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He never wants to socialise anymore and I don't want to lose a close friend!!

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Question - (7 September 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age , anonymous writes:

I have a male friend who I consider to be a close friend. He is is also a family friend. We get on very well and have known each other for a long time. We both care about each others personal lives and try to help each other when we can. To me he is a friend in the same way my female friends are. I am closer to him and know I can trust his opinion, but recently there seems to be different reactions from him to certain situations, that had not been there before, an example would be “I am not really up to socialising, you should do this with your female friends more I just want to listen to my music alone and have some beers”.

This might not seem a strange thing for a male to do. We used to socialise on a regular basis and we meet nearly every day or every other day so I know he is not avoiding me or has fallen out with me, maybe I just don’t understand male behaviour. I would add, I am in a long term relationship and have always been throughout our friendship. I really don’t want to lose a friend just because I am misinterpreting his behaviour, and to be honest feel confused.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007):

maybe hey likes u more than a friend maybe he might be sad or mad at u for something like went out with some guy or talked to him about a guy u like i had that with a friend whos a gurl for like 2 years and a half and we finally got together and yeah

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