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writes:I have this problem. I have this bestfriend. We have been friends for 5 years. Well I've been in love with her for a couple years now and never admitted to myself. I have just got out of a relationship. And of course she's been there for me this whole time. She comes over and watches tv or movies with me and cuddles up next to me and lays her head on my shoulder. We have been doing this for years now. My problem is she's engaged. And he's my friend too. But she acts like she feels the same way I do. I don't want to ruin our friendship but my feelings are so strong what should I do I need advice
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 January 2010):
I'm afraid there really is only one thing you can do and that is stand back and try to get over her. She's agreed to marry this other guy, so she loves him. All you can do is stand back.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (12 January 2010):
Well it's up to you.
You can either live with it and hide it well and continue being her friend. Or you can tell her and she'll either break up with her boyfriend (unlikely if she's agreed to marry him) or understand and give you time and space to get over her so you can be friends again.
Her guy is going to notice the way you look at her eventually and you WILL cause problems for them.
So my advice is to try and start getting over her now. And if that means confessing your feelings so you can stop seeing her for a while then so be it.
Good Luck!! xx
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