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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

What do you do when every girl likes the same guy you do and you think he likes you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey guys. Well,there's this guy in my band class.I like him and I don't know if he likes me. He always smiles at me or trys to get me to do wierd things with him.Another thing is that he ALWAYS stairs at me!! I really mean it. We'll be in the middle of band class and the ... (190 words)

Does she like me or my mates???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I'm going out with a girl who's really confusing. She told me after 2 weeks of going out that she likes one of my best friends but still loves me so I was like okay we will still go out. But it's just weird because if my mates meet her or whatever she's like WOW hello and go... (132 words)

So I'm asking always should I tell her my feelings on internet or wait till she comes to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Well I have this question, please help me with it. I met this girl at a party, we had spent a very nice time together as friends, nothing special, but the problem was that she lives in a another country, so we kept in touch by e-mails, sometimes calls, and a lot chatting. So at ... (169 words)

Am I crazy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - After breaking up 3 months ago an engagement of more than a year and a relationship of two years I'm fluctuating between happiness and feeling all motivated about my new single life and depressive crying spells when I remember about him. Am I crazy?... (45 words)

When I am 80 per cent over her she flirts and makes me remember why I fancied her for 2 years.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi there, I like this girl and she just broke up with her boyfriend of 9 months. All my mates male and female have said for me to get over her and when I am 80% over her she flirts and makes me remember why I fancied her for 2 years Does this mean she's interested in me... (69 words)

I keep crying because I have really really low self esteem and I just feel really ugly and rejected and basically a mess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm really confused right now. I started a job 3 months ago and met this guy called Dan through one of the people at work. We became friends and about a month ago he kissed me and told me he liked me. I was a bit unsure at first because he's a bit of a player and has lots of ... (482 words)

He's never cheated on me but when he left his phone at my house there were texts on it from another girl!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hi... I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. He tells me he has never cheated on any of his ex's, and I believe him. Recently I've been on holiday for 3 weeks, when I got back he told me he'd really missed me and been so bored while I was away. The same day he left his ... (167 words)

Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, for me but I did it, and ... (432 words)

I crave attention from him, our sex life hasn't always been great and I've had to come on to him if I want to make love, this is now adding to my fear of him being gay even though he swears he is straight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so confused and I'm at the end of my tether, my partner of 4 years is a cross dresser, he lied about it for a good year then told me, I told him to prove it as I thought it was his way of trying to finish the relationship, so I dug out a pair of my black sexy knickers and ... (243 words)

She's thinking of dumping her boyfriend, am I in with a chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm having a slight dilemma here, there's this girl I like, I'm pretty sure she likes me as well cause she flirts with me a lot but she's got a boyfriend though and they've been going out for a year, she's spoken to people about dumping him (knowing I can hear) I've never ... (74 words)

Why is he behaving like this - it makes me wonder if one of them has been unfaithful...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I've got a friend who has been married for two years. At my son's christening recently they announced that they were seperating. I was shocked and because they were smiling I didn't believe them until they showed me their fingers without the rings. He said he was going to ... (421 words)

Is this wrong that I had a meaningless fling with someone and now I've fell for his brother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I had a brief relationship a few months ago with a guy. We used to go out socialising together and sometimes his twin brother would be there. He got a job abroad and we would see (and sleep with) each other now then when he was home. It was not serious just a bit of fun. ... (151 words)

How can I get smaller boobs?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - This may come as an odd question but it is dear to heart for me. How can you make your boobs smaller? I am only talking about appearence wise. I claim this as odd because all my friends want bigger boobs, yeah at times I do too, but for this I certainly do not. For one of m... (282 words)

Am I supposed to wait while he gets over his committment issues? And if he does decide he wants to commit, how will I forgive him for lying? How can he earn my trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been lying to me about where he has been going out, does that mean he's cheating too? How do I get passed the lies and trust him again? My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I'm 31, he's 28. I recently found out he has been lying about wher... (304 words)

Why would someone want to make you feel so ugly, and lie to you the day they have your engagement ring in your hand?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 227 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have browsed through everybodys opinion about porn being problem in a relationship. But I haven't found my answer. Here is my scenario, and some opinions would be most helpful. My boyfriend began using porn when we were together for a year and a half. (Without me). It... (619 words)

Should I just take a break with him and focus on my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Should I break up with him? I really love him and he loves me we have been going out for 8 months now. I'm just not into anything sexual or anything like that, I like him more as a companion right now. It is also probably becuase I am a big workaholic. I love to work what can I ... (170 words)

What can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get attached?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm falling for my sex buddy who has a girlfriend and I don't want to end it because I enjoy the sex so much and the idea of telling him is awful because I come across so strong minded and kinky, what can I do to see him as just a buddy and not get attached?... (56 words)

I hate rejection but I so want to tell him how I feel about him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Well I've known this boy for two years and at first he liked me but I didn't feel the same way but after two years we've been so close, he's been a great friend to me but I have started to have feelings for him. I want to tell him how I feel but I can't bring myself to tell him ... (103 words)

One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - One of my friends is at an all time low... she hates herself. How can I give her her self-esteem back?... (21 words)

I have a big confidence problem because of the size of my penis...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hello... I have a big confidence problem because of the size of my penis. I know it sounds stupid, But I am a young teenager, and I have a very small penis. It majorly affects my confidence and I can hardly even talk to people now without being scared that my friends w... (78 words)

Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) age 26-29 - Hi all, please help. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We own a home together, have a 1 month old son, and I have a 4 year old daughter who he treats as his own. Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship. I ... (101 words)

I don't want to have sex just now but I have some questions about it for when I do decide to have it...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey, I'm underage and I'm not planning to have sex till I'm at least 16 with the right guy at the right time. So that's not a problem. But when I do, I'm worried. First, I'm worried about getting undressed. What do boys think about pubic hair? Is it best to leave it, sh... (239 words)

I know if I admit to having an affair he will go beserk as he gets very upset if I only just mention an ex's name in our conversation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my bf for 9 months. He's a lot younger than me (he's 22 and I'm 32), and he says this is the best relationship he's had, he loves me very much and almost puts me on a pedestal. I love him very much and feel the same, he's kind and caring and unpretentiou... (334 words)

She started a new job 10 months ago and I know her new boss is flirting with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new job 10 months ago and I know ... (757 words)

She hasn't told me she loves me since then, and things don't feel completely right. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi, I've been going out with a girl I was kinda "more than friends" with for years. In the last few weeks I asked her out and she said yes. We're just teens, both 16, and we've kissed and it was great. When we kissed I told her I love her, which I really do, and she said tha... (140 words)

I'm a really confused chic at the moment!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

- Hi, I'm a really confused chic at the moment!! I work with my best friend, we didn’t know each other until I started working there and we hated each other, now we are like best friends. We have dinner together every time we can and get on well. We are the same age (18) and she ... (458 words)

How can I make this up with my girlfriend again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I've been with my girlfriend about one year now and I really love her. We tend to fight a lot but always talk it out and are better. Last month I was having a drunken stupid conversation with this one girl I used to work with. We both liked each other a lot and over the ... (198 words)

How can I alter this shirt to fit me better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - My mom brought me a shirt for school and it is a bit baggie on me (I cannot return because I have already worn it) can someone give me any ideas on making tighter please?!!!!!... (35 words)

My boyfriend told me he's not in love with me any more and needs a break...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect boyfriend. Up until about three ... (463 words)

How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I start to rebuild a relationship if I don't trust my husband, we do not talk, we are completely opposite including our views and I feel unloved, unappreciated, unattractive to him and just found out that 6 months ago he had an online relationship with another woman? ... (85 words)

She's joined facebook and this angers me... Is this normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - It seems that it only takes my ex-girlfriend to join Facebook.com to get me rattled up. I've been having a pretty good day. Been feeling fairly comfortable about the relationship ending (2 months and 2 weeks ago), but then suddenly I find out that she's gone and joined faceb... (276 words)

How can I change how my erection behaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I tend to lose my erection after I cum. It comes back if my g/f gives me head, but I wanted to know Is there anyway to change this?... (29 words)

What should I do about the woman I love who already has a boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I am in a torrid emotional sexual affair with a woman who has a boyfriend. We kept ending starting again cos theres so much attraction. We are like best friends as well and can talk about anything. We decide its safer not to see each other but both want it badly/miss ... (475 words)

I have money problems and think I'm heading for a breakdown. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

- Hi everyone. Long story short(ish). Im 18 and at college. I have no income apart from the college bursary (which isnt much). My dad is old and on benefits and cant afford to keep us both on them. I cant get a loan i as i know i will never be able to pay it back. The thing is i... (212 words)

I am pregnant, but the father could be either my fiancee or his friend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been in a relationship with my fiancee (we'll call him stuart) for nearly 5 years. I ended up having sex with a friend of his (we'll call him steve) while he was at work, and most of our circle of friends know about it. If Steve's girlfriend found out she'd kill him and ... (93 words)

I am so in love with two differant girls. Neither is interested, but they are both so perfect in differant ways.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi there! I won't name the girls I'm in-love with so I'll only put the first letter of their names. I have so much in common with E, me and her always have endless conversations for hours together but she cheats, lies and betrays so I don't trust her. I'm also in-love with S, ... (161 words)

Why doesn't he send me any messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - why does guy who flirts, always smiles to me, is happy when i'm around and have some feelings to me doesn't sent me any messages?... (25 words)

I am cheating on my husband with my best friends husband and don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this crazy situation. I've been with the same man for 17 years, married for the last 11 years. I have had the same best friend since high school. She has also been with her husband for the last 17 years and they have been married for the last 12 years. Last year at ... (312 words)

She says she needs time, but says she loves me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - She says she needs Time, buts says she loves me I was going out with this girl for a couple of months, now i no that it doesn't seem like a long time but we just clicked. We stated talking on myspace, then i was over her house the next day. we didn't do anything just ta... (338 words)

He is having an affair and I cant decide what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - He's having an affair.I can't decide what to do. I know my partner hasn't always been happy in more recent years (We have been together for 12 years, oldest child 6, youngest 2.) There have been times when he has said he is so bored, that I am getting fat and old, that I'm ... (676 words)

Why do people have wierd fetishes? How do they get started?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i would like to know about fetishes, how they begin etc. I have a balloon fetish which I know is not unknown, but i dont seem to be able to find out why how etc. Any advise please... (39 words)

I just wish she would take it to the next level!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have this friend of 2 years, earlier this year I started to have feelings for her, a couple of months ago I let her know these feelings, unfortunately she does not feel the same. She was very to the point in the way that she sort of had a go at me for letting her know, ... (170 words)

I feel that most people out there are going to hurt me in some manner. Please advise...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) age 26-29 - I feel quite at distance from my emotions and people in general. I want to stay away from getting hurt as much as possible and i feel that most people out there are going to hurt me in some manner. Please advice...... (42 words)

I have red splotches on my face and feel fatigued. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, can anyone please tell me what is wrong with me?! I have these red splotches on my face which have started to appear this week. I have been really sick and i'm thinking this is some strange side effect! They are usually most noticeable when i wake up and i think they kinda ... (129 words)

Is there a chance that she was scared my departure would hinder our future together? Now the travel was canceled, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 249 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all, Quick question for you all. Last week (thurs) my girlfriend said to me she cant do this anymore being with me. This is due to i was supposed to be going away in Jan. I spoke to her again on Sunday and had a longer chat that she didnt want to do it as she loves me and w... (214 words)

Do you think I should move on or give it a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm a female 26 yrs of age. Due to the kind of family i was raised with i really stareted sex very late, i started it when i was 22yrs. The thing is i always belived in marriege and i never wanted to have an affair so i waited so long but unfortunatly failed due to t... (558 words)

My boyfriend and my best friend (girl) will be at the same campus while I'm at a different one. I feel left out...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - This is kind of a weird situation and I'd like some feedback. Ok, I have an amazing boyfriend and we have a great relationship. My best friend (female) hangs out with my boyfriend and I a lot, we're basically her two closest friends. I enjoy the company of both of them and we ... (254 words)

I've been propositioned by much younger woman. I'm worried I might not come up to expectations. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm nearly 60 years of age and I've been seriously propositioned by a woman of 23. I'm not sure what she sees in me, as I'm no oil painting but she is fantastic looking. I feel honoured, BUT - I'm worried I might not come up to expectations. Any advice or suggestions?... (57 words)

Can a girl subconsciencly want to get pregnant to trap a boyfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, My friend recently had a baby with her boyfriend. Shes 19 and so is he. At the time she concieved she had gone through a surgery for weight loss. She didnt take birthcontrol because she was told that being over weight there was less chance to get pregnant.I'm guessing ... (89 words)

Why can I never orgasm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 188 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. He's the first person I've slept with, so the experience is still kinda new to me. I enjoy having sex with him and he's very sweet and loving the whole time and really tries to please me. I do feel physical pleasure, but ... (108 words)

Is this a phantom pregnancy or am I really pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been trying for a baby with my partner of two years I have took 4 home pregnancy test they all say that I am not pregnant but I still have symptoms like sore nipples, stomach ache, feeling sickwhen I eat or after eating, going off my favorite foods, and constipation what ... (66 words)

He wants me to sell my jewellery to pay for HIS debts!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm in real trouble please help me quickly, I'm married to a nervous guy who spends money around and at the end of the month he wants me to pay the rent; I'm not working so he wants me to sell my jewellery to pay his debts which he took from the bank before our marriage and he ... (73 words)

Would you stay in a relationship for convenience?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts, I would like your opinion on this question please. Would you stay in a relationship for convenience? My asshole of a husband has been committing adultery for the last 3 years and constantly lies to me, I don't know why because I always catch him out. I would love ... (190 words)

We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have lived together for 3 years and have a 16 month old baby together. We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't. He has 3 other children all in their twenties now. What would happen if he died, would I be ... (109 words)

I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax, she always say "I don't know if I'm done or not" That makes me crazy. What is this and what can I do to make her feel that sweet thing?... (46 words)

How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How do I know when people hate or dislike me? Do I look at their reactions, gestures, or body movements? I can't tell? help please!... (25 words)

Is it possible for him to change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and for the past 2 things were very rocky. He was never physically abusive but he was verbally. He would belittle me in any way possible and it was as if he never saw anything wrong with the way he was acting. Well about 6 ... (280 words)

There's this girl I like but I said something awful that I bet hurt her feelings, what should I do to get her to think of me as a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 10-12 - There's this girl I like but I said something awful that I bet hurt her feelings, what should I do to get her to think of me as a friend?... (30 words)

He can't bring himself to BE himself when I'm around. So I'm not sure if he likes me or if this is his personal way of shunning my existence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok so I think I'm a little confused here. Now normally I can read into it if a guy likes me or not, but in this case I need some advice/opinions to help me out. I'll get everybody up to date on the current situation: I've known this guy for quite some time, we see each other ... (327 words)

Just before he's ready to "cum" he pulls out and finishes up himself. Why???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a mans word on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have sex about 5 times a week and great sex, but just before he's ready to "cum" pardon the language, he pulls out and finishes up himself. We talked about this, I thought it was maybe he ... (134 words)

Why does my husband not fancy me any more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I try to satisfy my husband... I'm constantly asking him what he fantasises about and if there is anything I can do sexually that would turn him on more than anything... his answer is always nothing... I don't have any fantasies... yea right!!! So as for all the porn I kept ... (313 words)

Could he be a player?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I met this guy online... not on a dating site but on nexopia. He's cute, sweet, and funny (not to mention he has an AMAZING body). He makes me feel great about myself for the first time in a while. I was snooping his page looking at his friends list and stuff, and found out... (80 words)

Since my sister found out she has to testify in court a lot of weird things have been happening.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - About three months ago my sister and her friend Amanda were in a car accident. My sister was driving and they were hit head on by a drunk driver. They were both wearing their seatbelts but the car had flipped and Amanda was killed. When they did the investigation to find out ... (327 words)

Help! My best friend and I like the same girl...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My best friend and I like the same girl! I need your help please! I can't tell if she likes me or not. She seems to. My best friend has been trying to go out with her for three months now and from what I can gather, he isn't getting very far. When I see her on weekends, she ... (240 words)

I can't let my feelings go for my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

6 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I recently got back together with one of my friends that I really like and I told myself I wasn't going to screw it up with her this time but as I waited in the counselors office to my school (waiting to ask about class change) my ex, who I still kinda like, and she still hasnt ... (135 words)

He planned to cheat and got caught (that is my fear). He can't believe it is such a big deal to me, but I'm embarrassed, shocked and hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, my boyfriend is from a very different culture to me. He hid the fact he had a girlfriend when we met, I left when I found out. He broke up with her and said he will try to avoid her, he doesn't, she was even at his place once when I went there unannounced. He invited me ... (548 words)

How do we bring the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend of over a year just recently told me that he doesn't feel anything when we kiss anymore. However, he doesn't want to break up with me. We're best friends, I'm crazy about him, and we love each other deeply. Neither of us can see ourselves with anybody else. This is ... (125 words)

My relationship isn't making me happy anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

6 September 2007 (F)

- Dear Cupid: I am not happy. My relationship of 3 and 1/2 year is not making me happy, but I don't know if it me or him; or is it a stage that couples go through or are we just simply not meant to be. We are currently in a long distance relationship, and I feel like I've done ... (273 words)

I don't get aroused. Any ideas about what might be going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

6 September 2007 (?) age 18-21 - This is a bit embarrassing... but I don't know why this happens. Okay I've been with my boyfriend for a year, this is my first boyfriend. I used to get so turned on even when he just kissed me, there was a lot of lubrication and all. Now, it's so hard for me to get turned on, I ... (263 words)

But what does strawberry flavored lubricant mean?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend and I have trouble having sex. He can't fit inside me. Some of my friends tell me to use lubricant. At the drugstore, I saw a whole bunch of kinds. I bought a strawberry flavored one because it smells goo. But what does strawberry flavored lubricant mean?... (49 words)

Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk her. He says he doesn't have ... (132 words)

I think my husband has become infatuated with his mom's carehome nurse!

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 15 years. We've had ups and downs for the past four years during which we both struggled caring for his very sick parents. Now his mom is dying. Also just before he turned fifty I noticed a change (last year), he wasn't as complimentive ... (127 words)

I love her soo much, she's funny, gorgeous, intelligent, and soo much more and don't want to lose her but really need to figure our problems out because I don't know how much more I can take.

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6 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - I have been with my girlfriend for 14 months. I love her soo much but it seems that as soon as things get really good she finds a reason to get confused about me. Last Friday she phoned me in the morning and woke me up which is fine. She wanted to go out for the day and that's ... (326 words)

My ex says he loves me but he's looking for no strings sex on the interweb?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My ex and I had been living together for over a year when we broke up in July. He had been acting distant and cold for a while, and I could not bear it anymore so I pretty much had to get him to tell me what he was feeling. He said he was confused, he wasn't sure about ... (415 words)

It is now week 3 and he has yet again began ignoring me and I really do not understand why or what his reasons are...

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi can anybody help? my ex and I broke up just over 2 weeks ago, I love him very much and am hurting greatly, all my attempts at making contact were ignored - the first week after we parted and I knew I had to let go, we began chatting online last week and also exchanging a ... (188 words)

Can a guy and a girl be platonic "friends" and nothing more?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I need opinions here! Do you think it is possible for a guy and a girl to just be friends or is there always/almost always romantic feelings at some time for the other person?... (35 words)

Why do some men show extra affection to their girlfriend in front of other women?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Why do some men show extra affection to their girlfriend in front of other women? This happens to me sometimes in public places, like the grocery store. It is like these men are showing off. As if I am going to be jealous, or impressed. I could care less! I am happily ... (65 words)

I don't know if he's cheating on me, he says he loves me... what do you think?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, I have been with my partner a year and half. We use to get on really well till October last year his dad went down ill and everything changed between us, we never have sex, he is always strange with me. Then his mum and dad died this year and he took it all out on me. ... (107 words)

It's like pulling teeth just to get my boyfriend to put his arm around me. What is going on?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I am a year older than him, but we are both teenagers, and are seniors in high school. The first year of our relationship was wonderful, and then, for some reason, after we hit our one-year-anniversary, things have begun ... (198 words)

Where can I find a Counselor?

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6 September 2007 (F)

- Okay I have come to realise that I have some SERIOUS emotional issues and I think I need counseling. Actually I know I do, I won't lie... I'm borderline crazy. Well I definitely have a lot of emotional and psychological problems anyway. I definitely need to see a counselor or ... (175 words)

Because I would have ovulated and even if I am not pregnant is it safe to carry on having unprotected sex?

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok well a long story short I came off the pill [that I was on for about 2 years] to start using comdoms with my boyfriend [who I've been with for over 2 years]. But the problem is we keep having unprotected sex because we are still in the habit of having sex whenever we feel ... (344 words)

My boyfriend's mother hates me!

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6 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my actual name but by his last ex, ... (165 words)