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Archived questions from: 29 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I really that selfish?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello! I am 48 years old, separated for 18 months, divorced for 2 months. My older daughters, 31 and 29 are both married and have children of their own. I was married twice. My daughters were from my first marriage, my second marriage lasted 20 ...

We are arguing over pointless things. I don't want to lose him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been having problems lately. We've been dating for five months and I know I'm in love with him. We have been so happy, until a couple weeks ago. I really don't know what happened. I just fell under alot of stress and press...

I'm ready for a relationship but she isn't yet. Will she ever be?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been having intense feelings for this girl for about six months now at least. When I first developed feelings for her, she had a serious girlfriend so I didn't act upon my feelings. But recently she has split with that girlfriend and since ...

Caught my husband watching porn when I was pregnant. I have been depressed ever since.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5081 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ever since i was pregnant i've been depressed. Okay I'm only 20 years old. And i was pregnant with my first baby. I was only 7 months pregnant when i caught my husband masturbating watching porn. Can you imagine how sensitive i was during my ...

Is he trying to make it my responsibility to end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Me and my fiance had an argument the other day he had been drinking i tried to resolve things but he just carried on getting at me this was the last chance for our relationship and he knew this. He asked for his stuff back and said it is finished i ...

I caught him lying and now he is giving me the silent treatment!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4854 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - So after i caught my boyfriend in a lie, dealing with him and another girl, he hung up the phone and has been giving me the silent treatment he is not answering any of my calls or texts, why would he do that to me? No matter how much i call he would ...

Am I just wasting his time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3years. And I love my boyfriend very much. We are at the age where people start talking about marriage and babies. We've been having this talk. I love him and can't imagine my life without him. But I don't know if I ...

I love him, but we are so different.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I am living with a man that is 8 years older than I am. I really think he is losing interest in me in more ways than one. I love him but there are so many ways that we are different and I get so lonely because he stays so tired. I don't want to ...

He's still in my heart. It seemed so right but now it's so wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I'm so confused about what has happened, how he has behaved, how I have behaved, and how I feel about it. 18months ago I was married. I was relatively happy, sortof. I was very into my work and I think my husband and I had both grown in differe...

Hi obsessed ex has been making MY life hell forever, is there anything I can do here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay i need some help with this one. I've been with my boyfriend just over a year. We're in a long distance relationship between the Uk and the US and ive just spent 5 months over there with him. (Let me explain the story) He split up with hi...

I don't understand my anger and whether I should control it or not..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - how do i control my short temper? when someone annoyes me i lash out at him/her and i cant control how i feel... i dont know if am doing the right thing by telling people when they annoy me...or i should just to keep the peace...

My colleague is becoming a real pain!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Afternoon all! Can someone please shed some light with what's going on in my colleagues head?! My colleague is becoming a real pain! She does things on purpose to start arguments and get others in trouble amongst other things. Yesterd...

Will he think I'm just trying to get his wife out of the picture?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5071 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - ok this sounds really messed up but please keep an open mind when reading. i was talking to this guy we'll call bob. we talked for about 2 months and got verry close told eachother everything and he was leaving for vacation. well while on vacatio...

I am falling for someone who is not totally available

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5083 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I am falling for someone who is not totally available. He is one of my senior bosses and he is helping me at the moment to leave my job with my diginity in tact.(Its for the best and what I want). Whenever I see him around the company, he alwa...

Girlfriend is very secretive about things!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Hi guys. I have been seeing my girlfriend for over 1 1/2 years, we get on OK but she is very secretive about things. Firstly she keeps her phone on silent whenever she is at home (she says she just forgets after keeping it on silent from work), she ...

Is she trying to tell me something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5054 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - Q-vo ....I hope to understand her some day The story is we are divorced ,and she said theres nothing to talk about ......after i found out she is seeng some friend and prior to that we were doing so great something i did or said went wrong.....i ...

Does she deserve a second chance

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5058 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - There is a long history to this story, but I'll keep it as short as possible. If it's long, I'm sorry but this is really killing me. I have dated a girl for 15 years on and off...since 8th grade. We became very close and i knew she was the one ...

Son's ball game overtakes an important task... is it his priority too or just mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5084 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend and I are planing to move in together, I am renovating my home to rent it out and moving to his place an hour away. The past two weekends he was suppose to me help me as time is running short and the list of thing to be done...

I'm jealous of my friend and want to rant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i think i am upset about things in my life..everyone i know except for maybe a few is basically with the first guy they really loved and in a relationship for years and on their way to getting married. I am in my mid twenties, went to college and ...

All kinds of boyfriend problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - MOD NOTE: 3 posts combined: Okay So I use to spend every day with my boyfriend because we go to different schools so we don't see each other much. But it seems like now he only wants to hang every couple days. And it just makes me so mad that he ...

He has photos & letters of the woman he almost married..should I be upset?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5065 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have a problem, I started going out with this great man and I have known him for awhile before we started going out, so I know that he is an honest and hard working man. However, I am very insecure about things, my pervious relationships all ended ...

How do I confront him when I'm guilty of having snooped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5060 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Ok so basically I did the wrong thing and snooped and looked at my boyfriend of just over a years emails. I had a feeling back in January there was something to worry about when he was constantly getting messages late at night and we had one problem ...

He stresses me out 99 per cent of the time so why am I still in a relationship with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Lately, I've been feeling drained with my boyfriend of 5yrs.. mind you a very crazy relationship from physical abuse in the past.. he is always complaining about me like for instance he does stuff that i do not approve of and he wanted me to hang ...

Should I just let the liar fly???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5082 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months and I noticed he was acting strange. He stated that he had to have a meeting with his cousin for their new business in jersey. He tried to leave me to go to new jersey on my birthday... to have a "business ...

He is putting his friends before me and it's getting me down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5084 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 yrs and living together for 2(high school sweethearts). We are both 23. Lately all he ever wants to do is be with his friends playing ball,music,fishing or hanging out at the tennis courts. He doesn't come ...