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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Hubby’s neglect driving me towards another guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5087 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi, I am in some confussion..... i had a fight with my husband ..NO ...lets say it... he again talked with me very rudely and when i stopped talking and ignored it... he got angry that i am upset...yes i was upset ... i cant smile if someone ta...

She asked him if he would be hers when he came home! MY boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i am a college student and i put away all my fears and decided to trust my boyfriend, but recently while he was on face-book he began talking to this girl from his neighborhood,i was in his arms while he was talking to her, she started telling him ...

I thought a party would make me feel better about not having a boyfriend. And I'm not getting on with my family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - hey, when my grans was on holidays i had a prty and nw i regret it mega. she came home today and found lots of this wrong and im just waiting for it to kick off. anyways i had i have been feeling depressed and and just want a boyfriend i though this ...

My girlfriend's best friend is driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - OK so my gf's best friend is driving me absolutely insane... she is extremely rude to me and insulting even after im always really nice to her. I tell my gf that her friend does this, she even does it in front of her, and she just tells her to ...

She's mad -- what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - Heres a convo Me : heyyy :P how did the testing go? Her : It was easier than the first partt Me : Ohh that's goo to hearr lol. Think you failed or passed? :O Her : Hopefullyy passed! Me : Failureee :P Her : Gee thankss Me ...

Recently she seems confused and conflicted and her love is not entirely toward me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for seven years and everything has been fine, we have been talking about getting engaged and getting married within the next few years. Recently she has been acting totally different, she seems confused, conflicted and ...

Girlfriend cheated now I'm wanting her back

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - "OPs own title" So i have been with my girlfriend for 1 yr 6 months. I honestly thought she was the one, she took me for who i was and put up with my weirdness most the time. We could tell each other anything without judgment. We where very ...

Could a relationship like this work out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs broke up with me and left me pregnant with our 2 kids and me being pregnant again. He is now seein a girl that is known from being in the same gang. But she is also a girl that gets with everyone(even having sex) in the ...

Complicated situation would love find its way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4916 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - I was just wondering Does everyone accept that the "if you love something set it free" principle is a universal one? Are there any examples of love finding its way through a complicated situation beyond the partie's control? Is one supposed to fight...

Why is my ex going out of his way to be mean to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - So I had been with my ex for about a year. We broke up once but he came crawling back after two weeks. Well he just broke up with me again about three weeks ago. We live together and he said that we can both still live there just have separate ...

Does she actually love me, and only dumped me because of what she was going through?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - okay. this might take a while. soooo. i been with this girl for a year. we have been on and off not down to me. the first time she dumped me she gave me no real answers as to why, it took a while to get back together and then we did and eve...

Is she still having sex with her separated husband too?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 8 months. She has been in a marriage separation for 4 months. Yes, we were dating before she separtated. She was in an abusive relationship. There are children involved and that makes it ...

He wants me to do sexual things and I don't want to.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend found out that i have had sexual activities in the past, and he wants me to do sexual things with him. I don't want to, but I feel bad not doing anything because I know he reallyy wants it! I feel horny at times, but when it actually ...

He broke up with me because I went crazy.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - To whom it may concern One month ago, my boyfriend broke up with me, the reason why for him was: I went too crazy. He wouldn't listen to me. Before the break-up, He was very busy lately, no time for me, He tried making time for me but when we were...

Always fighting, how can I trust him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4yrs we have 2 kids r relationship started badly we've always fighted hes constantly lying to me or he'll get mad and leave n I wont know where hes at n he usually comes home drunk.n than about 2 weeks ...

Do you think she is testing me to see how far will I go to get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - Question of the day !!! Ok my ex girlfriend and i were together for 5 years and we broke up 6 months back. WE have a 1 years old son together. I want to make things work and get her back. I have cheated on her before because of my own insecurities ...

Will this change his mind after a huge argument...?!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for quite some time. He's in the Army and currently training out of the state (AIT). The past two weeks have been extremely hard on him due to the fact that the training just got tougher. So, I'm not surprised ...

Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Do I have a right to ask my boyfriend to remove certain girls off his facebook friends list? A long time ago I broke up with him and he ended up sleeping with someone shortly after. He says it meant nothing and we've worked through this. I ...

I'm not feeling very secure in my relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi Cupid Me and my bf are dating for the past 4 months and we were close friends for nearly an year. Few weeks before he dumped me out of blue, when i asked him for the reason he said he moved on and never attended any of the calls or replied...

Why does my male friend claim we are "good friends" but wont ever treat me like our other friends? I'm sure there is an underlying reason behind his behaviour.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi i hope you can help me here. A friend of mine...hes a guy we;ve known each other a few years. He says to people he wants to be good friends with me, hes said to me before we're great friends, he'll never fall out with me and he loves me as a...

My husband's family are putting me in a cage!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - My husband is in afganistan doing a dangerous job ! and ever since he has gone he and his family have put me on lock down, I cant go out for a drink with my neighbor, im not alowed to go and see my old best mate because shes a bad influenc...

How can I tell if he loves me when at times he can be sharing secrets with me and the next he is angry with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i am doing job where my sir is very clsoed to me. he talking with me and share his persaonal serct. i am feel he is very closed to me but some time he is very angry to me. i dont know he is love me or not pls help me soon....

What can I do for my boyfriend on a tight budget to celebrate getting through a tough 6 months?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - I want to do something really awesome for my boyfriend but can't think what. We've had a rough 6 months or so and I feel like celebrating the fact that we're finally getting back to the couple we used to be (if not better!). I'm on a tight budge...

Ache in my head and I can't move my body after finding out he's been cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i have just discoverd that my hubby hav been cheating with a widow who is far more older than me i am 25.he never sleeps outside,but i started to worry two weeks ago, when he told me he was going to work on a saterday, he went the whole day and came ...

I can't stand my boyfriend any more!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hi... I live with my boyfriend. and i just cant stand him anymore. He smokes pot and he trys to force me to smoke and i hate that. Also he got mad because i didnt wanna smoke, i was watching t.v and he turned it off because he i didnt want to smoke. ...

Am I right to be paranoid about my boyfriend staying over at his ex's house?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend made out with a girl last summer and he is going to stay round her house this summer with a few friends. i am also going on a camp with him where i am going to meet her. thing is im kind of worried about both? how do i stop being ...

What should I do, move to the farm with him and be unhappy, or split up with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - hello, please help me! I've been living with my bf for over a year now, and we're very happy and very much in love. so far so good. We've been thinking of moving back to a city near his family and I wouldn't mind that, since I've lived in the cit...

My boyfriend wont tell his family about me because I am white, and now he is becoming distant from me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5092 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - i've been in an relationship since October 2009. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh,he's so sweet and kind it's almost unbelievable. but i have ...

She lies about talking to other guys - should I break up with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - My girlfriend of 5 month's has been lieing to me about talking to guys and i dont know what to do. She treat's me very bad yelling at me for everything i do. Im absolutely in love with this girl and i dont know if i should break up wither or stay ...

My gangster ex left me for a hoodrat. Could a relationship work?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5091 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Im 19 yrs old. I have 2 kids ages 3 and 2. My exboyfriend is an active gangmember. Ive been with him since i was 15. Hes cheated on me several times n has been in in out of jail. Hes even been deported too. Ive delt with him 4 years think he would ...

Should I try and work things out with my heroin addict husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4881 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - Hello everyone, im new to this, but here we go...... i am a mother to a beautiful little girl, i have a "husband" that i love. and a pretty good life.. i wish i could tell you my whole story, but ill try to sum it up to just the facts i guess. i am ...

Breaking up and time outs

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - Hello, I am hoping that someone can help me with this I have had in my life now for nearly 7 months. Recently I broke up with my beautiful partner in November and due to personal issues that he was having he said that he needed time to get himself ...

How do I move forward when she keeps going back to her husband and kids?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

20 May 2010 (M) - I have been in a relationship for 4 yrs. My partner is divorced but i live with this constant threat of her going back to husband and kids. She has gone back once and come back. Now one child is not doing too well at school and she is depresse...

How do I make this work without hurting my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

20 May 2010 (F) - So I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and believe me when I say that he is the sweetest and kindest guy that I have ever met. And I love him so much. The problem is, that he sees us together getting married, and ...