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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

 

Are we compatible?

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21 September 2007 (F age - He was born May 4th 1961. I was born on April 30th 1959. Could we be together?... (18 words

Is it that guys want to be treated badly and unappreciative of the women nowadays? Am I mistaken in something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - How to approah any relationship with people (males in this case) not whole hearthedtly?dear cupid here is my prolme. I'm 24,look pretty attractive, I work/ed on myself a lot, spiritually, intellectualy and physicaly. I'm introvert but mostly I'm communicative and open minded. ... (192 words

Is there a chance he will come back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is there a chance he will come back? We were together for five months. For me it was love at first sight and in the beginning he seemed really excited too. Before me, he was in a seven-year relationship, long-distance for the last two, and they were engaged. She cheated on h... (643 words

He's already come out and practically said "I love you" to me and it's only been a week.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - He's already come out and practically said "I love you" to me and it's only been a week. We've only been on one date and talked between classes a couple times. I'm a little freaked out by the whole situation, but it's rare that anyone takes notice of me. I'm so confused. Help ... (54 words

She's left me, and I'm not sure I believe her reasons why.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - She's left me, and I'm not sure I believe her reasons why. She told me it's because she was going away to study and didn't want to "drag out something she didn't think would work". We were together for a year, she was my first love, and it feels like she's turned her back on ... (81 words

I need some advice on getting over a relationship after my partner ended it suddenly by text.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age - I need some advice on getting over a relationship after my partner ended it suddenly by text. We went away for a few days over August Bank holiday and all seemed great. Her teenage kids from her defunct marriage got on with me as well. The first day I was back at work I got ... (160 words

Helppp!!! How can I control my jealousy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am going out with a boy I have been chasing up for a year now and finally he says he loves me a lot and I really do believe him as we wouldn't be together otherwise as he has never had a girlfriend before and he used to blow girls off a lot, which is why it took me a year to ... (223 words

I want to apologize but I feel like he owes me one as well...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - i accidently insulted the guy i'm crushing on about his looks. i was only joking around and i didnt think it was really hurtful. but apparently he did. he now acts coldly toward me and even told a friend of mine that i joke around a lot but sometimes i'm a real bitch. whic... (175 words

I'm interested in a man unsure about the age difference between us. He's nearly 21 and I'm 17.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I have been interested with this 20 yr old guy for a while, and when we were talking the other day he said he liked me but he was unsure about the age difference. hes turning 21 3 months before i turn 18 and he thinks its weird. i told him i have no problem with it, but he is ... (81 words

My wife became depressed after having our first child. She has now met new male friends over the internet. Is there a cause for concern here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - My wife and I have been married three years and we've had a great relationship. She was recently depressed after having our first child and turned to the internet to find happiness. She has new male friends, should I be concerned? She told me she would stop talking to them to ... (91 words

What are the first steps to an abortion, once you discover pregnancy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was just wondering if anyone could help me, once you find out you are pregnant, what are the first steps to getting an abortion? Do you HAVE to go via a GP in the UK? Also, do you have to persuade the doctor to let you have the termination or do they have to refer you if you ... (68 words

So hurt after our break up, but we both want to try again! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hi Everyone. I need help sorting my head out. My partner and I split up in February after just over 4 years together. After quite a few conversations in between then and now, we decided to try and make it work again. He was the one though that texted me quite a few times ... (220 words

Sooo many problems that I need to sort out. I feel like a nobody. Please, please help me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

21 September 2007 (? age 30-35 - can anybody help a looser?? i feel like a complete nobody at the minute. i am so depressed and yes i know its my fault but i dont know what to do about it. i am a 15, female and live in the uk. have a mum, no dad, no grandparents and no other family. im an only child and me a... (276 words

We want Sex, but can't have it because the kids are around! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Ok hi, me and my wife need some advice on how to stop wantign sex when we can't have it such as when we are out or in the day when the kids are in, ones 17 and the others only a baby. We both work during the hours that our youngest is at playgroup/nursery and the eldest is at ... (97 words

My online interest... seems to be losing interest! Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - i am so confused, i met a guy on a bbw internet dating site a few months ago. we have spoken threw the site and msn for a month or so now.we have exchanged phoned numbers and he has called me and now wishes us to meet, however....he doesnt seem to be giving me much attention at ... (258 words

My bf has had a vasectomy and I want a baby, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend has had a vasectomy and i want a baby we've been together 3 years and have talked about marriage, etc, what should i do? he is 41 i am 31... (32 words

Do you wait until the person is completely over her ex or help her find a new meaning of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - I want to see what everyone thinks about [me] getting involved with someone who is making an attempt to get over their ex and trying to move on with their life. Do you wait till she has completely recovered? Or do you date to help them find a new meaning of love? (Assum... (91 words

More information about bj.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5943 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - How do you give a blowjob? People say "suck me off" but then it's called a "blow job". What excatly do you do!? Suck or blow? And do most people use a condom when giving one? Does this turn a guy off? Does it taste bad doing it without a condom, or is it not a big deal?... (126 words

I fancy a guy, but I think he hates my guts. Any advice how I can approach him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ugg... Dude, I hate love. Ok, well, there's this boy in school. I'm 14 and he's 16. Well I was friends with one of his close friends, who is also 16. When I was hanging round with him, I used to p off this other boy becasue I just did'nt like him. He was annoying and sa... (716 words

It's been two years now... But I still like him!! How do I forget him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi, I've liked this guy for so many years now its 6years and were both 13 very soon going to be 14, well he use to be in my class but 2 years ago we left school and went our own seperate ways. am finding it hard to stop liking him and all i want to do is get with him or atleast ... (270 words

Is it normal to have feelings for a one night stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5819 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - Alright so I'm just wondering if it is normal to have feelings for a one night stand? I know it defeats the purpose of it being a one night thing, but whenever I go with a girl for a night I end up wanting more than just a quick fling. Does this hapen to a lot of guys o... (71 words

Is he in it for sex, as his words when he was drunk made me believe/doubt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and the guy I started seeing is 24. We come from completely different sides of the 'spectrum', so to speak. He is the sweetest most beautiful person I've met, inside and out. We connected like puzzle pieces and have the same standpoints on a lot of issues. ... (146 words

In a gay relationship with a girl and attracted to her roommate. I don't know who to choose.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Attracted to two people???? Where do I start? First of all, I'm bisexual and right now I am in a relationship with a female. I think she is a great girl and we have a lot in common. We both have admitted to one another that we're very compatible. BUT I have a problem...I am ... (144 words

He told me that although he loves me, he doesn't know if he wants a future with me or if he would be happier in his own solitary world; he's a widower. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age - I have been having a long distance relationship with a widower for 4 years. we see each other on average around 10 days a month and for the occational holiday. however we do chat everyday on the phone. we do have different outlooks and interests, but we do get along very w... (245 words

My brother had an operation that left him disfigured. What can I do/say to help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - My brother had an operation on his nose to remove a small tumour from one side. It has left him disfigured. In order to patch up the hole the Surgeon not only took a bit of skin from his ear, but stretched the skin over from the other side of the nose. He talks about not even ... (131 words

I'm lucky to get sex once a month and even then the deal she makes of it makes me feel dirty, and as a whole I get the impression she appreciates nothing I do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - I'll give a basic outline of how i feel the relationship is going at the moment and then ask the opinion about it: I always put myself out to make sure she is happy, i go round to her place (we live seperately) pretty much all the time, whereas she only stays at mine if its c... (250 words

I worry that I never give myself completely in a relationship, after disappointments in the past. Has anyone else experienced this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I worry that I never give myself completely in a relationship. Ever since I was a young woman, and got my heart dashed by my first love, I have never allowed myself to be so in love with anyone else. I always keep back some reserves, some distance, some part of me that... (273 words

I keep wondering if his ex is trying to ruin our relation or he really has been cheating, as she claims?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I had written a post a few weeks ago about my boyfriends ex.. which was.. She emailed me and told me my boyfriend and her had been talking and that they were sleeping together.. I was furious.. Now I didnt believe her because shes been trying everything she can to get... (767 words

How does dressing reflect (homo)sexuality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age - my 17 year old son wears his jean really low down with his boxers showing and a short t shirt. Does this mean he is gay or has problems with his sexuality?... (33 words

I just have something to say to my fellow agony aunts!...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - this is not a question as such. i would just like to say that i don't understand why people seek advice and then become completely arrogant when you say something they dislike. in their head they have the answer they want and therefore ask a question looking to get the same ... (133 words

He is never very affectionate.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I know my bf loves me alot but he doesnt seem to want to be affectionate towards me... for eg, he doesnt want to stroke me to slp (if I asked him to... esp since I dont sleep easily) or a massage if my body's aching. He's ever ready to make out with me though and he does sweet ... (132 words

Should I confront her about the secret texts and emails?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years. When she came to live with me she had just left her ex (we knew each other prior to our getting together). She is the type of person who keeps lots of friends, and thinks nothing of the fact that I still contact my ex due to ... (446 words

Do I follow my head or my heart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Hi Do I follow my head or my heart? I am with a girl, and do like her, things have been slow since weve been away from uni for the summer hols. I think we get on ok and will have some good times to come, but I don't see if going too far to be honest. But there is also ... (187 words

Do all guys go through stages like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I went away on holiday for 11 days, and though we spoke to each other on MSN, he felt distant. He says he still loves me and we're still good together, he's just not interested in sex anymore/at the moment. Is there something wrong with me? Someone else that he might like?... (73 words

We're not married but have been together for 20 years. How do I tell him I don't want to spend the rest of my life with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my partner for 20 years, we are not married but have two lovely teenage daughters. How do I tell him I no longer love him enough to want to spend the rest of my life with him?... (41 words

Why don't I seem to truly like myself, although am aware of my qualities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F - Everything about me seems to link to a high level of insecurities and a low level of self esteem. I am unassertive, try overly hard to please others, constantly look for reassurance from males, and i let people walk all over me. However despite having all these 'sympto... (266 words

He's agressive after I cheated, so I don't want to reconciliate. Do I deserve what is happening, and how do I stop this tension?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am writing cos about 1 month ago I split up with my bf of 18 months because he attacked me. But I am finding it very hard getting on with my life. Thing is I can't get past it because I know its all my fault. See after I had been with him for 8 months I cheated on him ... (605 words

What do people think about dogging?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - ok how does people think about dogging my husband of 20 yrs wants us to go he thinks it might spice up our sex life his fantasy is to see me with other men. sound weird my fantasy is to see him with another women. trouble is he has recently been caught going to prositutes now ... (119 words

I like my teacher and a class mate. I'm confused. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Hi cupid...my problem is that I'm in love with my CL teacher. Ever since he started to comment me and my prayer I felt like I had a crush on him. I really want him but he has a wife.I want to let go of him but I can't since I see him almost everyday. When he looks at me it's ... (94 words

Can anyone give me some advice as to how to boost my confidence to ask a girl out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (M - I'm at university and like most people I'm interested in dating/having a relationship. The problem I have is that I always talk myself out of it by making some excuse (I'll wait until Uni, After freshers week, i'll start dating once i've organised where i'm staying in my secon... (144 words

He suffers from prem ej and has now joined a site looking for sex. He doesn't know I know. Should I confront him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am married for 14 years to a man 16 years my senior. We have got into a vicious circle, where he comes too quick if we haven't had sex for a while which puts me off having sex with him for a while. When I want to have sex with him again he comes too quick again, do you know ... (158 words

I like to cross dress. How do I find people into the same thing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5935 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age - I like to wear bra,sari,blouse,pettycoat,panty,bindi,etc. and like to become a complete woman. Similarly, i like to make deep frienship with those males who likes to be dressed as female in sari,bra,blouse et. But i get assamed to do so in my house. how can i get friend a... (53 words

Am I straight or a lesbian? I'm confused. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi, i recently lost my viginity to a male, but i didn't enjoy it at all. i have always thought i was a lesbian but people told me i just needed a decent bloke. i've snogged girls before and i enjoy it more than snogging men. when i was younger thinking about having sex with a ... (87 words

She dumped me out of the blue and now refuses to give my stuff back. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - me and my girlfriend were very very close.on a sunday she told me i was the best,made love and she didn't want me to leave.on the monday i was dumped.that hurt was incredible.she has 2 remaining articles of mine.cassettes.only sentimental value to me.i want them back.we've been ... (120 words

My boyfriend always wakes me up when he is horny. Is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - my bf always wakes me up when he is horny is this normal ?? ... (14 words

I don't know if I should be with him. How do I figure out what I'm really feeling?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I don't know if I'm finding reasons to not like this guy because I'm afraid or because we shouldn't be together. I'm not the most experienced when it comes to dating and the relationships that I've been in have been hurtful. What should I do to figure out what I'm really ... (52 words

My hubby has a low sperm count, I cheated and got pregnant! Do I tell him the truth?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4798 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - hi, me and my husband are married for 3.5 years we have been trying for a baby and we found out he has a low sperm count, the doctors say there is always that maricle baby 1% percent chance of having a baby, both me and him really want a baby, we have gone through a bad patch ... (177 words

Should I end this or try and make it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - my g/f of 5 years and i have had a rough relationship, but we both still love each other dearly. its hard to explain. We have both done so much for one another and always been there for one another. My question is should i dump her because when we were on a break she hoooked up ... (124 words

Things have gone to hell, sex-wise... she says oral sex "tickles" now!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - We have been together for 8 yrs I am 36 she is 30. I met her in her adolescence, she was inexperienced sexually and willing to try anything with me. We loved each other very much. We partied constantly enjoying each other socially and off the chart sexually. At around year ... (153 words

I'm falling out of love with him. How do I recover my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - We are already one year in me and my boyfriend, but i'm fallen out of love to him....what should i do to recover my feelings? coz i'm afraid also to loss him..... (32 words

IF you keep on dreaming about a guy does that mean that your still into him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm very confused =( I dont know what feelings I have towards this person...See I haven't talked to this guy for over a month and I dont think about him that much even though I was really into him...but lately...Everywhere I go I hear his name...ITs like everything reminds me ... (163 words

How can I make sex better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - i lost my virginity and im happy with it but im kinda sad that now since i lost it i dont have the chance to live my first time again but actually i want to have more sex because it made me feel so happy with my boyfriend and we both enjoyed it but i wanna ask the real quistion ... (108 words

I'm wondering why men like sex so much more when the woman has stockings and heels on? Opinions please..

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5035 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a question for the guys out there. Ladies feel free to give your input too. I am just wondering why my husband like sex so much more when I am wearing stockings and heels during sex? Sometimes I feel like a whore because of wearing them during intercourse.... (53 words

What are the signs they like you and how would you ask them out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - what is the best way to ask a friend out? And what are the signs they like you. We're both 17.... (21 words

Would girls go out with someone thats ugly but has a good personality?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - would girls go out with someone who is ugly but has a good personality? I'm bein honest here, i'm not very good lookin (and i'm not sayin it so people feel sorry and say i'm negative, its the truth) but i have a good personality. So would popular girls go out with someone who... (68 words

I like this girl but I made the mistake of sleeping with the village bike! Now the girl I like hates me! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - there's this girl that i have liked for a while lets call her "jane smith",a little while ago i tried to ask her out but it didn't turn out so well... anyways a couple of months went by and since i was sure i had no chance i started looking at other options, then one night i ... (118 words

My fiance recently lost his grandmother and since then hes shut me out. How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - hi everyone i really need your help on a very sensitive problem im facing.my fiance recently lost his grandmother they were really close,she was his world and visa versa,the days leading up to her death were quite traumatic for everyone but i felt then he was starting to ... (153 words

I love my boyfriend but I don't feel he loves me as much back. Does anyone else have this problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am in love with my boyfriend, but sometimes I feel he doesn't love me as much as I love him. Does anyone else have this problem, or am I just overreacting?... (33 words

He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?... (31 words

Should I have given my ex another chance? I'm wondering now!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F - Hi all, I'd like 2 take ur opinions pls...am 23, 2 years ago I had a bf 4 about a year then we broke up cos he wasnt ready 2 move 2 the next level, as he says he's phobic to commitment, it's been a year since we broke up, then we started talkin again online, until a week ago... (545 words

Do I tell my mum I am back with the guy that dumped me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - PLease help people!! Okay here's the deal. My boyfriend I had for 7 mounths broke up with me and I was all sad and crying ect. I told my mom what happened and she told me to NEVER get back with him. (She's demanding) The next day we got back together becasue he relized that wha... (260 words

Is my boyfriend questioning his sexuality or is he just insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is my boyfriend questioning his sexuality or is he just insecure? I have been dating this man for 2 years. We moved in together after a year of distance dating (about 2 1/2 hours apart). After 4 or 5 months of living together I started noticing signs that made me question ... (489 words

Why do we let some get closer to us then others, even if they all seem to behave and have same qualities?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age - Im looking for opinions, on finding urself attracted to someone,but you dont know what it is. That makes you attracted to that person. Im fairly older so been around,been in several relationships through the years,been married for 18 years,divorced,dated since then. I... (426 words

How do I ask the friend out I have known for 3 months?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - I have a friend that i've known for about 3 months now and i really like her and want to ask her out. my problem is that i can't seem to get any alone time with her because our entire family met in greece so whenever we do see each other were never alone. i also don't want to ... (85 words

What does it mean when a guy blow into a girls ear?

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21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - what does it mean when a guy blow into a girls ear... (12 words

Has anyone ever got back with an ex they fell out of love with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Has anyone gotten back together with a partner when they fell out of love? Also has anyone fallen back their sexual attraction to their partner ?... (26 words

I don't feel the same love for my wife that I once did and I feel like I want to have sex with more women. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - I've been with my wife for nearly 3 years now. We have a 9 month old baby girl who i love to pieces. However i'm just not happy with my life. I don't find my wife attractive, we get on ok but i don't feel the same love for her that i once did. She is pushing me hard to have ... (220 words

I'm 16 and I haven't gone through puberty yet. Could anyone advise me please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

21 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and i still aint started puberty my voice isnt broken i aint grew or anything why is that and will i eventually go through puberty? could u please get back asap ... (36 words

Is it normal for husbands and wives to spend a night apart?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - My fiancee and I recently did our first pre-marriage counselling session. As a part of it, we did a test, in seperate rooms, that is sent off and then sent back and we see what our areas of strength are and what areas we can work on. One of the questions really made me t... (320 words

Do I give my boyfriend up for the guy I lost my virginity to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im confused!! I have a boyfriend and STILL In love with thee guyy I lost it to! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was perfect THen I saw him[[myy loveer not my boyfriend]] I mean we are in the same click and stuff so we DO see eacho... (267 words

I know my childs father is cheating on me and treats me bad. Should I play him at his own game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

21 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - hi,im so upset,angry an miserable how my life is,mainly due to my b/f,and how he thinks he can treat me like he has done to past x`s.we only ever have sex when he feels like it and im forced to give him head yet he rarely goes down on me,i also know he`s cheating on me as his ... (143 words

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