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Archived questions from: 11 May, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Am I a fool for putting up with this issue?

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11 May 2010 (F) - I dont know what to do? Have been with my partner or 3 years. We dont live together.He brought his ex wife to this country last year. DId not tell her that I excisted. He wanted to see i they could get back together. After 8 months..it "all" came ...

He wants to wait to get married even though we have a baby on the way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. I am having relationship problems with my current boyfriend. We are 19 years old and i am 7 months pregnant. We are in college and he goes to college a few hours away. We werent planning the baby but just took it as a blessing. I am ...

We're becomming distant from each other

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (?) - Okay so I've been fighting with myself on an issue for months, and I just don't know what to do. I need some advice. So about a year ago I met a guy, lets call him Ben, and we connected almost instantly. We became really close, really fast, and we w...

Can you get trust back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5098 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for about a year and 2 months now. I did some hurtful things to her. I cheated around 3 times but came clean about it. She always forgave me. I had been emotionally unstable from my childhood and previous relationships. A...

How do I deal with matchmaking friends who want to get me with my uncaring friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - A few days ago I texted my friend and told him something personal that happened to me. Thinking I would get support from him. Nothing, it seems like he never cares about me, or treats me like a friend so I texted him that I would never speak to him ...

How can I win his heart back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Ok my ex broke up w me a few wks ago, because he said he didnt love me anymore. We were together for about 10 mths, im currently 7mths pregnant. We argued alot and broke up several times during our relationship but we really loved each other. ...

I did everything he wanted and he still broke up with me

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 5078 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Okay I started dating this guys five years ago, in the beggining he didnt want a relationship but after we became intimate,and i threatened to walk away if i dint get a title, he said lets be official. In the beggining my weight bothered him. I was ...

How do I work through these trust issues I have, in my relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for 10 months. She is 29, has a 2 yr old, I am 26, we now live together. She has somewhat of a past, I have had people tell me about things I really wouldn't want to hear. I have put that aside but lately I have been ...

My bf took me off his Top Friends list on Facebook!! Why would he do that?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a top friend list on his face book for 15 people and i was in it. Today for some reason he took me out of it! We see each other everyday and he is so loving and kind. And when i got home from his house i noticed he replaced me with ...

My teacher won't mark my work!! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I did all my work. I went to hand it in and my teacher opened the door she said no. She then shut the door in my face. What am I gonna do?? if she doesnt mark it I've failed:(2 years in college(not university):( I dont know what I have done...

While overseas my husband refused to meet or talk to my family

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Recently, we met up with members of my family from overseas. My husband refused to meet with them or talk to them, and I was so embarrassed that we left early and came home. He made no effort to take part in any of the joint activities arranged, ...

After six years being around him just isn't the same anymore!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Hi Im 23 years old and ive been with my partner 6 years we have a 14month old son and we got a morgage a year ago, im so confused i really dont no if i love him anymore i havent let him near me for about 3months now i just dont feel attracted to ...

I don't know if I love my b/f anymore, there's someone else

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Basically I have been in a relationship for a long long time. I met him when we were young teens and have been with him ever since. I really did used to love him, despite the face he cheated on me numerous times. I forgave him but we still have ...

How does one overcome bitterness, or should I say pettiness?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - I know a lot about myself and why I react a certain way to certain situations. But I want to know how I can overcome my pettiness complex. I am still twisted and angry that all the girls at school and university ignored me. Is this being petty? What ...

My girlfriend is very sensitive and I accidentally offended her! How can I make things right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5093 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - Hey all. Thanks for checking out my question. Okay, so my girl is VERY sensitive. Yesterday, I called her and everything was okay. We talked about this and that until the point where her friend called when i was talking to her. Her friend made ...

Why is the man I am having an affair with behaving this way?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Could someone please explain what this guy is doing to me,by the things he is saying. Well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair on and off now for 30yrs, with some breaks in between. I know his wife but only on a very cas...

How do I tell him that I don't feel the same way without offending him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - A co-worker, and close friend of mine, is a married man. He's always flirted with me, but I thought it was innocent. But he's recently confided in other co-workers that he is in love with me and considering leaving his wife. I do not want this! He ...

I know he is not really into me but I am finding it hard to let go

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - im 20 dating a guy who is 28.at first i wsnt interestd in him but as i got to know i started to develop feelings for him,i foumd out that he has 2 kids and he hasnt realy broken up with his baby momma.after we had sex he started being distant,i call ...

We are forever breaking up and getting back together again, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - ok..this may be long and i appologize but its doing my head in..also i hope it makes some kind of sense! 2 and a half years ago i moved interstate with my partner for work ,hes always earned a lot of money and i also ended up with a pretty g...

Have I made the right decision to cut her out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - This is about as complicated as it gets, so I'll try to be as clear as possible - apologies for the length and the spelling/grammar errors below. The story goes: Back when I was 15, I met a girl in my home town. We fell in love, and start...

All of a sudden he wants nothing more to do with me, only days after he told me he loved me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - ive been going out with an older man for many years, we dont live together and as we are a bit apart we dont see each other that often, but weve always had a great relationship with its ups and downs not many downs,, id say, we talk a lot onlin...

What's up with him and what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5100 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] I'm 13 he's 14. im VERY shy and he's just shy. we go to the same church and stuff. i liked him the first time i saw him (2 and 1/2 years ago) i dont talk to anyone in church much. mostly little kids and family. ...

Should I tell him I miss him? I feel he shuts me out but it is hard for me not to talk to him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I've been seein this guy for a couple of months.We talk/see each other daily.He recently turned a new leaf and is tryin to quit drinking, get a different job, a car and his family is visiting because his grandma is dying.A week ago we hung out and ...

How can I bring her former feelings for me back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5099 days ago

11 May 2010 (M) - the girl i love and i know she loved me back says she had strong feelings for me but she doesnt know what happend to them. what can i do to show her what she felt when she says its too soon for her to see me. how can i get her feelings back and why ...

I cant help but feel angry with him over his sexy pictures with his ex! How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5102 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I am madly in love and have found my soul mate, my other half. I just found sex pictures of him and his ex and can't get them out of my mind. My logical self knows that a past is a past, and we all have them. But I can't get the images out...

He slept with someone during the time I needed space to think about my ex, what did this girl mean to him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - I went out with James about 5 times and we hit it off really well. I didn't sleep with him, just went on dates. My ex then contacted me and I was in a mess trying to figure out what to do. I broke it off with James because I wasn't sure how I felt. ...

I haven't had an orgasm within the 8 months of being with my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5088 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months and I have not orgasmed AT ALL. He goes down on me, try different positions and everything, IT JUST WON'T WORK. Maybe I think about getting one while we're doing it, I don't know. The weird thing ...

How can I make this work? And how can I tell if he still loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5085 days ago

11 May 2010 (F) - So ive asked before. About the guy I love with the whole long distance relationship and the difficulties. So were not together because the "Distance" was killing our feelings. And deep down inside I couldnt handle it because I would have figured ...