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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My ex was very manipulative but I get jealous when I see him getting on with his life. What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age - Please help! I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago and I was very relieved as he was a manipulative person with my life and what he thought I had to do professionaly speaking. We live close and have since talked a little and on July saw each other for like three days ... (226 words)

How can I get him to treat our kids with respect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a mother of 3 children ages(2,4 and 7) and am going on our 4th one. My common-law and I's reltionship has been for 11 years but we have been staying with eachother for 8 years now. I am settled with what I have. He has been a great husband to me.(sometimes then I do not ... (803 words)

My boyfriend's sister and niece live with him. Is it unfair of me to want to start our married life without a ready made family???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend's sister and niece live with him. He is so sweet to help her out because she is in college and a single mom and just trying to make it in this world. Well guess what? I am a widow who gets $126.00 a month for my son, I have 2 jobs, a nice house, receive absolutly ... (408 words)

Any advice on how to be a step mother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- Any advice on how to be a step mother? My husband-to-be has a kid from his previous marriage. I don't have any kids myself. Is there anything I should be aware of in order to have a good relationship with my husband and his kid? (He doesn't live with the kid right now.)... (53 words)

She said her daddy would rather spend time with me instead of her. I feel bad about being the bad person getting in between their relationship. How can I rectify this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- My boyfriend has a daughter from his previous marriage. I’ve been a very good girlfriend to be friendly with his daughter. I was told she likes me a lot and thinks I’m a cool person. The closer I am with her, the more things I learn about how she’s feeling. She told me she’s ... (355 words)

What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back. She tells me she loves me, but is seemingly incapable of the thoughtful intimacy that lets someone know you love them. She has her issues as I have mine. But she has these walls that go up ... (199 words)

Is it unhealthy to never date anyone but one person in your life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have a question... Is it unhealthy to never date anyone but one person in your life? Let me explain.. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and we love each other very much. I never dated, kissed, or made love with anyone else except with him. He however has ... (226 words)

I don't want to bombard him with texts but I really like him. What should I do???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I've met this boy at work and I really like him, I don't know if he likes me, we got talking through texts about an event happening at work we were making good conversation and he suddenly stopped texting me. I really like him but I don't want to bombard him with texts. What ... (57 words)

My boyfriend is very touchy feely. I'm scared to have sex incase it hurts. Should I just do it and get it over and done with?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hii I am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 i really like him but i think sometimes he is just wanting one thing. He always trys to put his hands down my trousers or up my top he can never just sit and be close and not touchy all the time he says he isnt just wanting sex but my frien... (128 words)

I'm 16 and my ex wont stop telling me how great her boyfriend is. Shes a good friend but I'm getting sick of it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - hi am 16 and my ex wont leave me alone, she call me 24/7 and she always talking about how great her new BF and gettinng sick of her crap, and i really do not know what to do. she a really nice friend but sometime it feels like she never liked me or cared for me. we whent out ... (95 words)

I thought having a baby would get me off the council estate. My married lover is married and has money. I wanted that lifestyle.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 18 and I have been lying about being on the contaceptive injection. I have had a hard childhood on a council estate and I thought if I got pregnant to my older boss I would get a better life. I'm pregnant and he's staying with his wife that he said was over. I have been in ... (111 words)

My family treat me bad and i'm worried when my guy comes to stay he will be verbally abusive to them..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- i feel stressed from the way my family is treating me as i failed my exams so cant go to college. in result im going into depression and seem to take it out on my bf alot. my bf is coming round in 2 weeks to stay and while im at work he going to be at mine. im scared he will be ... (112 words)

During a break my guy got with a barmaid. Hes back with me but he's still drinking in the pub she works in. I want him to stop drinking there!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we broke up in March for 6 weeks and during that time he started seeing the barmaid of the local bar he drinks in. We got back together and she kept on phoning him even though he was back with me. It didn’t bother me because I ... (186 words)

My husband works away and we only see each other once a year. He says i'm shy. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i am married and my husband does job in other country.he comes after one year and we talk on phone after one week or in emails.in our 4 years marriage i still feel a gap with my husband.he says you are shy girl..he is simple and honest man. i am really shy girl. please help me ... (60 words)

Am I being suspicious for nothing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I've not been the greatest wife in the world. We have had stressors way beyond the norm and I have been the primary money earner throughout those times. I escaped from personal problems by throwing myself into my work and by drinking when I was not at work. I became an ... (181 words)

What is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - what is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship?? ... (15 words)

Does my married boyfriend still love me?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six years and when i came along he ... (73 words)

Should I go out with him or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - What shall i do? Hi i like this boy but i dont like him he keeps asking me out and i say no i dont know if i should say yes or not so then he knows how i feel can you help me?... (47 words)

It's been 10 months and I'm still not pregnant! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - i have been trying for a baby for 10 months and nothin.ive been on the internet and worked out wen i am ovulating and done it on the dates and still nothin. my mates have told me not to think about it and that im mayb trying to hard but how can i nit think about it as ive read ... (97 words)

It's been 14 years! I think he hates me now, but I want him back! Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My heart is stuck in the past and i find it hard to move on. I was only 18 when i met this lad, he was a friend and was perfect in every way although i never knew at the time, but i fancied someone else at the time and am a one guy girl and could not see what was in front of me ... (251 words)

Is my friend to blame for my relationship ending?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hiya!!! my question isnt relli tht big its just sum advice i need!!!! i av bin goin owt wiv this boy for like 5 weeks nd he always makes a joke of finishin me then afta a couple of mins or secs he cums up 2 me gives me a love nd says he was only jokin!!!! but yestaday i wa... (293 words)

My guy said he wanted to get married now he says we argue too much!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - my boyfriend and i have been together now for 10 months and ever since the begining he always went on about getting engaged to me before my birthday well my birthday has gone now and i sort of mintioned it to him saying were u all talk he said can u blame me wen we are always ... (123 words)

My boyfriend favours his brother over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- my bf always picks his brother over me. he says family come first but he takes it to the extreme! i wanted to sleep over at his house while his parents were in lanzarote and he wouldnt let me because his 17year old was there and would hear us at it he always puts his brother ... (60 words)

My mums nagging is driving me mad!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Right...i've reached my limit! My mother is doing my head-in so much, i swear i can't take any more of it or i'll explode!!! She nags at me about everything; getting towels wet, splashing toothpaste around the sink, getting make-up on her bed, Not eating enough, eating j... (192 words)

My girl dumped me and now prefers the single life. Has this happened to anyone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi me and my girlfriend have ben on a 2 week break so far we have ben together for almost 3 years. we have a house together because the plan was to get married and do the family thing, well i moved out for her. she said she needs to see if she is still in love with me but ... (181 words)

He's been talking to girls on line. Are we doomed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Several months back, I caught my boyfriend of three years on Myspace browsing looking at pictures of women that live in my city. In addition, he had added several of these women as his "friends", which led to many arguments. He would do look at profiles and pictures wh... (414 words)

My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum refuse to even talk about the idea ... (237 words)

I want to try getting with a girl I've liked for a long time. She is in a relationship but do you think she will be bored with him by now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - Hi I sent some emails to a girl at school almost a year ago now saying that I liked her, but she rejected me because at the time she was in a strong relationship. Now I am thinking about trying to win her affections once again but I am not sure if this is wise. Will her ... (97 words)

Is my uncle lying about the guy I like saying he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - hi i like this boy called jayden but he doesnt like me what should i do? my uncle josh said he likes me but i asked him out and he said no, then my uncle josh said that jayden says nice things about me behind my back but he doesnt want me to know. then i asked josh what he said ... (113 words)

Where is the g-spot????

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - where is the g spot?... (5 words)

Will he ever marry me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We have talked about marriage and he has said that since he has been married before that he will not get married again or he will, it will just be in 10 to 15 years. He was married before, but his wife had... (210 words)

I have had a miscarriage and don't know how to tell my partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I found out thursday that I was 6weeks pregnant with his child. He really wants to be a dad so I had great pleasure in telling him on Saturday when I saw him on his own (finally!)The new problem is, is that I miss carried yesterday, and I'm so scared of telling him. I feel as ... (100 words)

My boyfriend lost his rag with me and now wont speak to me or contact me. What should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, I am 50 and my b/f is 55. We have been dating for 5 months. We have a great relationship. He tells me he loves me and shows it to me in many ways. He will do anything for me. He has a son (24) with some medical concerns who lives out of state. His son was in a hospital ... (670 words)

His ex is back from travelling next week and i'm worried she will try getting him back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- Ive been seeing this boy for 7 weeks now and I really, really like him - Im sure he feels the same too. We have really good times when were together. The problem is his ex. he really loved her when they were together but she cheated on him and they split up. She has gone tra... (143 words)

I really like this guy, he said he likes me but he has a new girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Well .. i have been flirting about with this lad for a while now .. i fell for him hardd.. and he said he liked me too .. but recently he got a new girlfriend.. and i really want him back.. there reletionship is not good.. he told me.. but he also tells me he really likes ... (78 words)

My children don't approve of me dating younger women!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I think they are just jealous ... (117 words)

I want to have secret sex with my cousin!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 41 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - hi when we were little me and my cousin used have fun, then we got older, i felt that i wanted to have sex with her but i waited till shes over 16 , then i told her how i felt for her but she refused with me to have sex, so i left it but now we both adult is there an... (136 words)

He's part of the popular group at school and i'm part of the geeky group. How can I let him know I like him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Hey all - At school there is guy I really like and he sent me messages that he liked me. All my mates said he liked me too - and I really liked him. Then he posted poems and stuff on his profile on Bebo and I was so hopeful it was for me. But then I realized it could be for ... (180 words)

My husband walked out but came back a few months later. Can I trust him now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - my husband left me in january. just walked out. i beged and beged and he would not come back. 3 month later after he lived the single life he come back only to tell me he had one night stand about a year ago i was truley heartbroken. then he tells me he had a one night stand ... (165 words)

My wife is masturbating more these days. Why?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I noticed that my wife is masturbating a lot as of late. She does it in the shower and puts the shower head on high and holds it near herself. I walked in on her once and we talked about what I saw. At that time we were not having sex much. 2 times a week at the most so it ... (256 words)

I'm not interested in him and he keeps harassing me! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

5 September 2007 (F) - He won't take no for an answer. I met a new man about 3 weeks ago. He seemed quite keen and interested in me so I gave him my number as I thought we could talk and get to know each other better. I told him I wanted to take things slowly and didn't want to rush into anything ... (383 words)

Everyone around me seems to be getting engaged but my guy doesn't seem to want to! Any guys advice would be a bonus!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 30. My partner and I have been together for nearly 4 years and while I love him dearly, I'm getting really frustrated that everyone around me seems to be getting engaged, married and/or having kids whereas I'm still 'single' (we don't even live together - although this ... (268 words)

My guy is hung up on his ex and is in contact with a couple of past conquests. Its driving me mad!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, This may be a long post but please stick with it as I am at my wits end and don't know what to do anymore. How do you know if he is over his ex-girlfriend? I was married for 15yrs to a man who was picture perfect to the outsider. However we weren’t compatible at al... (1413 words)

I'm not very good at reading what boys think of me? Any advice anyone can give me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Im not very good at reading wot boys fink ov me...so i don't really know where i stand. I really like this boy i kno, he's single and we get on fab! We always talk online, we have some fun on cam. I asked my m8 to ask him what he finks ov me nd he replied with good commen... (98 words)

Is is too late to ask for a change?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I've been seeing this guy for about 7 weeks. It started off being some casual fun, but has since developed into something more serious, calling and txting several times a day. We agreed to keep things 'open' when we started. We both enjoy snogging others, flirting, threes... (106 words)

I'm 15 and wondering what i'm doing with my life! Any advice please?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

5 September 2007 (?) - Right..at the minute im at school..i dont really no what to put..i have just started year 11. im 15. my problem is, i dont think i have many good friends..i walk around school at break and dinner on my own, that makes me seem like the loner loserish type, but thats the thing, ... (327 words)

What does my married lesbian friend want from me? She is giving me mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (?)

- I'm am writing again in regards to a woman I love. I am also a woman in my 40's. I told this woman I had feelings that were deeper than just friendship back in Jan. She denied her feelings for me, but did tell me that she was in a loveless marriage with no children at home. I ... (317 words)

My ex left me for someone else but is saying she was only friends with him back then. Its all gone wrong for her and she wants back. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Ok to cut a long story short 6 months ago my gf left me for another guy(someone that i know) it crushed me completly, anyway after 6 months of no contact she calls and we talk and then we arranged to meet. When we met it was really emotional and we got alot out in the open ... (656 words)

Masturbation has controlled my life for 7 yrs now. How can I stop?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - Masturbation has controlled my life for 7 years,how can i stop, since talking to any body and evry body has bacome a problem to me.please your help will be appreciated very much. ... (35 words)

I don't want to lose him. Whats the best way to react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - The man that I was dated the previous months now is always occupied with his work and his own matters. Although I have called him some times and seems interested to get out with me he doesn't eventually arrange a date. Sometimes he called me but I reacted with so much stress ... (159 words)

I like this guy at work but even though he said yes to going out he doesn't seem interested. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok i really like this guy i work with hes like my boss and older than me! i asked him out for a drink he said yes but he dont seem to interested. then it gets more complicated someone else likes him and asked him out i quized him bout it he said ehe would go out with me which ... (94 words)

Do I break contact with my ex? I still have feelings for her and find it hard to move on..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (M) - Breaking off contact. Help please..... I'm 36 and my now ex girlfriend is 40..... we were in a long distance relationship for 4 years and split nearly 4 months ago. During our time together we had a fantastic relationship, very compatible and on the 'same wavelength' most... (565 words)

My ex said I didnt give him enough sex. How do I deal with this in future relationships?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for over three years and had an amazing sex life. We had sex atleast once a day if not more, but when he would get drunk and wanted to have sex he would be so ruff and demanding which was a complete turn off. Everytime we would end up getting ... (224 words)

My wife has assured me she didnt do anything with a guy she had strong feelings for. We have sorted it but I cant forget it and we see the guy regularly. Help!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Iv,e been married for 10 years.About six months ago it became clear that my wife had developed strong feelings for another guy,a mutual friend.They had spent some time together though I'm pretty sure nothing pysical happened.I confronted my wife and the guy and we went through ... (123 words)

How do I ask a guy I like out? I'm scared of rejection.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F) - Hi there is this guy who i like, and im good mates with him,he is 27 and im 22, and he is one of the managers of mcdonalds in town,where i live,im very good mates with one of the other young managers their too, but i like the 27 year old. ive been planning to ask him o... (112 words)

My brother is 2 years younger than me and lost his virginity. I'm still a virgin and been in a relationship 2 months! How am I suppose to feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Ok I need a bit of advice or reassurance because I've been feeling really confused lately. Well, not confused but I can't organise my thoughts to work out how I feel properly. Basically, I'm 17 and a virgin and I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half months but we were ... (309 words)

Have I blown it??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hey, Iv'e been seeing a friend for 3 weeks and last night i was going to ask him to make official between us but i think hes blown me off. We walked home after going to the pub with friends and he said he was tired and wanted to go home alone because he had to be up early fo... (200 words)

He says he never had intentions of meeting girls he chats too...and the lie detector agrees with him!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I really need your advice, i have been dating a guy since March this year, at the start of May i found a txt in his phone saying ''sorry to call you soo many times but i thought youd let me know what you were up to''. I confronted him about this at the time and he said she... (755 words)

I never really enjoy oral sex...how do I approach my partner??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just started dating a really nice guy and our relationship is progressing to a more intimate stage. My problem is oral sex. I've suffered with various ailments around that part of my body since I had my son 14 years ago and I've never really been able to fully enjoy ... (87 words)

Should I move on or give him a second chance??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, i'm a female 26 yrs of age. Due to the kind of family i was raised with i really stareted sex very late, i started it when i was 22yrs. The thing is i always belived in marriege and i never wanted to have an affair so i waited so long but unfortunatly failed due to the k... (536 words)

Can there be love without trust??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - Can there be love without trust? I keep believing there can be, but I am having my doubts and I need your advice. I need opinions so I can have options to choose from. Sorry, but this is going to be a long post. If you have the patience, do read on... or just give me your opi... (794 words)

I'm finally moving to where my girlfriend is! Am I making the right decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I just don't know what to do. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years, and I love her a lot. We live 6 hours away from each other so we barely see each other, but talk every night and even fall asleep on the phone together. I'm madly in love with her but she doesn't know ... (162 words)

I am always there for my friends, but when I need them, I have no one to help me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

- I feel all alone. I feel like I have NO ONE to talk to or to depend on, hence me on this web site, seeking for help. If I felt I had people in my life who cared enough to listen I would be going to them. But I dont have that. Ever since I broke up with my bf Ive felt very ve... (423 words)

It's a lose-lose situation, with or without a condom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 24 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 22-25 - i go soft during sex with a condom sometimes and without a condom i cum within seconds. any tips will be gratful... (22 words)

I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend likes his friend. Am I overreacting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now, and he has never shown any signs of infidelity. Lately, though, I have this strange feeling that maybe he has feelings for a friend of his. I have had this feeling since march, and everytime he talks about her, it ... (424 words)

I hate giving oral sex! How can I get over it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

5 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - i'm worried about how my girlfriend feels because i don't give her oral sex. we've been together 4 months and having sex for 3. she has never said anything about it but i really want to please her but it disgusts me even thinking about doing it. my first experience of giving ... (79 words)

Am I to blame for the loss of my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if I'm to blame for the loss of my friends. I'm in my thirties and I'm feeling kind of friendless after my recent break up. I know I neglected the few friends I had when I went into my last relationship. I'm trying to talk to them again but its not the same. The ... (118 words)

Is it normal to bleed like this after pregnancy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 254 days ago

5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i gave birth 6 months ago i had my first period last month or more than a month ago before that is just spotting but my concern is that it's been a month already that im bleeding some of the time it's really a lot and some is just normal sometimes i tought it was the end of my ... (74 words)

I found emails between him and his ex! I don't know if I should trust him!

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - he went on vacation for 40 days he called me every morning and every night and throught the day but i was lookin at his email account out of curiousity i looked in his trash and saw that he was messaging his ex he said she was hot and that he liked her they asked each other ... (137 words)

Any ideas on how I can get over my exgirlfriend of 7 months?

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5 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - my ex gf now of 7 months.....i just cant get over her......i still miss her so much.....i love her also.....i have tried to ask someone out at school but i just can't i always think of her............and i feel like im betraying her..........any ideas of how i can get over ... (59 words)

My friend will never love me like I love him. Should I still keep in touch with him?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in the process of ending a long-term, long-distance relationship. It evolved from friendship to bed buddies back to good friends. It's hard! I fell in love, wanted more and he did not. I am trying to end all communication with him but it's extremely difficult, because ... (150 words)

How can I make my mom accept the age difference between me and my girlfriend?

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5 September 2007 (M)

age 16-17 - I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do to make my mom accept us ... (67 words)

I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to give him a BJ!

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - this one guy that i like, he wants a bj but everyone tells me how big he is. i've even seen it on webcam i'm scared i won't be able to give him a bj or anything cause it would be to big and i will end up embarassed. please give me advice.... (53 words)

How do I tell this guy I really do like him??

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I still like this guy and he gets upset sometimes cause one night we were all hanging out i hook up with other guys and stuff. The guy i like doesn't care but then he knows my friend doesn't like him and thinks he is using me which he isn't actually me and him discusse... (176 words)

My friend is so physical with me! Does she like me?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I have been working with this married women for almost a year now. She is 10 yrs older then me. Ever since we met we have been cool with eachother. She has always been very phsyical with me, like playing around. The more we became friends the more phsyical and playful she ... (222 words)

Everyone thinks she is stringing me along, but I don't know what to think!

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5 September 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - 6 months ago I told a girl (25 yrs) that i was interested in her, she says that she is interested as well but is not ready for dating or a relationship....still 6 months later. She has been separated from her only BF for over 7 months now and though I dont feel that she is ... (116 words)

I find it hard to cope with surprise meetings with my ex.

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5 September 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were together for seven years, but we split up three years ago. She said she had stopped listening to me and never really talked to me about the relationship again. This would be fine except for the fact that we share the same friends and the same social circles. I ... (86 words)

What do the words "dating" and "committed" really mean?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - i would like to know what dating really means and commited really means??... (13 words)

How do you leave somebody you love??

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it possible to move forward and end a marriage you dont want to end but you have no choice to because the other person is just a taker? How do you leave someone you love? Especially without a support system. How do you throw in the towel when you love someone with all your ... (70 words)

Should I tell my parents that I'm bi?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi im sixteen and im bi. Should I tell my parents? Or should I just keep it a secret for as long as i can? I really dont know what to do, my parents are very religious and would blame my friends (one of my friends is the reason why im bi ;) ) but idk how to tell them. What ... (66 words)

How can you tell if you really love someone and its not just a crush?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - How can you tell if you really love someone and its not just a crush????... (15 words)

My boss and I are involved, and he is separated. Is this wrong?

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Is this wrong? I am a single woman living somewhere in Florida. I started working at a consulting firm a year and half ago. Since that time I gotten a long with quite a few colleagues very well. Specifically, a few colleagues one of which is a partner ( and my boss) at the ... (187 words)

He said he would call me, and it has been five days!

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - So, I had my first kiss with a guy at a football game. I actually didnt even know him..it was stupid but i guess i was in the mood. He said he'd call, and now since friday he hasnt! i guess it over, isnt it? I didnt get HIS number [other stuoid thing] cuz he said HE wou... (80 words)

I'd do anything to have him! Help me!

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5 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hey, I'm 15 and I always seem to like the type of guys who would never like me.Grrr. See, I'm the shy girl. Artsy, dreamy and quiet {until I know you] He's an athletic, 17, and uhm...hot. He's in my gym class and I just take a look at him and like..die! Haha I want ... (164 words)

Her family forbids her to see me, but we make each other so happy!

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5 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - what do i do? DONT JUDGE ME BASED ON MY AGE! shes 16 btw yeah im gonna try to keep this short to avoid any confusion basically ive been with a girl now for around 6 months and it was unofficail until about 4 weeks ago her parents hate me because of my past and forbid us... (160 words)