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I may be pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I'm 21 years old and might me pregnant with my boyfriend of 1 year's baby. I told him there is a chance. I am going to the doctors today to find out. He said that he hopes it is not that. He hopes that it is something completely different but non worrisome. He said that he just ... (233 words

How can I tell my mom I'm not a virgin without freaking her out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6008 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - how do u tell your mom who is a massive freaking out person that there 15year old daughter isnt a virgin?... (21 words

She seems cold, distant and unaffectionate. Where's this come from?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Recently, my girlfriend started behaving really cold, distant and unaffectionate. She says I haven't done anything wrong, she just gets this way when she's about due on. I know she can "run cold" when this happens, but I've never experienced her so withdrawn. We still talk, but ... (254 words

I don't know how to handle marriage anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Early in our marriage, getting way too challenging, don't know how to handle it anymore. We met in grad school, only dated for just over a year before getting married. We had (I thought) very similar goals in our careers, and we both liked the same things (baseball games,... (394 words

Does my teacher like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay first of all i would like to say that i DO NOT find my teacher attractive in anyway but i would like to know if he finds me attractive and if i should have a word with him or stay away... as i do not want to be like his teachers pet like last year where there were rumours ... (1064 words

I want neutral conversation, but he feels distant...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Okay, So my boyfriend who I have mention has been stressed with college and having to spend a good amount of money on nessecary purchases. I have been trying to give him space, I feel that maybe if i dont give he will want me more?? I want to talk to him and tell him how ... (116 words

I think my g/f might be cheating with her BOSS!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Help I need some advice. I know its a long post but please take the time to read it you'll probably be suprised. I think my girlfriend might be cheating with her boss. Recently it's come to my attention that her new boss has been texting my lady late at night. She dosen't know ... (590 words

He's been giving out his number to others! What should I make of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Well I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Just spent the last month working out boundaries, like do we want open/closed relationship, etc. About 2 weeks ago we decided together that we would be able to have fun with others in clubs (ie sexy dancing/snogging... (180 words

I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship. We got on quite well, but now he's ignoring me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Guys feel free to give me your opinion..please! I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship, we really liked eachother and met up a few times. He text me all the time, called late at night, always wanted to hug me/ see me and was q suggestive sexually etc ... (143 words

What can I do to help her be more comfortable when fooling around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 September 2007 (? age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationship, about 2.5 hours between us, both in college, been going out for almost 6 months now. We both think sex or even just giving each other an orgasm is going too far before marriage but we still fool around. Though I do more of the ... (258 words

I want to make sure my teacher doesn't get into trouble before I make steps towards a relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Will my teacher get into trouble if we have a relationship? I'm 18 and my teacher is right out of university he's 23. I'v always dated older men but this is different. He is a teacher at my school. I really like but i don't know how he feels I catch him looking at me an... (119 words

Is "living together for the kids" possible... ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - i have been going through a really difficult time with my husband and have tried everything to sort it out and have come to the conclusion that there is no point on trying anymore.the dilema is neither of us can afford to move out does anyone think you can live together for the ... (133 words

My fiancee and I recently moved... but she keeps calling her dad back in Texas and seems unable to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - My fiance and i recently moved to reno from texas, her father is in texas and they talk at least seven times a day and it seems that she cant get on with her life because she is so preoccupied with her father. Unfortuantely this is taking its toll on me and im not sure how ... (85 words

In a new relationship, but still horribly in love with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5924 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and move on and i feel really out of ... (67 words

Still have feelings for my ex... Was it best that we remained friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I was with my ex boyfriend on and off for over a year and i fell in love with him. We split up and i tried to move on, still having feelings for him. I'm currently in a relationship with 1 of his best mates but i stil miss my ex and think about him all the time. I made my ... (83 words

Is there anything wrong with spending the night with your best friend in the world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Is it so wrong for 2 best friends who have known each other all their lives to sleep in the same bed and have a cuddle just somehting like 1 night a week at the most? Because me and my best friend do this and it is only fore a cuddle and to sleep nothing happens. I have never ... (213 words

Her ex who cheated on her twice is back on stage and just proposed her! My gf is now very confused, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 51-59 - I've been dating a women for a month and things were going great until her ex started pursuing her. A bit of background on me. After marryting at a very young age, I was divorced 2 yrs ago. No children. I have dated many women since then and this current one is the 1st one ... (781 words

Can you check for STD's with a simple blood test?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - my girlfriend has had a past relationship and is wondering.. can you check for STI's with a simple blood test? thank you... (22 words

He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it normal for him to give me love ... (78 words

Is it bad for me to wish my mum was dead, just to have some relief to know that no one is in danger - including herself?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - My mother is an alcoholic. She and my stepfather were married almost 10 years before they got a divorce. I understand why he did it. He had to choose either his 4 children (including me) or my mother who was helpless. It was a hard decision for him to make, but a wise one. We ... (238 words

Love produces love? Can one love be enough for both?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Is there any true in the motto that Love always produces love? Can One's love(honest and indisputable one) produce love to other side(be it male or female) even if there exist no one? What you think, is it worth or futile endevour being with someone who does not love you,just ... (61 words

She said she can't continue the affair though but values my friendship, I can't seem to let her go though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - I love her but she's married...After close to a year she's told me that she can't continue and she can't give me what I want but she values my friendship more than anything. I dunno why but I can't seem to let her go. What do I do? Am I wrong for even starting this?... (55 words

Do I have feelings for him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F - Ok See me and my ex we have been out twice now. There was a month in between when we were on a break i spose. Then he asked me back out again. But after a month i got fed up since he kept flirting with all of my friends and constantly lieing to me. So i ended it this time and... (196 words

How can I tell my family of my relationship with an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Im in love with an older man but know my family would disagree with the relationship, how can i tell them?... (21 words

Curious about orgasms...advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - when a woman comes so hard like 5 or 6 times and is just very sore all ove is that normal ? also is it possible for a man to come 2 times one right after the other ?? ... (44 words

Is my bf gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - So, I have been dating my boyfriend for a couple of months and I am thinking he is gay. (My gay-dar is perked, my friends think he is gay, and the sex thing...he loses his erection, can't come, and seems to prefer doing it from behind- just certain things that make me wonder) ... (185 words

I'm worried she wont want me back, because she has many male friends! Advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Me and my girlfriend have split up we have been together 2 years and 8 months i have been very jealous in the past because she met this guy on the internet who has told her he loves her, she insists she doesnt feel the same and is just a friend i am very jealous of this and can ... (145 words

I like him a lot but scared he will like the prettier girls! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 26-29 - Ok, so there is this boy in my class who I really like. He likes me too, but he also like the new student in our class. She is from Cuba, and although I wouldn't consider her much prettier than me, she is wayyy more "developed" than me, or anyone else in our grade for that ... (205 words

My ex keeps harassing me, even though I'm married now. He was also aggresive to my husband. What to do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - My ex keeps harassing me. We broke up 2 years ago, and I am married and have 2 kids now. He treated me like absolute dirt, he hit me, mentally abused me, he wouldn't work, he lied all the time. I gave him 5 years of chances and then I had it and left. He keeps harassing ... (536 words

The phone rang after we had just finished sex. Was it ridiculous for me to want to answer the phone? Or for my husband to be hurt?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5895 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - My husband and I had just finished sex. The phone rang, and I answered it. My husband said it ruined the moment, and I should have let the answering machine pick it up and was really hurt. More info: *I didn't have to get up to answer the phone. It's on the headboard wi... (145 words

How can someone be so obsessed one minute then not care the next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - I met a guy about 2 months ago, we instantly clicked and fancied each other but he had just come out of a long relationship so needed to be single. We met up but it although we agreed to be friends there was clearly a lot of sexual tension! He mentioned sex etc but said he ... (147 words

I'm a geek and I like him! Do I have a chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5892 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel there is no conection between ... (84 words

Do men like to make their girlfiends jealous to attract them? Or is it to hurt them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age - Do men like to make their girlfiends jealous to attract them? Or is it to hurt them? Or is it for them to go away? I'm confused about the way my ex acted as our relationship was shaking not so long ago. I'm wondering why was he trying to make me jealous. He knows I was ... (79 words

So miserable... My ex-girlfriend is all I want in the world. She cannot be mine, and it hurts. What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - Please help me. Today, I'm so, so miserable about everything. Call it an off-day if you must, but whatever it is, it's dragging me WAAAY down. It's just over 3 months since my girlfriend and first love broke up with me, due to (as she claims) the distance between us ... (253 words

Is it better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Is it really better to have lost in love than to never have loved at all? If so, why does it hurt so bad.... (25 words

I asked him to leave home, but how do I go on without knowing where he is, while our children are confused and hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I am writing this to you to ask for advise regarding my relationship with my husband, my husband and i have had a rough go of it and more recently i had asked him to leave our home. he left our home about a month ago, five weeks ago, he has since left town for a visit with... (227 words

He says I have changed him in a bad way because he had to take on too much responsibility and clean up after me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I am 26 years old. I have been with my fiance who is 31 for 2 yrs coming Feb. We had a child after 4 mths of meeting eachother. After that happened everything started going down hill. First off, when he met me I was a party girl, lost my job, was dirty cuz I was never home, did ... (546 words

My friend asked out a girl and she said no. Does that mean he has no chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 30-35 - my friend likes a girl and he aked her out she said no but, she saying no to everybody. does that mean he has no chance?... (26 words

Is my boyfriend of a year cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Is my boyfriend of a year cheating? Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and I have known him for about a year and a half, when we were first dating he cheated on me. He told me right away and we have gotten over that, but last night I was down... (264 words

My ex wants to be sex buddies

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i broke up because he didnt want a relationship, as we will be movin away to university next year. it was so hard for me, but we have kept very close. Three Months on. He told me he misses havin me around, still loves me, and still wants us to bo close toge... (135 words

I like this guy, but he wants more from me than I can give

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - i like this guy.and he likes me too,but i think he wonts more from me than i am willing to give wot should i tell him and haw?... (30 words

I say I love you and he doesn't say it back anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I love my husband very much but yesterday I got angry with him (it was not unprovoked) and I said something truly horrible to him. I really went below the belt. We have been having problems for a long time and they are not helped by circumstances that are not in our control (I ... (218 words

My boyfriend never wants to have sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - hello i have been trying to find someone i can talk to and hopefully get some advice, i am 23years old been in a relationship for 6years i have 2 children aged 4 and 2, and nobady seems to believe you only have to have sex once to get pregnant well take it from me girlies you ... (242 words

I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times in which we have had sex ... (86 words

I told her to move out, but now I want her back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - Never been on a site like this but here goes: My girl and I had been dating for almost three years. We now have a 14-month old child together and up until a few months ago the relationship seemed perfect. Then the cracks started to show and she got fed up with some of my lesse... (386 words

SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!

This question has 74 answers - newest was posted 2985 days ago

27 September 2007 (M - Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderation process any better? Any ide... (116 words

I found out my fiancee is planning on leaving me. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - i found out through seeing fiancee's history and bookmarks on our computer that she's planning to leave me, 'Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?' posted on this site and others, and i'm devastated. i've never been able to satisfy her like her lovers do- i'm disabled, ... (400 words

First he says he wants kids, then he doesnt. This is so cruel!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - my boyfriend is constanly talkin about our "future " and says he wants a little girl one day then the next time he says he doesnt want kids .. what am i supposed to say to that he builds up my hope just to crush it ifeel its actually quite cruel but if anyone can help i would ... (65 words

I like another guy and am thinking of breaking it off with my BF

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - My bf seems too be the cause of all the problems. Firstly, i like another guy, and he wants too meet me and kiss and stuff. And he said he liked me. So i said im guna finish my bf anyway. But thinking about it this other guy is a BIG player and i dnt think he can be with just 1 ... (132 words

I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any further, no one would find out ... (145 words

I said all sorts of silly lies when we were first dating, should I fess up now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I love my partner and we are due to get married soon. Problem is that I lied to him during in our first year together. I told him I had gotten an audition for a film part (Naturally I didn’t get it) that I have seen all these people in concert that he has. That I play the ... (229 words

It is so painful to be friends with my ex, but I really want her back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 36-40 - OK here goes. Me and my ex broke up about 5 months ago and i feel im doing everything to push her further and further away. We were together for four years. She recently started university and she told me she had just kissed one guy but loves the attention she was receiving fr... (216 words

He keeps ogleing other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We love each other but he needs other female attention and it hurts my feelings. I understand that all people look at attractive people but he takes it over the edge. He stares at attractive women to see if he can get their ... (255 words

Today is the day I want to tell my friend how much I care for him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Its been a long time coming and i have decided today is the day that i'm gona tell my 'good friend' (as he calls us) that i have feelings for him. but i dont know how to start it off. we have known each othe since aug 2006 and we become really good friends staright away. w... (1185 words

She's keeping us a secret!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age - She's keeping us a secret! I'm involved in a long-distance relationship. We're not kids (both in our 40's). We started contacting each other a year ago, when she was separated. Her divorce was final a few months ago, I am now separated. Yes, I know I am technically st... (255 words

My feelings have changed since he cheated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - I'm a little confused I've been with my boyfriend for two years eventhough, he cheated twice with the same girl and I forgave him but ever since I've forgave him I feel that my feelings towards him are a little different. I've become more aggresive in a sense that I don't put ... (121 words

How do I stop my feeling for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hello, this question is for Ren, or Tommy,(agony aunts) I know you are men, but you give me the most logical advice.... Thank you guys... How do I stop worrying about who he is with, and is he is happy. And how do I stop my feelings for him.... I tried but I can't........ (57 words

I'm 31 and look 15 and I hate it... people tell me it's a blessing but it's not: it's a nightmare!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2485 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi guys, I have an odd problem. I am 31 and I look about 15 and I hate it. I am having real problems with this. I do not get taken seriously, I always get id wherever I go, even if to but a lottery ticket. I dress well and wear make up and had my hair cut to try and m... (208 words

I am afraid my boyfriend will fall out of love with me while I am away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi Aunts, I am off to Europe for a few months soon and when I am away the plan is that my boyfreind is gonna find us a place to live and we will move in together. I am just worried that he will change his mind cause his not with me, and I know his worried I will change mi... (136 words

Why do men go to massage parlors? Is my husband a sex addict?

This question has 48 answers - newest was posted 2567 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Just want to find some answers, my boyfriend went to a massage parlor and want to find out why men go to these places? he says he doesnt know. I am wondering if he is a sex addict? Does he really love me? how can he when he went there? If there is anyone out there who works in ... (78 words

My boyfriend is perfect... but he hardly ever calls (or texts, or emails for that matter!)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - my boyfriend of four months is perfect in every way, but he hardly ever calls me.most of the time i have to contact him to make arrangements and he is always very happy to meet me.he says he is just not good at phoning people and even worse at texting or e-mailing.if i don't ... (93 words

My bf already has a son, but I want to have a child together. He says that he doesn't want another child, though!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5911 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - Hi there everyone... I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years now. I'm 30 and he's 33 and already has a young son who is 9 but I feel like I want a baby of my own with him. He says he doesn't want another child cos he has a son already... I'm afraid that if I leave it too la... (94 words

Am I wrong to ask her to cut all contact with her ex? Did we get together too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - Hi, Im after a nuetrals point of view on my dilemma so i thought i would ask you.Ive been going out with a girl for about 4 months now shes 22 im 28 just before i got with her she was still in a 2 year relationship but going through breaking up but was finding it hard to do so... (371 words

My fiance visits sites like this and says she wants to leave me for her lover! I'm disabled, but do what I can - what else can I do to be a better partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - through it being a shared comupter and my fiancee not deleting her history as she usually does. ive found shes visited a lot of sites like this one and talked about leaving me for her lover. i dont want to lose her. im disabled- i can walk slightly but its very painful and slow ... (269 words

I like going out, he's a homebody! How can we make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been living together for two years. We have always had different 'lifestyles' but it has started to become a problem. I am very social and like to do things and go out with friends. He likes to stay at home. Anyone have any suggestions on how to make ... (73 words

Is a relationship with a priest wrong (if you're in love)?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - i had a relationship with a priest. is it wrong to have a relationship with a priest even if we love each other?... (23 words

We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely saw each other because my paren... (535 words

I think my guy has everything.. worry if he is using the "not ready" thing as an excuse for a casual affair or not?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 51-59 - I have been seeing this guy about three months, in the beginning he came on quite strong, telling me he wanted to take care of me...etc...pursued me. We knew each other about four years, he got out of a terrible breakup last year...and finally the two of us connected. All of ... (398 words

He told me he pleasures himself while thinking of three specific ex's of his!! I just feel as though I'm not enough for him, but should I really worry?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 36-40 - Hey, I recently had a conversation with my boyfriend about what he masturbates to. He said that he masturbates to me most of the time. And then he tells me sometimes porn and sometimes his ex-girfriends--Paige, Allie, and Kathleen I automatically got really concerned when he ... (177 words

My husband to be says he just doesn't need to have sex... ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - my soon to be husband says he just doesn't have to have sex? my fiance and i have been together a bit under a year now and a few months into our relationship i started noticing him not wanting to be as intimate as we had to begin with..i have been married before so i know tha... (243 words

It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. How do I break this vicious cycle?

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27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - It seems as if I wind up in many bad relationships. First, it was just the friends that liked to cause a little trouble. Then, friends that project a certain image they want in a friend on me and when I don't fit to what they want, I'm insulted. Finally, boyfriends who wind up ... (138 words

I will only move in with him if I know he's committed to me, but he won't commit!

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27 September 2007 (F - I am in a long distance with my bf. We have talked about moving in together within a couples of months. The thing is that I did not want to move in with him until we had something solid (sure about our relationship). I talked him that I wanted to be sure about us before ... (241 words

I'm hanging out my my crush tomorrow even though I have a bf! I don't know what to do!

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27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Okay guys, I love this sight for your answers to my questions - Now PLEASE Help!!!! Okay, today I was in a store with my mom and I saw my friend whom I haven't seen in a VERY long time and in that duration of long time, we both had a thing for each other. Lets call him D-factor... (125 words

Cellulite: I have it, I hate it. Will it put him off?? And how can I get rid of it?

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27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - Cellulite... I have it, I hate it. I know that most women have it a little bit but I still can't get over how disgusting my legs look in certain lights! It's not terrible but it's there!! Anyway, I always have sex with the lights off for this reason, the rest of me is quite ... (80 words

We are drifting apart, but I am getting closer to a female friend...

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27 September 2007 (M age 41-50 - My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Over the past year especially she has been becoming distant. I wirk alot and she complains that I am never home. I tried to change that this summer. I am usually home by 6 or 7. However anytime I am home and she is watching ... (267 words

Was my teacher flirting with me?

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27 September 2007 (F age 41-50 - could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they are always looking and glan... (78 words

After I got him off, I used antibacterial lotion on my hands - could I still get pregnant from touching myself?

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27 September 2007 (F age 30-35 - I am on the pill and last week I was on my period. I wacked my boyfriend off and then my hands off and used an antibacterial lotion. Later, I ended up touching myself when I took a shower. Am I possibly pregnant?... (43 words

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