he is a year younger that me, however, I don't know if he likes me back. I've caught him staring a lot of times even when I had a boyfriend and when I meet his eyes, he either smiles and asks me a quick question or quickly looks at someone else and... (137 words)

How do I handle this situation with my Dad?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My dad called late last night, woke my baby up and left a hateful sounding message on my voicemail. It has been bothering me all last night (I couldn't sleep) and today. I am 26, my dad left my mom when I was 4, and moved out of state. I see him maybe twice in 5 years. Well, I ... (543 words)

How do I approach this girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This is a follow-up to a question I posted earlier this month. The girl I have fancied for a year still has a boyfriend, but I've now realised that I LOVE HER. I'm dertermined to chat her up and tell her my feelings but when I see her, I lose my bottle. Once I've sat down ... (80 words)

I need to ask this guy to the dance, but how???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. im going to my homecoming dance today. so this is pretty urgent.. Uhm, first off, it is lame not to party after the dance? i'm usually tired after that...and my friend "can't" have a sleepover or anything. i hate that i'm not "part" of ANY group, i get along with EV... (105 words)

My teeth are yellow and this puts down my confidence...

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4179 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have had yellow teeth for as long as I can remember. I don't know why, I hardly ever eat chocolate or drink coffee/tea or smoke or do much that would stain them. It really affects the way I talk and act around boys. I don't think they're naturally yellow, because they a... (206 words)

To be in love with two people at once, is it possible?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - is it possible to be in love with two people at once? i know u can love two people at once, but can someone be in love with two peops at once? any opinions? my friends girlfriend recons she's torn b'cus she is inlove with two men. is it possible?... (50 words)

Why do people stay with someone they don't love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - just a quick question. Why do people stay with some if they are not in love with them? I have a female friend who lives with her partner but wont leave him even though she doesnt love him and a male friend who lives with his girlfriend of 12 years and has 2 kids with her aged 9 ... (126 words)

If I admitted my interest towards my female friend, I'm worried her sister who works in the same line with me would spread the word which could affect my career. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age - I am a woman 44 years of age and have been through two unsuccessful marriages and I have an adult daughter and 2 grandchildren. I have been single now for 10 years and have not dated in that timeframe due to the lack of interest in doing so. I am a decent looking female that ... (487 words)

Should I give guys longer to make thier minds up or is 3 months enough? After that I start to get attached...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - All the men i have dated lately have only wanted fun, even though they say they love me or really love me. even after a few months they say they want to hold back or just to keep having fun and see what happens. I always take it easy at first, but sureley after 3 months someone ... (118 words)

I don't like other people looking at my gf.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi There, Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year, and I have somewhat of a problem, I don't like other people looking at her and when I say this I mean for example she went to get fitted for a dress and had to stand in her bra and underwear, This annoys m... (104 words)

My gf told me she needed some time during which she'd see other men to clear her doubts, does this mean breaking up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend just told me a couple of days ago she needed some time and space to think about what she wants and if she wants to see others to make sure of things. Does this mean she wants to break up or something else?... (45 words)

I feel so alone, and tired of people not treating me properly...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i dont know what to do, i feel really depressed. the bloke i loved dumped me by ignoring my calls. my last 3 relationships ended by my partners hand. i'm finding my new job really hard my boss doesnt seem to like me. other people have picked up on it a little. my nans ill and ... (164 words)

Does he fancy me and have I made it obvious that I like him??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi,im a 20 year old female and im rather confused at the moment...i seem to be highly attracted to "pretty boys" one in particular i went to primary school with. i moved towns when i was 11 and lost touch.however,recently around a year and a half ago i got back in touch with ... (408 words)

There's sexual frustrations on us for the lack of time together due to his job, my schedule... How to find space for each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months. We have yet to have sex, but we mess around with hand jobs, oral sex, etc. I had to move in with a new guardian recently, and she is much stricter on how late I stay out, where I am, etc. With my boyfriend having... (129 words)

20 and never kissed a girl. I'm always told to "be myself," advice, please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

- i'm 20, I am a confident person, I'm nice and I have a sense of humour. How many girlfriends have I had - 0. How many have I asked out - 7 I think. I have never kissed a girl let alone had sex and I don't know what I'm doing wrong. One girl said she says I'm sweet but not her ... (168 words)

Wondering if a good friend of mine is gay.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I'm just wondering here if a good friend of mine is gay, I'll try and make this breif... He's been going with a girl for a couple weeks, and he tells us (the guys he hangs with) that he's doing stuff with her... But the other night I was at a dance, they were... (250 words)

We are planning on sex for the first time. Need some answers to my questions...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi me and my gr have been together just over a year and we have been talking about that fact we are ready to have sex, we are both old enough btw. i live with her(long story) so its kind if hard to get a chance to try it but next weekend her parents will be out for a night and ... (416 words)

I'm not sure if I should go with this guy for my first time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my best friend lost her virginity in a 1 night stand and hasnt seen him since or even tried to see him, i met him a few weeks later and i now really like him iv tried tellin my friend how i feel and she sed just go for it but shoud i go for it is it wrong if he was both of our ... (72 words)

What game is this bloke playing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i loved a boy who is an artist,we had some nice times together by relationships, but he almost never calls and askes about me, and when i call him he rarely answers my phone calls,does he still love me? or he i just playing with me???... (47 words)

My bf told me he slept with a married woman 14 years ago, should we continue this if our moral compasses are so far apart?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend slept with a married woman about 14 years ago at work. He wants to forget about it but since he has told me, it practically broke up the relationship because it is something I would NEVER do (I've always thought people who do this are scumbags.) I've been with... (475 words)

I had the feeling my ex was considering kissing me, but I don't want to look embarassing if I'm reading the signs wrong.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex broke up with me about two months ago and we hadn't seen each other since but talked most days on msn. but since being back at college, i get the feeling that he still loves me, or at least has feelings for me. the first time i saw him, i went to leave but he pulled me ... (234 words)

How do I dirty up my married sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to be really dirty and do dirty things during sex w/ my husband but we're both too shy. When we first started sleeping together I was drunk, and I had him talk dirty to me, and I let loose. Now I am pregnant (again) so I feel really boring. We don't even kiss or do ... (202 words)

He's very withdrawn, emotionally detached even with me, I'm thinking our LD relation won't work due to this aspect of his personality?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for less than a year. We have a long distance thing at the moment, but we've met and have established that we're dedicated to each other. But (argh why must there be a but!) he's so emotionally detached and generally cold sometimes. It used to be ... (176 words)

How do I tell if he's just being a friend or if he likes me? How do I let him know I like him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

- How do I tell my male friend that I like him more then a friend? Ive known him since Feb this year, met him at university. But at the time i had a bf. We dindt get that close until my relationship with my bf ended about 2 months ago. Then he started to talk to me a lot more... (132 words)

She told me she needed a short break, should I call everything off or wait to see what happens?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. My girlfriend and I have been together for quite a while. I know that she's in love with me and I know that im in love with her. But yesterday she told me that she just needs a break. She told me that right now she's just really stressed out and if she don't get her space ... (160 words)

Pleasure or annoyance? Testicles touched in the middle of a handjob?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i basically just want to know is it normal for a guy not to feel good when a woman is playing with his balls, in the middle of a handjob. I just dont get anything from it other than mild annoyance. I seem to be the only one out of my friends. Anyone have a similar thing, or ... (62 words)

Is it fair to stay with the boy I'm with when I'm in love with my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with a boy for a year and i fell in love with him but i made a mistake and ended it and now he wont take me back, its been 6 months since we broke up and iv tried everything to move on i'm even in a relationship right now but i cant stop thinking about him. Is it fair to ... (80 words)

Can't understand why he didn't contact all week, when after 4 dates he was enthusiastic to invite me to see his house up north.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy came up to me in a club and liked me and wanted my number and wanted to meet the next day. I couldn't I was on holidays for a week, the next Sunday he wanted to know if I was out the night before and called me to invite me over. I did, we got on and he was texting ... (223 words)

I fell in love with the boy my friend had a one night stand with, and she says she loves him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My best friend lost her virginity in a 1 night stand after telling the boy she was'nt a virgin and has never tried to contact him since, i met him a few weeks later and fell in love with him and now shes saying she has feelings for him. what should i do? ... (53 words)

He seems to be losing his patience with me, and I don't want our relationship to be a burden for him! I'm getting depressed.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi DearCupid. For the past few months, I have been getting more and more depressed. I have just started my final year of A-levels, and already I feel like I'm getting lost in it all. I can't concentrate any more. My home life is volatile, with my mother and I invariab... (354 words)

How do you meet the good guys? I thought deep inside he was good, despite of the abuses. Since leaving him I only met red flag guys...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 4 years. He was emotionally and physically abusive, he cheated on me. And yet I still believed that deep in his heart there had to be good. Eventually I just had to leave him. I knew that I deserved more. I am a good person and I couldn't live the rest of ... (118 words)

If I could I'd express my love to him now, but 14-15 is a bit young to lose my virginity, is it not?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5906 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend are soo in love, we've been together for almost a year [11 months and 22 days] And we've discussed having sex for the past few months, i am not pressured at all and we're very matture about the subject. We've discussed contrception and everything else tha... (163 words)

Does he like me or is just using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm 13-14 years old and there is this guy i've like for 6 years and he always hugs me and stuff and even feels me and touches me etc sometime he kisses me anyways everytime he does that i like it but he then goes on about other girls who he thinks are fit and sexy and nice ... (90 words)

She cheated on me when drunk, she doesn't know I know. She says I'd have to get used to her, because that's the way she is.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hi im have a problem with my girlfreind in that she drinks a lot of alchohol and even drinks in the morning on vodka, she smokes,does canabis, and will out drink most men!, and has cheated on me when drunk although she doesnt know i know. but she said she loves me and said ... (88 words)

Tips on staying on top? I'm embarassed when me and my bf have sex, as I'm still not experienced despite of my relations with men.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im really embarassed about this question! ive been with my boyfriend for a year and ive been with over 15 men but im still not experienced with sex! i feel really emabarassed when me and my bf have sex! ive never been on top and wouldnt have a clue what to do if i did go on ... (97 words)

Is my boyfriend being sly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. my boyfriend and i have been together for more than a year. a few days ago i found out he was chatting online behind my back. and adding a friend he told me he doesnt talk to anymore, on a night that i was home sick. When asked, he just keeps lying about all of this. Whats ... (61 words)

I'm sleeping with a boy who is not my bf, how can I sort out who I like and what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

22 September 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hi. im 15 and have been with my boyfriend now for just over a year but i think i have fallen out of love with him already, we have been sexually active for 7 months and i have got to admit we are alright in that department but i just cant love him anymore. i used to get ... (203 words)

I saw the empty packing, he said he threw the condoms away because the date had expired, but it had not! Does he cheat on me, or I am exaggerating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, does my boyfriend cheat on me? A while ago I've found some empty packing of condoms in the dirt bin at his house. He said that he threw the condoms away because the date had expired and he wanted to be sure that we would have save sex. I find this really weird. The pack... (95 words)

I love him, he has some family and health problems and it's difficult to talk as he's not allowed to call.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - were both 14 ok his parents are divorced, his mom's in another city while he lives here with his dad who's currently getting another divorce separating him from his 2 brothers; hes having trouble in school his best friend turned against him with a bunch of lies and now me t... (237 words)

My ex is still in love with me and I feel sympathy for another boy who also asked me for a date. How do I know if I love the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I once dated this one guy for a while, then broke up. He is still in love with me though, and asked me out again. I feel sympathy for another person who asked me on a date as well. It is all so confusing! How do I know if I love my ex-boyfriend? Should I go out with him, or ... (62 words)

Is it normal for a guy to "babe watch" even being committed?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it normal for the guys to go out and " babe watch" even if the guy is in a committed relationship? also, why does it upset so much when he looks at other women? should I tell him how I feel? of should I just let him look and say nothing?... (53 words)

I'm scared I'll do it wrong and he'll dump me! It'll be my first time.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 13 and my Boyfriend wants to make out with me, I want to but im scared I'll do it wrong then he will dump me. All my friends have done it. I dont know what to do, should i try and risk it or should i wait. I would be my first make out! Mizz. Simone... (61 words)

Am I paranoid or is this unusual, that she never mentions me in conversations with the ex? She's used to being treated poorly from previous relations, could this be a factor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Quick question: I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly 5 months. I have never been so happy with a woman before and she has told me that in her eyes, it is love at first sight and wants to marry. Here is my problem: her ex boyfriend of several years, and who treate... (270 words)

Can long term friends ever become lovers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6046 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid please tell me I came to the right place. I'm in a situation that I have never been in before. It's verey confusing, but can long term friends ever become lovers?... (33 words)

Tonight my ex (who I care about more than anyone) told me how she slept with a guy we were talking to today for a one night stand...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6062 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Well as I post this I just suffered a terrible night. Tonight my ex (who I care about more than anyone) told me how she slept with a guy we were talking to today for a one night stand, and she told me that I mean everything to her and am her best friend yet she can't stand ... (136 words)

Is she still thinking of me....?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (M)

- Hi, Please let me know something. I am broken up with my girlfriend. We had an intense love, but now we've moved on. It's been 4 months since the breakup, 2 months since last contact. The last contact she said at the end of her e-mail, "I'll be in touch soon" ...okay, my ... (205 words)

Should I shave "down there" for him?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5884 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I wanna let a guy go down there. I want to shave but I don't because I don't have the right equipment and I don't wanna pay the consequences. The boy I'm planning it with really likes me and I like him and I know he really does because he doesn't tell people h... (93 words)

I told him about a rape fantasy I had which he said he liked, but he wanted something darker/dirtier.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel somewhat embarrased to write this but from reading some of the responses, perhaps someone can help me. My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship right now and we're both pretty sexual people and into various aspects of BDSM. Lately my boyfriend has be... (134 words)

I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me really upset and I feel so hurt.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my boyfriend that I was not happy about him going into a strip club in Prague on a stagnite, I didn't say don't go, I said I wasn't happy as a reply from him I was told I was a Psycho just like his ex girlfriends - What do I do as this has me really upset and I feel so ... (64 words)

I know it's a common question... but I'm also in love with my teacher!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Yeah... its another ''im in love with my teacher'' question. The truth is i do love him :( and i think he may be interested or maybe attracted to me... thats what i would like to know off of everyone, if he is attracted to me or whatever im cool with that im not goin to put his ... (949 words)

He wants a girlfriend who isn't so boring or nags so much!!.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half... we have lived together for over a year now. I love him very much and we have a great time but sometimes I feel unhappy because it seems like he isn't the same person I fell in love with. He is older than me by ... (275 words)

Have his feelings just changed for me or is he scared of getting hurt like he did when he was younger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

22 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me a week ago today. I'm finding it so hard because it came out of the blue and just after we'd spent a couple of good days away together for his birthday. I'm gutted because he's the loveliest guy I’ve ever dated and he's also the first ... (1617 words)