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Archived questions from: 19 April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Unappreciated and never good enough.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - *Op's own title* Why is it no matter what I do my girlfriend allways has negative feedback to say to me? She has 3 kids n I moved here in november from across the states and have taken on the responsibilities that her exhusband don't do. I baby...

He deletes computer history and lies about it!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5122 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - The past month or two, my boyfriend has been using my computer because his has a virus on it. He has been deleting the history. But then he lies about deleting the history and says that there must be a comptuer "glitch"! I know he is doing this ...

Help me out with my boyfriend... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - hi there friends. I really need your guys help please. I am 17 years old female and I have a boyfriend i mean its being just like around 2 months n week more and i dunno he loves me a lot, he is from some other country and I am also but we stay in ...

I am in agony over this man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my ex boyfriend for a number of years, actually this thursday would be/would have been 3 years since we've been together. He has been VERY abusive emotionally and at times physically towards me in at least 2 out of those 3 years, ...

My boyfriend went out with this girl, and said it wasn't a date, but it sure sounds like a date!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5129 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - So uhm, I had recently broken up with my bf because i was having this strange feeling that he was flirting with his crush, who, by the way, is less pretty, smart, talented and appealing than i am. So i would get really mad whenever id think about ...

Why do I stay with this man who drinks every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - my man drinks each day and sayes hes not got aproblem its been 3 years now why do i stay whith him help ...

Why couldn't he love me? And why hasn't he asked for the ring back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Hi there, First off, I'm a mature woman - 43 years old, and yet here I am in a painful situation after ending a relationship w/a man I was engaged to. I probably never should have gotten into a serious relationship w/him in the first place - he's 1...

Shall I stay or should I go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband for 6.5 years (married for 3 years). We have always argued and there has never been much 'harmony' in the house, but we used to really show a lot of love to each other and it was always fun making up. However, ever ...

How do I handle a workaholic husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - How to handle a workaholic husband? I really dont want to end this 20 year long marriage,but my husband is pushing it to my limits.. He is working on the computer, so his work hours are 9-10 everyday or more also on the weekends. He is totally ...

Why am I a people victim?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Would like to know why I am a people victim and what I can do stop this from happening. I got bullied by my dad from the age of 3, he would call me names and get in my head. Then I had it all frew school, plus I had it at work and now I'm getting ...

My girlfriend had sex with another guy, but she says she was too drunk to realize what was happening.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5127 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - Hey everyone. My girlfriend and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. We went through a rough patch about 1 year into our relationship that I rationalized as her "waking up" and maturing. She was in love with alcohol, like so many young ...

She forced me to tell her that I was gay! Leave it or tell her I was lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - Hi I've just cone back from school and last lesson I was a bit awkward because over the holidays I discovered I was gay and I'm not sure how I should act around my friends (that are straight guys) and my classes because my personality has sort of ...

He's in no hurry to divorce his wife! what should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4321 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I have been dating this guy for two years who is separated. he is so good to me and we have such a great relationship. I could never imagine my life without him in it but my problem is everytime I mention him getting a divorce he gets offensive and ...

Does my boyfriend REALLY want to marry me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5110 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend's family don't really like me but I want to get married to him. They would be totally against it. He says if I can get a million fans on my Facebook page he'll marry me anyway. So far I've only managed to get 137. Surely if he re...

Do we have a problem here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Is This A Problem? A few months ago my boyfriend and I discussed how to have more intimate time since work and being tired were getting in the way. He came up with the idea of planning midweek overnight rendezvous to make sure we got together...

Can drinking alcohol stop the treatment for Chlamidya working? And how can I show him how sorry I am for giving him this STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - i had been with my boyfriend for about 2 and half yrs we split for three months then decided to get back together. During our split i slept with someone else it played on my mind about stds but i was scared to get checked. after about 8 months of us ...

Can cross dressers really stop doing it and be happy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4807 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my current partner now for nearly 12 months. When i met him hed recently been through a divorced and seperated 8 months prior to his divorce. Hed told me that his marriage hadnt been right for the last 4 years and he knew that it ...

Pregnant at 16 and very scared, plus to make things worse my boyfriend does drugs!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged together] Hey, i found out i was pregnant about 5 months ago and im 16. i wanted to get rid of it because im too young to be thinking of starting a family but im too far gone to ...

Will I ever move on from my infatuation with a work colleague? Or should I continue to pursue him despite our marriages?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - For almost two years I have been attracted to a married colleague at work. He has 3 kids. I myself am also married with 2 kids. My husband works in another country so I only get to see him other every 2-3 months. It initially started just a ...

Rationalising my past and my girlfriend's past!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - I'm going through a terrible time right now in my mind and am not sure what to do! I am in my mid 30s. For various reasons I didn't have my first girlfriend until I was 21. This has never bothered me but I have recently met the most amazing wom...

Why does he want to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - this guy and i split up because it seemed as if his interest in me was no longer there, he wasnt makking the effort. Its been a little while now but now hes talking to me again he wants to see me but i can't work out why. does he just want to meet ...

He tells me he loves me but then later says he isn't sure?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - Well, I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, which have been great, for the most part. He's an amazing man, he treats me well, he's very romantic, he really is just, perfect, and he treats me as though I am the most important girl in the world to ...

Been lying to everyone I care about my job

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I've been lying to everyone about what I do for work. Not where I work but my position. I've told everyone my position is slightly above what it is. It's my first full time job out of uni and it's really down the bottom of the barrell and I th...

He gets so many texts from his college friend that its making me sick!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - A couple of weeks ago I had my boyfriend spend the night and realized he was getting a lot of texts by this one girl. I asked him about it and he told me that she is in his college class and that they really connected, also that he doesn't talk to ...

Does he have another girl or am I just being too paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I have been suffering from this since months ago. Recently he started to pull back even more. The last time we met was 2 days ago where we were out for a drink. First, I was with my friend then he texted to tell that our outing might be cancelle...

I'm unsure what all this texting means, where do I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - My ex and I had started talking again. She told me about a week ago after I told her I couldn't be friends right now that she had been trying to reconcile, but I hurt her feelings, and she thought that we needed to get over each other. I ran into ...

My Girlfriend knows I'm crushing on another girl....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I have a crush on another girl. That other girl is also a very good friend of mine. She is also the girlfriend of one of another good friend of mine. Now I don't like this girl, my girlfriend knows that. it's just a crush ...

Do couples have to do everything together?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - my boyfriend doesnt want me to do anything without him. i like to go to concerts but he says no every time, he will always say that artist is crap, even if i know he likes their songs. and then he says if he doesnt go i cant go without him. he d...

Should I expect to be dumped?? How do I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - For the past 3 years, I have been involved with a man, a co-worker, who has been separated. Our involvement has been a "physical" one. We've enjoyed each other very much. I'm 29, and this is the first man I've ever been with period. What I'm ...

I want to end this relationship but don't want her to hate me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her ...

She told me she cheated on me and broke up with me, but I want her back

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5131 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - Me and this girl starting dating around valentine's day. She was my first love. I'm thinking this is the girl im going to marry. We were great for about a month and a half and one day she starts pushing me away. She told me I was clinging and she ...

How can I be a good 'mother' and sister to my brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - My brother is 11 and we were very close before I had to take guardianship of him because of our mom's alcohol/drug abuse. I'm finding it really hard because he gets upset at me now because I'm having to set rules and be the "parent". He says tha...

We've been dating for 4 months and he still only wants to see me once a week

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5133 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - I wrote in here about a month ago--about how I am seeing a great guy who only wants to see me once a week on Saturday night. It's now been 4 months--and still just once a week. I kind of tested the waters without putting him on the spot with a d...

He says we should live separately so not to be in each other's faces

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5133 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - After my ex and i broke up, he kept texting me that he wanted me back,i told him that we have to work on a few things first and he agreed! so he came over last night and said that we should live separately giving each other space that way we would ...

I think my ex's brother wants sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5125 days ago

19 April 2010 (F) - i have a dilemma. Lately my exs' brother has been coming around to visit my spouse. Their cousins. I had an affair with the brother a longtime ago and it ended bad. But now recently the cousins mom passed away and the two brothers basically despise ...