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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I have pointy nipples and a hairy bottom, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - When i was little, i was pudgy, but now i havve lost the weight and worked on my body. I am skinny now. I am about six feet tall and weigh only 135 lbs. But i have pointy nipples, which are kind of embarrassing. Is this unattrative? How can i get them to be less pointy? ... (85 words)

I showed her how to do the problem, but I didn't flirt with her or make any jokes. Now she seems very angry...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - She rejected me about 1 week ago. She is my friend and I made sure that she only wanted to be friends, she said yes. I really liked her for several years (just about how long our friendship has been). Anyway, today a different girl asked me for help in Physics class, so I hel... (149 words)

I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Last Friday I had sex, but the condom broke and he came ouside me and onto my stomach, should I be worried? I'm not experienced with sex and I didn't think anything of it until my boyfriend said he was kind of freaked out. I was at my most fertile that day. help!!... (53 words)

I am beginning to wonder if he sees me as a booty call but that could be my lack of self-esteem.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. I really feel like I am falling in love with him. He is physically very affectionate which I love; always holding my hand, hugging me, etc. He is laid-back, very gentle and yet very passionate and giving during love-making. ... (464 words)

Should I give him a few more days, or move on with my life. How long should I give him to sort things through?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a great guy on the internet. We talked for about 6 weeks. We ended up sleeping together. He gave me a kiss and told me to call him. I did but he didn't answer, then he called me the next day and I didn't answer. We played phone tag a couple more times then I e-mailed ... (197 words)

I am a heterosexual male who cross-dresses. Are there any ladies out there who find a man in a skirt sexy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age - I am a heterosexual male who cross-dresses. Not to pass, just puts on a skirt usually with pantyhose (many pairs for the smooth look), occasionally with a blouse. Are there any ladies out there who find a man in a skirt sexy, provided his legs are fully covered in Panty... (87 words)

Should I take advantage of my youth, taking the advice of my friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Today I spoke to my friends about my break-up with my girlfriend earlier this summer. I hadn't seen a lot of them since it happened back in June. I was with her for 2 years, and she broke things off with me. Summer has been very hard to bear without her company. I told ... (256 words)

Do you think we could get back together and have a future? I just want it to be how it was before.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The problem is, me and my boyfriend haven't been getting on well lately. It's because he meets me at the weekends when he's in a bad mood or else he doesn't bother meeting me at all. He always prefers his friend's company to mine unless he decides that we're going to a club or ... (200 words)

Our financial situation is getting in the way big time!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my boyfriend sooo much and he loves me a lot we have been together for 7 years and we just click so well but I sometimes think that we need to go our seperate ways. Our financial situation is getting in the way big time!!! please give me some kinda of advise!!!! ... (56 words)

I'm new to sex and having trouble with premature ejaculation. Any advice??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm a 19 yr old male and I have just recently began my sex life. My problem is, sex is very short. I believe this is because foreplay lasts too long. By the time we get around to sex, I'm not as hard as I could be, and I ejaculate really early, within a minute or so of ... (85 words)

I am feeling jealous because my recovering alcoholic husband has a female friend with the same problem.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is a recovering alcoholic. During the summer he went into hospital to help this problem when he met an inpatient (female) and got along really well with her. There relationship was making me feel uncomfortable towards the end of his stay and I couldn't wait to get ... (187 words)

I'm missing him sooo much, so much so that when me and my partner do the deed it's as if I'm cheating on this other guy and I cry afterwards!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi 4 years ago my partner and I met another couple (I was 18 and my partner 24) and the other couple (male 37 and female 28). At first I did not have feelings for the male of the couple but he soon started to make it clear that he had feelings for me, and I reciproca... (369 words)

I'm a complete wreck here and don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6047 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Hello again Dear Cupid and all of the Agony Aunts (and uncles I guess) =D I'm sure that the last relationship problem I had was the last time I was on here. We broke up because I walked in on my own home and found her in bed with another 1 year ago. That's old news and I t... (899 words)

My boyfriend's breath stinks and it's really putting me off him. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Sorry for writing in again, I have a problem with my boyfriend again! Every time I see him he tries to kiss me but his breath really stinks (bad words) I try and brush him off but sometimes I can't no matter how much gum I give him the smell's always there. I thought it was ... (93 words)

How can I tell him that I think it is not wrong but risky for me to go to his house without hurting his feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I enjoy going over to my boyfriend's house to watch movies together. We have even had sex, but not intercourse. However, every time we get together we have almost had intercourse at the last minute. I don't want intercourse because I don't want pregnancy and because I don't ... (86 words)

It got worse after a while and he started cutting me and raping me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6066 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. At first he was really nice and treated me really well. A few weeks into our relationship he started asking me if I wanted to have sex with him, I wasn't ready at the time he asked me so I said ... (336 words)

I think my boyfriend 7inch penis is hurting me. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - he hurts me when we have sex. my bf has a 7inch penis, but every time we have sex he hurts me. is it because of the size?... (30 words)

My boyfriend is demanding about sex and caused me serious pain last time. I love him, but I don't know what to do.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have this problem, my bf treats me like a sex toy, every time we see each other he demands a god 3 hour sex sesson. though i allow him to have sex with me, i feel that it is just to satisfy him and not for our relationship. we have been together for 3 years now and i love ... (120 words)

Having a torrid affair with a woman who has a bf! And.I am jealous of her bf!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi all. Advice needed. In love /lust with a woman who has a boyfriend. Yes it has turned into a torrid affair. Thing is we became close and realized how similar we are. But with her cheating, me being single she gets incredibly jealous but still wants to bed me??? I get jealous ... (335 words)

How can I overcome this and know that there's nothing going on behind my back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I have been dating my new girlfried for about a week or so now, things are going great but I feel a bit tense and worried. Heres why! There's this other lad who kinda likes her but knows we're a item, he said to her when I was not there that he would love to kiss her... (140 words)

Most of my hubby's friends have stopped talking to him, I think it's because of his need to correct people all the time, which is now very frequent and upsetting.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

- I'm having a problem with my husband. He always feels the need to correct EVERYONE about almost EVERYTHING they say. For example, I'll say that the sky is blue and he'll "correct" me by saying that it's cyan. Or if a friend says that they're cold, he'll say that no, it's co... (261 words)

My mum's doctor started groping her and pulling her upstairs!!! She won't let me report him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - A while ago I asked for advice about my mum's encounter with her randy, over familiar stand in toy boy doctor, who wanted to give my mother of 59 and suffering from depression, more than just a pill to take before bedtime, the sex beast doc, was only too quick to wrap his arms ... (227 words)

I'm turned off from my boryfriend because of his porn habits. How can I get it out of our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend keeps downloading the filthiest porn behind my back and it makes me so sick I donn't even want him to touch me. I've just found one were a woman is practically being abused by 3 men. He says he's not into anal sex but it's in all of his little disgusting little ... (90 words)

When my period did came I noticed a very peculiar piece of skin, I'm very confused.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well I was 2 weeks late [well if it was 34 day cycle like my last period] but I had brown spotting yesterday and this morning so I put a pad on to see if my period came. I'm 17 and I thought I might of been pregnant because of my missed period but I wanted to wait another ... (244 words)

I'm un-circumcised and need some advice about how this can effect having sex and spreading STD's.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Recently i have gotten a girlfriend and im 16 my foreskin is tight and i could never expose the penis head myself but after my girlfriend giving me a blowjob i managed too, i never did cum but im just wondering if i do is she at risk of HIV or AIDS as i heeard u can actually ... (100 words)

How do I change the error of my ways? I desperately need to get good grades as I want to go to uni next year...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) age 36-40 - Hey, I feel really self concious around teachers now, I know it sounds a bit silly but I can't help obsessing how they percieve me, so I try to act all confident and loud.. but maybe a bit too much. My old college were threatening to chuck me out, so I dropped out, and when I ... (376 words)

Am I an idiot for thinking his excuse is plausible? Online dating searches "just for the laugh" ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I desperately need some advice about my husband. We've been married for almost two years. About 18 months ago I found out that he had registered on an internet dating site, understandably I was furious. He had given detailed descriptions of the type of person he was look... (151 words)

Thought I was over her. but I'm not! Any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i thought i was over this girl i was with, but i just looked at her myspace. it said "in a relationship" and it really hurt me, so obviously im not over her. i was with her for 7 months, and split 7 months ago, why is it taking me so long to get over her???... (56 words)

Should my bf be able to set the rules for my 14 year old daughter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a widow, parent of a 14 yr old girl and my boyfriend and i just bought a house together. should he have say so in what my daughter's punishments should be or and should he be able to set rules for her?... (45 words)

My husband got intimate with a large lady who he said was intimidated by...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband was masturbated by a very large lady he felt very intimidated by her and said it was totally against his will but could not tell her to go away. he had had a few pints and was quite drunk he has never done anything like this before he felt terrible and told me ... (67 words)

I have always been a sexual person, but I'm not turned on in this relation, and he has a low sex drive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I know he loves me very much, he tells me all the time how happy he is. How I am his perfect match, and he does treat me the way I deserve to be treated.The problem is, we really have no passion, he has not much of a sex drive. I am not turned on by him, I find it bori... (90 words)

My best friend died, I will do a speech tomorrow at the funeral, please advise me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay this isnt a love problem but the thing is my best friend luke died on the 4th of september and his funeral is tomorrow, ive been asked to do a speech and i need help what do i write about and if there is some poems what people know could you give me them as well please i ... (112 words)

I wonder where I would stand if I hadn't been a year behind my friends. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Perhaps it's wrong to dwell on the past, and something that I cannot change, but something has recently occured to me. 2 years ago, just before I first met my girlfriend face to face after chatting online for about 5 months, I had exams to sit. They didn't work out as I'd ... (257 words)

He says I make a huge deal about me not wanting him to have friends. I say he receives flirtatious texts from "friends."

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age - 15 months ago I found the love of my life in a chatroom...or so I thought...He lives 250 miles away...and he came to see me several times... Everything was perfect....sensitive...caring....talked every morning on the phone and every night...Chatted all day at work...But he ... (170 words)

I'm haunted by visions of my ex sleeping with another man, and wonder if she thinks about me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Here is a revised version of my previous question - http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-over-my-ex-sleeping.html with some background infomation. I was seeing this girl for eleven months and it started off as just sex for us, but then she got attatched. Well ... (157 words)

How do I make him leave me alone, he's very possessive.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I met my bf through being mates with his 1st wife and Ive been with him for 4 years now, and when I met him he had split up with his 2nd wife.That was at xmas time, by the Feb we had decided to go on holiday, we had a great time but when we got back they decided to get back ... (185 words)

My LD friend refuses to introduce me to anybody and says I should either accept this or get out of his life.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid: I have a LD friend with whom I am very close to. We talk every day, and I was due to fly out to see him next month. However, there is one issue that, when I finally brought it up, caused such a rift that I fear the friendship is damaged beyond repair. He refuse... (287 words)

Could that lump be sign of cancer?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi - I was wondering if someone could help me diagnose or even give me some advice on what to do. My girlfriend today broke down in hysterics telling me shes wanted to tell me this for ages but hasn't had the courage and wish he hadn't now. She says she has a lump on one of h... (266 words)

I'm terrified of getting married, having trust issues with men since childhood.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm terrified of getting married in 2 days. I have trust issues with men that stem back to when I was 4 and my dad left me. I then was molested as a young child by 2 relatives. I had a b.f. in high school who I was crazy about and he just disappeared after the school year ... (282 words)

My wife exchanged flirtatious e-mails with an old friend that adored her. Unsure what to do...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife of 10 years recently met an old friend that adored her. My wife and I recently have been having some problems. I was on her computer and found a "Love card". This basically tells you what card you are by your birthdate and tells how the relationship will go. Problem is ... (111 words)

My wife was harassed when out for a drink with friends. She's scared and blaming herself, what to do to reassure her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi this morning my wife seemed abit upset it took her ages to admit what was wrong but she went out with some of her friends for a drink last night and there was this guy trying his best to well i won't say make a pass at her but he kept hinting he wanted something because he ... (425 words)

We kiss sometimes, but it hurts to know I'm just a "friend" now. Should I walk away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf( we are both 17!) of 9 months and I broke up just under 3 months ago. He said he didnt want a relationship anymore( things were gettin too serious) So, obviously broke up with him cause i knew he wasnt happy and we kept on arguing over little things. But it broke my hea... (290 words)

Some tips to help me orgasm from penetratiev sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need tips to help me orgasm from penatrive sex. I have never had an orgasm. My boyfriends penis size is fine, we have plenty of fore play too. I always orgasm during cunnilingus, am I too used to the thrill of oral sex maybe? Can you suggest something maybe I havent... (64 words)

I left my bf of over 7 years after finding out he was member of a sex chat and hsi net profiles were stated single. Overreacting?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6068 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 23. I left my boyfriend of 7 years just 3 weeks ago, because i found out he was looking at porn, was a member of a sex chat site (1 that i know of), and he was chatting to many girls and his profiles were stated SINGLE. I only found out due to following a gut feeling i ha... (98 words)

After the handjob, I went to the toilet and may have come into contact with my vagina. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - On saturday I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he came on my hand. After that, I went to the toilet and may have come into contact with my vagina. Is there any possible way that I could be pregnant? How long does it take for the sperm to die once out of the body? I'm really... (76 words)

My bf is still active on the dating site we met on. How do we talk, what should I not say?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age - I have an online dating question: I have been dating a man now for 6 months that we met on a online dating service. We have got along very well from the very beginning. After two months of dating twice a week and talking on the phone every day and email every day we move... (265 words)

Is it normal not to like sex? It's an invasion of privacy for me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

- Is it normal to not like sex? i mean i know its not normal in that most people DO enjoy sex but is it anything to be worried about that i really dont like it? It feels far too intimate and like it is a complete invasion of my privacy. i'm 22, have had a few sexual part... (126 words)

He doesn't like me back...what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (?) age 26-29 - I really like a boy I recently met, but I don't think he likes me back. I don't really talk to him that much, but I do a bit. I really want him to like me back. He thinks that one of my other friends likes him and he has told loads of people that she likes him. Which is kinda ... (98 words)

He is moving again due to work and I don't know how to tell him how I feel...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - realy need your help it looks like the guy im love with is moving again for work. but this time i wanna tell him how i feel but i dont know how to... please help! im so close to tears even when writing this. he moved back in april but then came back last month cause he di... (756 words)

She says she wants time alone and if we ever get back it wont be for ages. Advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5907 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner and i have split up recently and i dont know how to win her back, in the end our relationship fell apart, felt like we couldn't trust each other even tho there has been no infidelity on either side, i know she cares and so do i, but she says she wants time alon... (123 words)

He always likes me to make the 1st move in intimacy so when I didn't the sex stopped. How can I show he's not playing fair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I need some advice My guy and I have been together a few years,he always likes me to make the 1st move in sex.....Ive had enough of this ,this dawned on me that he liked this just a few months ago when I didnt make the 1st move and sex stopped?Im really fed up with it and wond... (110 words)

She took advantage of my fiance's good nature, and I even told him to watch out for her! Should I be upset w/ him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - There's this girl who I used to be friends with. I stopped talking to her really b/c she started being a big slut, and trying to get with every guy she saw, including her best friend's live in b.f. She's also an alcoholic and pathological liar. She always tried to get what she ... (698 words)

Should I apologize to my on/off again guy for flipping out that he has a girlfriend now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so this is kinda a long story... but i'll try to make it as short as i can... i really need advice... me n this guy have been on again off again for the past year... and it hurts everytime he disappears... n he knows he disappears... well i finally told him off the other ... (261 words)

I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ... (50 words)

How do I get over my ex sleeping with another guy?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know how to get over the fear and pain of your ex-girlfriend having sex with another guy?... (20 words)

My ex said he gets sad and lonely - should I tell him that I still have feelings for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a short relationship last year, around 2 months. He broke up with me after 2 months saying that it was him and not me. I was so confused as when we were together he would tell me that he has never been so happy. After a year i haven't stopped thinking about h... (154 words)

Is this his way of letting me know he wants to leave me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6064 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i had a arguement with my bf at the weekend, well if that is was u can call it. i seem to be quite off with him lately, mainly over textes, just coz i dont see him that much, and this is a new relationship. he saids its coz hes tired and i understand coz he does start work at 6 ... (226 words)

I pulled away b/c I've never snogged anyone before! I was just nervous, but he dumped me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 14 next week and i've had quite a few boyfriends. theres this one boy ive been out with 7 times, the last time we went out he dumped me. I think its because one time when we were camping with a group of friends we were left alone in the tent and we kissed, then he moved in ... (98 words)

My ex wants me back, but now I'm in a relationship! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - wel im 16 and i have a boyfriend been together 4 months but my x boyfriend hu i was wif befor my new boyfriend as been wanting to get back together n my boyfriend hates me talkin to other lads and i love my boyfriend but i also still like my x boyfriend ? what should i do ?... (59 words)

My bf wants to get married, but I'm unsure, since he snogged his bf's gf two years ago and said it was tempting to do more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance snogged his bf's gf over two years ago, at that time i was on antidepressants from having my 3rd ectopic pregnancy. I dont know if i trust him or not, as far as i know it hasnt happened since, but he did admit to me that he was tempted to have sex with her. I would n... (143 words)

I think going on holiday with a load of lads is a single thing to do, should I be worried?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend about 3 years and a half and he now wants to go on holiday with a load of lads from work. i dont feel comfortable with this and have told him so but he keeps saying im controlling him but im not. i'm just paranoid that when he is away and drunk he ... (95 words)

I want an open relationship! Any experienced people, please let me know how you got on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I have been with my guy 4 years I was with my ex 17 years Im now in my 30s with 3 children. My guy always likes the women to instagate sex ,make the first move and dress up stocking etc which I didnt mind at first but I get fed up with the having to do it all all the time... (188 words)

Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - What are peoples reactions to thinking of number one. I have spent my whole life making others happy over myself, being walked all over, let down, used and a human punchbag (verbally) for peoples problems. Does it make me a bad person to do something for myself for once ev... (60 words)

She broke up w/ me, but says she may change her mind! I'm so confused.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello me 24 and my ex 27 broke up with me 1 week and a half ago after almost 3 years together. It all started with her saying shes not in love with me anymore, but she still loves me. She said it was over, but tells me with all of her exes she knew it was over for good but with ... (336 words)

She has trust issues and constantly accuses me of cheating. Someone please help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6069 days ago

13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend that I have know for over twelve years andI have been with her for the past 2 years. she always wants to accuse me of cheating. Her ex Husband cheated on her and she walked in on the two of them well you know. and now she is very insucure and I knew this when we ... (292 words)

Because of my abusive ex, my mum says I'm not allowed to date until I finish uni!

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13 September 2007 (F)

- I need some help!!! There is this guy I have recently met who I really like and he likes me back too! He asked me out on a date for next week and I said yes. However heres my problem...I dont think my mum will be happy. See my last relationship (which was my first) lasted ab... (422 words)

I'd love to get our family back together, but my ex is sending me mixed signals!

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my ex have 2 young boys we were childhood sweathearts now in our 30's. been split for nearlly 2 years. Just recently she's been sugesting things like i cant stop thinking about you and nothing will be like what me and you had, yet when i try to get close to her she put's ... (79 words)

My family doesn't accept the man I love because of his lack of education. What should I do?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so in luv with a guy that i know for over 4 years,he has a good job nd he is perfect,the prob is that he is not as educated as i am,nd because of that my parents are refusing to see nd meet him,they think he has no future at all!What should i do?Help plz... (57 words)

I want us both to give up weed... but he thinks I'm trying to change him!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do? I have been together with my boyfriend for a year and 7 months. We have our ups and downs and he is my first serious boyfriend. He is the only person I have ever loved and I can't imagine being with anyone else. The main problem I have is that we smoke gr... (242 words)

I fancy someone else more than my fiancee!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im a mum of 1, and were planning our wedding for next year, but i have more feelings for another male then i do my fiance. this other male feels the same bout me, and i keep sneaking round there to see him behind my partners back. I am so confused and dont know what to do... (57 words)

I love this man! But, we have trust issues. Please give me some sensible advice.

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - hi everyone,i hope someone can give me a sensible answer,without accusing me of anything as i seem to see a lot of aunts making assumptions,when its advice people are asking for.i been with my fella just under four years and the first 2 were kind of hell for me,i was eaten up ... (194 words)

I'm in a rut and now there's another guy...

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I started dating this guy over two years ago straight out of another relatioship so I basically jumped right in. It became serious really fast and I am really concerned right now that I may be falling for someone else. I dont know if it is an inocent crush or... (132 words)

Do you think he's still viewing porn?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age - my husband used to visit porn sites until i found out [5 years ago]. he nas now put a password on his computer and has become avasive and sly. he sometimes comes to bed a few hours later than me which he never used to do. am i wrong to be suspicious.... (53 words)

My husband rages!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband can not control his get and gets irretated for the least things and starts to insult me and threaten me to leave and my daughter how should i behave when he has this rage?... (36 words)

He asked me to marry him, but I'm afraid he'll leave if I stay fat!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am nearly 8 months pregnant and i love my partner he has asked me to marry him i said yes but im scared i wont lose the baby weight, i've always had an issue with my weight but now its even worse, im 21 but cant go to the gym as i had major spinal surgery a few years ago. b... (111 words)

My bf gets snippy with me, and says that it's a perception problem on my part! But it's not.

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my amazing and live-in boyfriend for almost 4 years now, and just the other day I confronted him about his lack of patience with me. At times, he tends to speak to me in a snippy tone of voice that makes me feel like he can't stand to be around me. He denies ... (184 words)

It seems like my BF if distancing himself lately. What can I do?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf is acting very strange lately(the past month). He shows far more interest in his job than anything else. I have evening classes 2 days a week, and he manages to get home early on those days, while the rest of the days that i dont have the evening classes he comes later ... (119 words)

My partner who has a terminal illness doesn't want to get it on!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner who is 34 suffers from a terminal illness he has also been diagnosed with depression he is always happy an jus gets on wit it!now he wont have sex he doesnt mind me givin him oral but wont do anything to me he says its not me and he has no trouble geting an erection ... (59 words)

A 27yr old man was persuing me on the internetnet and I called the police. Now my friends make fun of me.

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i was online a couple of weeks ago in a chat room and was talking to a whole bunch of people and trying to make new friends. after awhile a man who said he was 27 started talking to me and things were nice. we spent a couple days talking and soon he started telling me he would ... (149 words)

Years ago, I watched a bj video with a male friend, and he offered to give me one. I was just a curious child, is this unusual?

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Back when I was 11 (5th grade) I had a best friend since kindergarten (Both of us males). We were both straight and would often look at his fathers playboys, or look at women on the internet. Now, one day we watched a blowjob. My friend and I wondered what that would feel ... (128 words)

I want to attract my bf more, to be sure he never leaves (we marry next year.)

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i want to attract my boyfriend more, i know he is truly in love with me, and im his only girlfriend,we wanted to marry but because of some truble in our job and study it has been postponed, so we wanna marry the next year, but untill that i want to attract him more so that i ... (73 words)

How much does weight factor in for a woman's attractiveness to a man?

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How much does weight factor in for a woman's attractiveness to a man? Are there women out there that are attracted to big men? Or is this the end all deciding factor against a man finding an attractive woman? ... (39 words)

We love each other but we have conflicts everyday. He mistakes the disagreements with fights.

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've in been a relationship for about 6 months, and we both feel we have something real special and we love eachother so much, 2 months ago we decided to leave this town, for the summer we went to alabama and new orleans, now we're back home and we're living together and things ... (224 words)

I want to tell my wife's sister that I love her, but I keep chickening out!

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i am in love with my wife's sister, i think she feels the same way about me. i am not in love with my wife and considering divorcing her. i love and care about my wife but i am not in love with her, and not sure if i have ever been. i want to tell my wife's sister how i feel ... (95 words)

He's in the army and only gets weekends off.. and then he spends them with his friends, not me!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend is in the army and we only see each other on the weekends when he do get into town he goes straight to his friends and always want to hang out with them what to do ... (38 words)

Want to turn a straight guy bi and I have a boyfriend...

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - If you have a boyfriend and you love him so much that you'd do anything to be with him and you want to turn a straight guy bi, is it still cheating even if you don't want to date him?... (40 words)

In love with my best mate, how should I approach this?

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13 September 2007 (M) - hello. i need some advice. im in love with my best m8 but dont know how or if to tell him. we get on great always laughin even have conversations that we both admit we wouldnt have with anyone else. im sure he must know i atleast fancy him. the other night he stopped at mine as ... (218 words)

Ashamed of my stretch marks, what's your opinion?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old virgin, who has never been in a relationship. the reason is because i have no confidence in myself. i have stretch marks all over my boobs, thighs and hips and im totally ashamed and feel discusting. i have met a lad, 21. who has been in previous relatio... (246 words)

I was drunk and had sex with my neighbor, I am not sure if it was rape. What should I do?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, not too long ago, i was home alone and my family was out on vacation. well one night, i got drunk by myself and then i heard the doorbell, i opened it thinkin it was one of my friends came to visit me. but it was my neighbor, my 58 year old neighbor. He said he was lookin ... (139 words)

Long distance and no affection for me, what should I do?

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I feel that my boyfriend is not affectionate enough. We are in a long distance relationship, and as much as I try to be sweet and nice with him; he does not seem to show the same affection towards me. I feel like he just talk to me 'cause he have to but not b/c he loves me. ... (110 words)

My ex-boss destroyed my marriage. I still can't move on.

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13 September 2007 (F)

age - I went through several back surgeries that did not work out well, the doctor kept me on pain pills for 2 years and this really put a burden on my marrage, financially, physically, and for me mentally. At that time my boss at work was in charge of our medical insurance so we ... (344 words)

Would getting in shape and getting a job make me more attractive?

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Looking for a womans advice here... I'm not in the best of shape (I'm not fat, but I ama bit above average), and I'm unemployed atm, I was wondering if I would appear more attractive to women if I got into bettr shape and landed myself a job. Is that enough to makea woman li... (60 words)

Why am I so paranoid?

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13 September 2007 (?) - Am 18 and my b/fs 22 we’ve been together for almost 6 months now and I love him very much, he says he loves me too and I believe him. But I just cant seam to stop thinking that he will/is cheating on me and I get extremely jealous of other girls being around him. He... (206 words)

I know its wrong, but I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. Please help!

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a happily married 37 year old female and I am attraced to my best friend's fiance. I think he is attracted to me also. We always give a hug and a kiss when we see each other and I feel attracted to him. He always kisses me straight on the lips and last weekend he ... (106 words)

At first she avoids me, when I decide to do the same she gives signs she wants to talk again.

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a college student and I happen to fall in love with a girl in my freshman year. It happened everything about us match like you know we have the sam eorigin and ulture and everything but few difference. We started messaging each other indirectly in a social n... (642 words)

Should I make a move on her on Saturday?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - alrite...their is this girl (r) tht i like...i mean she is the first person i have been able to see myself falling in love w/ since my ex-shattered my heart... ...well ne ways, R and me are friends...we hold hands all the time...we have talked about kissing, but nvr relle ha... (238 words)

I'm divorcing my husband and dating his brother. How can avoid the guilt?

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13 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I are going thru a divorce and I have started dating his brother there is alot of guilt involved and I want to know if there is any way to help us all not feel guilty?... (39 words)

In love with the girl I can't have, how do I go about this?

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13 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, i have several questions. I have been friends with this girl for several years. I have told her how i felt a few times and each time, she kindly rejects me.Yhe last time i told her how i felt was about 2 fridays ago. I really really like her. But for some reason, she ... (141 words)