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writes:am i gonna be a rebound...? ok this guy and his gf broke ul like last year. or maybe two years ago cause he cheated on her with his ex. i use to be attracted to him wen we were younger but the feelings faded. then summer 2008 me and him were together like all summer him constantly wantin to be at my house oh thas the year they broke up like the january. but i never dated him he kissed once during the summer since then he mas dated many girls! but wen he is around his ex gf he would ignore her and not say anything to her. she has a new bf now by the way. but recently a mutual friend told me that they both are not over each other she also told me that he said i was the next girl he wanted to be serious with. but since summer 2008 there has been alot of weird things between us we would catch each other starin at each other he would always wanna be around my family. his parents are always tellin me that me and him are gonna get married while his parents dont really like his ex gf. im jus curious as to if i was to try something with him would i have to be worried about his ex gf?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): He is mostly likely going to cheat on you or already has with this ex girlfriend. Its not like he isnt over her at all and he might just say that his family doesnt the ex to make you feel more at ease.
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 He's cheated before and he's still got ex-gf issues. If you want drama and a broken heart then go for it. If you want a proper relationship and a caring guy, then look for someone else. I don't think it's a matter of being the rebound...it's a matter of him not being the right kind of guy to get involved with.
You do what your heart tells you but be careful.
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reader, girl from bristol  +, writes (12 January 2010):
hi i would be more worried that he cheated on his ex he will cheat on you too
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (12 January 2010):
 It was quite awhile ago that the two of them broke up so i would not think of you as a rebound gf at all. Talk to this guy and straight out ask him what his relationship with his ex gf is like. That's really all you have to go on and him knowing that your cautious about her will get him to not let her get involved. Keep your gaurd up for a bit but don't let some ex gf of his keep you two from being together if that is what you really want.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
To be honest, I'd be more worried that he cheated with his ex. Sounds like he's not over her at all. Let him go before you even get started. He might well cheat on you too.
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