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My ex was very manipulative but I get jealous when I see him getting on with his life. What's wrong with me?

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5 September 2007 (F age - Please help! I broke up with my boyfriend three months ago and I was very relieved as he was a manipulative person with my life and what he thought I had to do professionaly speaking. We live close and have since talked a little and on July saw each other for like three days ... (226 words

How can I get him to treat our kids with respect?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am a mother of 3 children ages(2,4 and 7) and am going on our 4th one. My common-law and I's reltionship has been for 11 years but we have been staying with eachother for 8 years now. I am settled with what I have. He has been a great husband to me.(sometimes then I do not ... (803 words

My boyfriend's sister and niece live with him. Is it unfair of me to want to start our married life without a ready made family???

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend's sister and niece live with him. He is so sweet to help her out because she is in college and a single mom and just trying to make it in this world. Well guess what? I am a widow who gets $126.00 a month for my son, I have 2 jobs, a nice house, receive absolutly ... (408 words

Any advice on how to be a step mother?

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5 September 2007 (F - Any advice on how to be a step mother? My husband-to-be has a kid from his previous marriage. I don't have any kids myself. Is there anything I should be aware of in order to have a good relationship with my husband and his kid? (He doesn't live with the kid right now.)... (53 words

She said her daddy would rather spend time with me instead of her. I feel bad about being the bad person getting in between their relationship. How can I rectify this?

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5 September 2007 (F - My boyfriend has a daughter from his previous marriage. I’ve been a very good girlfriend to be friendly with his daughter. I was told she likes me a lot and thinks I’m a cool person. The closer I am with her, the more things I learn about how she’s feeling. She told me she’s ... (355 words

What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back?

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5 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - What do you do when the person that you love just isn't capable of giving you love back. She tells me she loves me, but is seemingly incapable of the thoughtful intimacy that lets someone know you love them. She has her issues as I have mine. But she has these walls that go up ... (199 words

Is it unhealthy to never date anyone but one person in your life?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have a question... Is it unhealthy to never date anyone but one person in your life? Let me explain.. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half and we love each other very much. I never dated, kissed, or made love with anyone else except with him. He however has ... (226 words

I don't want to bombard him with texts but I really like him. What should I do???

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I've met this boy at work and I really like him, I don't know if he likes me, we got talking through texts about an event happening at work we were making good conversation and he suddenly stopped texting me. I really like him but I don't want to bombard him with texts. What ... (57 words

My boyfriend is very touchy feely. I'm scared to have sex incase it hurts. Should I just do it and get it over and done with?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hii I am 14 and my boyfriend is 17 i really like him but i think sometimes he is just wanting one thing. He always trys to put his hands down my trousers or up my top he can never just sit and be close and not touchy all the time he says he isnt just wanting sex but my frien... (128 words

I'm 16 and my ex wont stop telling me how great her boyfriend is. Shes a good friend but I'm getting sick of it!

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5 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - hi am 16 and my ex wont leave me alone, she call me 24/7 and she always talking about how great her new BF and gettinng sick of her crap, and i really do not know what to do. she a really nice friend but sometime it feels like she never liked me or cared for me. we whent out ... (95 words

I thought having a baby would get me off the council estate. My married lover is married and has money. I wanted that lifestyle.

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 18 and I have been lying about being on the contaceptive injection. I have had a hard childhood on a council estate and I thought if I got pregnant to my older boss I would get a better life. I'm pregnant and he's staying with his wife that he said was over. I have been in ... (111 words

My family treat me bad and i'm worried when my guy comes to stay he will be verbally abusive to them..

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5 September 2007 (F - i feel stressed from the way my family is treating me as i failed my exams so cant go to college. in result im going into depression and seem to take it out on my bf alot. my bf is coming round in 2 weeks to stay and while im at work he going to be at mine. im scared he will be ... (112 words

During a break my guy got with a barmaid. Hes back with me but he's still drinking in the pub she works in. I want him to stop drinking there!

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years we broke up in March for 6 weeks and during that time he started seeing the barmaid of the local bar he drinks in. We got back together and she kept on phoning him even though he was back with me. It didn’t bother me because I ... (186 words

My husband works away and we only see each other once a year. He says i'm shy. Please help.

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - i am married and my husband does job in other country.he comes after one year and we talk on phone after one week or in emails.in our 4 years marriage i still feel a gap with my husband.he says you are shy girl..he is simple and honest man. i am really shy girl. please help me ... (60 words

Am I being suspicious for nothing?

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5 September 2007 (F age - Hi. I've not been the greatest wife in the world. We have had stressors way beyond the norm and I have been the primary money earner throughout those times. I escaped from personal problems by throwing myself into my work and by drinking when I was not at work. I became an ... (181 words

What is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship??

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - what is the best way to tell a guy you messed up in a relationship?? ... (15 words

Does my married boyfriend still love me?

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5 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - My married boyfriend is scared to death of his wife. I bought him a cell phone and now I havent heard from him in three weeks but he is listening to all my messages is there any hope he loves me still?? His wife and him have not been happy for six years and when i came along he ... (73 words

Should I go out with him or not?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - What shall i do? Hi i like this boy but i dont like him he keeps asking me out and i say no i dont know if i should say yes or not so then he knows how i feel can you help me?... (47 words

It's been 10 months and I'm still not pregnant! Any advice?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - i have been trying for a baby for 10 months and nothin.ive been on the internet and worked out wen i am ovulating and done it on the dates and still nothin. my mates have told me not to think about it and that im mayb trying to hard but how can i nit think about it as ive read ... (97 words

It's been 14 years! I think he hates me now, but I want him back! Is there anything I can do?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - My heart is stuck in the past and i find it hard to move on. I was only 18 when i met this lad, he was a friend and was perfect in every way although i never knew at the time, but i fancied someone else at the time and am a one guy girl and could not see what was in front of me ... (251 words

Is my friend to blame for my relationship ending?

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5 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - hiya!!! my question isnt relli tht big its just sum advice i need!!!! i av bin goin owt wiv this boy for like 5 weeks nd he always makes a joke of finishin me then afta a couple of mins or secs he cums up 2 me gives me a love nd says he was only jokin!!!! but yestaday i wa... (293 words

My guy said he wanted to get married now he says we argue too much!

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together now for 10 months and ever since the begining he always went on about getting engaged to me before my birthday well my birthday has gone now and i sort of mintioned it to him saying were u all talk he said can u blame me wen we are always ... (123 words

My mums nagging is driving me mad!

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Right...i've reached my limit! My mother is doing my head-in so much, i swear i can't take any more of it or i'll explode!!! She nags at me about everything; getting towels wet, splashing toothpaste around the sink, getting make-up on her bed, Not eating enough, eating j... (192 words

My girl dumped me and now prefers the single life. Has this happened to anyone else?

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5 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - hi me and my girlfriend have ben on a 2 week break so far we have ben together for almost 3 years. we have a house together because the plan was to get married and do the family thing, well i moved out for her. she said she needs to see if she is still in love with me but ... (181 words

He's been talking to girls on line. Are we doomed?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi. Several months back, I caught my boyfriend of three years on Myspace browsing looking at pictures of women that live in my city. In addition, he had added several of these women as his "friends", which led to many arguments. He would do look at profiles and pictures wh... (414 words

My mum wont let me stay over at my boyfriends house. Should iI keep trying to convince her?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I'm 19 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for one year and 3 months. We are very much in love, and can see our futures together. He gets on really really well with all my family, my parents completely adore him!! Only problem is my mum refuse to even talk about the idea ... (237 words

I want to try getting with a girl I've liked for a long time. She is in a relationship but do you think she will be bored with him by now?

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5 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - Hi I sent some emails to a girl at school almost a year ago now saying that I liked her, but she rejected me because at the time she was in a strong relationship. Now I am thinking about trying to win her affections once again but I am not sure if this is wise. Will her ... (97 words

Is my uncle lying about the guy I like saying he likes me?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i like this boy called jayden but he doesnt like me what should i do? my uncle josh said he likes me but i asked him out and he said no, then my uncle josh said that jayden says nice things about me behind my back but he doesnt want me to know. then i asked josh what he said ... (113 words

Where is the g-spot????

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Will he ever marry me?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Dear Cupid: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 years. We have talked about marriage and he has said that since he has been married before that he will not get married again or he will, it will just be in 10 to 15 years. He was married before, but his wife had... (210 words

I have had a miscarriage and don't know how to tell my partner?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I found out thursday that I was 6weeks pregnant with his child. He really wants to be a dad so I had great pleasure in telling him on Saturday when I saw him on his own (finally!)The new problem is, is that I miss carried yesterday, and I'm so scared of telling him. I feel as ... (100 words

My boyfriend lost his rag with me and now wont speak to me or contact me. What should I do?

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5 September 2007 (F age - Ok, I am 50 and my b/f is 55. We have been dating for 5 months. We have a great relationship. He tells me he loves me and shows it to me in many ways. He will do anything for me. He has a son (24) with some medical concerns who lives out of state. His son was in a hospital ... (670 words

His ex is back from travelling next week and i'm worried she will try getting him back!

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5 September 2007 (F - Ive been seeing this boy for 7 weeks now and I really, really like him - Im sure he feels the same too. We have really good times when were together. The problem is his ex. he really loved her when they were together but she cheated on him and they split up. She has gone tra... (143 words

I really like this guy, he said he likes me but he has a new girlfriend. What should I do?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Well .. i have been flirting about with this lad for a while now .. i fell for him hardd.. and he said he liked me too .. but recently he got a new girlfriend.. and i really want him back.. there reletionship is not good.. he told me.. but he also tells me he really likes ... (78 words

My children don't approve of me dating younger women!

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5 September 2007 (M age - I am a sedate older guy and I like to date young girls (not under 18 young). My children (also over 18) always harrass me and my girlfriend saving I am perverted. My girlfriend and I get along well. We go out and on road trips every few months. I think they are just jealous ... (117 words

He's part of the popular group at school and i'm part of the geeky group. How can I let him know I like him?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey all - At school there is guy I really like and he sent me messages that he liked me. All my mates said he liked me too - and I really liked him. Then he posted poems and stuff on his profile on Bebo and I was so hopeful it was for me. But then I realized it could be for ... (180 words

My husband walked out but came back a few months later. Can I trust him now?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - my husband left me in january. just walked out. i beged and beged and he would not come back. 3 month later after he lived the single life he come back only to tell me he had one night stand about a year ago i was truley heartbroken. then he tells me he had a one night stand ... (165 words

My wife is masturbating more these days. Why?

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5 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - I noticed that my wife is masturbating a lot as of late. She does it in the shower and puts the shower head on high and holds it near herself. I walked in on her once and we talked about what I saw. At that time we were not having sex much. 2 times a week at the most so it ... (256 words

I'm not interested in him and he keeps harassing me! What can I do?

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5 September 2007 (F - He won't take no for an answer. I met a new man about 3 weeks ago. He seemed quite keen and interested in me so I gave him my number as I thought we could talk and get to know each other better. I told him I wanted to take things slowly and didn't want to rush into anything ... (383 words

Everyone around me seems to be getting engaged but my guy doesn't seem to want to! Any guys advice would be a bonus!

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm 30. My partner and I have been together for nearly 4 years and while I love him dearly, I'm getting really frustrated that everyone around me seems to be getting engaged, married and/or having kids whereas I'm still 'single' (we don't even live together - although this ... (268 words

My guy is hung up on his ex and is in contact with a couple of past conquests. Its driving me mad!

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5 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - Hello, This may be a long post but please stick with it as I am at my wits end and don't know what to do anymore. How do you know if he is over his ex-girlfriend? I was married for 15yrs to a man who was picture perfect to the outsider. However we weren’t compatible at al... (1413 words

I'm not very good at reading what boys think of me? Any advice anyone can give me?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Im not very good at reading wot boys fink ov me...so i don't really know where i stand. I really like this boy i kno, he's single and we get on fab! We always talk online, we have some fun on cam. I asked my m8 to ask him what he finks ov me nd he replied with good commen... (98 words

Is is too late to ask for a change?

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5 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Ok I've been seeing this guy for about 7 weeks. It started off being some casual fun, but has since developed into something more serious, calling and txting several times a day. We agreed to keep things 'open' when we started. We both enjoy snogging others, flirting, threes... (106 words

I'm 15 and wondering what i'm doing with my life! Any advice please?

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5 September 2007 (? - Right..at the minute im at school..i dont really no what to put..i have just started year 11. im 15. my problem is, i dont think i have many good friends..i walk around school at break and dinner on my own, that makes me seem like the loner loserish type, but thats the thing, ... (327 words

What does my married lesbian friend want from me? She is giving me mixed signals.

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5 September 2007 (? - I'm am writing again in regards to a woman I love. I am also a woman in my 40's. I told this woman I had feelings that were deeper than just friendship back in Jan. She denied her feelings for me, but did tell me that she was in a loveless marriage with no children at home. I ... (317 words

My ex left me for someone else but is saying she was only friends with him back then. Its all gone wrong for her and she wants back. What should I do?

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5 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Ok to cut a long story short 6 months ago my gf left me for another guy(someone that i know) it crushed me completly, anyway after 6 months of no contact she calls and we talk and then we arranged to meet. When we met it was really emotional and we got alot out in the open ... (656 words

Masturbation has controlled my life for 7 yrs now. How can I stop?

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5 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Masturbation has controlled my life for 7 years,how can i stop, since talking to any body and evry body has bacome a problem to me.please your help will be appreciated very much. ... (35 words

I don't want to lose him. Whats the best way to react?

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5 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - The man that I was dated the previous months now is always occupied with his work and his own matters. Although I have called him some times and seems interested to get out with me he doesn't eventually arrange a date. Sometimes he called me but I reacted with so much stress ... (159 words

I like this guy at work but even though he said yes to going out he doesn't seem interested. What should I do?

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Ok i really like this guy i work with hes like my boss and older than me! i asked him out for a drink he said yes but he dont seem to interested. then it gets more complicated someone else likes him and asked him out i quized him bout it he said ehe would go out with me which ... (94 words

Do I break contact with my ex? I still have feelings for her and find it hard to move on..

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5 September 2007 (M - Breaking off contact. Help please..... I'm 36 and my now ex girlfriend is 40..... we were in a long distance relationship for 4 years and split nearly 4 months ago. During our time together we had a fantastic relationship, very compatible and on the 'same wavelength' most... (565 words

My ex said I didnt give him enough sex. How do I deal with this in future relationships?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - My ex-boyfriend and I were together for over three years and had an amazing sex life. We had sex atleast once a day if not more, but when he would get drunk and wanted to have sex he would be so ruff and demanding which was a complete turn off. Everytime we would end up getting ... (224 words

My wife has assured me she didnt do anything with a guy she had strong feelings for. We have sorted it but I cant forget it and we see the guy regularly. Help!

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5 September 2007 (M age - Iv,e been married for 10 years.About six months ago it became clear that my wife had developed strong feelings for another guy,a mutual friend.They had spent some time together though I'm pretty sure nothing pysical happened.I confronted my wife and the guy and we went through ... (123 words

How do I ask a guy I like out? I'm scared of rejection.

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5 September 2007 (F - Hi there is this guy who i like, and im good mates with him,he is 27 and im 22, and he is one of the managers of mcdonalds in town,where i live,im very good mates with one of the other young managers their too, but i like the 27 year old. ive been planning to ask him o... (112 words

Have I blown it??

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - hey, Iv'e been seeing a friend for 3 weeks and last night i was going to ask him to make official between us but i think hes blown me off. We walked home after going to the pub with friends and he said he was tired and wanted to go home alone because he had to be up early fo... (200 words

He says he never had intentions of meeting girls he chats too...and the lie detector agrees with him!!

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I really need your advice, i have been dating a guy since March this year, at the start of May i found a txt in his phone saying ''sorry to call you soo many times but i thought youd let me know what you were up to''. I confronted him about this at the time and he said she... (755 words

I never really enjoy oral sex...how do I approach my partner??

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5 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I've just started dating a really nice guy and our relationship is progressing to a more intimate stage. My problem is oral sex. I've suffered with various ailments around that part of my body since I had my son 14 years ago and I've never really been able to fully enjoy ... (87 words

Should I move on or give him a second chance??

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi, i'm a female 26 yrs of age. Due to the kind of family i was raised with i really stareted sex very late, i started it when i was 22yrs. The thing is i always belived in marriege and i never wanted to have an affair so i waited so long but unfortunatly failed due to the k... (536 words

Can there be love without trust??

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5 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Can there be love without trust? I keep believing there can be, but I am having my doubts and I need your advice. I need opinions so I can have options to choose from. Sorry, but this is going to be a long post. If you have the patience, do read on... or just give me your opi... (794 words

I'm finally moving to where my girlfriend is! Am I making the right decision?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I just don't know what to do. I've been dating my girlfriend for two years, and I love her a lot. We live 6 hours away from each other so we barely see each other, but talk every night and even fall asleep on the phone together. I'm madly in love with her but she doesn't know ... (162 words

I am always there for my friends, but when I need them, I have no one to help me!

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5 September 2007 (F - I feel all alone. I feel like I have NO ONE to talk to or to depend on, hence me on this web site, seeking for help. If I felt I had people in my life who cared enough to listen I would be going to them. But I dont have that. Ever since I broke up with my bf Ive felt very ve... (423 words

It's a lose-lose situation, with or without a condom

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5 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - i go soft during sex with a condom sometimes and without a condom i cum within seconds. any tips will be gratful... (22 words

I have a gut feeling that my boyfriend likes his friend. Am I overreacting?

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5 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for two and a half years now, and he has never shown any signs of infidelity. Lately, though, I have this strange feeling that maybe he has feelings for a friend of his. I have had this feeling since march, and everytime he talks about her, it ... (424 words

I hate giving oral sex! How can I get over it?

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5 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - i'm worried about how my girlfriend feels because i don't give her oral sex. we've been together 4 months and having sex for 3. she has never said anything about it but i really want to please her but it disgusts me even thinking about doing it. my first experience of giving ... (79 words

Am I to blame for the loss of my friends?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm wondering if I'm to blame for the loss of my friends. I'm in my thirties and I'm feeling kind of friendless after my recent break up. I know I neglected the few friends I had when I went into my last relationship. I'm trying to talk to them again but its not the same. The ... (118 words

Is it normal to bleed like this after pregnancy?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - i gave birth 6 months ago i had my first period last month or more than a month ago before that is just spotting but my concern is that it's been a month already that im bleeding some of the time it's really a lot and some is just normal sometimes i tought it was the end of my ... (74 words

I found emails between him and his ex! I don't know if I should trust him!

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - he went on vacation for 40 days he called me every morning and every night and throught the day but i was lookin at his email account out of curiousity i looked in his trash and saw that he was messaging his ex he said she was hot and that he liked her they asked each other ... (137 words

Any ideas on how I can get over my exgirlfriend of 7 months?

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5 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - my ex gf now of 7 months.....i just cant get over her......i still miss her so much.....i love her also.....i have tried to ask someone out at school but i just can't i always think of her............and i feel like im betraying her..........any ideas of how i can get over ... (59 words

My friend will never love me like I love him. Should I still keep in touch with him?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm in the process of ending a long-term, long-distance relationship. It evolved from friendship to bed buddies back to good friends. It's hard! I fell in love, wanted more and he did not. I am trying to end all communication with him but it's extremely difficult, because ... (150 words

How can I make my mom accept the age difference between me and my girlfriend?

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5 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - I'm 16 and I'm dating a 25 year old girl and we love each other very much. My mom thinks she is 18 but on my g/f's myspace it says 25. My mom said that if she is 25 she will have my g/f sent to jail. I don't want to break up with her. What can I do to make my mom accept us ... (67 words

I'm scared that I wouldn't be able to give him a BJ!

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - this one guy that i like, he wants a bj but everyone tells me how big he is. i've even seen it on webcam i'm scared i won't be able to give him a bj or anything cause it would be to big and i will end up embarassed. please give me advice.... (53 words

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I still like this guy and he gets upset sometimes cause one night we were all hanging out i hook up with other guys and stuff. The guy i like doesn't care but then he knows my friend doesn't like him and thinks he is using me which he isn't actually me and him discusse... (176 words

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5 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - My ex and I were together for seven years, but we split up three years ago. She said she had stopped listening to me and never really talked to me about the relationship again. This would be fine except for the fact that we share the same friends and the same social circles. I ... (86 words

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How do you leave somebody you love??

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Should I tell my parents that I'm bi?

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My boss and I are involved, and he is separated. Is this wrong?

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5 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is this wrong? I am a single woman living somewhere in Florida. I started working at a consulting firm a year and half ago. Since that time I gotten a long with quite a few colleagues very well. Specifically, a few colleagues one of which is a partner ( and my boss) at the ... (187 words

He said he would call me, and it has been five days!

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - So, I had my first kiss with a guy at a football game. I actually didnt even know him..it was stupid but i guess i was in the mood. He said he'd call, and now since friday he hasnt! i guess it over, isnt it? I didnt get HIS number [other stuoid thing] cuz he said HE wou... (80 words

I'd do anything to have him! Help me!

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5 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15 and I always seem to like the type of guys who would never like me.Grrr. See, I'm the shy girl. Artsy, dreamy and quiet {until I know you] He's an athletic, 17, and uhm...hot. He's in my gym class and I just take a look at him and like..die! Haha I want ... (164 words

Her family forbids her to see me, but we make each other so happy!

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5 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - what do i do? DONT JUDGE ME BASED ON MY AGE! shes 16 btw yeah im gonna try to keep this short to avoid any confusion basically ive been with a girl now for around 6 months and it was unofficail until about 4 weeks ago her parents hate me because of my past and forbid us... (160 words

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