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This is the first time I am attempting to hook up with another girl whom I've never met before.

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Question - (7 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 September 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *attexasboy writes:

I need some pick up help.

This is the first time I am attempting to hook up with another girl whom I've never met before....

Ok here's the deal, I've been out of a relationship for sometime now (cause of work) and over the past couple weeks I've been getting lonely, missing the women`s touch, you know. I've been open minded looking for a new relationship. The other day I went to a local car wash to get the truck cleaned up and this gorgeous south american girl was working there. At first sight I wanted to talk to her, I spoke to her primarily about the cleaning of my truck making eye contact the whole time. I couldn't bring myself to talk to her about anything personal to get to know her better. ( I'm really shy) later I came across a few times where I would look up at her and catch her already looking at me, so I would just smile and look away. Half way thru my visit she ended up leaving with another co worker, on her way out she told me bye and I waved and told her bye back.

Now my question to y'all ladies is

1. do I have something here?

2. Was she just being nice?

3. How do I let her know I'm interested in her without coming off too strong?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

What is South American? Spanish? Well, just ask her out. If she's looking at you & smiling all the time like you say, she probably likes you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007):

oh puh-leeze....just ask her out. it's not hard. buy her a sandwich bring her lunch. if you have a nice car, she'll accept your date ;)

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