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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:OK so when i meet the love of my life i was going thought a lot and had hit rock bottom and i mean hit it rock bottom i hit it hard. I didnt care about myself or anyone around me. I was living in an apartment where it was nonstop drinking and doing drug people came in and out and there were always at least seven people who did not live there partying. one was my ex boyfriend. I started talking to my boyfriend and really getting feels for him, but my ex still had this power over me. One day me and my current boyfriend who i have been dating for almost seven months and my best friend at the time went to the mall and my ex showed up i left the mall with him and other friends not thinking anything was going to happen they were just going to take me home. I ended up hooking up with him no sex just helped him out. The guy i was talking to who is now my boyfriend found out and told me i had to choose. I guess i didnt because a few days later i did that same thing with my ex again. I didnt tell my boyfriend now about it and a few day later he asked me out at the beginning of november. We dated for five months and then i finally told him about when we were talking a hooked up with my ex again. He got so mad and broke up with me but we got back together within an hour. we love each other with all our heart we are getting a place together in four months and plan on getting married. One thing is he wont forgive me and every day throws it in my face and i feel like s**t as a should, but i was single at the time. Everyday he tells me he knows there is something i have not told him and that is not true i am not hinding anything. I am being 100% honest, but he tells me he does not believe me and that we are going to fight everyday until i tell him but there is nothing to tell him i didt do anything else. finally tonight i was so hurt by him not believing me i told him he need to let the past be the past and get over it and believe me when i say there is nothing else and if he could not do that i was not going to be able to still be in this relationship anymore. what i want to know is if i am doing the right thing or if i just need to deal with it and keep getting it rubbed in my face and let him fight with me because he thinks i am still lieing about something.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 Sorry but you really shouldnt be thinking of getting married to this guy, he doesnt trust you, he is manipulative and controlling.
No matter what you say or do, this man will NEVER trust you, he will continue to throw things in your face - it is emotional abuse and you dont need to be subjected to that.
Move on with your life.
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