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Archived questions from: 21 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

He wants to be good friends but how can we be if he wont speak back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Ok please help me im so confused!! My mate and I have been out for s drink, just to hang round together...you know. Hes always been strange round me as he wont talk to me. I never understood why but this particular meet up was a prime e...

Come on people, am I in denial? Is this an obvious one or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5080 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I’m dating a guy who’s most cherished memories are when he was in a band as a singer and both men and women adored him. 1.He’s extremely meticulous about everything he does from dressing to cooking to barbering. He unconscienably spends hours in ...

He seems less interested in me, and is only really happy when we're doing things sexually.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together just over one year now. he has cheated on me in the past but with a girl he has never met, so i let it go by and still love him. but just recently within this past month he seems like he is a bit less interested ...

She makes it seem like I'm the bad guy and says stuff like "you're my bestfriend, my only real friend" which is true.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5089 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Long story short, I've been with my girlfriend for 2.5 years. I have found out one year into the relationship she got bored of me and thought I didn't care anymore and started flirting with guys and eventually a year later she leaves me for a guy ...

My husband told me I stole his money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - "OPs own title" Please I really need help. I met my husband 2 years ago. We were in different states. We marry in Islamic way with out any paper work. after that I was still in my state. my husband gave me his checking card to use for money. I ...

She knows I don't like it but she does it anyway...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - my girlfriend and i have been together for about 5 months. shes my ex best friends gf (i kno not a good start already). i really love her and i kno she loves me too.. problem is, she tlks to a lot of guys! and i notice guys are always tryna tlk to ...

He wants to keep both of us...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - My husband left me with 2kids for his mistress. He still contacting me for the kids and every time he visited us, he left me broken hearted. I am mentally and emotionally tortured thinking he will see his mistress again after he saw me. I am ...

He prioritises his sister over me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend treats his sister more like a girlfriend than me. he buys her really expensive things and treats her all of the time, giving her spending money and he says he's going to go half with her for her tv, it's like it's his daughte...

He ended a four-year engangement because of paranoia

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - MY boyfriend and i have been together for 4 years and have always had the perfect relationship, we even got engaged last october.it was so hard getting engaged because our families didnt want us to be together at first so we did everything to get ...

How do I get out of this terrible, long term relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - ok..here is it....i have been with this guy for about 11yrs now...things are not good....we are not married, because he says i have an bad attitude..oh well...he always has an excuse of why i have not gotten a ring after all this time....there have ...

Is it really that bad for me to hang with a 21 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I'm 16, turning 17 in August. I'm really good friends with a guy but he happens to be 21. My parents know about this friendship and aren't very happy about it. My mom has even threatened to call the cops on him and wants to kick me out of the house. ...

Troubled marriage and I need space to think clearly!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I don't know what to do. I've been married for 2 years; together for 7. I'm not happy with my husband anymore but I can bring myself to be committed to leaving. We've tried counseling and things didn't get better. His temper is out of control to ...

Things were great until my friend told him about a fling I had before we were together!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I have been in am amazing relationship for the past 1 and a half. He is loving, caring, more than perfect, appreciates me, notices me..most things i have never even heard of. He is also pretty emotional but hes the type of guy that needs to ha...

Losing the love of my life and feeling like I've been played with the entire time...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - well this will be long so i appreciate anyone who actually reads this in advance... from the begining ill start, i met this gorgeous girl 3 years ago through word of mouth by her. you see i have been in a pretty successful band for 7 yea...

My job, car, and house suddenly don't seem good enough to ask for her hand!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I am under a little bit of stress over my relationship. We have been together for 3 years and had plans real soon of asking for her hand; however all of the sudden my job, car and where I live gets brought up. Funny thing is that it wasn't ...

Desperately in love with the devil!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - "OP's OWN TITLE" Ok so I have been in a realtionship for over three years, and my girlfriend always playes these mind games, and hold our relationship over my head. she consistantly tells me that i am sooooooo mean to her, aqnd that all I do is walk...

Do relationships between escorts/customers ever realistically work? Especially when the once retired escort goes back to work for financial reasons? Please give me some advice guys...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4319 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I am a 30 year old woman who for most of her life has worked as an escort. I started when I was quite young and as I was a single mother, I welcomed the added finance. What I didn't realise was how quickly it would turn into a lifestyle, almost a ...

Girlfriend of 6 years cheated on me with my best friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - So about 6 weeks ago I got a letter from an old buddy/no longer but its a love letter/appologie from my ex best friend. This. Letter went on to say thing like how sad he was cause his life was falling apart and things like that and how he wished ...

Am I being selfish for at least wanting him to talk to me occasionally? He has a lot going on with his family but his inability to balance things in his life is getting annoying!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I'm frustrated cos the guy I'm dating doesnt know how to balance career, fam etc. He told me hes either 0 - 100 % about things and once hes 100 - thats all he focuses on..which usually applies to work.Recently hes been tryin to get a job, a car ...

I accused my husband of having affairs for 23 years and now he has left me, but I cannot accept it is finally over!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I am a lunatic. I accused my husband of having affairs for all 23 years of my marriage. Then he filed for a divorce. Now I cannot stop asking him to take me back. I send rude sms everyday and I am either very nice or i swear rant and rave at him ...

How do I show him that I am no longer interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - So how do you give a guy signs you're not interested? I thought I really liked this boy, so I was really into him and flirty and stuff.. now I've gone off of him. Its for various reasons, but the thing is he still keeeeps on texting me and ...

This "father figure" situation has gone too far....

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - Hi, I have been dating a girl on an off that has only been living in the US for a few years. I myself have lived abroad for almost 2 decades. I tend to become a father figure to the girls I have dated and I don't mind it. I am not controlling, ...

My so called best friend has stolen the guy I like

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - There's a big problem. My 'best friend' is making her move on the guy she knew i really liked. First he liked me and there was definetly a connection, then i didnt see him much, but when i did next see him my friend was flirty with him, and he...

My girlfriend thinks our problems in the bedroom are her fault, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - hi im 21 and my gf is 18 and she is very tight but it still takes me forever to cum, like both get to tired and she just jacks me off. i dont jack off for days then have sex and still the same any help will be nice thanks she thinks its her and ...

Why do I always pull stupid pranks on my boyfriend? I think I just crave attention or want a reaction from him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi Guys I've been dating my bf for almost a year and everything is/was going well. I have a problem of pulling stupid pranks on him. They seem to be compulsive and I realise the implications after playing with him for a while. I started by sayin...

I may be losing a close friend but I'm not sure how to fix things....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - I have had a recent falling out with a close friend. I feel it is mostly my fault because of things that had occured, and thing that I had said and done with him. Well, I met him last fall at college and at first we were just casual friends. Then ...

Am I in over my head with this younger lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - hi, i'm in a bit of a dilema, about 4yrs ago i met this guy (A)...he was married going through a divorce and i was in a very unhealthy relationship with guy (B). guy(A) and i became friends working together and he was like a shoulder to lean ...

I just want him to trust me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - OK so when i meet the love of my life i was going thought a lot and had hit rock bottom and i mean hit it rock bottom i hit it hard. I didnt care about myself or anyone around me. I was living in an apartment where it was nonstop drinking and doing ...

This break is going on too long, now I am getting mixed signals and mixed feelings....

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21 May 2010 (M) - ok me and my girl have been together for about a year and some change and its going good and one day she tells me how she misses me but 3days later she wants a break for 2weeks and she says its going to make us stronger in the fututre so i was like ...

The sex (and kissing) in our relationship is horrible! How can I talk to him about this without offending him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a two inch penis and he does not satisfy me sexually. He doesn't even know how to kiss properly, he grabs my chest aggressively, and does not give me much pleasure. He's a heavy set guy and I'm significantly smaller than him. When's ...

How can I get her to stay in the sex positions I like for longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (M) - hello im writing this in hopes that i may get some good advice on how to deal with my problem. See me and my girlfriend have been having sex now for quite some time, and though we've had some really good intimate moments and usualy lasts mor...

I was about to propose to her but then her behaviour has got me thinking, is this normal in a relationship?

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21 May 2010 (M) - Ok the pass 4 months i have been going out with this girl and ive deeply fallen for her and was going to propose to her tonight but some of the things she does makes me think twice like, is this normal in a relationship ditches me to go to town, ...

"Some Cupids kill with arrows some with traps."

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - "Some Cupids kill with arrows some with traps." I have been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the last two years. We are currently having problems with communication. I feel pressured to make interesting conversation because he wants to ...

Is there something going on between them

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

21 May 2010 (F) - Hi guys and girls... Well the last few days ive been increasingly worried about my boyfriend. Last friday we went to a 21st birthday party...i was really worried because even after being with him for a year and a half i hadn't met all his frien...