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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I am 23 and have fallen for a 14 year old!

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i am a 23 year old male, and i have a 14 year old friend i have meet and known for a while, we get on really well, and her parents seem to trust me and her. but i think i maybe fallin in love with her, and i think she feels the same way, im not sure what to do. can anyon... (99 words)

I am 34 and my clock is ticking. Will I ever meet 'the one'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am a 34 year old woman who has been single for a while now. I have been in a succession of long term relationships, usually with older men, which have not developed into anything such as marriage or kids. I feel like my clock is ticking and I will never meet anyone to ... (147 words)

A good friend broke up with another good friend because he says he loves me. I am torn! I love him, too, but my friend is mad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - hey i need help!!! i am 22,my pal [D] whos 25 said he is in love with me, he just broke up with his girl[M]who happens to be my friend also, D says he did it for me...he even told M that hes for me and he cant go on with her...M came to my house yesterday and dissed the bitch ... (175 words)

I really like my boss and he was all flirty with me this weekend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - i have been workin in this bar for about 7 weeks now on caravan sight and i have known this 24yr old for a yr now, hes my boss. he has a girl friend of 20 and im only 17. ive liked him for ages and i think hes always known it, he always kept his distance sort of thing as he has ... (152 words)

Can my mother forbid me to see my older boyfriend, whom I met on msn?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 112 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, 6 months ago i met my boyfriend through msn and have been together 4 months now, 2 days ago he moved down to be with me. We love each other but i was wondering if my mum can stop me seeing him? im 16 and hes 27. Please give me good advice x... (54 words)

Unhappily married for several years, and every time I see this other man by accident, I fall in love with him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been unhappily married for several years and find I am unable to break free from the relationship due to kids and finance. However, not long after I got married, I met a man I fell for but didn't act on it because I was already married. Over the years I have met the guy ... (166 words)

I have been living with a separated man for 2 years and no progress seems to be happening with the divorce

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been living with a separated man over a year. He has 2 children. He is a few years younger than me. We have been together and very much in love for over three years. I divorced shortly after we got together. My marriage was an unhappy one for years. He has been talking ... (203 words)

Is it normal that after you had an enjoyable time with people, you come back home and feel low?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

- is it normal that after youve gone out with people and had an enjoyable time that when you come back home and are on your own that u feel really lame and low??? thanks... (37 words)

I accused my current girlfriend of cheating because she looks like an ex, and I'm on the whole very confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ive been going out with my new GF about 4months now, i split from my babys mum about 4 months now....The other night my babys mum told me she still cares for me and I told her i still care for her. I spoke to my babys mum today, and i told her that i'm having a mental ... (339 words)

He says he will never forgive me if I dont give him rent money

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - I just broke up with my boyfriend and am in process of moving out. Movers come Wednesday. I gave up my apartment the first week in May. We never put any kind of lease in writing and he has me pay him for everything in cash so he does not have to report rental income (several ... (419 words)

My ex is confiding his problems to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend of 4months has said time and time again that he is moving on, which he has done he's been going out with someone for about 2-4months now. Now his telling me that he's hes been have thoughts abot a ex he went out with 5yrs ago, and accusing his currant girl... (232 words)

I went away for one night and he went to her house, they claim nothing happened, but they've kissed in other occasions. Suspicious...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 and a half yrs two years ago he kissed my cousin which i forgave him for now 2 wks ago i went away for one night and ive just found out he went up to her house looking for sex. I have been told by both of them that nothing happened ... (94 words)

I feel like he chose the job over me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Me and my b/f have been together about 8 months and are engaged. i feel like he has drifted apart from me recently. what hurt us the most was when he took this job that i begged him not to. i told him it would hurt us (its a job at the lake where ppl go to get drunk all day and ... (209 words)

Ive been in a relationship for 3 yrs but ive found out my guy went to my cousins for sex. I was told it didn't happen but I dont know what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am in a relationship for 3 and half yrs two years ago my bf kissed my cousin. now i have just found out when i was out of town for one night he called to her house again looking for sex. it didnt happen or so im told anyway. i love him to bits we were going buying a house ... (79 words)

I was going to get back with my ex but on holiday she got off with 2 different guys. Should I trust her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - This Summer I finished my studies and was meant to go on holiday with my sister, my uni friends and my ex-girlfriend who theres always a chance I would get back together with. However, last minute I found I had a problem with my passport and could not go. So everyone went ... (168 words)

I have two girls on the go, I don't know which one I prefer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi. I am goin out with this gorgus girl for about 3 months on and off she is 14 im 16 and is prepared to go all the way with me , we have had oral sex. My mind is trubled becasue i have just relised that were live there is this fit girl hu i am having fun wit but she seems to... (111 words)

I took my pill more than 12 hours late. Is there a chance that protection has been affected?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok i need sum help... Last month i took one of my pills more than 12 hours late. I took it straight away and all my other pills on time after that. In total including my late pill i took 7 pills. I then had my period in my seven day break. I started my second pack on time and... (95 words)

We have an 8 yr age gap. Will problems occur in the future like my girlfriend says?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi! I am 25 years old guy in love with a girl who is 17 years old. I don't want to loose her at any cost. Now the only problem that worries her is the age difference being to 8 years which she says could have problems in future which might lead to differences in opinion and ... (82 words)

I am so tierd of saying sorry...how can I make everybody understand??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey all. I'm so tierd of saying sorry. I always do what i have to and everybody is always mad at me. My parents and my bf. I can't ignore them because i cant be without them. They never understand. How can i make them understand? Talking doesnt help. I have been doing it for t... (78 words)

I'm almost 16 and haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know theres plenty of time but why do other girls cheat and seem to get a different guy all the time???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am almost 16 years old, and I haven't ever been involved with a guy. I know, there's no rush and I've got 'tons of time to find the right one'. But what I don't understand is why girls who are constantly cheating and doing awful things to their boyfriends somehow keep getting ... (159 words)

He says I am frigid but I think I am too young!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I am 13 and i like this 19 year old boy..he really likes me and i like him but he said i am frigid..i think i am to young and he is a dad what shall i do?? help... (39 words)

How can I tell if my friend is lying to me? And what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i think a boy named josh is lying to me. i like his friend and i asked him out and he said no, and josh has been saying he likes me and that the only reason he said no was because i never spend any time with him. and josh said he talks about me behind my back and doesnt want ... (81 words)

I think ive fallen in love with my friend but I have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend and baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, where do I start. I have this friend and we are very close to each other and I recently realised that i may be in love with him. The problem is that he has a girlfriend and a baby and I have a boyfriend but my relationship with my boyfriend is a bit rocky. It hurts me more ... (128 words)

How will I know when I am in love with my guy??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I know i haven't been in love yet because i have only ever had short relationships, now i have found a great guy!! We have been together two months! i know i do not love him yet, but i was wondering...what are the signs of love!! how will i know when i love him?? and how long ... (72 words)

I'm trying to get over my ex. Is anyone going through the same or been through it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am trying to get over my ex-boyfriend who I have been having an affair with for 5 years. He is married and I am engaged. It has been one week since I cut off communication with him. It's really hard b/c I ve known him for 10 years dated on and off b/f we met our partners. I ... (168 words)

I hate my husband's best female friend!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) - Let me just start by saying this. I HATE HATE HATE hubby's best female friend! Yes, she is younger, thinner and female, but that is NOT the reason I hate her so much. She has been friends with my hubby for over 20 years and she is NEEDY! It wasn't so bad until we moved to a ... (148 words)

Should I just let things progress naturally??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I am hopelessly crushing on this girl V who I "met" on the internet through an online writing/art community. We bonded through our common interests and really hit it off, and she's the only person I've wanted for the past year now. I know she really likes me as an online ... (433 words)

Should I break up with my boyfriend? He's going to uni soon and the distance might be a problem..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - hey my boyfriend is going to university soon and i love him so much :( but i dont know if to break it off as its most likely he will find somebody else or the travelin will get in the way what should i do ? please help. ... (48 words)

How can I talk to a guy I like without sounding desperate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - How can I talk to a guy that I really like (and I want him to be my boyfriend) without sounding desperate?... (22 words)

Should I tell my bf i cheated on him??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend is the most loving caring man i have ever ever met. He would never do anything to hurt me and i would never do anything to hurt him but the other night i went to my friends party and an old friend and i got chatting - one thing led to another and we ended up ... (86 words)

We split and I want to do cold turkey and not speak to him but will this seem childish?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Right so, If a guy breaks up with you (very amicably) because the relationship can't happen because of external factors (and he won't admit his feelings you) and you feel very hurt, what do you do if the guy contacts you on a friendly basis a few weeks later? I am so hurt b... (202 words)

His ex is saying he cheated on me with her but he swears hes not. I dont know what I should believe anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A month before we started dating he had broken up with a girl he dated for 8 months. He had constantly told me what a horrible relationship they had and how she was mean to his daughter. At the beginning of our relationship ... (938 words)

How can I talk to my guy about him not giving me so much attention anymore without sounding too needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey, i need more answers please! My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. The first 5 months were great, he was doing a lot of chasing and making me feel special aaaaallll the time, just like i wanted. He was much much sweeter to me than I was to him. I was bein... (735 words)

I'm not sure if I love him but I cant bear to lose him. Is this love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, i have been seeing my bf for 10 months now, i love him so much and dont want to lose him but i seem to be quite mean to him alot.we cant get along and im not even sure i love him? yet i cant bear to lose him! is this love?... (53 words)

Can anyone tell me the meaning of a bj please?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i just wanted to know what the hell a bj is, cuz everyone is talking about it and no1 will tell me the meaning. thx!! xoxoxoxoxoxxox... (29 words)

I'm in love with my FWB guy but someone else is hitting on him now! I feel like I cant compete with her! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - When I first met this guy, I couldn't stand him at all. Then something happened that threw us into a common bond and we gradually became friends. I spent more and more time with him and our chemistry became apparent. It's become a drunken habit of ours to makeout and tell each ... (115 words)

How can I stop getting jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - How can i stop getting jealous so easily? i've only been seeing this guy for a month but i get jealous so easily (although i make sure i dont show it in front of him). im really insecure so simple things make me jealous. like yesterday i went to a friends house after work and ... (146 words)

We argued and we haven't spoken for a week. Ive txt him today but got no reply. Does that mean he will end it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - me and my boyfriend have recently argued over something so silly, he told me to leave him alone so i did exactly dat..it's been a week and i couldn't stop thinking about him..i love him loads but don't know where i stand anymore..i text him this morning and he hasn't ... (57 words)

Is it normal for my mum to show me how to use a tampon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hello, just wondering, is it normal for my mum to want to show me how to use tampons ? i mean i was so embarssed about telling her i was even on my period, (she found blood stains in my pants so that's how she found out) and i am so scared. is this normal ? and also when i'm... (83 words)

I love my boyfriend but he has been having affairs. Supposedly with my sister too. I keep running back to him. I dont know what to believe?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F) age 22-25 - How do i act to this, i love my boy friend so much, but he has been having affairs with my friend, he sometimes tells me that i should give him time to think of what he wants in life. he has even been accused of having had sex wit my sister which i still don't know whether its ... (73 words)

Can an 18 yr old get in trouble for dating a 14 yr old even though they are not having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - If my mate goes out with her boyfriend who is now 18 and she is only 14 even though there not having sex or anything like that could he be put in prison ?... (34 words)

This woman is claiming my husband has been cheating and fathered a child. What do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ME AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 3YEARS. LAST YEAR WE HAD A BIG ARGUEMENT BECAUSE HE WAS ACUSSING ME OF BEING AT A BAR TELLING PEOPLE THAT I WASNT MARRIED AND THAT WAS NOT TRUE. SO WE ENDED UP SEPERATING FOR 4 MONTHS. WE FINALLY GOT BACK TOGETHER. ONE NIGHT WE WAS ... (784 words)

Shes sleeping with me behind his back and we didnt use protection. Do you think she will ever leave him??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - This one is a bit crazy but need help. I have fallen in love with a girl whos in a relationship, which is not fulfilling her needs properly. We became good friends with me not hiding the fact that i liked her and vice versa but nothing happended as she had a boyfriend this ... (587 words)

My mum has MS and my dad is having an affair with my mums best mate! Do I tell???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My mum has MS (Multiple Sclerosis) and uses a walking stick most of the time. But even when she does not use a walking stick, she totters around and can barely walk. She cries most of the time and is very depressed. Dad has told her he is leaving her as he has been unhappy for ... (318 words)

Whats your opinion on pierced noses???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I hate my nose. its kind of big, looks pretty awful to be honest. i want it peirced though, but im not sur if it will suit me, i love nose piercings on small cute noses but mines quite bigger than normal. what do you think? do you think that piercings look like on all noses or ... (90 words)

Why is my guy putting his friend before me and our baby?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I need some help, my fiance and i have been together for just over 2 years now and we have a baby but he is not the bioloical father and has adopted my child, the problems started about 6 months ago he and his friend from work are just complete troulble together and i am ... (243 words)

My mates have all had experience with boys. Why does noone want me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Im 15 and have had ZERO experience with a boy. All my friends have snogged boys, gave and been given oral gave handjobs, been fingered. And i have not done any of that. The most i have done is hugged a boy! I feel so repulsive. Im 5"1, 9st 5 and the fact that no one wants me ... (165 words)

My girl wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex! What kind of person am I dealing with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - my girlfriend stated that she wants to lie in a bed of snakes when having sex. she owned boa constrictors in the past when she used to strip for a living. what kind of person am i dealing with? ... (40 words)

Do girls like chest hair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Do girls like chest hair??... (5 words)

I was abused in the past and I found out my guy watches porn. What should I do or say about it?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my man for 7 years gonna get married well about 9 years ago i was abused for a sexually abused for a year he has always surported, me but now i have found that he watches porn when i go bed. it makes my skin crawl and he doesnt understand what it does to me i ... (79 words)

Is anyone else in a long distance relationship here and worried about cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hey, I have been in a long distance relationship for 11 months and 3 days now but will be back to my year and 8 month gf in less then a month what i cant stopthinking about is if things are going to blow up in my face i mean i love her and she loves me but I just always g... (197 words)

How do I ask him if we are just casual or more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - heya people. ive been seeing a guy i met through friends for a few weeks and its been really great but i want to ask him whether we are a couple or if its just a casual thing. i know its only been a few weeks but i want to know because i dont know how to act with him in publ... (363 words)

How should I propose to a girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I want to propose a girl but how? ... (12 words)

If i have used tampons for years does it mean I've broke the hymen and sex wont be painful the first time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - If I have masturbated and used tampons for years does that mean that my hymen is broken? And does it mean that sex won't hurt as much first time? I hope so!!! Advice please xxxxx... (35 words)

Why am I 'dry down there' ?????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm dry "down there", I never used to be and I've never been with anyone else sexually. What could be wrong? Maybe, stress or diet or something? This couldn't have started at a worse time as recently my boyfriend and I have been discussing moving things up a level sexually. ... (106 words)

My family is a mess and I need some support, but my Mom wont give it to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - my sister has been mentally ill for most of my life and my brother has always been trouble, my dad left and i wont see him, and i am bullied at school, me and my mum were always close, until recently i have become depressed and she always yells at me saying she wants one child ... (139 words)

Can I see my questions/answers if I dont have an account?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey all - i post answers on DearCupid a lot but i remain anonymous because my computer is really slow and it would take me ages to make an account. so i was just wondering how i can view questions that ive answered because i can never find them again and it's really annoying!... (60 words)

I am 14, he is 18. Should we wait for each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm 14 years old and I'm in love with an 18 year old, he has told me he likes me too, but nothing will happen because I am too young, I have just about accepted it, but he has recently said that we should wait until I am 16 so that it won't sound bad to other people. ... (148 words)

We snogged and got it on. Was this just a one off or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - ok here it goes i met a friend of my sisters bf and we got on well..so i asked my sis bf if he liked me he said he asked about me but nothing much was said. so i met him again this was the fifth time and we had a few drinks and we crossed in the hallway and he gave me a kiss ... (202 words)

Post breakup sex and he is playing with my head

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey all im really confused, Me and my ex have been broke up for just over 3 months. It was a bad break up, but yet we have still continued to sleep together. Whenever i ask if he wants to work stuff out he says i dont know, or 'i'm never gunna get back with you'. Because... (290 words)

My ex husband thinks we never got divorced!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I wonder if anyone in the Uk can help me out here. I was speaking on the phone to my ex husband on Saturday night. Havent seen him since we split 16 years ago (apart from once about 6 years ago at his and his girlfriends house for a b b q, i used to know his girlfriend b... (228 words)

I've told her we are too young to have a baby but she got mad and said I am breaking her heart!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - My girlfriend and I are 19 and she wants to have a baby with me. I'm not ready and she knows it. We both still live with our parents and can hardly even afford to go to school. I tried talking to her and explaining why it's too soon and she got mad at me and told me to leave ... (102 words)

Can cheaters really change??

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, I have a boyfriend that i really love, can't imegine a life without him. He loves me too but he has been cheating on me but like in our country its normal for boys/girls to cheat on each other. All i want to know is we talked about it and he has promised me that he will ... (74 words)

Is my mind still too much on my ex to start a new relationship??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hello everybody. Not really sure how I'm feeling today.. a bit wierd. To take my mind off of my ex for a while I'm trying to focus on wanting to be with somebody new, as opposed to wanting to be with her. I figured, I can want and want all I like, and as much as I could ha... (385 words)

Two years on and i'm still in love with him....any advice??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

- I was seeing my boyfriend for two years. We broke up and it's been nearly two years since that. We have catch up quite regularly but the weekend just gone we slept together, quite a lot! And acted all couply all weekend, going out for lunch, holding hands etc. Then on sunday ... (171 words)

My husband is in the military. I want to join the military but I have an allergy to eggs. I'm pulling my hair out as I've wanted this so long. Should I just try to join anyway??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

- Sorry my question doesn't have much if anything to do with relationships, but thanks for reading. I've been feeling really frustrated. Right now I am just starting college, but it's not what I want. I have wanted to join the military since I was 15 years old. However, I am ... (155 words)

I'm terrified we will drift apart. What should I do to keep us together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have a boyfriend and have for the past 5months or something about 4 hours away. He's starting a new school now.. a really really hard working one. and hel be in year 9.he said he can hardly come on msn or phone me at all because he has really high aims with his work and wants ... (92 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me for someone else and now wants me back..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have this boyfriend, well, had this boyfriend but he broke up with me for another girl. but i still love him. his best friend is my best friend and he told me that he wants to go back with me and i keep playing hard to get am i wrong should i go back with him ... (57 words)

He's backed off big time. Whats going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I was dating this guy for about 2 months; at first I was not at all sure whether I wanted it to advance to the next level (we never got physical). We got along great! We could talk for hours. He was probably more interested than I was, began calling me more and more, and fina... (285 words)

My guy is going through a tough divorce and is saying we're now taking a break. Was I just a passing fancy or should I just wait it out?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 28 years old and have been seeing this guy for about 4 months. When we first started going out he told me that he was int he middle of a divorce. The soon to be ex and him seemed to have an okay relationship for the sake of the kids. When we first started dating things were ... (190 words)

I only seem to feel confident in bed when I'm drunk. Do you think I'm good enough for him?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - During this past school year I met a guy that I totally fell for. I wasn't looking for anything, but he started flirting with me. Problem was he had a gf, which I soon found out wasn't a problem to him. We started hooking up but he wouldn't have sex with me because he ... (733 words)

I have a huge crush on my softball coach. What should I do?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I have a HUGE crush on my softball coach. He is 12 years older than me. Last time I saw him (which was at the end of the season) he was single. My friends say that he flirts with me, but I can never tell whether he (or anyone else for that matter) is flirting with me, or jus... (89 words)

I've got a married woman chasing me, shes my doctor!

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3 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - A married woman is chasing after me. Do i need to play hard to get? she has been married for 14 years and has two children. I have already told here i was attracted to her. her response was "that why i told you i was married up front" i am a single male in my mid 30's and she ... (345 words)

My husband had an affair. We are sorting it out but the other woman is fighting for him!

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - By accident I found out my husband was having an affair. We are trying to work out our marriage because I won't let him go. I'm making it hard for him to go. We have 4 little children under 9. He's been honest with me about his feelings for her. At this moment, he can't help ... (240 words)

I'm in love with someone I cant have and its starting to affect me. I'm drinking more alcohol now and crying. Help..

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, Q.I have found my soul mate but i can't have him!what do i do? I have never written on one of these sites, but I am completely lost as I met my soul mate 4 years ago, but he is together with a good friend. The connection we have is incredible, we once took a very ... (292 words)

I need reference from my ex but I don't want to cause problems in his current relation.

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3 September 2007 (F)

- I am running for an important position. My ex and I are not friends but are not on bad terms and he has agreed to provide a reference. I need ten and we were together for ten years. He called a couple of weeks ago and asked me to get back to him about it. I called and his new ... (148 words)

I had a tubal reversal. Now I'm wondering if I could be pregnant?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a tubal reversal of 1 2007 no luck yet but this month i started 3 days early is this a sign of being pregnant?... (26 words)

Why isnt my girlfriend keen on moving in together?

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3 September 2007 (M)

- ok i've been dateing my girlfriend 6 months were engaged, where trying for a baby, we spend as much time as possible with each over but i wanna move in with her and i asked her the other day if she wouldn't mind looking for somewhere she got mad told me she will lo... (207 words)

Do you think my girlfriend fancies her cousin?

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3 September 2007 (M)

- do u think its wrong? i love my girlfriend but theres something about her and her brother. ok the clues he ask's me questions about my sex life with is sister i think thats strange my girl got mad at me the other day because i give her a dirty look. let me exp... (667 words)

I went out on a date with this guy and he was too touchy feely. How do I let him know I only want to be friends?

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3 September 2007 (F) - I feel so weird, please help. I recently met a guy who works at a bookstore in my local mall about a week ago; he made me laugh so much and was just so much fun to be with, that I agreed to meet him for lunch today. Okay, here's what happened exactly: I met him at the bookstore ... (367 words)

My blind date invited me to his house for coffee, then became aggressive and said he wanted to have sex!

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, a little back story to start everything off...I went out on this blind date last saturday. Ok, I agreed solely because im fairly open to try anything once. I sincerely believe that you should never knock something til you try it. Anyway, we met for dinner, upon meeting the ... (322 words)

I'm a 15 yr old guy and I cant stop masterbating???

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3 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - how do i get myself to stop masterbating? im 15 years old and im a guy i have problem. ive been masterbating for a long time. i mean a real long time about 3 years and some months. i cant stop idk know y i jus cant help like when i try to control myself it like eats at me. and ... (142 words)

I was drunk and cheated on my boyfriend; now he won't talk to me!...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I cheated on my boyfriend on a saturday night and I told him what i had done the next day. i was drunk and i didn't realise of what i was doing.i didn't even like the guy. now my boyfriend doesn't wanna talk to me and i don't know what to do in order to get him back...is it ... (65 words)

I'm a female and I've had spotting. What could it be?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I have a sigtly embarrassing question, but here goes. About two weeks ago, I noticed I had blood streaked vaginal discharge when I went to the bathroom. It only occurred once that day, then stopped. Friday it happened again, only this time it was even lighter than before. ... (94 words)

I've been in a 4 yr abusive relationship but like someone else..

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - OK I am in a 4 year relationship, we have been abusive to eachother verbally and physically. It has stopped but he is verbally abusive calling me so many names. well we fight all the time but when we dont fight its like were so in love. well anyways. I saw this guy at a store I ... (216 words)

He swears he wishes he could spend more time with me, but is he just saying that?

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been with my boyfriend two years and for the first year and a half we would go out at least once a week. For the past several months, we have hardly gone out at all on dates. He owns a business and is very busy building it. The only times I see him lately are when I'm ... (545 words)

He is giving this girl way more attention than he ever gave me, and I think it's to make me jealous!

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3 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't believe it! My ex fiancé is on a rebound with a stupid girl from another far away country. Now I can see he's sending her romantic comments on his Myspace page. Things he never did with me. He is being very caring with her sending her virtual roses, "princess" comments, ... (254 words)

He never acknowledged my birthday, and now I have no feelings for him

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3 September 2007 (F) - hello, I feel slighted by my ex boyfriend. My birthday has passed, and he has not even texted me a birthday wish, or even msg me on facebook. I kind of anticipitated it, but it would of been nice for him to acknowledge my birthday, considering that I made a conscious effort... (141 words)

I am a virgin, but I haven't had my period in 9 weeks, what is happening?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

3 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey I am 16 and I am a virgin and I havent been on my period in 9 weeks I wondered if anyone could help me explain why this is happening please help!!... (33 words)

Do I move away and get away from her, or stay and help her out?

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3 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Iv been with my girlfriend for 2 years nearly, her mums an alcoholic and its interfeared with our relationship a lot, but iv stood by my girlfriend to help her. But when we first got together my gf was also alcoholic at 16, but I helped sort her out, but for the last couple of ... (204 words)