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writes:There's a big problem.My 'best friend' is making her move on the guy she knew i really liked. First he liked me and there was definetly a connection, then i didnt see him much, but when i did next see him my friend was flirty with him, and hes a guy, whats he to do, ignore it?Anyway, yeah she claims she dosent like him because she does have a boyfriend, but it's beyond clear that she so has a thing for him, everyone can see it.It just frustrates me because she knew full well that i really liked this guy, and i still do, isnt she meant to be my best friend? She acts like there's nothing wrong here!Sounds childish and pathetic, but how do i get one over her? i dont want to lose this one and make her think she can do stuff like this to me, because that certainly is not the case!!She thinks she's better than me and she rides on that and rubs it in my face, she's pretty but she's nothing special, but she knows how to make me feel like s**t. And im not putting up with that anymore. Im not putting up with her bulls**t anymore!Please someone help me, it'll be much appreciated folks. x
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reader, Lakisha  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 She's not your friend then.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (21 May 2010):
 Umm, you just told us what you're going to do, so what are you waiting for?
Why not tell your best friend that you don't believe she's a very good best friend to you?
No one can make you feel anything about you but YOU. You only allow someone to make you feel something. Take some responsibility. Be up front and let her know you saw him first and she needs to respect that like friends do. If she can't respect that then you need a new best friend.
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reader, mulattoman +, writes (21 May 2010):
 My girlfriend keeps it real.
She tells me in the world of women, there is no such thing as friends. Girls are always trying to prove that they can get whatever they want and will stab you in the back.
From now on, you keep your men away from your friends. And you make your boyfriends understand this. If they don't listen to you and respect your boundaries, leave them.
"just friends" is a load of crock ****.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): Your friend is being out of order! She needs to be told that you want to spend time with him because you want to get to know him, if she has a bf then tell him if she keeps doing it
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