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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My bf didnt like me texting my ex, but i did it anyway, then we hung out and ended up kissing!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hi i have been going out with my bf for 9 months, but between that time i would txt my ex, who i went out with for 3 years, and my boyfriend knew and didnt like it at all,so i stoped, and didnt talk to him for a month, then he showed up one day, and i went and met him and we ... (97 words)

How can I tell my friend that I've fallen for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Im a 16yr old guy, and iv fallen in love with probably the closest person to me in my life. I've known her from the day she was born and we have always got on like brother and and sister and best friends. However the problem is she is only 14 going on 15, I know its not that ... (106 words)

I am monitoring all interaction between my wife and her friend. Did I do the right thing?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past couple of weeks my wife has been exchanging sexual emails with an old friend she found online. They had phone sex and even met up one day when she took the kids out to the cinema. I confronted her about it and she insists that although the sexual stuff was a stupid ... (155 words)

I still want him back, after he cheated on me! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - O.K My ex-boyfriend and I split like 7 months ago, and he has a new girlfriend. Which is the reason why we split!! I ended up hurt really bad as he chose to be with her. However, recently I have met up with him and we ended up messing around. He was staring at me in the ... (206 words)

My mum and I keep falling out over the stupidest things. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - ok i love my mum to bits since our dad was absent me my mum and brother were always close however the past few months have been different, me and my mum keep falling out over the stupidest things a part of me thinks it's because i'm growing up, i've decided to take a y... (625 words)

He wants to wait until we're in our late 40s to have children! How can I convince him he's wrong?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I'm 24, my husband's 26. Yesterday we were discussing about having children, and he said he wants to wait until we're in our late 40s - early 50s to have children. I've told him that's a bad idea, but he insists it will be better if we have kids then. I've tried and ... (92 words)

What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - My boyfriend and I have been fooling around for quite a while. We're having fun touching and feeling and kissing. However, when we try the real thing... it doesn't work. His penis just won't get in me. I am pretty sure nature was made so that part A would fit in part B, so al... (86 words)

My husband left me, now wants to save our family! Meanwhile I was dating another man who I felt happy with, except for the distance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been married for 20years i have 2 kids. my husband had an affair and told me he didn't want the marriage anymore he moved in with this women and her kids he lived with her for about 1 year. he has moved out of her home now. i started to date and have meet a nice guy. my ... (159 words)

I stay up all night when he says he is going to ring me. But he never does! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - i have a boyfriend and we have been with him for a year but when he says he is going to ring me he never does and its is really annoying. espeacially as i stay up a long time at night to wait for the call. please help x... (49 words)

What are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i am new to the dating scene. what are the general signs that a girl/woman fancies you? only the other day a girl walked by me and looked at me for quite a time. i'm sure she fancied me? so, what are the signs that a girl fancies you? cheers... (62 words)

I eat healthily, but i can't seem to gain any weight! Advice, please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hello. i am a girl in the 16-19 yrs group, and i need advice on weight gaining. i am 5'5 and weigh around 103 lbs. my boyfriend says he likes me thin, but i get comments all the time from people saying that i look anorexic/bulemic, sickly, boney, etc. i'm told just to ign... (85 words)

Me and my boyfriend haven't been the happiest lately, and I'm attracted to another who doesn't know I have a boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I'm having relationship problems. I have been in a happy relationship with my boyfriend for the past 8 months. Lately we have been very rocky. I've started to fall for another guy, i've only met up with him twice, i haven't 'cheated' on my boyfriend. But i'm falling ... (143 words)

Am I being unreasonable or was my friend out of line?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - My best friend isn't acting very much like a friend lately. A good example of this is like when it was my birthday last week, she cancelled on me at the last minute before we were ment to go out because she just realised she was "too skint". A little harsh I thought, but I gave ... (410 words)

Had intimate relation with a boy who has chlamydia, could I have been transmitted the disease? (we used a condom)

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - I have had sexual intercourse with a boy who has clamidia although we used a condom could i catch it ?... (21 words)

I'm 15 and he's 25. Should I ask him for his number?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - Hi, I'm 15 and have recently been working with a guy who's 25. I've fallen for him big time but now I have to go back to school and am unable to work with him anymore. I really was hoping to get his number. I'm not sure whether I should get my colleague to ask him for it for me ... (104 words)

We like very different things and I would like to be 99% sure I want to marry him! Advice, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my bf for about 4 yrs, but have known him for about 7, when we were just good friends. I love him to bits, he's still my best friend in the world, he's kind, considerate, etc etc. my only issues are that we like doing very different things and it's giving me an ... (375 words)

Suddenly my wife says the marriage is done and she left! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 173 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - After 5 years my wife suddenly said that our sex life has never been great and that she discovered that she doesn't love me. She only thought she did. Now she is asking for a divorce and she is saying that there are things that just can't be fixed. We have not yet discussed ... (107 words)

My brother threatens to beat up any guys I date, he doesn't approve of. How do I tell him to back off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - if my brother doesnt approve of the guy i like he says that he will beat him up if i date him! why should my brother have to like him for me to go out with him! i need to convince my brother that i know he's only looking out for me but if i really want to be with someone and ... (88 words)

I'm living with a man who doesn't want a relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 93 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - I live with a man that I love more than anything but he confused me at times, before me he had a bad relationship with someone who used him and he says he got no love left to give and that he doesn't want to get married or have kids. Says he doesn't want a relationship but ... (78 words)

She's young enough to be my granddauughter! Do I take her up on her offer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Do I take her up on her offer? I've just been seriously propositioned by a 23 year old woman. She gave me her address and told me when her husband would be at work, and told me that she needed regular servicing. I feel certain she was serious. The only thing is I'm nea... (218 words)

I'm not sure what is happening to my body, could it be mini heart attack? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - i'm not sure what is happening to my body. Couple days ago i had pain on my left side of my temperals while i was talking. I just felt pressure. furthermore, for this condition, this happens on and off, i get these pain on my lower right intestine area, and both my left and ... (224 words)

Her main complaint was that I am too clingy! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - Okay, I have a tough question to ask. I started this summer with a girl that I really liked. We hit it off, and our friendship turned into a sexual one. We would play around in public and in private. Then all of the sudden, things started to change. I really still love her, but ... (192 words)

Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Advice please!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Anal sex is painful for my wife but I like it. Is there any way to have anal sex without hurting my wife?... (23 words)

I'm due to start college and feel nervous I won't find anyone like me, I'm the tranquil type and rather get on well with adults!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I'm due to start college in 8 days and i'm really nervous. Not really because i'll be in a new place or anything but there only 2 people who i hang round wiv that are going and they are in a different course even thought we are all in the same part of the building. The thin... (710 words)

I'm thinking of tricking him into fatherhood!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing a man for nearly 1 year, I do not have romantic feelings for him and neither does he for me, he is special to me and I class him as a friend more than anything, we purely have each other for sexual satisfaction. I am however considering taking out the ... (212 words)

Is there any way that he still loves me and that i can make up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - hello!please help me.im 17yrs and ive been dating this guy for 2.7 yrs.we went to school together and all of our friends believe that we are going to get married,he actually preposed to me 3 times.he says how much he loves me and makes plans for the future.so everything is ... (381 words)

Do you think he really loved me??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend was having a affair! He lived with me for bit but then went back for the kids he said! Anyway we kept seein each other for past 7mths! We had a row and was made now he doesnt want to know me! He replies me txts sometimes. dDo you think thats it am not gona... (85 words)

The pill helps helps with physical pain but it makes my mood swings worse! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 16-17 - I usually have mood swings, but I've been put on the pill to stop my period pain, and they're making my mood swings worse. They usually make me feel really paranoid, and I already have trust issues, so for my mood swings to increase is not exactly what I want right now. I'm ... (148 words)

Me and my friend both like the same guy! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - I like a guy at work who says he likes me too, however my friend also likes this guy and says she would love to sleep with him. I really like this guy but don't want to hurt my friend what should I do.... (44 words)

Why do I hear women complaining about their first times, while I felt no pain?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 230 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

- I always thought I would bleed when I first had sex and that it would be painful...but I didnt bleed at all and there was barely any pain at all. I always imagined it to be this horrible feeling and stuff, but it didnt hurt much at all. After my first two times, there was NO ... (85 words)

My boyfriend is 100% focussed on making me happy but won't let me do the same for him. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend (33) is 100% focussed on making me happy but won't let me do the same for him - what do I do? He will do anything for me, but he gets embarrassed and feels uncomfortable when I try to make a fuss of him. He doesn't want me to celebrate his birthday, spend ... (124 words)

I've met somebody else who makes me feel things my fiance doesnt!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm in my late 20s and I have a problem. I have a fiance and he stresses me out a lot and I've been engaged for 4 years going on 5, I don't know why I don't want to get married yet, the thing is I've fallen in love with someone else who lives nearer my home. He gives me butte... (132 words)

Whay can I do if it's not in his character to be so affectionate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 22-25 - what should i do to make my boyfriend sweet to me? i know it is not his character... but i just want him to be affectionate to me...... (28 words)

Is it disrespectful to give a gift to someone who's involved with another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Is buying a gift or giving something to a ex or a person involved a sign of disrespect to the lover of the person you have given the gift to?... (30 words)

I'm living with my fiance but I'm still seeing my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I have been living with my fiance for 4 years we have our own house etc but I have been seeing my ex for the last 6 months. I love them both but I really don't know what to do. I feel trapped and confused. My ex thinks I still live at home. I keep feeling panicked I know I need ... (67 words)

I was the one who decided upon the type of relation (FWB), now it irritates me when he's talking with another woman at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - To make a long story short. There is this guy that I work with, we have had a "sexual relationship" for about a year now. I was the one who decided that's all it would be... of course he agreed, what guy wouldn't? I really didn't like hinm in that way or at least I thought I ... (169 words)

Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Do guys care as much about weight as girls imagine them to? Or do girls simply create this belief that most guys like slim girls? I'm in a fairly new relationship and i'm really happy with my boyfriend but i'm extremely insecure and am completely unsure why he is going out ... (220 words)

I want to stop cheating but I also hope my bf changes. If we break up I stand to lose my business as we are partners!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - Help please!Been in a relationship for 6 years and now cheating, don't know how to stop. I'm hoping from some advice here, as my friends and family are sick of hearing of all the turmoil in my life. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, day in/day out, we work tog... (445 words)

My dad would disown me if he knew we were together!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F) age 18-21 - Im going out with an 18 year old guy, but Im only 13 almost 14. I've been with him for a 13 months and Ive told him my own do's and don'ts and he said he repected that and wasn't going to go beyond the line, dont worry I never though of having sex period till I was married and ... (122 words)

I like him but hes going into rehab...what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

- Hello, I need some advice regarding a guy I met on a dating site. We have had 3 dates, and in the past week he has been quite distant - and I found out why tonight (on our third date - a DVD at his place). Basically, he has to go into residential alcoholism rehab in a few we... (324 words)

How can I avoid losing my indentity in my next relationship??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F) age - My last relationship ended recently. When I reflect back on it I just can't believe that when I met him I had so much going on in my life and somewhere along the way I kind of lost my identity. Somehow I got so involved in his life that I forgot I had one. I'm afraid it'll ... (73 words)

She doesn't answer the phone when I call, or she'll answer and promise to call me back but never will.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi, I am 18 years old and decided to start experimenting with a relationship with another woman 2 months ago. The biggest problem is that she's 39. It was troublesome at first, but after a couple of nights together we both feel much more comfortable. However, I recently started ... (150 words)

I would like him to make gestures to prove his love...any advice??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, I been divorced for 7 yrs.I have a LDR with a man from US for 10 months now I live in Asia. I am kinda getting impatient for not meeting him yet though we constant communicates. He calls me twice everyday when am at work or even at home we talks for hours. Becau... (501 words)

Is she playing games??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 249 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 18-21 - I was in a relationship for 3 years. The first year was amazing we loved and cared about each other so much always showing affection and always trying to please each other, the second and third was up and down, and now this last month and a half it all came crashing down. S... (1295 words)

Can anyone help me on this, please? There's a chance that I might be pregnant...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 190 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hey. I have a question, and anyone with a good advice to help me out, i'd really appreciate it. To start it off, my period is pretty irregular. although it comes between 28-35 days. and it doesn't go over that. however today is..sept 1, and my last period was in the week of ... (112 words)

He doesn't talk to me, when clearly something is wrong. I can't help, if he doesn't talk...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Please help! For the last week my boyfriend has seemed abit down he hasnt been his normal self and when i ask him what is wrong he says nothing, when there quite clearly is. i dont know wot is wrong and i dont know what i can do to make him feel better any ideas? He mentioned ... (225 words)

Is going out with him the right thing to do? He's my best friend's ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 13-15 - Okay, here it goes, there's a guy that I really like, I'm not entirely sure what love is, but whenever I see him he makes me smile and he just looks like an angel to me (corny as it may sound) and though I've had a few relationships, I've never felt this way about someone ... (258 words)

I can't stop thinking about my ex! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I couldn't stop thinking about having sex with my ex, but I don't want him to look down me if I tell him that. What should I write in an email to him??... (33 words)

Should I drop an email to ask for a catch up just like friends?... He has a girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 26-29 - I met this guy five years ago, we broke up two years ago but still kept in touch for a year. We had a huge arguement last year, he went away with another girl by the end and we stopped talking, contacting... we even pretended didnt see each other if we met in st. I met some ... (197 words)

Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex.

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 228 days ago

2 September 2007 (M)

age 13-15 - Hi, I'm 13 and I want to have sex. My girlfriend said no. I don't want to pressure her but i want it sooo bad. I really love her but i don't know if i should break up with her. please help me i don't know what to do.... (54 words)

I'm 15 and always really depressed...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 18-21 - Hi I'm 15 and always really depressed, since I was 10. I moved from my hometown to somewhere I don't like, I've lived here 5 years now and it depresses me. I can't trust people around here and my past still haunts me. I was sexually abused by my step dad, who my mum is not with ... (77 words)

Don’t know if he got too "settled" in the relationship or I tend to overanalyse things and expect perfection!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

2 September 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy (34 years old) for 3 months and I feel confused as to what is going on in this relationship. I don’t know if he has just got a bit too settled in the relationship so is not making so much effort as he did at first (which I gather is normal) or he ... (725 words)