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writes:hi am currently in a relationship n am not happy its not the same as it used too be its the 3rd time that we have been out with each other bt this time is just different were both young but ive had enough but i dont want to break her /heart and her parents will hate me , what do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (19 April 2010):
I understand what you are saying, you don't want to hurt her because you still care for her, but you don't want to be with her, perfectly acceptable. You should try and break up with her nicely, justify your reasons, have a long chat about it and say that you could stay friends in the future if that's what both of you want. As for the parents: firstly, does it matter if they hate you? They're not going to be a major part in your life anymore. And secondly, if they are human, they will understand that these things happen and not every couple can be perfect and stay together. I hope this helps you,
sunandstars x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): the 3rd time going out meaning what actually...?
anyway, break up is ugly no matter what.. there is no other way but having a heart break..
she will hate u and let it be..
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reader, Problem.helper  +, writes (19 April 2010):
 tell her how you feel you can't break up nice . Most of the time there is always person who will get hurt.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (19 April 2010):
 Theres really nothing you can do to stop her from hurting over this if she really cares for you. If you take her to the side and just be honest with her about how you feel, then that would be best. Whether she will hate you or not I can't say. But as long as you break it to her as best you can and be honest thats all you can do. Good luck
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reader, Luckie128 +, writes (19 April 2010):
Wait..it's been only the third date?
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