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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and he is 8 years older than me (imonly 18). I find myself feeling jealous when he goes out, as i dont go out hardly ever, and i also get jealous because he talks to quite a few old friends- of which are girls. He always says that he has been talking to them for years and they are only people he chats to about music ect- but why do i always feel jealous and end up causing rows because i sometimes make silly comments on these past women. We live about 2 and a half hours from each other, so we dont get to see each other often, and i do want to eventually settle down with him. He has had quite a few girlfriends in the past, of which we have talked about and yet again, i get that jealousy streak. Is it because im young and still havent lived my life like he has, and havent had as many partners as he? I want to be with him seriously (you know, like forever), but i just cant come to terms with his past and the way he still chats to other girls? (im pretty sure he would be mad if i did what he was doing)!! please help me with some advise. xx =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2008): so would you be happier if he had no other girls in his life? thats not fair hun, just because a man is friends with another woman doesnt mean they are going to jump into bed! you do need to grow up and realise that you are now in an adult relationship with a man who is more mature than you - he is not going to cheat on you, his past is his past, he has friends - why cant you deal with that? i would understand if he was always flirting with women, or had cheated in the past but he has given you no reason not to trust him!
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