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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Am I wrong to be annoyed that hes taken her myspace address?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, My boyfriend works at a race course and recently they had a kind of Bikefest things where there were motorbikes for sale. And what do you get with Motorbikes? Slutty Teenage Promoters! Ok well apparently they asked him if he wanted a picture with them and he said no.... (122 words)

I'm pushing my boyfriend away and cause silly arguments, but why do I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i tend to pust my boyfriend away and cause silly arguements i really love him so why do i do it?... (21 words)

Her ex seems to still like her but I want to know if she really likes me. How do I find out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i need some advice. see this girl and i were friends, soon we started liking each other and then she proposed and i also proposed and we became gf and bf. for 3 weeks all was great. before we were together, she had a bf and had to dump him after i proposed. she dumped him ... (136 words)

How do I go down on a man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys well iv'e been with this boy for a few months and i have done almost everything with him except went down on him i really want to but i have never done it before is there any tips on how too? please help jords ... (50 words)

I like my drivers ed teacher!

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 6029 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I do like another one of my teachers, this is my Drivers ed teacher too. In my school we see our 1st period everyday, and he just happens to be my 1st period teacher. Anyways I really really like him. He looks kinda young maybe in his 20s or early 30s. But I think he maybe ... (457 words)

Do you think my teacher likes me more than a student teacher relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this teacher for about 4 years now. He was one of my middle school teachers too. Anyways, the last couple of months of 6th grade [when I started liking him too] he started calling me by another name, it was a type of inside joke. But anyways a few months ago, I’m ... (455 words)

She let other guys do things she hasn't ever let me. I'm confused?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Please help.... I've been with my girlfriend for 2 1/2 years and Ive mentioned here and there about either cumming in her mouth or swallowing. She said its gross and she cant do it so I understood. Last night we were talking and it came out that she has let other guys cum i... (114 words)

Do you think I should give my cheating ex another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

23 September 2007 (?) age 41-50 - I have written on here three time already but wanted to update you. My ex (broke up 7 months now) really wants me back and I am re-considering. He cheated on me whilst I was pregnant but they didnt have sex until we broke up and there relationship continued. Recently however ... (402 words)

So many guys to choose from!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i love is 19.. and i'm 15. Ive known him ages and we can tell each other anything, and he always makes me smile,then recently he told me he likes me to. He quit his job to come back to live near me. But hes going to University so we decided to not get together. Shall i ... (242 words)

I'm worried if I have a baby it will be ugly, because my boyfriend has been referred to as an ape.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is quite possibly the most shallow question you will ever come across... but here goes. I am seeing my boyfriend 3 years now and I love him more than anything, we are in a very commited relationship and he treats me very very well, and vice versa. We plan on moving i... (503 words)

How do I make the first move?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I have a friend who ive liked for ages and yesterday he told me hes attracted to me. I want to kiss him but am not sure how to make the first move. How could i do this? Tips from guys and girls please Thanks alot!... (53 words)

I broke up with him and I am glad. Is it ok to feel this way?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ive recently split with my boyfriend. we werent together long and he didnt take it very well. he dragged out the whole thing for a wek before he would let it lie. anyway im glad i did it. i dont want a boyfriend. i want to have fun and i wasnt having fun with him. Im going to... (126 words)

Any tips on how to keep it smooth.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im thinking about shaving my pubic hair for the first time i have sex with my long term boyfriend... the thing is, i dont want its to go all prickly n cause a rash on us, so can anyone tell me the best methods to keep 'smooth' thanks in advance x.x.x... (60 words)

Is there a differance between a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - is there a difference between a clitoral orgasm nd a vaginal orgasm? xx... (14 words)

He has been on again, off again and I cant figure out what he feels!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I will try and keep this as short as poss. I was single for 3 years, mainly because I was going through a really hard time mainly due to Court case I was sexual abuse for 5 years as a child and I finally took it to court 20 years later. A relationship ending shortly ... (612 words)

I am getting such mixed messages! Does he want me back or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid i broke up with my boyfriend a month ago, its terrible im still not over him still cry every night and everything people tell me he likes me again does he? he flirts with me like always touching my hair and poking me and everything and talking to me at school but... (108 words)

I saw a text on my boyfriends phone saying another girl was "Hott" and I am pissed!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My and I have been dating for two years. I recently just had a baby and i can honestly say i have let myself go a little. Well the qustion is i was looking through my boyfriends cell phone and saw that he had meet up with an old "friend" and text her saying she looked ... (81 words)

She wants a cooling off period after just a couple of days, do you think thats an excuse?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a been going out with my girl friend for just a few days and we both like each other very much and we have falling in love. My girl friend thinks we need a cooling of period because we are rushing into things too soon.Is she right or is in an excuse for her to fini... (61 words)

Do you think it's friendship or more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy,i get on really well with himself and a few of his mates but im not sure if he likes me as a mate or more, he jokes around sometimes,and gentely punches my arm, he also calls me sweetheart sometimes,.My friends say he likes me but im still not sure if its a ... (65 words)

He said he isnt ready for a relationship. Do you think that might change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I really like this one guy, and he really likes me, too. We went out over the weekend. He showed up with surprise gifts, which was really sweet. We previously planned some things to do, but we ended up just staying in my room chatting away cuddled up on my bed until late at ... (445 words)

I'm spotting. does it mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well lets see im 15 and i am spotting....me and my ex-b/f had sex and i got my period during it than it stopped 3 days later....does this mean im pregnant?... (31 words)

Is it possible to fall in love over the phone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5936 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi...i wanted to know, is it possible to fall in love over the phone? i've met him once before (he's a friends relative) when he came to visit and i liked him then, then a couple of years later we bagan talking over the phone for up to 4 or 5 hours at a time. is that normal?... (58 words)

How do I act confident without coming off as arrogant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I act confident without coming off as arrogant? Don't get me wrong, I don't try to come off as arrogant, but when I'm with women I tend to come off as arrogant, abnoxious, and a bit stuck up. Which basically makes me look like a complete asshole. I'm not very... (88 words)

I know its wrong, (shes my teacher!)but I am going to win her back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I know we did wrong but please help me get her back, im 16 now! I cant stop thinking about this teacher. Me n my teacher got on really well then one day we kissed. From then on we kept seeing each other n planned to meet out of school but that day we got caught kissin by... (273 words)

Baby time or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Now I've finished college I'm considering coming off the pill and trying for a baby with my boyfriend of 16 months. He's 22 and already has a 2 year old son with his ex, and is dying to start a family with me. I really want to too, but something's holding me back from coming ... (141 words)

I can't get over him. How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a relationship a year ago that I'm still struggling to get over, even though I'm in a very happy relationship with someone else right now. My ex (S) played a huge part in my life since I was 15 until just a few months ago (I'm 17 now). I was diagnosed with depression in ... (250 words)

What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship with has cheated but they swear they didn't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do if you suspect your boyfriend who you have a perfect relationship has cheated... but they swear on everything they didnt? How do you deal with this? I cant see him doing it, but I cant help but continuisly wondering 'what if' even tho he has swore he has never ... (91 words)

How can my bf and I get our own place? I'm under 18 and he's jobless...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How can my bf and I get our own place? We want a flat desperately as he's homeless (he's been secretly living in my bedroom for 3 months) and I'm going crazy in my house as my relationship with my mum is dire. At the beginning of September my Mum and I had a massive fallout and ... (184 words)

My husband is addicted to porn.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I find that my husband watches porn every day even though he knows I don't like it. It makes me jealous because I now feel that he is looking for someone with bigger tits and better looking. It hurts my feelings but he says I am just a crazy catholic girl. He dont realize that ... (99 words)

Might I have a chance later?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, I have decided to bite the bullet and not see him anymore! Im kinda sad about this as he was a huge part of my life for two and a half years! I really need to get on with it and I just dont see friendship with him as something I would handle very well! I dont wan... (255 words)

We ended up cuddling while seeing the movie, now I'm hiding on msn and feel shy about talking to her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - im a 14 year old guy.I went to the cinema earlier with my friends, and a girl i liked went too. I sat next to her, and as the film went on, we ended up holding hands and cuddling. She's on msn right now ( mine is set to appear-offline) , and i'm really shy about what i should... (104 words)

Does she want me or what I have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Do girls need material proof for love? I have been with a girl almost 5 months. At the beginning everything was going great. I think she likes me enormously and I her. Now things have started to get difficult. She calls me, we go out or something but haven't had any intimate ... (216 words)

I was much better for him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

- I got dumped today by my bf of 3 months as his ex came home from travelling today and he wants to get back with her. She was away for 6 months and I did have suspisions that he still loved her but he assured me he would never get back with her. I cant believe he's done this to ... (144 words)

Am I experiencing an Orgasm? Not sure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - when we are doing it "doggie style" and i play with my clit, and their is a "sensation" like NO OTHER is that an orgasim?... (25 words)

How can I stop thinking my boyfriend has cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

I want her back, any advice???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks. Is it possible to win back an ex-girlfriend after a break-up? I was with a girl for about 3 months. The last 4 weeks we had no contact on account of her having exams. This resulted in a row on account of my lack of contact which was seen as indifference. I explained ... (428 words)

I'm drowning and seriously in need of some good advice!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok the short version of this...i am 22 years old... i have been dating this guy for about a year now. we live together but there are some issues...we both have mental issues (depression and stuff liek that) so that alone puts stress on our relationship... but the last ... (552 words)

I'm worried he might think I'm frigid, now! Was I just nervous?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy who is 2 years older than me and we told each other a while ago that we really liked each other, nothing had gone any further than that but the other day i went to my friends house (not his!) and we got quite close Then yesturday i got invited to his party... (398 words)

I need advice on sex, positions etc.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - right, i am 23 and need help. I have been with my bf for 4 years and we are ready for sex, we aren't pressuring eachother, but i don't no any technics. I would really like help, but not the old relax and enjoy it stories. Please could you tell me how the penis goes inside and ... (80 words)

Does he like me and what shall I do about my friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

- Two weeks ago I met this guy, B. It was a friend-of-a-friend chance meeting, and we hit it off really quickly. He is so kind and sweet and talented (I should stop now or I'll be here all night!) I have never felt this strongly about anyone before and I really want to go out ... (183 words)

I need ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in a quality relationship...not just an occasional hook up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So I'm interested in this guy and I would like ideas as to how I can let him know I'm interested in pursuing a relationship and not just an occasional hook up sort of thing. We don't live in the same state and I see him only when I visit a friend or he comes to the state I l... (203 words)

I'm not very good at what to say to people when they are upset, and she won't open up to me. She's lost her cousin, how to help her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 my best friend(and the love of my life although she doesn't know it-but thats a different story)has just lost her cousin to MS.I just don't know what to do, it hurts me so much that i know i can't help her. I see her every day at school and most days after school and ... (420 words)

Please tell me the difference between phone sex and real sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Before I met my boyfriend, I was into phone sex with other guys. When I told him about it, he became so jealous. I have had real sex with him already but he still feels its the same thing. How can phone sex and real sex be the same?? ... (49 words)

Her father was short-listing an eligible bachelor for my gf, from my reaction she may have understood I don't have faith in our relation so she is distanced now... what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 29yr old male and have been separated from my wife for over 2 years, my marriage is currently going thro an annulment, which should take roughly a year to come thro. I was not really looking for love but three months ago I met a real sweet girl (she’s 25), we were... (760 words)

I said I loved him, he didn't reciprocate!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I told my boyfriend of 4 months that i loved him, thinking that he felt the same. But he didnt and now i feel stupid and hurt. He says he cares about me alot but doesnt feel in love with me just yet. Has anyone else been in a situation like this.....and how did it make you feel... (59 words)

Torn between new love and girlfriend, HELP!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Im in a relationship, but have been seeing someone else for a couple of months who is a friend of mine anyway although since, things have started to happen. I admitted that i like this girl and that when im not with her, i miss her loads and hate it when a day goes by when she... (120 words)

My daughter reported me to Social Services

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi my 15 year old daughter has but social servies on me, she is saying that i don't love her and that she don't wont to come back home to me. she had run away alot of time but not done this before. to try and help i asked my family to let her stay there until we can talk thi... (82 words)

Help! How I can start to be more assertive??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M) - Every so often about once a month I feel very moody towards my girlfriend and others. The thing is im a nice person and I don't know why I feel this way toward them but I have been talking to my mum about it recently and she may have knocked the nail on the head. I am a ni... (196 words)

Why do I want to have sex with many women? And I'd rather choose women I know over a model, why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age - It seems I want to have sex with many of my friends wives, my coworkers, my sister inlaw, my wifes best friend, even women who are just friends of mine are on my list. It seems just about every woman I know faily well, I want to have sex with. I have yet to ask any of them ... (149 words)

My bf is dating my best friend, secretly but I found out! How do I work this through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend recently broke up with me and only a few days later told my best friend he liked her. She also had feelings for him, but for my sake she tried to hold them back. Unfortunatley this resolution only lasted a few days and they got together secretly so they wouldnt ... (199 words)

How do I control my jealousy???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

- I think jealousy is ruining my relationship and I don't know how to control it. With my current b/f I get so paranoid about a couple of the gals at his office, especially when he has to travel out of town. Also, I can't stand it that a couple of his ex-g/f's still i.m or call ... (170 words)

How do I get over the split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i split with my fiance a couple of days ago and im finding it really hard to cope. i just dont understand why he thought it wasnt working and within 24hours he decided we were not working no more how can i forget and move on im only 18 years old but feel like my life has ended ... (61 words)

I want him back in my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

- I was seein a boy who I REALLY liked for 2 months until last week when I finished it. I finished it cos I thought that I was makin all the effort and cos of this I thought that he didnt like me as much as I like him. So I text him saying that I think we should just be friends ... (216 words)

I just don't get it...why don't I have a bf??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

- Im 18 years old. I dont get why I dont have a bf. And why guys never seem to be inteIrested in me. I dont see anything majorly wrong with me, in fact I could list alot of good qualities about myself- caring, understanding, sensitive, smart, honest, reliable and dependable..... (198 words)

Is there a future for us with this age gap?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6035 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im new here but you see i have 2 problems. My partner and i have been together for 18 months we have lived together for 16 months. My partner use to be very sexual but the last time we had sex was 5 months ago and has been doing alot of over time at work. The other problem... (108 words)

Reading her journal, I found out she has been with over 100 men, random men. I'm disgusted, don't know what to do.

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 6041 days ago

23 September 2007 (M) - So I'm having a bit of an issue with my fiance's "loose morals" before we met. Why is this an issue now? Well, I stumbled upon her journals... I know, I made a mistake (trust me, I would have rather not known). So "A" and I have been together over a year now, and it... (1142 words)

My heart is longing for the ex bf but I will hurt my current guy! Help..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend and i broke up because i always feel he is more happy with his friends and liquor than with me,i want his rest day spend with me, but there is always time that we end up together with his friends, he always tell me that he loves me so much,yeah we love each ... (838 words)

He has a new gf so why does he still tell me all these terms of endearment?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and i just broke up. The story is this: we celebrated our 33rd monthsary last 23rd of aug. We fought on the 24th, it was a big fight though, i even asked him what if we just break up? but i took it back. we didnt talk after that, we talked on the 26th, he told me that he ... (188 words)

Do I carry on having sex with this guy or not???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6050 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a friend with benefits. we have been sleeping together for a year now. 6 months into it i told him that i was starting to develope romantic feelings for him and he suggested that we end the sex before anyone gets hurt. i agreed but the next time i saw him we slept ... (230 words)

We separated because his friends have no moral, I'm afraid to go and get some things back for fear I find something that hurts me. I still feel bad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age - Why do I feel nauseated and bad and as if I were being betrayed badly when I see my ex is moving on with his life? It's like I expect him to miss me teribly for the rest of his life. When I met him he had been 8 yrs. alone and never kissed or had sex with any other woman. So... (293 words)

Am I Ok to feel like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6051 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ello, I've got what my appear to be a ridiculous question. To start off I'm 14 and have recently ended a 3 year relationship. To be honest, I am 98.6% over the guy, and it has been a few months since we have broke up. My problem is that I would like to have another guy in my ... (193 words)

I want him to notice me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I like this guy named [...]. But he has a girlfriend and my friend from dance likes him! I have liked him for a while and he still does not know! Help Please!!!... (34 words)

Moods swings from my girlfriend are killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6045 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend is 5 months pregnant, and it has been one hell of a roller coaster ride. To begin, before she was pregnant she had violent and very aggressive mood swings. She demeaned me in front of some of my friends, ripped one of my shirts, and keeps telling me she hated ... (120 words)

Is this guy just messing, or is it for real???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - ok... i have a guy at college.. he looks at me and when i look at him he smiles or even shows me wat he did from cross the room.. he always sits in a place where he will be able to make eye contact with me.. and when i started talking to him he was acting really hyper and he ... (101 words)

Do I tell him my true feelings and possibly destroy our friendship...or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

23 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 and in college (UK) and there is this lad and he is like my best mate but i really like him... the other day i was going to the bus stop and so was he and we was walking and he was asking loads of personal questions like have i got a boyfriend and would i ever go out ... (114 words)

I want my wife to quit the escort job but she wont!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

23 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - i was put out of work for the last year because of an accident. the company i worked for did not have health insurance. our income was cut by 75% and my wife's job (waitress)paid very little. it soon became pretty desperate in our house. a customer of hers, a stripper from ... (391 words)