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36-40,
*obe daka
writes:I am a young man aged 28 working in thegovernment and my fiance is 24 and she does not work.My fiance loves telling lies most of the time and my friends always tells me that your fiance looks like crook. Two weeks ago on Saturday I bought a new simcard, put it in my phone and phoned her and I changed my voice. I told her that am your former classmate working as a high school teacher your friend gave me your number, where can we meet? I said that wanted to see her? She told me to find a nice place so we agreed to meet at a place, we agreed to spend the whole day. I recorded the all conversations. On Sunday morning I phoned her with the number she knows and I asked her, "Can we go to church but she lied that she is sick and I said ok, I'll come and visit you after church service. I drove to the other place, I phoned her using my new number and said that am waiting for you and gave her the room number and she said "wait I ll be therein 20 minutes ."At the guest house I talked to the receptionist and paid money for one hour.When she came the receptionist showed her where the room was. When she entered she found me there. She was surprised and started crying begging for forgiveness. I just told her that today our relationship is over .I have paid for and we planned that the wedding to be on Christmas this year.After that, I refused to see her but she sends me over 20 SMS everyday begging for forgiveness. I am yet to tell any family member about this. Can I forgive her? If I forgive her, will shechange? I need your help.
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reader, iargwath  +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Well it looks as though you no longer have the fundamental component of any successful relationship...Trust. Clearly, you do not trust this woman seeing as you went to the length you did to expose her unfaithful ways. Consider yourself fortunate that you found out now. Good luck!
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (15 October 2012):
 Woof! That's bad! I think it's a huge sign that you should not marry this girl. And personally I'd be done with her for good. Your friends have already been trying to warn you. This was your wake up call. Now back away slowly and move on. Good luck.
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