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writes:I dont know what to do. My marriage was on the rocks for about 5 years, well since the beginning. I was always faithful and stuck through all the drama, but these last 2 months I contacted my ex. Now I really want to see him. He just divorced about 1 year ago too. What do I do? I dont think I will be satisfied unless I go visit him! He lives in another state far away. I just have to know. I have two kids. Please help!
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reader, rcn +, writes (8 September 2007):
 Who are you not being fair to. Your ex, your kids, you husband, yourself???? When you chose to have children, you take yourself out of the picture. It now becomes in the best interest of your children.It sounds as if you don't really love your husband. Tell him so. Don't be a wimp and do things around his back. He's not the only one being affected by your decisions. And your actions teach your children what's right and what's wrong. If you teach them that marriage doesn't have a meaning. Their going to treat it as a joke too. What do you want for them.And if you won't feel satisfied until you see him. I urge you to tell your husband first. Do what's right. End the relationship, before fooling around with another. I'll tell ya, aside from your story, its no wonder why I have chosen to raise my kids and live my life single. It's not that I am ugly, or haven't received offers. It's a choice and knowing about the large number of people who live immorally.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (8 September 2007):
 Hi
This is so sad. You have 2 kids and are willing to screw them up for your ex. Grrrrrrr exes drive me insane! People always go backwards, why dont they ever go forwards!?
You know its a bad idea but you will do it anyway. Posting on a web site isnt going to make it ok.
Stop sticking with him through the drama and make the break. If you cant make each other happy, why hurt each other???
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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