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Archived questions from: 19 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Confused over ex. Does she still love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - okay. this might take a while. soooo. i been with this girl for a year. we have been on and off not down to me. the first time she dumped me she gave me no real answers as to why, it took a while to get back together and then we did and everythi...

Whenever there is a problem my b/f goes into hiding

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19 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. We have an amazing relationship and are very much in love. We get along great and love each others company. He's ONLY problem, is that if he feels there is going to be some sort of ...

Feel so disrespected and used but can't get out of the relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and i have always had problems in the bedroom and it's getting to the point where i feel very disrespected by him and as if he has unrealistic expectations of me. I feel trapped in this relationship and anxious when left alone in a ...

In a relationship, but thinking about another man!

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19 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years now and i love him but we fight alot. I have dreams very often about a guy who i liked even before i got into the relationship and i think about him all the time and im pretty sure he has some kind of ...

He's ignoring me now?

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19 May 2010 (F) - So this friend (let's call him T) of mine used to talk to me and we used to be comfortable around each other. Then when his best friend told T that he was interested in me, things started going weirdly. T told my "sister" that his best friend was ...

I'm at breaking point, I thought I was who he wanted!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Im sorry for the length of this its going to be an absolute essay! But i need to get it off my chest and i need some serious help. I’m honestly wishing right now i could just curl up and die. And im sorry to say that is no exaggeration. I will try ...

I hurt my boyfriend deeply before he said he could not love me , does he still have feelings for me??

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19 May 2010 (F) - To sum up my long and complicated relationship of 3 years, I hurt my once devoted and loving boyfriend many times with lies , betrayal and bad attitude. He's given me many chances and trusted me again but I still do it... It's because I'm this ...

Pregnant and happy about that, but my family are really unhappy I'm not married!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, Late last year, after many problems, I had an operation on my ovaries. They found cysts on both ovaries - a few other things besides. They said the damage was such that my chances of conceiving a child was very very slim. I hav...

Dreading the upcoming conversation about anal sex!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi there, I just read a question where the guy was worried his girlfriend was lying when she said she had never had anal sex before....I'm about to be that girlfriend. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really really love him. We ...

He needs my help, now he wont reply when I said lost his email add

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I am talking to my ex again after months of bitterness towards each other. We broke up a yr ago. To move on from the heartbreak, I deleted him in EVERY online connection I have with him..chat, fb etc. It was effective because I have never memor...

Was that my clue to get out and find someone who will love me for me unconditionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - here is another question: i have been in an 10 year relationship. we have one child together. he says every year we are going to get married...never got a ring. not going to happen. he has been married before.. he says my attitude gets in the way ...

Why did his relationship status go from single to it's complicated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4860 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - well i have been dating my significant other for about 6 months and he had his status as single until recently when i looked and saw that it said, "it's complicated" now i don't have any idea how i'm suppose to take that and i don't know if that is ...

I need to know, maybe from a female perspective, if she loves me still or not and what is the best thing to do from here.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about three months. A week ago she wrote me a letter telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship and that I should move on. She explained that this was her first relationship and that she is confused ...

Now that our son is born he has kicked her out and swears he will do whatever it takes to get his family back. Am I wasting my time?

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19 May 2010 (F) - I have been married for almost 2 years and have a 2 month old son. My husband told me when I was 4 months pregnant that he "loved me but was not in love with me" and left. He said that "I deserved better" and many more cliched statements. I ...

Does he really have ED or is he seeing someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Another day, another burning question. So I slept over my boyfriend's place last night and noticed the following: 1) A note I had sent him back in January that he has kept on his fridge is no longer there 2) A picture of us that he had as hi...

He says it's over -- is it?

This question has 33 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Ok, this is going to be a long one but I really need as much advise as I can get. So, I was with this guy for over a year. In this year we got very serious. We lived together, had a boat, a dog, a quad. Our friends are even the same people. We moved ...

My husband crossdresses . . . help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I found out about 2 years ago that my husband is somewhat of a crossdresser. We have been married for 15 years. He said he's been doing it since adolescence. First part of our marriage I would find underwear, garters and he always would lie and ...

This break up with my longtime girlfriend is really hurting and I have no one to talk to!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - hi everyone and i am sorry for my English i really need some help and thanks for everyone that will answer me i have been in a relationship for a three an a half year it was the best what happened to me the girl i met she was wonderful in all...

He doesn't want to lose me? Why does he still want us to talk if he doesn't want us to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - so my ex and i have been talking and getting along pretty good recently, the thing is we are not together but at times he acts like if we are he tells me he loves me and stuff. i am the type of person that does not like to be played so i told him he ...

I'm not allowed to have coffee with a girlfriend and I have a curfew 8 p.m. set by my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - This is my story. I've been married for 15 years. I was married young. My husband is a good person, never cheated, helps out with cleaning, making suppers. Isn't very affectionate, but let's me know in different ways how he feels for me. My p...

10 years long friendship ended because of something trivial. Need some honest opinions. Am I at fault?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I have an old friend. We've known eachother since elementary school. We live in different cities but we still hang out together. We call eachother often and we help eachother out. My friend is very sensitive, from a young age already but I've kind ...

Long-term marriage, troubled relationship, now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Well, here's my question. Probably not the first time this type of question has come up. I am a 50 year old male, married with two grown children (one already married with 2 children already) and one daughter in high school. My wife (1 year old...

Boyfriend troubles!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Ok im 18 and iv been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now, i do love him ever so much but i feel whenever there is an argument i dont get a say, he always overpowers the conversation and its finished when he has finished it doesn't matter what iv got ...

Is it too soon to ask him to leave his girlfriend for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Okay, so There's this girl (let's call her..Rebecca). So a couple years ago, Rebecca started going out wit hone of my close friends (Tommy), and after a month or two him and I got closer. It eventually lead to us kissing, talking, and touching. Th...

After we have been friends for so long surely it is a waste to throw away our friendhship now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I have had a best friend since i was about 9,and we have been friends ever since,Im 16 now and we fell out about 2 months ago and haven't made up since. We were so close and although i have a lot of other amazing friends,i still can't help wanting ...

If we are good friends why does he behave like this? Has he got a problem with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hello im really sad right now. I feel lost and confused. One of my good friends is behaving very strangly with me and i dont think theres a good reason behind it.If it was a constant pattern of behaviour i might be able to figure it out easier but ...

I'm feeling insecure about my boyfriend's comments and emails to other women.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - I would like your advice on this please. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a couple of years. Sometimes when we weren't together, i looked at his page, as he had an open profile, and i saw some comments to a couple of girls that i didnt ...

Boyfriend is shy in bed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of almost three years is really shy when it comes to sex. He wont try anything new, he doesn't like me touching him or doing anything to him. We still have sex but its a case of having a quick kiss, clothes off and thats us having sex. ...

My husband's best friend says he is just my secret admirer but I am worried that he might one day ask for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5079 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - when i met my husband 2 years ago, he had his best friend whom they have schooled with from high school to college. the friend is married to a a beautiful charming lady who is now my friend. the crazy thing is that this guy(my husband's friend) fell ...

Within the last 2 weeks I have been unable to get turned on, is this because he cheated in the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Im a girl of 18 been with my boyfriend now for just under a year. just recently, before we get ready for sex he is not able to turn me on, and during sexual intercouse i dont seem to be enjoying it. could this be due to the fact he cheated on in the ...

He has been flirting with other girls on Facebook, and he doesn't even see this as being a problem!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - i recently opened up a facebook account to keep in touch with my old school mates however when i went onto my bf of 2 years page i saw that he had been flirting with some girls online saying things such as oh you such a hottie and calling other ...

What's the best way to leave someone you love but who constantly puts you down?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I love my wife dearly, i would do anything for her... Sometimes she's this angel I love and adore so much and is so nice to me but the next minute she critisizes everything I do and puts me down, questioning me all the time, putting words in my ...

Is there a way to get the 'spark' back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - if i love my girlfriend and if she loves me, why arent we moving anywhere, we're both 16, we've been together 9months, and there just isnt that how you say 'a spark' anymore, but i love her is there anyway to get that back?...

The guy I am dating walked out on me in the middle of having sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hey guys, So heres my situation.Last night i was with a guy i like.It was only our second meeting but things got on and we started making out and before i knew it there was sex.I know i should have waited when i think of it now.Moreover i was so s...

I want her back so badly despite having an affair with my friend, but she cant decide who she wants to be with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - So I've been dating this girl for 1 1/2 years and shes is the most amazing person i have ever met hands down. My problem is that recently at a party she had sex with one of my "friends". They started texting about personal things behind my back and ...

Why can't he say were girlfriend and boyfriend when we only date each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi I have seeing this guy for like 2 months now but i'm not sure if were a couple, so I striaght out asked him am I your girlfriend and he said that we were dateing. So I said ok dose that make me your girlfriend and i wanted a yes or no answer but ...

Is she telling me the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - 3 years ago, me and my girlfriend were laying together. her friend, was a girl, came by and asked her to ride with her somewhere. she got back and I knew I smelt her as she walked by, kinda like sex. so I asked what happend and she said she just ...

Was my husband having an affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5089 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - i separated from my husband because he is prioritizing his friends and co-workers, and before that happened i usually noticed him that he always go home late at night and my brother saw him late night that he was doping of a girl in someplace but he ...

All my colleagues have left work because of me - should I just move firms or tell my MD my thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hi I have a problem, I am a woman who works as an ops director for a firm. I started about six months ago. Since I started nearly all the staff walked out (one left) and they have all said it was because of me. I tell them all the time what I expe...

I'm not comfortable with my wife trying out to be a professional cheerleader

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - Ok so my wife of 13 years decided that she wanted to try out to be a professional football cheerleader (or NHL or NBA). Although I want to be supportive of this, and have been so far, I am not 100% comfortable with this. Any thoughts, guys and ...

Does he love me too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5094 days ago

19 May 2010 (F) - Hey all, Here's the deal: i had a crush on a boy for four years, beginning in 6th grade. I'll let him remain anonymous. Recently we agreed to go out, and frankly it's becoming a lot. When he kisses me he gets violent, like i'll leave him if he ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend turn me on?

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19 May 2010 (F) - well my problem is basic ive been with my bf 2years, and i just never want sex with him i don't get turned on or anything why is this? am i bored or what?:(...

Should I let my father back into my life?

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19 May 2010 (F) - My dad was very abusive to my younger brother particulary after he'd been drinking. He used to go out get drunk and then he'd come home and beat my brother. This used to happen regulary for years until my mom finally kicked him out and told him to ...

I hate my sister. Is this normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

19 May 2010 (M) - I think I hate my sister. Is this normal, or should I do something to communicate better with her? She is deaf. And she has a jealousy complex. She always wants to know what I'm doing with my time, and treats me like she thinks she is my mother...