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Archived questions from: 5 April, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How should a groom handle a bride's doubts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - My fiancee and I have been together for 4 years this month and have been engaged for just over a year. We are both students (she's in nursing school and I'm in med school), but plan to get married when she is finished (next year) because then at ...

My gf is acting differently and I don't understand why?????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - Ok so the last few days ( about a week ) my gf of 2 months has been acting differently than before. I dont know what I did or what is wrong. Today during passing period we started talking and she asked if I wanted to still go out but not hug or kiss ...

I realize my mistakes, now how do I get my ex back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - Me and my recent ex broke up about a week ago. Things were going great for a while but later she was wanting to spend less and less time with me. She asked me if we were going to be bus buddies and I said yeah if you want to be and she said well ...

Does sewing your wild oats apply to women as well as men?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5145 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I have a bit of an issue at the moment which is part of an ongoing issue. I've been through a hell of a lot of stuff over the years despite being 22. I spent the best part of 6 years on drugs off and on constantly switching one for the other ...

I can't find a job and g/f is calling me a mootch!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - My situationis this. I've been unemployed for 15 months and my 10 year relationship has become very tumultuous. I'm living in her house and find myself in a very awkward situation. I do love her and do what I can for her and around the house. She ...

Should I go back to South Africa to be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5145 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - i have a major dilemma. my boyfriend and i met up on facebook and been dating online for the past 2 years. last year he came to visit and i accidentally fell pregnant. we had a beautiful baby girl but still lived across the world from each other. he ...

What are her motives? What is she thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - Ok new info. We havent talked in almost a month, and she texted me for my birthday. I had been ignoring her calls for the pas thturee weeks trying to get some space. Ahe texted on my b day and wanted to know why we hadn't talked. I told her she ...

He said he might ask me out soon, but I'm afraid my friends don't like him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - i've been seeing this lad for like 7 months now and we have a strong relationship, the thing is he said he might ask me out anytime soon. i want to go out with him, but my friends dont like him and im worried they'll fall out with me or call me ...

Why hasn't he proposed after all this time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I'm 29 and I've been with my man for 11 years. We have a 10 year old son together, we've purchased a home together, cars together, and basically everything together as if we are married, but we're not. Everytime I bring up marriage he says everythi...

Does he need anger management?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is Italian and told me he had an anger problem when we first met. He seemed so nice and gentle and such a family man. The problem is, he gets mad at the smallest things and ruins whatever ...

Should I wait until after vacation to decide?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Single mom with 2 boys who has been with a man for 5yrs who has been violent in the past from choking me twice and has a horrible attitude..but it's been a year that he hasn't put his hands on me cuz he knows that I'm ready to walk out any day..we ...

Putting him first and I'm losing out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Hey everyone :) Well i am 21 years old and have been in a relationship for the past 4 years.... I love my boyfriend so much but sometimes i feel like im tied down and cant do anything without thinking about his reaction. Im young and i wanna go out ...

How can I stay friends without getting too attached to this man when we are both married?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Well here goes. I am a 35 year old woman, married for 15 years to a great friend. Thing is that is the ONLY thing my husband is, is a great FRIEND. He and I got together under less than ideal circumstances, but tried to make the most of it. The...

Difference of opinion on who are acceptable as friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has women who work at nightclubs as his friends on facebook. For two years, he controlled my friends, told me who I had to delete who I was allowed to accept and it's finally getting to me. He told his sister-in-law to remove me fro...

My guy is around 24/7 and I'm finding it hard to breathe!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - been with my partner for more than a year now, he is nice to me, gives me everything, has respect for me and i guess im lucky to have him as he is with me. he loves me very much, im his first serious relationship, his first love. he is my first ...

Our relationship is basically everything without a label?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5132 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I find myself stuck in a rut with a lot of history...so here goes the story: I've been with this guy for over 2 years (we're both 20), but we still don't have that "boyfriend/girlfriend" label. We weren't too sure if we wanted that k...

Is it silly to leave someone because they won't help around the house?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I have a serious dilemma! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years but I am seriously thinking of leaving him. We moved in together weeks after meeting and have been together ever since, I was 16 when the relationship started. Lately ...

He wants to still be in a relationship with me, but in separate houses

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - my partner and I have lived together for 6 years, we had both my 2 and his 2 children living with us which put a strain on our relationship and led ti arguements. he left me abruptly 4 months ago, although we have continued seeing each other as ...

I beleive my husband loves somebody else, how can we repair our marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5128 days ago

5 April 2010 (?) - my husband.loves me as a wife.he has fallen in love.he also remain in contect with his college and says she is just a friend.and his love is virtual.he feels his part is missing he does not forget her.but he is mine and will be till the end of his ...

I feel lonely and unloved in my marriage, but excited by LDR

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I have been married for 5 years now but i feel lonely and unloved my husband cant get an erection in the first two years he did try to get help with ths from the doctor but has given up on this he did try and fullfill me in other ways but i was left ...

I don't know if I am over reacting or how to deal with older work colleague

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I met a man at work, who is married and older. I think we are just friends, and he has made statements saying that we are friends. But sometimes he does things that makes me feel like there's something more (and I don't want something more). For ...

Is my brother in law just trying to rub my nose in it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I went through a very painful breakup with my ex a couple of years ago, and was left feeling very hurt and betrayed. The ex just happens to be a friend of my brother in law who keeps dropping the ex into conversation (telling me how he is doing ...

Was he interested in me or is he cooling off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I'm confused about a fellow co-worker's intentions and therefore, need advice on this. (This is a long, detailed question so bear with me. Thank you.) I've been working as an accountant in an office and have become good friends with a fellow ma...

I'm preganant but wonder what future there is with my boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Have you ever thought to yourself "why you are with this guy or girl" well soe times when my boyfriend is a sleep I look at him and start to think "why am I with you, do you even love me, why do you do the things you do, why do you act like you ...

I'm too scared to snog!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - hi i have this boyfriend, but im to scared to snog him everyone is telling me to and i dont no what to do but the thing is i have never snogged someone before. please help, and write back to me...

How can I find out if she wants me for more than a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (M) - Ok so I've known this girl for a few years. She is frighteningly gorgeous but I don't think she knows it because she doesn't like looking at pictures of her self. She comes across as bossy and smart, but I've known her long enough to know she ...

He says he is happy but is giving me mixed signals

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5126 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - ok well this is my problem. Me and my ex boyfriend were quite happy when we were living together. we were even talking about getting married and raising a family. then we ran into money troubles and ended up renting off my mother. I lost my job and ...

Does the teacher's behavior seem odd?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Just to give a heads up, no this is not one of those 'I'm in love with my teacher' questions. But, this is a question still on the same subject. Where to begin? I live in one of those typical towns surrounded by corn. Everybody knows everyone...

I have health issues which will be fixed, but will the spark come back/

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We have a 3 year old son. Obviously that means I got pregnant very early in our relationship. It went from 0 to 60 very fast and we were not able to have a your average honeymoon period. He was your ...

I'm stuck on my ex and cannot move forward

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up almost a year ago and I still cry over him all the time. I don't know how to get over him and I keep trying to move but it isn't working. My relationship with my ex seemed perfect and I think the reason he left was because he ...

My best friend is a male, and lately his attitude has changed

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5098 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - I've been best friends with this hispanic guy (I'm hispanic as well. We'll call him Ruben) for a little over 2 years now. What people thought was odd was that he and I didn't enjoy thothers's company back then when I started marching band (I was a ...

Ex & I back together but he's falling into his old habits and I'm sick of them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5146 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I was hoping I could ask for advice really. My problems and questions always seem really long but here goes, i hope you can help. Ok, so I split with my boyfriend a year ago and then got back together, had quite a few shaky problems to st...

Boyfriend walked into a situation and now doesn't trust me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5142 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - Need to gain his trust back, how do I do it? My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few months, we saw eachother everyday for two months straight, fell in love right away but rushed into things incredibly too fast. I'm not used to having a...

Getting Over the Obstacles? Is it Possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

5 April 2010 (F) - It's been a long time since I've felt like a giddy school girl with a crazy, unexplainable crush. But yet, here I am.. Unfortunately, this guy and I have a long roller coaster history, I've had feelings for him since day one, but there has always b...