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Archived questions from: 13 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I need him to grow up!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - hi, I am 20 years old and my bf is 23, we meet usually twice a week, for sex most of the time, he only text me, no calls! I'm the one who rarely calls.. we had a great romance a long time ago, he is my first real bf and I still love him like I did ...

Is there hope for change or should I just let go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I found out my bf had lied to me about something very intimate. In the weeks that followed he showed no willingness to talk about it and said very clearly that talking about it makes him feel uncomfortable. The fact that after almost a year or...

Why all the mixed signals...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - i have known this boy at my college for 3 years he always gives me all the signals he likes me so much, eye contact body language perfect! so he asks me out in the 3rd yr i was nervous and scared because of my past experiences and i didnt want to ...

Help!!! Why did he leave??????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5097 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - okay so i dated someone 28 years old for four years. He always wanted "space" and finally now that he finished school and got his friends and a good job he decided he wants space again. this time i did not crawl back to him , and after bitter ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend want me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I'm eighteen years old and ive been with my boyfriend for about four months. even though that seems like no time at all, both me and my boyfriend feel like we're "the one" for the other.he proposed after just a couple weeks. lately though,...

I am pregnant and he wont marry me so I left him. Do you think he will come back to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Hello. Me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years and are very much in love. We are now expecting a child together and happy. I want to get married before the child come but he doesnt. It means alot to me and its all i think about. We are both ...

He lied and told me he lost his phone when he really just didnt want to talk to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Basically, there's a guy, that's been a jerk, and I don't know what to do! I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now, things were going fine and we went out on saturday. On the sunday i txted him to thank him for paying/thank his parents ...

Pregnant, feeling alone and trapped, with no job!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - im 18 years old. i feel so down and depressed, been up and down for a year now. i spend most my life crying stuck in my room. i have no job, eventhough i try everyday to get one and have been failing at them all, im pregnant, and i have a boyfriend ...

We used to like each other now but how do I get him to leave me alone now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - There is this guy I have been trying to get over because of his past he is a cheater I written many post about him and they all told me the same thing basically for the whole of 2009 we have liked each other and said we didnt for fear of rejection ...

My mate was abused--how do I get her to go to counselling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - Hi Me and my partner are engaged and we are hapy together. Although this, I want to know how best to cummunicate about the issue below:= My parner has gone through a touch sexual rough time and I feel that she is a bit too dependent on me...

Relics from his last relationship - Should I ask him to get rid of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Hi There, My boyfriend of 15 months and I are about to move overseas together - I've been transferred to the UK branch of the company I currently work for. We've been living together for the past year and have just come through a rough patch in...

Is it worth trying to get him back or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - How can i get my man back. We have been together 3 years and i thought we both loved each other very much. Recently he told me that i whinge and he wants out. He is very stressed right now and i think thats the main problem, its not me! Is it ...

One minute he is fine with me, and the next he turns incredibly shy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Why would a guy talks to you fine one minute and then not the next? I dont mean it as in a "player" way. but like one time we all go out he may say a few things to me, like just say something hes been doing etc(he wont talk a lot) and then the next ...

A very complicated mess with my wife, the girl I lost my virginity to, my best friend and now the boy I have found out is my son......

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5094 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - When I was in school I was on the swim team. We had an away meet which was the regional meet so the school put us up in a hotel. This wasn't chapperoned very well and I went to the room of some girls from a school that was from a rival school in ...

I'm questioning our relationship - if I have doubts does this mean he is not right for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Hi I feel like i'm in a mental cloud at the moment. I seemingly are unable to make a decision as i want to be sure its the right one when i do. I have been with my bf for a year a half we split funnily enough at the same time last year when ...

How do I make her overcome jelousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - Me and my lovely girlfriend have been dating for six years.the problem is that she is too clingy,every now n then i will say once or twice a month i will go to friend braai have something to drink or so,the problem is she normaly send me sms or ...

Do affairs ever lead to successful marriages?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4563 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - Where to start? I want to ask this differently than others have. Have you had an affair and it worked out? I'm single and have never been married. I teach at a university and had an affair with a student, and it lasted long after class was over and ...

Is my boyfriend not over his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5086 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I know there have been a million questions asked about this, but I really need somebody's help. It is driving me crazy constantly thinking about it. I've been dating this really lovely guy for about 5 months now. We're happy together, and he tells ...

How much space and distance should I give him? I do not want to lose him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend of ten years has all of the sudden starting to question our relationship and whether we should stay together. He is saying that he is unhappy and feels likes there is no hope. But he still loves me but it feels different and that he ...

I think my colleagues are taking advantage of me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - I have a really frustrating problem at work which I need advice on. I seem to be the only one in my office who has paracetamol for headaches, colds, pain etc.... So my colleauges instead of buying themselves any come and scrounge off me! I do...

Should I wait for a guy who is crazy about me or see if the guy who isn't sure will figure out if I'm what he wants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5099 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - Wondering if I should stay with my boyfriend. I'm 6 months pregnant. My boyfriend works out of town a lot. Last visit he came into town and on the second day said, "We need to talk". He says he loves me but isn't sure if he is in love with me. Sa...

What's his deal? Should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - So I'm in this relationship, 11 months near the end of this one. Some things are wonderful and them some things just make me want to tear my hair out and smother him with a pillow. I love my boyfriend to death and I try to show him when I can that ...

What can I do to keep him interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5088 days ago

13 May 2010 (F) - hello everyone, I am with a guy on and off 3 years now, we always go back to eachother and the passion is still here but I don't find enough time to be with him and I feel like he may be doing something behind my back...so I need to know what should ...

G/f flirts every day and its really getting old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

13 May 2010 (M) - OK my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9months, we have are good days and bad days, i usually start the fights. ino were only in high school but she flirts every single day. it gets really old quick and i dont know if i should just take it or ...