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How can I get her to stay in the sex positions I like for longer?

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Question - (21 May 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2010)
A male Canada age 36-40, *arkosis writes:

hello

im writing this in hopes that i may get some good advice on how to deal with my problem. See me and my girlfriend have been having sex now for quite some time, and though we've had some really good intimate moments and usualy lasts more then 50 min in which case we end up totaly exausted by the end seeing we both cum multiple times, i always seem to feel unsatistfied. Mainly because i love it when my gf is on top i like to be controlled,plus she's really gorgeous and i love being able to hold her hands and seeing her entire features but i can never seem to be able to cum inside her whe she's there because she cums too fast and then usually wants to switch to another position mainly me being in control which i don't mind,but honestly it gets kinda repetitive after a while, and i did imply multiple times that i love her being on top but she just can't seem to keep up with me, and when she asks me if i liked it i say yes, which i did but there's always that one gap, and just don't know what to do next, any sugestions??

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A female reader, KeighleySky United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2010):

KeighleySky agony auntAsk her if she can stay on top? But you really cant blame her for wanting to change position, it cxan get tiring when your repeadly lifting yourself on your knees, her knees might start hurting or her thighs. It isn't as easy as you being on top. Maybe you should start ontop and wh you feel closer to orgams switch positions? Or make sure she likes being on top.

Hope everything turns out how you want :) x

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (21 May 2010):

person12345 agony auntThere are a lot of different motions she can do while on top, like if she leans forward and props herself up on her forearms/hands, she can just move up and down on you without touching anything sensitive on herself. From what I hear it's the absolute best for a guy and doesn't do much for the girl. Before she orgasms you could have her try that. Also, if it's taking you a really long time to cum, try holding off on masturbating on your own so you have more sexual tension built up for her. It will make for a quicker and stronger orgasm.

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