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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Guys I logged on to the dating website were we met, but I never open up a account. The 1st time it happened, he forgave me, but this 2nd time he told me he could never forgive me and I lost him. I had no intentions in dating anyone on that site ever again, because I love him. I made a mistake, I hurt him, I need help guys, do you belieive in second chances? I forgot to mention that it's a long distance relationship. How can I gain his trust back for the second time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): I believe everyone desires a second chance, if God forgives and he can too, love hurts, but believe and you shall receive, everything will be okay, I wouldn't give up, stay positive and remember don't quit, he's going to need time, but he will be back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): "I need help guys, do you belieive in second chances?"
Depends on the situation. However I can unequivocally say I do not believe in third chances, and apparently neither does your ex, rightfully so.
"How can I gain his trust back for the second time?"
You can't. You knew the ground rules, you deliberately violated them along with his trust for a second time, he would have to be an absolute fool AND a complete moron to even consider giving you a third chance to regain his trust a second time.
Sorry, all you can do is learn from your mistake and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): Why did you logged in again? The only answer should be you are not done looking. Also, long distance relationship, I never knew how it works?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2012): Honestly I don't think you can. You did do it twice so in all.fairness he doesn't trust you. In the future, if you get forgiven, don't repeat that behavior. The best thing you can do is learn from it and move on. I wish you the best.
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