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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

I'm a student and he knows that my financical situation is unstable and he's got a well paid job.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Is this the Austrian way of doing things or am I being foolish. I'm so confused, dating a guy for 3 months. Everything is okay. He text me sms me, not much callings but when I ask him to call he usually does. The problem is, when I'm home back got that damn feeling that ... (277 words)

Should I chuck him or keep holding on and waiting for some miracle to occur?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 years old and have had the same boyfriend for about 1 year and a half. At first it was really lovely, and then it just went sour. We have our good days, but when it gets bad, like some stupid argument over who buys what, we shout and scream and we both wind up hurt. He ... (149 words)

I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for thirteen years. I recently feel as if I want to get married and start a family but he doesn't, I am unsure if I should call it a day or just carry on waiting.... (42 words)

Ever since we had an abortion I've been a paranoid freak.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Im 17 and I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.. I know that's not a very long time but I'm crazy about him! I'm 99% sure he feels the same for me.. but I can't stop being paranoid. I'm worried that he's cheating on me, even though he has given me no reason to feel this ... (131 words)

Why is he acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok, this is going to be complicated. I went out with this boy for 3 months, and I broke up with him because he wasnt putting any effort into the relationship, at all. It was always me phoning and seeing him etc. Anyway, we were good mates for we got together, and I was his fi... (268 words)

She never calls me, I always have to call her first yet she calls her friends with no problems.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - dear cupid Hope you are fine. I have a girlfreind who I love so much, but the problem is that, I don't know if this girl loves me as much as I do her, this girl does not call me at all, I have to call her everytime... even if I send her air time... right now she is out of town ... (87 words)

I'm going crazy. Should I call him or is it too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Two weeks ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect boyfriend. Up until about three ... (483 words)

Is he ready to finish with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have a boyfriend and when we are together everything is really great. The one problem is we don't see much of each other, when I make an effort to meet him he is really vague towards me and doesn't call when he says he will, what to do!?... (50 words)

I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been dating this guy for three years now, and he says he is still not ready for a commitment. I am confused, don't you think that after three years someone should know their intentions! He has told me that he loves me, a few times. What do I do?... (51 words)

My friend said stuff to her on my computer (my MSN) so she thinks I'm a complete weirdo now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - OK so I've got a bit of a problem and it's bugging me big time. A couple weeks ago I went on a few dates with a girl and I really liked her, usually if I'm with a girl my intentions are pretty obvious, but with her it was different, I really liked her, still do. But my friend s... (165 words)

I want to find out if she does like me, but don't have the confidence to do so.. anyone got any tips or help on doing this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, I'm 20 and am a very shy lad. I struggle to be confident in front of others, especially girls. There is this one girl that I like, I work with her. We went out to see a movie and have a meal afterwards. I liked to think of it as a date, but not sure if she does. I was goin... (143 words)

What exactly is women's "cum"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 17 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I know males "cum", but so do women. But I'm not entirely sure what women's "cum" is. Is it when the women gets wet? Or is it the same as a man, (when they get excited they "squirt" come). What I'm trying to say is, What is women's "cum"? ... (49 words)

Someone has got to tell me where to go from here, I've thought and thought and thought and I have no idea what to do.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Someone has got to tell me where to go from here, I've thought and thought and thought and I have no idea what to do. I'm in love with one of my brother's best mates, and everyone found out that we liked each other and it was a big deal for a while because he's a little ... (164 words)

I am 6 weeks pregnant my partner of 5 years has left me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 229 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 6 weeks pregnant my partner of 5 years has left me. I have a daughter from a previous guy although she believes my partner who has just left is her daddy. I am engaged to be married although my partner has cancelled the wedding 3 times, saying we cant afford it. I believe ... (138 words)

Is he taking me for a ride? Do you think I can learn to trust him??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

- I got together with my boyfriend (who is 16 and I'm 19) while he was with another girl. They had only been going out for two months and we felt that what we had was really special. He's dumped her now but now I'm scared he'll do the same to me. I trusted him, but now he'... (106 words)

I have never dated and never been kissed by any other guy but this one, don't know the rules or the signals and it has been 12 years since my ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, can I get some advice please? I am 45 year old mother of 6 kids, no small ones any more. Bad marriage, only boyfriend was my ex ever. Fell for a guy three and 1/2 years ago who is 17 years younger, so I never did anything - just am too old for him. However we developed a ... (335 words)

I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Hi, I'm 23 years old and I turn 24 in a couple of months. I think I may be on the verge of a relationship with a girl who has just turned 18. Is it respectable to date a girl with this age gap?... (44 words)

I don't know if I am bi or just curious...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Am I Bisexual? I constantly stare at girls.. at their boobs and asses you know and of course I think of them sexually but I cannot see myself with a girl that I would really love. I can only see myself loving a guy although I am CONSTANTLY wondering what it would be like to... (134 words)

Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay my problem is that I'm 14, and a freshman at high school and I'm terrified of sex. I recently ended a relationship with my boyfriend, although he did not pressure me for sex I am constantly hearing girls my age losing their virginity. My sister as well who is a year older ... (203 words)

When I'm having sex when they get really deep in some positions it feels quite uncomfortable like they are just pushing my stomach up...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) - I'm quite confused if this is what others feel, when I'm having sex when they get really deep in some positions it feels quite uncomfortable like they are just pushing my stomach up, I really enjoy sex but wondered if this is normal, or is it leading up to an orgasm? I ... (95 words)

Should I kiss him? I don't want to seem slutty...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey, I recently posted a question on here about 2 days ago.. well I have another problem with "j", well first off for those who dont know, I am dating this boy named "j" and he's so sweet and kind. He's a sophmore and I am in my last year of middle school.. well we've known ... (169 words)

I think I may have got myself into a difficult situation and I need advice.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, I think I may have got myself into a difficult situation and I need advice. A few months ago I came out of a long term and very long distance relationship. It had been very difficult and I was crushed when it ended. Nearly two months later I went on holiday and met a guy. I ... (405 words)

I've been chatting with a much older woman via a dating site. Should we meet?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hello, I'm a 17 year old guy and have been chatting with a 41 year old woman via a dating site for a month or 2... We have recently swapped mobile numbers and we have started chatting regularly on MSN about causal day to day things... I really find her attractive and ... (115 words)

Since I know that electrical faults can cause house fires I've become paranoid. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I know when you read this a lot of you are going to say i'm paranoid and maybe i am but what can i do? Well i'm just absolutly scared of something bad happening like a fire or something at home, i don't know why i just am. The thing is its ruining my life because i hate... (616 words)

My boyfriend has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for taking him back but I just can't let go.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 25 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi, I'm really stuck in a relationship I don't want to be in no more, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years and he has started taking drugs cocaine, I've told him if he carrys on I'll end it but I don't think he cares. He has hit me in the past and I'm stupid for ... (106 words)

I have a really prominent chest bone....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hey I have a really prominent chest bone.... but it only shows on one side so it looks like I have 1 boob MUCH bigger than the other..... I am only 15 so my boobs are quite small.... when they develop more will the bone be covered??? and how long until they develop thankz xx... (57 words)

Since I cheated too, we're "even-steven," but I don't know if this means he will be unfaithful again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - My boyfriend cheated on me the other day. But...i did the same to him... i cheated with an ex. He knows, i told him, and he told me he cheated on me. We're being honest with each other, which he really appreciates. But he said he was upset and mad that i cheated, but since he ... (94 words)

He wants to date others but misses me when we're on a break...is all this worth it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Here is my problem...My boyfriend who I've been with for almost 5 months now is having feelings of wanting to date other people. He's had these feelings for a month or so and now we're taking a week "break". I miss him so much though, and for some reason he can't decided how he ... (89 words)

Don't want lose my best friend, if I go out with her brother she'll hate us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i am seeing a boy whos two years older than me he has a girlfriend who he has been going out with for nearly 3 years he said he would spilt up with his girlfriend for me because thats how much he loves me the only problem is that this boy is my bestfriends older brother and she ... (91 words)

Am I being unrealistic when I sit here and hope to experience that magic feeling?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm very confused right now. I'm in my 30s looking for something which most people I speak to say will never happen. I've been in a few relationships, with the longest being for 6 years which ended last year. The reason we finished is that I am looking for that magic, ... (150 words)

Apart from the age difference, he goes to uni soon and I'd only see him once a fortnight. I'm in a dilemma.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey I am in a bit of a dilemma. The thing is there is this guy who really likes me. Hes 19 and im 15. He says he really likes me but im not to sure about him. I think about him a lot and can occasionally see myself with him but am not to sure. Another bad thing is that he... (126 words)

During my recovery, I asked him to accompany me for the night, he went to his friend's party instead and slept with someone else. Should we break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been in my current relationship now for nearly 6 years. We got together when we were 16 years old. We are now at different universities, have completely different lives and all we seem to do is argue. I nag him all the time to be more affectionate, more loving, more ... (150 words)

Don't know whether I have the right to be mad but seems to me he's playing games with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - I'm tired of a lot of things. I'm talking about A LOT of things. How is it that certain boys become somewhat of a weakness for me? I was sort of seeing this guy. I guess I say that because when we hang out... and he acts a certain way with me. He holds my hand and crap like ... (224 words)

I am 13 so, why do I want sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - yah i'm 13 i know sex isn't worth it in the end but i still want it for some reason any help... (22 words)

I saw my boyfriend's "Ohhhhhh" face and it was really gross...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I saw my boyfriend's O face and it was really gross.. I was on top and I had the blanket over me cuz it was really cold and I took it off just in time when my boyfriend was getting off, cuz he was making this awful face, I have never seen before. His mouth was wide open and his ... (108 words)

I am currently in a marriage where all we do is argue. I feel at times my wife is treating me like a child.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am currently in a marriage where all we do is argue. I feel at times my wife is treating me like a child. There are times when we have gone out and she has embarassed me in front of friends and family. About a year ago I had a slight breakdown and my marriage collapsed. I ... (156 words)

I feel really bad on her boyfriend and wouldn't have got involved if I didn't want to really make a go of it with her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. Just wondered your take on this. I'm in an affair as the other man. We are very much in love an it would be amazing for both of us if she were available (bottom line is she aint!!!). Now they aint married an no kids an she thinks she can just put her head in the sand ... (391 words)

Should I email him and tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (?) age 13-15 - I really like this boy and I have known him for quite a while, I dunno if he likes me or not. I have his email adress and my question is: should I email him and tell him how I feel? I have never talked to him on msn before, and not really talked to him face to face. The other ... (89 words)

He says that he's not sure about getting married anymore. He wants to be sure before we even get officially engaged.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hello, about a month ago, my boyfriend asked me to marry him. It was very low key (there wasn't even a ring) and he said that we were going to redo it later on to make it more official. I was really excited of course and I can't wait to start my life with him. This past week ... (202 words)

Do I meet the Internet guy or stay in an unhappy relationship for the sake of my son?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi, oh god, i'm in a bad situation here. I'm 23. I have a 4 month old son, and a partner of 2 years. We live together. I have been chatting to someone else online for about 12 months now. This other guy wants to meet me. I like him alot, he wants me to leave my current partner ... (162 words)

Should I lose my virginity before university with a good friend or should I wait and try to find someone there?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - hiya. I am going to university in a couple of weeks time and dont know what i should do. Should i lose my virginity before university with a good friend or someone i like, or should i wait and try to find someone at university? Any advice would be appreciated, especially if yo... (68 words)

If we do split up how am I going to tell him I'm pregnant? He's been getting phone calls saying I'm cheating on him when I'm not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just found out I'm pregnant - I did a test last week and it said yes, I'm scared but that isn't the issue here. I don't really have any symptoms except feeling bloated [I only took a test because I'm 3 weeks late] does this mean I'll miscarry? Because I was on a website and... (284 words)

We all played spin the bottle and I ended up having sex! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (?) age 16-17 - i had a birthday party yesterday, well it was my mums birthday party and all my family came and all my mums friends came. me and my cousin got very drunk and we went upstairs out of the way, we was playing spin the bottle and the things where gettin quite rude. my friend was ... (181 words)

Had a really good first date on saturday but havent heard from him. Should I leave it for him to make the first move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Had a really good first date with a guy on thursday night. I text him once on friday nite and once on saturday night... it is now sunday and i haven't heard anything from him although it was his idea to meet up again. Shall i continue to persue him or leave it for him to make ... (80 words)

How do I get rid of the bags under my eyes from 2 bad relationships in the last 2 yrs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - How to get rid of bags under my eyes??? After a two very bad relationships in the last 2 years I am left with bags under my eyes, which I didn't have before. The puffiness has now gone - I get much more sleep - but one eye in particular has a purple semi-circle beneath it. I am ... (109 words)

I cant seem to stop flirting with guys when I've been drinking. I'm scared I will do something silly when my guy isnt out with me. I think I just crave the attention?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I cant seem to help myself from flirting with other guys when im out, even if my boyfriend is right beside me! its only when i have drink on me but im afraid to go out on my own incase i do something ill regret. like last weeknd, i almost got with another guy until one of my ... (91 words)

I'm 13 and need some ideas to make some money around the home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - how can i make a bit of cash around my house. ok i saw this coat what i like what was £25 i realy want it, but i only have five pounds how can i make money around my house to get the rest (i have already had a paper round but i quit because i went on holiday he wouldnt give me ... (70 words)

We broke up years ago because of distance and he I'm wondering if he wants me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Am over 20 and only ever been in love with one person. this person i havent seen for years since we broke up, now he keeps calling and saying he wants to see me im confused and dont know why ? does he want me back or just to be friends ? should i go back even if he does, it was ... (78 words)

Old flame continues to burn my butt, how can I extinguish the heat?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

- Hoping someone can help here...I am pretty confused. Six months ago now one thing led to another with a guy I really liked. He had been flirting with me for about a year and then he told me the next day that he had a girlfriend. We only went so far but I backed away from him ... (157 words)

I'm struggling to maintain concentration at college, anyone got any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

- coming back to college for year 13 i have absolutley no motivation for what im doin there now. a As I got an A 2B'S and a C so i know i have potnetial but i just dont know if im able to maintain it through another year...cant seem to focus at all on it. anyway have any hints or ... (63 words)

My girlfriend seems to speak to her male friend more than me! Am I right to be hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi, here's my problem: My girlfriend has a very close male friend with whom she sometimes goes out with (just the 2 of them) to plays and concerts. In addition she texts with him a whole lot and they call each other a lot too (even late at night like 1 am or so). When I ask her ... (264 words)

Why am I jealous when my boyfriend goes out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I love my boyfriend very much, and i know he would never cheat or do anything to hurt me. so why do i keep finding myself worried about him finding someone else when he goes out with the boys? and get jealous when he talks to girls? and the fact he has hundreds of them on his ... (111 words)

I proposed to her over the phone, she hung up and won't talk to me now. How to renew the relationship as best friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i just proposed a girl, who was my best friend. i proposed her on phone she went upset and hung up the phone. i phoned her later and she said not to talk to her anymore. what should i do to renew our relationship of best friends. ... (50 words)

What are the signs that a person is not over his ex, though he initiated the break-up? I'm scared to ask him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I recently broke up with my bf , and well yesterday i saw him, and he ws acting really awkward and wasn't his usual self, and kinda looked at me... he was the one who initiated the breakup... ppl said he isn't over me... are these the signs tht shows he aint over me? i wanna ... (64 words)

I'm developing feelings for my girlfriend's daughter! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 29 and have strong feelings for my 33 year old girlfriends 17 year old daughter. I keep trying to forget about these feelings, but I can't! What should I do?... (35 words)

We only just met but are already arguing. Whats going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Hi there im looking for HELP!!!!!!! i met this girl 3weeks ago and we are dateting for 1week. but whe had fights already and it was realy bad, but last night whe whent to friends and i had a alot to drink and we had a big fight over it, and i said some sfuff that was not ment ... (109 words)

My ex was straight in bed with other women after we split. But says he still loves me. Why do people use sex to get over a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I posted this the other night and got only 2 replies so i thought i would try at a different time of day to see if i can get more opinions... Do you think a man can love you if he sleeps with his ex within weeks of you splitting? And then meeting another, 10 yrs older th... (208 words)

My boyfriend wants a break, but I'm worried he will split with me for good?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I (both in college) have been dating for about 7.5 months now. I've had other boyfriends before but he's the first one I've felt strongly about; strongly enough to tell him how I felt. Just lately, we've been drifting. So we decided on a break (not to see other ... (152 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend. I feel real guilty. How can I get her trust back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i cheated on my GF the other day, but i still love her alot! i was just rubbing this girls thigh (not in her pants) but my GF freaked when i told her, and shes a wreck. I feel soo bad and guilty, and even after she found out that it was above the pants (which she thought it was ... (158 words)

I took some risque pictures on a family camera. Have since deleted them but I'm worried they could still be somewhere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - i took risque pictures of myself in the nude, using my own memory card in my mom's camera. i put the memory card in my own computer, deleted the pictures from the card, and made sure there was no saving onto the camera i borrowed. is there a chance that my pictures could b... (75 words)

I want to remain a virgin so how do I satisfy him sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - 8 September 2007 (F) - What can I do to make my boyfriend satisfied and make him enjoy during sex activity? I wanna remain a virgin, and I don't wanna act too sophisticated, please advise me!!! thanks a million... (34 words) (please andrew dont maintain the word sex in your ... (74 words)

He said the love has faded and he doesn't need me anymore. I feel used. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

9 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I met a boy who I enjoyed spending time with, he was so sad when I first met him, he didn't know a lot about the world outside of where he lived. so I did what I could to start showing him how somethings could look through other perspectives. eventually I fell for him, and he ... (231 words)

My boyfriend is abusive and I have no family to turn to. I'm also pregnant. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - hello everyone, i am hoping some one can help me iam in a abusive relationship he beats me bad and i love my boy friend i am pregnant 6 months with hes child and i have a 2 year old also hes we have been together 5 years no mater what he does he thinks sorry ... (182 words)

How do we keep our long distance relationship going?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I have been dating a guy for 4months. I now go to college an hour from him and he works. I drive down every weekend to see him. However I feel that he loses interest in me. How do I catch his attention? And Keep him interested in me?... (50 words)

My guy seems to have no emotion and I always feel like sex is a one night stand with him. Does he love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i love him but i feel sex doesnt mean anything to him as it does me he was my first and i was hes 14th that he had been with like its no big deal i ask him to make love then he gets into it saying aww i really cant wait to get u off as i am fucking you real good he... (152 words)

He says he's not ready for marriage. Am I being strung along?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

9 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 40-something childless divorcee who has been dating a 40-something childless divorcee for three years. I love him, I'm attached to his family members and ready to get married. But, he's not sure when or if he'll be ready. "Maybe 3 or 4 years from now", he says. I feel ... (66 words)

My ex has just got married but I'm still not over him! How can I move on?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - please help, am suffering from a traumatic break-up. its eating away at my soul and i feel like ending it all. i broke up with a guy 9 months ago when i found out he had a serious relatinship he was hiding from me, we went out for 3 months but those 3 months were the best ... (224 words)

I had a breast reduction and now my guy doesn't fancy me? What can I do?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got a breast reduction, because of the major back pains that i have been having for years. My husband didnot want me to have this surgery, because he said "he loves big, doopy breasts." It has been several months now, we haven't had sex because he said i am a ... (77 words)

My boyfriend is trying to palm me off onto his mate! Help!

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - he says he loves me and i used to believe this but i saw him yesterday and his friend was with us. weve been having some problems lately and i wanted to talk to him about it, but again his friend was there. then today he called me and the same friend talked to me and asked if i ... (155 words)

My folks think I'm an alcoholic druggie! How do I get them to see sense?

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9 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Alright so I've got a problem going on with my folks, they don't trust me at all. They think I'm heavy into drugs, which isn't true, I smoke weed, and I think they've known that for some time, but they're under the impretion recently that I'm into hard drugs, which isn't the ... (192 words)

Do you think this guy is only after sex?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I like a guy I met a year ago - back then we had one date and sex (well kinda,cause I was a virgin and he didn't know that:).Now I saw him few weeks ago,after that he asked for my number from a friend...Now we saw each other 2 times.He's cute and I like him but I'm not sure ... (131 words)

Me and a friend got together at a party. Now he hesn't made a move. Should I?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - A few months ago at a party me and a good mate got drunk and ended up together all night, hugging and talking, and we hooked up. Before the party we'd both admitted to liking each other, and we're good friends and know each other well. We always kind of had a thing ... (170 words)

We split. He seems only interested in the internet. How do I let him go?

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9 September 2007 (F) age 22-25 - My ex told me he prefered spending time on his computer than with me. I suggested we break up but it was clearly his choice. I don't think he knew how to tell me. He is not good with people skills. He said we can be friends, but he has almost no contact with any friends except ... (333 words)

We were together 2 years and he decided he didnt want us anymore.

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend (27) and I (26) have been dating for two years. Ten days ago, he told me he's not in love with me anymore and that he needs a break. He was everything a girl could ever dream of in a man. He truly could not have been a more perfect boyfriend. Up until about three ... (460 words)

I got asked out by a guy I like but he keeps asking rude questions. Is he only trying to find out if I'm up for it?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hi, I recently got asked out by a guy who I really like, it was all well and good until he started texting me asking how far I'd been, and if I was a virgin or not. I know its a perfectly normal question to ask, but he seemed too keen to know and almost disappointed whe... (109 words)

I got on well with a guy at work but he's backed off now I've asked him out. Should I just leave it as work mates?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to a guy at work for several months. We both have said we like each other and we have so much in common. There is great chemistry. We talked on the phone once for an hour (I called him-he has never called me) and he said that he really enjoyed talking to ... (246 words)

I love my boyfriend but I worry when he goes out with his mates that he will cheat. Why?

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9 September 2007 (F)

Should I break up with my bf or tell him I was unfaithful? I feel guilty.

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Dear cupid, I have been in a serious relationship for exactly 3 years, I love my boyfriend to death but lately we've been going through a ton of problems, mostly trust issues. I had this strong gut feeling that he was cheating on me!!!. I recently attended a wedin... (185 words)

My husband gets so unreasonably angry to our children about everything, I feel as though I'm failing them for not being able to avoid this!

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi,I'm really down,my husband has a serious drink problem,he turns from such a nice person into a real nasty person after a few hours, Always sorry next day,but its the kids i'm worried about,the nightly abuse from his words to them is heartbreaking,its as though he has no... (330 words)

How can I manage to have a normal relationship where sex and love don't have to be separate? Help me.

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Please help. Any advice would be so appreciated. My self destructive behaviour is destroying my relationship happiness. I don't know how to escape it. My dad left when I was two because my mum cheated on him. She then moved my step-dad in straight away. He was always putt... (454 words)

My mum seems angry and it might be my fault... How do I approach her?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Yesterday my sister and i had a little sibling fight. My mom got angry at us. She thinks it was mostly my fault. I don't think it was my fault because i didn't know that i was causing the fight. This morning she barged into my room while i was sleeping and slamed by jacket on ... (125 words)

How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How would you feel if your boyfriend had several female friends calling him throughout the day?... (16 words)

I love him, but he has a 2nd girlfriend!

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - we go to diffrant schools and he got a second girlfriend so that he will fit in then told me he wouldnt do aything with her but i found out he made out with her i love him and dont wanna break up with him cause i know hes having family problems right now but he keeps getiing so ... (161 words)

I am staying at my grandmother's house just now and I am soooooo bored!

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 and recently graduated high school in NY, my parents decided to take a long long vacation to Colombia which I thought I liked but not anymore. I got here almost a month ago and I got braces here because they are less expensive here but right now I am going crazy, I am ... (114 words)

I want to lose weight and I don't mind eating in moderation but I hate exercising. What's the best way I can exercise which loses a lot of calories in the shortest time?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I want to lose weight and I don't mind eating in moderation but I hate exercising. What's the best way I can exercise which loses a lot of calories in the shortest time? Also how can I tone my stomach?... (42 words)

My friend spoke to her on MSN pretending to be me saying some perverted stuff and now she won't talk to me! What can I do?

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9 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - What can I do here? Alright I went on a few dates with a girl and things were going great, but now she ignores me completely, and although I like her I can accept that and move on. But the other day my friend (who was very drunk) was on my MSN and said a bunch of weird pe... (183 words)

What can I do to keep a girl interested in me?

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9 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Why can't I keep any girls interested? It drives me nuts, I'll go on a few date with a girl, and usually they seem to be having a really good time and will ask me to call them back and give me a number and the whole bit... But then they seem to lose interest within a weeks ti... (74 words)

If he's not interested in me any more why will me ex not leave me alone?

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9 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I found a guy I fell in love with and we were together five years, he had a passion for racing bikes, which I never questioned because I loved the fun that came with it.. As soon as I mentioned maybe moving in together or taking our relationship further he ran a ... (120 words)